will be favorable
because of your past
your level of
you have proven them to be
in the past
many times. It's being free
from doubt or fear
because you have
It's being brave
because you know that you're up for
the challenge and prepared
setbacks that may come. It's a feeling of
have in someone or something because they have done well in the past and
have been reliable
more than once. It's thinking positive
having an ego
, or just relying on hope
is a state of being clear-headed about a hypothesis or
about a prediction that is believed to be correct, and that a chosen
course of action is the best one or the most effective. Strong
is having complete confidence in a
person or a plan, while understanding that there's not always a 100%
is looking on the
of things and
that things will turn out good
and eventually get better as long as you keep trying and
don't give up
. Optimism is the opposite of
when people constantly complain
about problems and see everything as
, bad and wrong, so much that they stop enjoying life, stop trying
and become angry
or depressed. An optimist will look for ways to solve problems
, while a
pessimist will mostly just complain about problems and
focus mostly on all
the bad things
while ignoring all the good things they can be doing.
for the worst
but don't assume
worst. Plan for the best
don't assume the best
. Plan like you will
live forever, and write as if it were your last day.
is the idea in positive psychology
that a talent for joy, like any other, can be cultivated. It is contrasted
with learned helplessness. Learning optimism is done by
consciously challenging any negative self talk
Is a glass with water
half full or half empty, or is it just a glass with a certain amount of
water in it? It's Relative
is strongly indicating a
successful result or favorable circumstances and good luck.
Confidence will not make you great or make you
better or make you more skilled
, only training and learning will make you
better and more skilled, and you also have to understand the limits of
. Having confidence is good,
and having confidence will always be better than having no confidence
confidence will never be more important than knowledge and experience. Be
confident in knowing what you have learned, and not just what you think
you can do. Know what you can do, and have confidence in that knowledge
with no regrets
and never stop learning
is commonly used as
in one's personal judgment, ability, power, etc. One
increases self-confidence from experiences
of having mastered
. It is a positive belief that in the future one
can generally accomplish what one wishes to do. Self-confidence is not the
same as self-esteem, which is an evaluation of one’s own worth, whereas
self-confidence is more specifically trust in one’s ability to achieve
some goal, which one meta-analysis suggested is similar to generalization
of self-efficacy. Brave
is the extent or strength
own ability to complete tasks and reach goals
Seen as the ability to persist and a person's ability to succeed with a
task. As an example, self-efficacy
directly relates to how long someone
will stick to a workout regimen
or a diet. High and low self-efficacy
determine whether or not someone will choose to take on a challenging task
or "write it off" as impossible. Self-efficacy affects every area of human
endeavor. By determining the beliefs a person holds regarding his or her
power to affect situations, it strongly influences both the power a person
actually has to face challenges competently and the choices a person is
most likely to make. These effects are particularly apparent, and
compelling, with regard to behaviors affecting health.
Know your Baseline
is an individual's overall
of his or her
. It is the
decision made by an individual as an attitude towards
encompasses beliefs about oneself, as well as emotional states, such as
triumph, despair, pride, and shame. The positive or negative evaluations
of the self, as in how we feel about it. A
is the quality of being self-assured and confident
without being aggressive
. In the field of psychology and psychotherapy, it
is a learnable skill and mode of communication. Being assertive means
being able to stand up for your own or other
calm and positive way, without being either
and recognizing your own
personal worth. Pride is feeling good about yourself because you know that
you did your best and that you are happy with the choices and actions that
you have taken, even when knowing you made a few mistakes. You can also
feel this pride for other people. You can be proud to have known someone,
or you can be proud of certain people because you know how important they
are, especially when you understand how much they had to endure.
is a positive
emotional response or attitude to something with an intimate connection to
oneself, due to its perceived value. This may be one's own abilities or
achievements, positive characteristics of friends or family, or one's
is when you have a
corrupt sense of one's personal value
You have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
or you over
how important you are because of
because of your accomplishments
. You have
Vulnerabilities - Being too Confident
is being susceptible
. It's being sensitive and easily
or hurt emotionally. Likely to fail under
or pressure and
abilities that would help you to defend
attack, so as to avoid being wounded or hurt. Vulnerability is also the
of a system or a unit to withstand the effects
of a hostile
and not able to adapt
A window of vulnerability (WoV) is a time frame
within which defensive measures
, compromised or lacking.
Vulnerable because of
create more risk
is when you are
harmed or affected
by things that should not affect you.
Two Sides to a Coin
- Feeling Invincible
is a weakness in spite of
, which can lead to downfall. While the
mythological origin refers to a physical vulnerability, idiomatic
references to other attributes or qualities that can lead to downfall are
refers to something that appears to be powerful or someone who
claims to be powerful
or threatening, but is
actually lacking strength and unable to withstand the challenge
means that you will
exit your position and fold early because the heat of the situation is too
much for you to handle.
way to know if things are good
, bad, wrong or right is by
pros and cons
. Your feelings
or your beliefs are not an accurate measurement of
. Self-Confidence could be misunderstood as
or just being
full of yourself
or having a
And understanding ones
is not a guarantee that your abilities will bring you
And just thinking things will have a favorable outcome is not always
beneficial. Pretending to know
things can be dangerous
. This also applies to
, bravery and being
And just trying psych yourself up
is not necessarily going to
make you more aware
or more capable.
But you also don't want
you into not taking
is better then having faith in your abilities.
you are capable of many things is better then
that you are capable of many things. All you can say is that, "I
am capable of many things and I understand my
, and based on my past experiences, and looking at all
the data and information, I can calculate that the odds are in my
favor for this particular task that I am about to perform. I
know that there is no guarantee of success and that accidents do
happen, but I understand the risk
and I understand that
are a part of
. I also know that
of any kind are a distraction
and will only interfere with my
". So in order to have any type of
, you first must have an accurate way of measuring
your abilities. And not just by comparing your abilities to others, but by
of your testing methods
, and by knowing that your
measurements are up to date.
self-confidence are all irrelevant. Having confidence could
give you a
Same thing for
or self doubt
, which are also irrelevant and
not an accurate
is when something happens at the right time
and in the right
place, and you're not in a good mood or in the wrong state of mind, or
you're not fully aware
of all the facts of the situation, that's when you
may over react
or make a big
a mistake that hurts innocent people
. This is the
vulnerability that comes from not having enough knowledge and information.
You should always be learning.
needs to be one of the things you do
and sleeping. And you should always have milestones
so that you can see how much you have
and how far you still need to go.
Why did past civilizations
is a person, thing or location that is relatively unprotected
or vulnerable, especially to military or terrorist attack. Alternatively,
a highly defended target is referred to as hard target.
Caught Off Guard
is to surprise someone or
to find someone unprepared.
Confidence or the lack of confidence can both have their share of
vulnerabilities. You can be over confident and
jump to a conclusion
and make a bad
. Or you
can be hesitant and not react quick enough. Either way, it's best to look
at the facts and try not to totally rely on just your past experiences,
because something's can happen that you never expected to happen, all
because you never so it happen before. It's better to be safe than sorry
or it's wiser to be cautious and careful than to be hasty or rash and then
end up doing something that you may later regret. It's hard to
you should at least know about the most likely scenarios that could
happen. Risk Assessment
measures). How the Body can Affect your
Some things are part of the cure and part of the disease at the same time.
Don't be fooled by people
who say that some things have
gotten better and that some things have improved. Though something's have
improved on some level, it's never the whole story. This is not to say
that we should ignore these improvements, because it's good to know what
works and what doesn't work, because we can learn things that may help us
solve other problems. There are many things that don't work in our world,
and millions of people are dying as a result. So Knowing what works is
good, as long as it doesn't distract us from improving the things that
don't work, because they needs more attention.
Too Much Confidence can be Problematic
is when we tend to
and as a result we tend to take
in our daily lives. In this
we feel convinced
and confident that we are right
irrespective of truth
is the formation of
according to what might be pleasing to
instead of by
appealing to evidence, rationality
. It is a product of
between belief and desire.
actions and events which seemingly
is a feeling that you're
to be defeated or
overcome or incapable of being subdued
Above the Law
Invincible is associated with risky behavior.
False Sense of Security
of safety and security in a situation that actually poses
or dangers. The belief that some
situation is safer than it actually is. You
can't be aware of everything
, so choose
Pretending to Know
- Feeling Immortal
- Blind Optimism
Throw Caution to the Wind
is to do something without worrying about the risk or negative results. To
behave or speak in a hasty and foolhardy manner.
Downplaying is ignoring the
risk and the facts to give a
that something is less threatening than
it really is. To make something appear less important than it really is
because of ignorance
or criminal malice or
or self-assertive, sometimes to
is an instance of boastful
talk. To show off.
is to speak with excessive pride
self-satisfaction about one’s achievements
, possessions, or abilities.
A perversion of confidence that turns into
is speaking of oneself in a
positive way with too much pride or
. Showing off.
in such a way as to attract attention
Display proudly and act ostentatiously or pretentiously. Showing
pride and self-satisfaction in one's achievements, possessions, or
abilities. Exhibiting self-importance.
Razamataz is a noisy and
exciting activity meant to attract attention. To improve something through
subtle or mysterious ways. To add spices and other ingredients to improve
the taste and quality of a substandard food item.
Razzle-Dazzle is a noisy, showy, and
exciting activity and display designed to attract and impress.
Conspicuously is the tendency to attract
attention. Gross -
Flaunt is behavior that is intended to
attract notice and impress others. Making an undeserved claim of
importance or distinction.
in Sports - Criticizing
others does not make you look better.
Revenge is ignorant.
a show of bravery or
defiance, often in
order to make a false impression
or mislead someone. A swaggering show of courage.
False Bravado is showing courage when in
fact you are afraid. Tending to deceive or mislead people by pretending
not be be afraid, sometimes using just your
Ego out of Control
Do you think that you
and allowing yourself to believe something that is not true
. Failure to
We want to
trust people, but
we don't want to be
Pretentious is making claim to or creating an appearance
that is often undeserved
importance or distinction.
Intended to attract notice and impress others.
False Advertising -
is a person's manner of walking
with a lofty pride
in an attempt to impress others. Act in an
overly self-assured, or conceited
manner. A proud stiff
chic. Puffed up with vanity. Body Image
is being invulnerable to fear
or intimidation. Unrestrained by convention or propriety. Disposed to
venture or take risks.
Overcompensating for your Insecurities
Doing things that make no sense that are also extremely illogical. Having
the opposite effect. Inwardly insecure people try to make themselves feel
good and big by trying to make you feel bad and small. Nothing announces
an inferiority complex like the bugle of self-promotion.
Watching others can make people overconfident in their own abilities
, by physical, moral or intellectual means.
that causes a person to
believe that they are less at risk
of experiencing a negative event
compared to others. Risk
is a systematic pattern of deviation from norm or
rationality in judgment.
that either enhances or impairs the recall of a memory.
is a systematic error caused by differences in the
accuracy or completeness of the recollections retrieved ("recalled")
regarding events or experiences from the past.
bias in which a person's subjective
confidence in his or her judgments is reliably greater than the objective
accuracy of those judgments, especially when confidence is relatively
(ponzi scams) - Media Literacy
is a psychological
which a person's feelings of superiority counter or conceal his or her
feelings of inferiority.
is a condition of cognitive bias whereby a person
their own qualities and abilities, in relation to the same
qualities and abilities of other persons.
describes people who are unable to
internalize their accomplishments. Despite external
, those exhibiting the syndrome remain convinced
that they are frauds and do not deserve the success they have
of success is dismissed as luck, timing, or as a
result of deceiving others into thinking they are more
intelligent and competent than they believe themselves to be.
Notably, impostor syndrome is particularly common among
high-achieving women, although some studies indicate that both
genders may be affected in equal numbers.
Being Positive is not supposed
to be about lying to yourself or about lying to other people
positive but don't let positivity
manipulate reality or distort the truth, like what some people do when
they recount certain moments in history.
is the culture of portraying yourself as
happy no matter what
. You're basically switched off to anything which
might be viewed as negative. It's also the idea of encouraging people to
always see the bright side, and not open up about anything bad.
something in a positive
way a lot more than it actually is. Over
the good while
is the tendency to view past events in a positive
perspective that judges the past
disproportionately more positively than the present.
Believing the Future will be Favorable may Prevent Action
. Belief in a
may diminish the likelihood that
people will take action
that the favorable future becomes reality.
is the tendency for people to remember pleasant
items more accurately than unpleasant ones.
is an excessively cheerful or optimistic person.
is the ability to constructively analyze a situation
where the desired results are not achieved; but still obtain positive
feedback that assists our future progression.
is a common psychological phenomenon whereby individuals
give high accuracy
ratings to descriptions of their personality that
supposedly are tailored specifically to them, but are in fact
general enough to apply to a wide range of people.
Why do teenagers think that they are invincible
Probably because they survived being a child for the first 12 years of
their life. Being a teenager is just a continuation of your childhood. As
a child you get injured more often because you are experimenting with your
and just starting to
understand your limitations
. Surviving a
can create excitement and exhilaration, which could encourage someone to
explore their capabilities even more, even when they know there is a
. Don't push your limits without
Don't Over Do It
. I live on the edge so I can see how far I will
fall. Living on the edge or
pushing my luck
doesn't discourage me, or does it remind me of how
reckless I'm living, I live on the edge to feel alive. But feeling alive
shouldn't kill you or hurt you. So I need to learn how to live on the edge
some other way
, one that says that
I'm still alive
, and one that says that I would
like to stay alive as long as possible. The only way that I can fail is
when I don't respect the edge. The edge is my friend, but we can't hang
out all the time. We both need our
. We both need
. To the edge seekers
live on the edge so you don't have to. The edge is a dangerous place and
not for the faint of heart
. I would rather
tell you about my experience on the edge, because most of these trips to
the edge are not necessary or worth it. But if you did find yourself on
the edge, I would ask you to be very careful. But I would never tell you
to leave or would I discourage you. I would just ask you to let me go
first, just incase I fail, you don't have to.
Bravery - Courage - Heroism
is being able to face
even when knowing the
is someone who faces
danger, combats adversity
through impressive feats of
his or her own personal concerns
showing extreme courage, especially of actions courageously undertaken in
desperation as a last resort. Having or displaying qualities appropriate
for heroes and superhero's
Of behavior that is impressive and ambitious in scale or scope. Very
imposing or impressive; surpassing the ordinary in
size or scale. Relating to or characteristic of heroes of
is the qualities of a hero or heroine who has exceptional or heroic
courage when facing danger. Heroism is having traits that consist of
bravery, moral integrity
courageous, self-sacrifice, protecting,
, saves others,
, and helpful, as
well as being wise
, reliable, charismatic,
, selfless, and inspiring.
is strength of mind
that enables one to endure
is the mental
that enables you to face danger
or pain without
is the choice and willingness to confront agony, pain, danger,
uncertainty, or intimidation. Valour is courage or bravery, especially in
battle. Physical courage is bravery in the face of physical pain,
hardship, even death or threat of death, while moral courage is the
ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition, shame, scandal,
discouragement, or personal loss. The classical virtue of fortitude (andreia,
fortitudo) is also translated "courage", but includes the aspects of
Fight or Flight
is a person who
someone from harm or from
. A person who saves someone or
something or saves a country or a cause from danger. A savior is regarded
. Cool, Calm, and Collected
is to be in control of one's feelings and not easily distracted or
influence by ignorant behavior, especially when under pressure or being
threatened. Cool as a cucumber.Poised
is being in full control
powers and marked
or equilibrium and readiness for action.
is able to
from difficult conditions
Able to Adapt
Never Gave Up
is being in control of your
feelings and emotions and not succumbing to stress or being distracted by
intense situations. A strong willed person is sure of themself and they do
not mind taking matters into their own hands and doing things on their
own. They trust their instincts and follow their own voice and speak up
for themselves when needed. A strong willed person loves challenges and can solve
problems on their own. If they need help, they will openly ask
for help without hesitating. And if they do ask or help, this means they
really need help, which is usually the last thing they will do after using
all other possible alternatives. They like to analysis things and they
always try to put the pieces together in their mind to make sense of what
is going on without making assumptions. They can be incredibly
imaginative and creative and can come up with extraordinary ideas. They
don't fear questioning the norm or questioning the rules, and they can’t
follow anything blindly until they can experiment for themselves or are
satisfied with the idea or the story behind it. They refuse to be taken for
granted and have a more logical and experimental kind of mind. If they
want to say something, they usually do. But they are always conscious of
the right place and time to speak and speak up or speak their mind only
after they have gathered their thoughts. They don’t waste time and energy on the
subjects they feel are irrational, so their silence can sometimes speak
much louder than words. They are passionate about the things they
love and are neither afraid of challenges or afraid of difficulties. They are
thoughtful and they are persistent in reaching their goals and continuing
on their chosen path. Strong willed people usually don't fit into the
usual stereotypical roles. They are loyal and faithful and care about the
people they love and are not afraid to come forward to help others,
especially for the better of society. They are not the ones who leave
someone in times of difficulties or during the ups and downs of life. They will never try to
hurt someone and they will avoid lying or cheating. They value freedom and
they like to work freely and independently and seldom need reassurance.
They are comfortable with themselves and can take care of their own tasks.
They consistently push themselves and test themselves and they always make an
effort to improve themselves because they know they can do better, so they
don’t give up too easily, instead they learn from mistakes and mishaps and
move on and progress. Be
. Not all
have to be about money. Invincible
Defending YourselfStrong Minded
is to have strong belief in your ideas and thoughts that helps to control
what you say or do. Strong Headed
is being bossy, headstrong, stubborn, aggressively self-assured and
is having strength
or power greater than average or expected. Not faint or feeble. Having or
wielding force or authority. Immune to attack; incapable of being tampered
with. Of good quality and condition; solidly built. With more than
adequate force or sureness.
Have the Guts
is to have enough
courage, conviction, or resolve to do something. Do you have the stomach
for it?Get Your Shine On
is to keep on
shining or excelling and being a good person, and exceed the expectations
of one's peers in a public setting.
Bravery doesn't have to be all or nothing
, you can
actually plan ahead, way ahead
My Hero -
(youtube) - There goes my hero, Watch him as he goes,
There goes my hero, He's ordinary.
Lacking Confidence can be Problematic
is the measure of the stability of an individual's
emotional state. Emotional insecurity or simply insecurity is a feeling of
that may be triggered by perceiving of
oneself to be vulnerable
in some way, or a sense of
or instability which threatens one's self-image or ego
is lacking self-confidence
Lacking in security
or safety. Not firm or firmly fixed; likely to fail or give way.
a feeling of general unease or nervousness
may be triggered by perceiving of oneself to be vulnerable or inferior in
some way, or a sense of vulnerability or instability which threatens one's
self-image or ego
Can you have a false sense
in their life and everyone makes
does stupid things every now and then. The most important thing is to learn from your mistakes and
to stay focused on the
. Never look back to punish yourself
for a stupid mistake. Only look back to remember what you have learned
from your mistake and occasionally
on your life for amusement
and also to laugh at yourself
Live, Learn, Love and
is the lack of self-worth, a doubt and uncertainty about
oneself, and feelings of not measuring up to standards. It is often
subconscious, and is thought to drive afflicted individuals to
overcompensate, resulting either in spectacular achievement or extremely
asocial behavior. In modern literature, the preferred terminology is "lack
of covert self-esteem". For many, it is developed through a combination of
genetic personality characteristics and personal experience.
is lacking the requisite
qualities or resources to meet a task. Not sufficient to meet a need. Lack
of an adequate quantity or number. A lack of competence.
is not having enough
or faith in
yourself or in your
, or faith in someone else and their abilities.
is a lack of confidence and
feeling badly about oneself
with low self-esteem often feel unlovable, awkward, or incompetent.Reluctant
unwillingness to do something contrary to your custom. Disinclined or not
eager to become involved.Self-Conscious
is a feeling undue awareness of oneself
one's appearance, or one's actions.
Having knowledge of one's own existence
, especially the knowledge of
oneself as a conscious
being. No One is
is a heightened sense of self-awareness. It is a
preoccupation with oneself, as opposed to the philosophical state of
self-awareness, which is the awareness that one exists as an individual
being, though the two terms are commonly used interchangeably or
synonymously. An unpleasant feeling of self-consciousness may occur when
one realizes that one is being watched or observed, the feeling that
"everyone is looking" at oneself. Some people are habitually more
self-conscious than others. Unpleasant feelings of self-consciousness are
sometimes associated with shyness
such as guilt,
, embarrassment, and
pride, are emotions that relate to our sense of
and our consciousness
Don't feel that you're not enough for anyone or
for anything in this world
. You are more than enough. But you have
to understand why you are more than enough. If you feel that you are not
doing enough or feel that you are not good enough, then you should define
those things that you are doing, and list the things that you want to do.
You can't do everything, but you can do is make the things that you do
more valuable and more beneficial. When you do that, this is when you
realize that you are good enough, because you now
what good enough is,
which is you. Do what you can, but don't forget to
what you can. In order
to do good and be good, you have to know what
is being uncertain or unable to
decide about what course of action to follow.
is the lack of confidence or
assurance and still undecided about something that is unknown. Something
that is not established beyond a doubt and not consistent or dependable,
so it may be subject to change.Unsure
is not knowing what to do because of the lack of knowledge and
is to be
reluctant to draw attention to yourself. Cool and formal in manner.
Temperamentally disinclined or unwilling to talk because of mild dislike
is behavior exhibited by a subject after
enduring repeated aversive stimuli
beyond their control. Learned helplessness was initially thought to be
caused from the subject's
of their powerlessness: discontinuing attempts to escape or
avoid the aversive stimulus, even when such alternatives are unambiguously
presented. Upon exhibiting such behavior, the subject was said to have
acquired learned helplessness. Over the past few decades, neuroscience has
provided insight into learned helplessness and shown that the original
theory actually had it backwards: the brain's default state is to assume
that control is not present, and the presence of "helpfulness" is what is
actually learned. In humans, learned helplessness is related to the
concept of self-efficacy, the individual's belief in their innate ability
to achieve goals. Learned helplessness theory is the view that clinical
depression and related mental illnesses may result from such real or
over the outcome of a situation.
is someone easily handled or managed
and is willing to be taught
led, supervised or directed without question or understanding what they
are being taught.
Gullible - Passive.
is lacking self-confidence.
Lacking conviction, boldness or courage. People who are fearful and
is to decide
not to do something because one is afraid of making a mistake or afraid of
being embarrassed or not confident enough in their abilities, or not doing
something because it was not worth the risk
So you changed your mind at the last second because you were not sure, or
maybe you had an intuition
is a person who
is a trait
wherein excessive fear
and excessive self-concern
override doing or saying what is right, good, and of help to others or
oneself in a time of need. It is the opposite of courage. As a label,
"cowardice" indicates a failure of character in the face of a challenge.
One who succumbs to cowardice is known as a coward.
is a psychological pattern in which an individual
doubts their accomplishments and has a persistent internalized fear of
being exposed as a "fraud". Despite external evidence of their
experiencing this phenomenon remain convinced that they are frauds, and do
not deserve all they have achieved. Individuals with impostorism
incorrectly attribute their success to luck, or as a result of deceiving
others into thinking they are more intelligent than they perceive
themselves to be. While early research focused on the prevalence among
high-achieving women, impostor syndrome has been recognized to affect both
men and women equally. I can't be aware
I can't be expected
to know everything
. All I can do is to
be aware of more things and eventually know more things.
too much about
might happen. Pessimists also tend to focus on the
of life and
more about things than they do
tend to see more of the evil
and hardships in life
then they do the good
or the luxuries of
is not that bad if it makes you aware of problems and makes you want to
solve problems. But just being negative and worried
will not prepare you
for the future.Fatalistic
is the belief that all events are predetermined and therefore inevitable,
or our destiny.Fatalism
is the belief that we are powerless to do anything to influence the future
and no matter what we do the outcome the outcome will be the same. (which is false, because if that were true no one would be alive today,
and that is a fact. We are alive because we did determine our future to
some extent and we made good choices, not all good choices, but just
enough good choices to stay alive and to progress). Being
is a self
inflicted death sentence, and not just for yourself, but for everything.
Die Many Times Before Their Death
, but define
? And kind of situation is it? What may seem
like a cowardly act, may actually be genius. Can someone
just say no
maybe it's just saying no at the wrong time?
Damned if you do
Damned if you don't. What can you do except
what you can and try
to see the whole picture. Don't use
, clearly explain
exactly what you mean, these words may be the most important words you ever speak.
There is danger in having
complacency. To be satisfied is like having a
false sense of
security. How can you be satisfied knowing there is something
better? How can you be satisfied knowing that it's not an
accurate measurement of reality? I'm not saying you can't enjoy
life or be happy, I'm just say be cautious when feeling
Nothing wrong with examining the
possibilities of worst case
, or anticipating undesirable outcomes
just as long as you don't worry or ruminate
much that you fail to ignore other possibilities, or stop trying or
stop living. Think
instead of crying and doing
nothing. "Just because you think it, doesn't make it true".
I Can't Get No Satisfaction.
about something that you
will be doing in the near future. Usually it's having a little fear or
hesitation or being anxious in anticipation about an experience that you
will be having. And because you lack some experience and some knowledge,
you tend to think about all the things that could go wrong, instead of
focusing on your abilities. It's good to examine the details of your
actions, and also be prepared for different scenarios or problems that
could come up, but you should not let your thinking and your planning be
clouded by your emotions. Feeling nervous does not mean that you have to
stop thinking or stop planning.
Butterfly's are normal
, so it's not that unusual, just keep reminding
yourself that the butterfly's are just
, and they're not your
, so they are not allowed to distract you from the knowledge
that you have or distract you from the experiences that you will have.
Your are in control, and
if something does
, just learn from it and then move on. Things will seldom be
perfect, but you can react perfectly if you don't get distracted. Smile,
you're in control.Faint of Heart
describes a person who is lacking courage, squeamish or unable to rise to
The phrase "Nerves of
" means that you're extremely confident and you are not easily
, and that you never worry
about failing, so you hardly ever feel nervous or afraid. But when someone
says "You've got a Nerve
", it usually means
that you are being insensitive or ignorant in regards to other peoples
is an acute, time-limited, mental breakdown that
manifests primarily as severe, stress-induced depression, anxiety,
paranoia, or dissociation in a previously functional individual, to the
extent that they are no longer able to function on a day-to-day basis
until the disorder is resolved. A nervous breakdown is defined by its
temporary nature and often closely tied to
similar stressors, which may combine to temporarily overwhelm an
individual with otherwise sound mental functions. A mental breakdown can
last for hours at a time, to months at a time. While these time periods
can vary between different people, their
to the mental breakdown may also vary.
Accurately Calculate Worth or Value
when a person lacks another's superior quality, achievement, or possession
and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it.
Does Praising someone build Confidence
Confidence is knowing your abilities and knowing how to use your
abilities effectively and correctly. It is not a state of mind.
You can't replace knowledge, information and experiences using
just a few words like "You need more Confidence".
People don't lack confidence, people lack
knowledge, information and
experiences. A person doesn't need to believe in themselves, a
person needs to know themselves, and understand their abilities.
To have freedom from doubt,
or to trust
is the lacking of awareness.
Positive is good
, but positive thinking alone will not
increase your chances, a perfectly executed move needs skills, learning
and a lot of training. Sports Wisdom
is bliss until it hits you in the face"
caught with your pants down
, or don't get caught
, or get caught doing
things that you
shouldn't be doing
is not without risk, you still need to be
cautious, responsible and aware. Not being afraid does not
excuse you from the
risk or danger
of reality, you still need to know your
If I do
, then I will only learn from that
, and I will not let
discourage me from future
So what's the difference between
? - Self-Discipline
What are the differences between
? - Relaxation Techniques
Does systematic desensitization
help to lessen fears?
What are the differences between
, Nervous Energy,
What is somatic experiencing
What is post traumatic stress disorder
What is eye movement desensitization and
What's the difference between
? - Inspiration
What's the difference between
- Interpersonal intelligence
Yes things will be good and yes things will be bad
. But the only
way things will improve in the future will be by making lasting
improvements today. Just saying things will be OK is not the
same thing as doing things that will make improvements so that
the odds of things being better will most likely increase.
will always be better then no real
intentions at all.
The glass is neither half full nor half
empty, it is what it is, a glass with a certain amount of water
rejects the idea that the
function of thought
to describe, represent, or mirror reality. Instead, pragmatists consider
thought an instrument or tool for prediction, problem solving and action.
"It's illogical to be discouraged by the fear of
are to be Measured
, they are not to be feared.
Believing in failure or believing in success has no calculating
factors or value, so they are useless in
and they can also be very dangerous because they may cause you
to make a wrong decision, a decision not based on reality or
"Ordinary people can be capable of some extraordinary
things. So you should never underestimate a persons abilities or
a persons value because you never know how important that
someone is until you give them a chance to explore their
abilities. Incredible things happen when you least expect it, in
ways that you have never imagined. There seems to be an
extraordinary person in all of us, so you could say that
ordinary people are just extraordinary
people waiting for their chance to shine."
You have a
great need for other people to like and admire you
. You have a tendency to
be critical of yourself. Your sexual adjustment has presented problems for
you. Disciplined and self-controlled outside, you tend to be worrisome and
insecure inside. At times you have serious doubts as to whether you have
made the right decision or done the right thing. You prefer a certain
amount of change and variety and become dissatisfied when hemmed in by
restrictions and limitations. You pride yourself as an independent thinker
and do not accept others' statements without satisfactory proof. You have
found it unwise to be too frank in revealing yourself to others. At times
you are extroverted, affable, sociable, while at other times you are
introverted, wary, reserved. Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty
unrealistic. Security is one of your major goals in life. You have a great
deal of unused capacity which you have not turned to your advantage. While
you have some personality weaknesses, you are generally able to compensate
Don't let your insecurity get the best of you
Don't be insecure
or lack self-confidence or assurance.
Don't be totally dependent
on another person for support.
Don't be gullible
because of being too trusting.
Don't ever assume
or jump to
conclusions. Asking questions and learning is a lot easier than
making costly mistakes.
You should be self-confident
free from doubt, and always believe in yourself and your abilities. You
should be independent
free from external control
and constraint. You
should be intelligent
and show good
judgment and have the capacity to
is Like a Rock - Donnie Iris
You can't depend on your
You can't depend on your preacher.
You can't depend on
You can't depend on superstitions.
Love can rock you.
Never stop you.
Ah, Ah, Ah, Ah,Love
is like a rock.
rely on Mother Nature.
You can't rely on your paychecks.
depend on your doctor.
You can't depend on your lawyer.
Never stop you.
Ah, Ah, Ah, Ah,
Love is like a rock.
Love can rock you.
Never stop you.
Ah, Ah, Ah, Ah,
is like a
Big - Fontaines D.C.
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"Two of the most important things to depend on is your
ability to learn and your commitment to keep learning."