that are written or imprinted on a
surface to represent the sounds or
or express by writing.
The activity of putting something in written form. The work of a
; anything expressed in letters of the
, especially when considered from the point of view of
style and effect.
Cursive is also known as longhand, script, handwriting, looped writing,
joined-up writing, joint writing, or running writing is any style of
penmanship in which the symbols of the language are written in a conjoined
and/or flowing manner, generally for the purpose of making writing faster.
Formal cursive is generally joined, but casual cursive is a combination of
joins and pen lifts. The writing style can be further divided as "looped",
"italic", or "connected".
Left Handed Writing Motion Gif
Good handwriting is having
and paying attention to
how you write each individual letter, while at the same time, you have to
know which letter comes next to form the word that you are writing. So
writing combines focus and planning
, a type of multitasking. First you have to know what you are
writing, then you have to know what words and symbols you need to write in
order to communicate your message, then you need to focus on writing each
letter as you are recalling the next letter so as to keep a steady flow of
Writing Skills Test
A fast hand writer can write 250 words
in 15 Minutes on average.
UCL Computer Scientists have developed Software Computer Programme that
"My Text in Your Handwriting" programme,
semi-automatically examines a sample of a person’s handwriting, which can
be as little as one paragraph, and then generates new text saying whatever
the user wishes, as if the author had handwritten it themselves.Work Sheets
Handwriting Help for Kids
knowledge of conventions writing skills
List of Languages by Writing System
The optimum length for an email is 50 to 125 words.
your own Fonts
Words Per Minute
types usually in
of 50 to 80
Stenotype shorthand Machine
Software used for Writing
Scrivener word processing program
Tips to become a Good Writer
"Either write things that are worth reading, or do things that are worth writing about,
and if you do both, you can't go wrong."
The person who does not write things that are insightful
and educational has no advantage over a person who can't write
This is not saying that you should not read and
write for fun, or, this is not saying that knowing how to read
and write has no advantages, because it does, It's just saying
that Balance and Purpose should be of highest priority.
- Preparing to Write
gathering stage of writing,
classifying things into groups, a visual web that represents
associations among ideas.
Writing First Draft
How to Prepare
a First Draft
Rule Set of Wikipedia
10 Writing Tips
reader's attention with a good
, sometimes first impressions matter. Know your
readers. Make a title that answers a particular question a user might
Inquiry and Word Count (LIWC)
Stay within your
and be original. Try to focus on a single thought or
issue. Don't forget something
personal and always
a little of yourself. Show the end result at the start of the
article to let users know that they are reading the right
is not necessary
Think about a
or a particular
that you might want
to explore, but try
to write what you know.
Cover the basics first; leave the optional or advanced
scenarios for the latter part of the article.
How to Write a Short Story
with your words but not too fancy, make it simple and
to the point. The reader shouldn't
have to guess what
. If your writing is to advanced it may distract
someone from fully understanding your message. Not to say that
writing is bad, there is a time and place for
everything. You reach a larger audience with easy to understand
writing. Sometimes dividing long sentences into shorter ones can
be more effective. A paragraph should support a single idea.
Try to reframe 90% of
the passive voice
. Use a Thesaurus
to find the right words.
Try to be unique, informative, direct, simple and
brief. Prefer a vigorous, lucid or
to the romantic.
that strike their object.
familiar word, and the concrete or
, to the
Avoid superfluous redundant or
unnecessary empty words.
informative and educational with the latest information
available on your subject.
Try to limit your
and try to
clichés. Make it exciting to read. It's not just what you say,
but how you say it. make it clear and easy to follow.
Add links to articles that are connected to the topic to
provide some extra information for the users.
Dramatic Structure Pathos Technical Writing Style
explain what you are seeing to the reader. Give a Point of view
and explain the
setting and any characters involved.
Be specific to detail.
(Inflectional Ending) Epilogue
Human Interest Story
Situation vs Complication
that are eye-catching and relevant. Depiction
Manuscript Info-Graphic Ideogram
But remember..."A picture could never be more worthy then a
thousand words, but it's nice to have both."
Read your work aloud and proof read it. Have someone else
List of Style Guides
a better writer you should always Read More.
preparing each message: Plan,
1) Draft the message with the readers in mind.
Send clear, concise messages that are
brief, succinct, and organized.
Give the message a concise title and use subheadings where
Use simple words and short, clear, sentences and paragraphs.
Back up opinions with facts.
Avoid “flowery” language, euphemisms, and trite expressions
that's free of jargon.
Summarize main points at the end and let the reader know what he
must do next.
The average writer who's doing
research for a story, will spend at least 3 weeks
on the average around 100 people, either in person or talking
with them over the telephone. They will request information and
facts from various sources from around the world, like press
releases, technical papers and so on. From that they will create 100's of pages of hand written notes of 20,000 words or more.
Then they will meticulously go through all the acquired
information to retrieve the most important parts. Then they will
spend about a week writing and rewriting the story till it
becomes something to be published.
, and words give meaning to context. In order to say
what you mean you have to know a lot of words and all the
definitions that apply to those words. So
valuable, but not as valuable as knowing how to use words to
Elementary-school kids who hand-wrote their work produced more
words and more ideas
who typed. College students who typed notes on a laptop
remembered less about a lecture than those who wrote by hand.
People remember lectures better when they’ve taken handwritten
notes, rather than typed ones. But that is a problem with
, and not a problem with
technology. A computer laptop is by far a more superior tool
then a pencil and paper. So don't blame the laptop for you bad
memory or your lack of creativity. Technology enhances and
accelerates learning, if it doesn't, then that has something to
do with you and not technology.
"I try not to influence writers on what they should write about,
only that they care about what they are writing.
Try not so much to devise a piece of writing, try to realize a
piece of writing, a piece of writing that has to be written. If
you feel that you will be wasting time writing about something,
then you should not write it. Don't write because you are a good
writer, write because you need to write something good."
"Writing has therapeutic benefits. The process of documenting
your thoughts can free your mind."
How Many Pages should my Novel be?
Publishers go by words, not pages. Most adult
are about 90,000 words, and no longer than 100,000 words
(unless you’re JK Rowling). Teen books are about 55,000 words.
A Book will usually have 250-300 words per page
Therefore, a 55,000 word book should be about 200 manuscript pages. A
100,000 word book would be about 400. Editors like 12 point font.
80,000 – 89,999: Totally cool
90,000 – 99,999: Generally safe
70,000 – 79,999: Might be too short;
probably all right
100,000 – 109,999: Might be too long; probably all
Below 70,000: Too short
110,000 or above Too long
(abbreviated tl;dr and tldr) is a shorthand notation added by an
editor indicating a passage appeared to be too long to invest
the time to digest.
Too Long; Didn't Read
the number of words in a document or passage of text. Word counting may be
needed when a text is required
to stay within certain numbers of
Bulk Webpage Word Count Checker
Website Word Count
That is why a computer based article is better then a printed
. Because you can shorten an article by using links. If
the person needs more information then all they have to do is
follow the link. So articles can be shorter and more manageable
without sacrificing other relevant knowledge and information.
Short is not always sweet. But some writers love empty words and
writing vague commentary without considering the readers need
for quickly understanding the message. And an overlong
composition may seem long, but it may not be, because not
everyone can accurately calculate whether extra words were
actually necessary. I don't mind investing the time needed
reading a good article, but please, don't waste my time with
your dribble or overlong prose and over-verbose writing. Just
the facts, and please have a point, a point worth mentioning. To
be clear enough sometimes depends on the reader and not just the
writer. But digital technology solves this problem. That is why
printed material is now inadequate in most cases. Technology
accelerates learning if we use correctly. It's like reading a
book, you don't have to read the whole book in one sitting, you
can read some now and then read some later. To say something was
to long to read, is to say that I will never have the time
or the motivation to read more of what I have already read. And
the reasoning behind that decision not read more has other
contributing factors, like the experience with previous
knowledge and information, which may have nothing to do with the
style or the length of someone's writing. So even when you think
you covered all the different angles and possible scenarios,
there is always going to be one more thing that you never
thought of. Learning is awesome!
The Elements of Style
Write Like You Talk
Talk Like You Write
Daily Writing Tips
Research Papers Handbook
Resources for Writers
Journalism Tools and Resources
Internet Searching Tips
Research Paper Writing Tips
Writing Dissertations Help
the Right Words
Heretical Notions and Wretched Adages compiled by Jack Tourette
Community for Writers of all Interests and Skill Levels
Relevance Theory Online Bibliography
Resources for Writers
Professional Writing Services
Society of Magazine Editors
Books on Successful Writing
Online Writing Evaluation Service
Featured Topic Criteria
Author Central M-Quills Writing Tips
The Ultimate Guide to Writing better than you normally do
Check which famous
writer you write like with this statistical analysis tool
Poetry and Creative Writing
You Should Write
My Script Font
VDA Writing Curriculum
The VDA Writing
Curriculum - Part 1 of 8
Life QuotesEducation Quotes
Writing Quotes and Sayings
I have never lived so passionately as when I am writing passionately about living. (Michael J. Budnicki)
"Either write things that are worth reading or do things that are worth
writing about, and if you do both you can't go wrong"
The World is a book, and those
who do not travel read only a page. (Saint Augustine)
A writer writes not because he is educated but because he is driven by the need to communicate. (
The art of communicating thoughts
to the mind, through the eye is the great invention of the
"Try not to think about things that you're not willing to
write about. This is not to say that you should write about
everything that comes to mind, because something's cannot, and
should not, be shared in writing. Mostly because something's
cannot be fully understood enough. So if you feel the need to
write something down, that might be considered crazy or hard to
understand, do it privately so that it will give you some time
to understand and process these particular thoughts that you
"You never quite know what exact
arrangement of words that people will understand, the intended
meaning is not always a guarantee" (Howard Polley)
Writing about your personal
experiences is liberating. It also gives you a chance to better
understand yourself by being able to
what you have
written later on. Writing about a moment in time that you have
experienced, through your own perspective, is saving a memory.
It's also creating a hard copy of a memory that will act like a
back up in case your personal
or leaves out
important details, for what ever reason. If you like what you
have written, then you should share it, like sharing a memory.
We all hope that we will be able to take our memories with us
when we die
, but just incase, we should write some of our memories
down because they might be beneficial to others, pretty much the
same way that
you benefited from the memories of other people in
your life, people who were thoughtful enough to share what they
have learned with you.
Pass the Baton
"One of my problems with hand
writing is that I'm not thinking about what I'm writing because
my brain is thinking faster then I can write it down. So I find
myself scribbling a lot, but it's not that bad as long as I can
deceiver it later and rewrite it."
I'm sometimes more focused on what I'm trying to say then I
am about the spelling of words. That is why writers have
and editors. This way writers can focus more on what
they're trying to say and not have to focus on irrelevant
things, like the spelling of words. I would rather
when writing about things that are important then write about
things that are irrelevant but spelled perfectly, who cares.
Besides, if you know that a word is misspelled you must know
what the word is? So nothing is lost.
So the problem is not my spelling, the problem is that you're
too easily distracted by things that don't matter, which is no
Sometimes I can't stop to think about the spelling of a word
because that would cause me to change focus. And when thoughts
are flying by at lighting speed, if you look away just for a
second you sometimes miss key information pertaining to that
thought, like how the thought was generated? What was going to
be learned from that thought? Do more questions need to be
answered about that thought? And some thoughts immediately
create associations, so analyzing begins
immediately, which also needs to be documented.
Can I get a Spell Check?
"Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht
oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is
taht the frist and lsat ltteers be at the rghit pclae. The rset
can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm.
Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by
istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe."
Missing Letter Effect
"It's much more important to communicate effectively then it is to
always spell words correctly. Spelling
is an irrelevant detail.
Am I becoming a better speller, yes. But it is still not a high
priority, as you can still see."
I love writing, even
though I might not agree with everything that I write later on.
That's why I love the digital world. I don't waste paper and I
didn't print any books. I can just delete it or
Correcting is all about survival. The more I learn, the more my
understanding increases in size, so I have to update what I have
written. Some of what you see on this website is just the
others have gone through a few revisions. How an idea comes to
mind and the path it took is important. There are other paths
that led to the same idea. I got here because I was thinking of
this, but I also got here because I was thinking of that. Two
different paths leading to the same place.
"I don't own the words
or did I
create the words, I just assemble the words. Sometimes
uniquely, other times just a little differently."
The most important thing is to write down the words before you
forget them. And it's always a good idea to have
a place to put
, a place that will make it easy for you to find and
remember the things that are important. So having some kind of a
has always been a very useful tool and
skill to have.
Some of the things that I have I
learned about writing is that the more you write the more you
learn. And one of the things that you learn when you write is
that you learn to write better. And when you learn to write
better you learn even more. So it’s safe to say,
if you never
stop writing about what you have learned, about yourself and the
world, you will never stop learning.
Even though I’m a terrible
writer, I myself look at writing as an incredible gift. At times
writing can be so exhilarating to me that it’s better then any
drug that I have ever done. But there were so many times in my
life that I wished I had the words for those particular moments,
but of course I didn’t.
It was always much later and too late. But as I found the words,
I realized that all is not lost. I can still say those words and
share them by writing them down. For I am certain that those
moments in my life will surely repeat themselves in other
peoples lives, if not my own. So just maybe, someone would be
lucky enough to remember what I have written, and not have to
walk away from a very important moment, saying, “I wished that I
had the right words to say”. To me that is the greatest gift a
writer could ever give. (Howard Polley)
How do I know what I mean until
I see what I say?"
"There's a big difference between
what you want to say and what you eventually do say.
Remember what you were thinking and share it."
"Writing is like a form of
, you need to slow your thinking down and
"I don't write to impress people,
I don't write to insult people, I don't write to manipulate
people, I write to communicate
t of my thoughts. Just like millions of people have
done before me. I am an accumulation of thoughts that have been
passed down for thousands of years. And it seems that we are
just beginning to think, because we have never had so much
knowledge and information before, it's almost God like."
"It's very easy to look stupid
while you are actually planning something incredible. There's
genius under the chaos. But I wouldn't say that I'm doing it my
way, I'm just doing it the way it happens, which seems to be
When it’s all said and done, will
you have said more than you’ve done?
Learning Games for Kids
Learn to Spell
Teaching 8 Spelling Patterns
Editing and Spell Checking
Spelling Bee Championship
Spelling Bees Practice
How to Spell
Instead of just having the computer
fix the misspelled word, first try to correct the
misspelled word yourself, eventually this will help you
will become a better speller.
I'm thinking faster then I can write my thoughts down,
so I don't always have time to check my spelling. I
don't want my writing to slow down my thinking, because
some thoughts are so new and unique that if I pause for
just a moment I may forget the idea that I was trying to
record and document. It's like trying to remember the
details of a dream that you just had when sleeping, the
longer you wait to recall the details of that dream the
more details you will lose and forget.
"The two most important things about writing and
reading are comprehension and relevance. Just being a
good speller does not confirm good reading comprehension
or does it confirm that you are reading and writing
things that are important or relevant.
Make sure that kids understand what they are reading and
writing, and make sure that they are reading and writing
things that are important and relevant to them, things
that will increase their understanding of themselves and
the world around them."
are better the
because pencils are made of things found naturally in our
environment, and they are also renewable and they breakdown in
landfills. Most pencils are made from
, which is made out of carbon. But you can buy pens
that are more eco-friendly.
Pens and Pencils
Endocentric and Exocentric
is the representation of a person in a narrative
or dramatic work of art (such as a novel, play, or film).
is the use of a written or spoken commentary to convey a story to an
audience. Narration encompasses a set of techniques through which the
creator of the story presents their story, including: Narrative point of
view: the perspective (or type of personal or non-personal "lens") through
which a story is communicated. Narrative voice: the format (or type
presentational form) through which a story is communicated. Narrative
time: the grammatical placement of the story's time-frame in the past, the
present, or the future.
is a message that tells the particulars of an act
or occurrence or course of events; presented in
or drama or cinema
or as a radio or television program. Consisting of or characterized by the
telling of a story
is a story from the first-person
perspective: the viewpoint of a character writing or speaking directly
is a narrative mode in which the protagonist or another main character is
referred to by second-person personal pronouns and other kinds of
addressing forms, for example the English second-person pronoun "you".
a narrator with an overarching point of view, seeing and knowing
everything that happens within the world of the story, including what each
of the characters is thinking and feeling, having its own personality,
offering judgments and opinions on the behavior of the characters.
is an interpretation formed
by piecing together bits of evidence. Recall that is hypothesized to work
by storing abstract features which are then used to construct the memory
is to place an action or situation in past time,
indicating that the event being referred to took place in the past.
used to express a past event that has
present consequences. Present Tense
a tense expressing an action that is currently going on or habitually
performed, or a state that currently or generally exists.
is an event that has not
happened yet, something that may happen in the future
Logical Consequence Entailment
Short-and Long-Term Effects of a Novel on Connectivity in the
Potty Mouths - Foul-Mouthed - Four-Letter Words - Cursing - Vulgarity - Naughty Words - Colorful Language
Vulgar Language - Dirty Words - F-bomb -
Pardon my French
- Humor as a
"Words can be liberating, but words can also be debilitating."
"Don't let horrible language distract you or stop you from learning."
, curses, harsh language or
is used in some cases
to express emotion and feelings
about something that people are
passionate about. But swearwords
must be followed by words of deeper
meaning and expression so that it
helps explain your passion in better
detail, other wise swearwords are
just empty words of a incomplete
sentence. You end up mostly
and not enough
. So learn to Elaborate. Derogatory
effective ways to communicate. It's
like trying to put out a fire with
gasoline, it's just illogical. Don't
make things worse or miss out on a
chance to make things better. Think
before you speak. If you don't have
the right words then sometimes it's
best to wait till you do find the
You need to learn how to make words powerful, but
you also how to make words powerless when needed
stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me"
insulted or offended by profanity is wrong and not beneficial to you
be truly offended or insulted is to say things that are insinuating and
meant to hurt someone, like you're fat, you're ugly, you're stupid, you're
a certain color, you're a certain religion or a certain sexual
orientation. There are many hurtful things that you can say to a person.
But like a lot of words, a swear word has no
, just like most
insults do. Your fat because you eat to much is not always the case. Your
ugly does not say that you are ugly to everyone. Saying you're stupid does
not measure your intelligence. And the color of your skin does not say
what kind of person you are. If someone calls you an asshole, this does
not define you as only being an asshole, or mean and selfish, it just
might be saying that a particular action you took was bad and wrong. So
someone called you an asshole just to shorten the sentence, because there
my be a time constraint. So what ever words are used, just remember, it's
like someone saying "Hey you!", and you say "What!" or you just ignore
them, which is usually the best
.My swear words or curses are
just emotional expressions of my
. My intentions are
not to offend anyone or to hurt
anyone. My swear words are solely
meant to bring attention to a
serious problem, a problem that you
may or may not be involved in. So
the swear words are mostly directed
at a problem and not so much at a
particular person. Do I need to use
is a word used to
express a particular emotion or
sentiment on the part of the
is a form of an
adverb or adjective that is used to
signify the greatest degree of a
is to single out something as important. To give extra
weight to something during communication. But if you don't explain why
something is important, then bad words become just empty words, and
sometimes certain words do more harm then good. So your attempt to bring
light to something may end up being shrouded in darkness, where the
problem will hide from the eyes of the ignorant.
can be used to bring
attention to something that is
important, or perceived to be
important, like an
So f*ck could mean "please look and
listen, this is important!" or
perceived to be important, after
all, a swearword does not replace
the words "evidence, research or
experience", you still have to
define those words and explain what
you mean. I want to bring attention
to something, but I don't want to
distract someone by using words that
. So use profanity
wisely and respectfully. Go f*ck
yourself and have a nice day a**hole
To stress, single out as important. Give extra weight to
(a communication) Give special importance or prominence to (something) in
speaking or writing. Make (something) more clearly defined.
Taking Back what you Said
How to Stop Swearing
mouth gathers no foot"
tongue is a beast that few can
master. It strains constantly to
break out of its cage, and if it is
not tamed, it will run wild and
cause you grief.”
because you put some words together doesn't mean that you said something."
Effects of Swearing, Speak Loudly
language, demeaning words,
plain mean talk, is just stupid. if
you can't communicate what you are
trying to say, then wait till you
learn. There are always better words
to use. But why does our
relationship with a particular
person effect our emotions, and why
am I allowing my
my vocabulary? I don't get this. I
always fall into that same stupid
trap, a trap I created. I have to
discover a way to let my brain do
the talking without my emotions
choosing my words. I love my
emotions, but I also like to
communicate effectively, and not
just to other people, but to myself
as well. Our language has incredible
power, it's time we use it the right
way. But don't get me wrong, we need
our emotions, communicating
emotionally is sometimes effective
in certain situations, but it must
be proven that the emotions were
necessary at that time.
is typically a reactive emotion of
over mistreatment, insult, or
is to make less
severe or harsh. To be
straightforward, plain-spoken, or
is a profane or
obscene expression usually of
surprise or anger. Serving to fill
up, merely for effect, otherwise
is an inoffensive
or indirect expression that is
substituted for one that is
considered offensive or too harsh.
is a forceful and bitter verbal attack
against someone or something.
is a harsh or corrosive in tone.
is showing a critical or
Expressive of low opinion. Bias
is something or someone that is
detested or shunned.
Omit Needless Words and Empty
is using extra words
that are not needed in sentences.
Using more words than necessary
"The danger with insults is that it
could ruin your chances of having a
so it can work against you."
When I see horrible people doing
horrible things I sometimes use
horrible words to describe them,
there is nothing unique about that.
"Yes I do get
frustrated and angry at the
injustices in this world, so I do
say hurtful and mean things, but
that is not all I say. Besides that,
almost every improvement in this
world began with someone standing up
and getting angry, so the freedoms
that you enjoy are the result of
people getting angry. Changes did
not come from silent people who were
to afraid to or to ignorant to speak
their mind, they came from people
just like me. So if I happen to use
some of the bad words used by my
culture, then so be it."
""I never said I
was a good writer, but I am a good
fighter. But I'm not looking for the
knockout punch, I'm just looking to
stay in the ring long enough to get
some punches in and wear down those
f*cking criminals, and eventually
win by unanimous decision."
"If there is a
better way to call you an a**hole,
please let me know, I'm all ears."
The 100 Greatest Movie Insults of
I take my expressions of anger and
frustration and put them into words,
words that express anger and
frustration, that's it, don't go any
farther then that. When I write
words that express my feelings of
anger and frustration, they are just
words. To explain my anger and
frustration I must write more about
what I'm trying to communicate,
which I do. So please don't get hung
up on words that you feel offended
by, just keep reading. If you stop
to judge something before you finish
hearing all the
, then you will never
be able to understand the message
accurately enough. If a spoon is
dirty, you wipe the dirt off the
spoon, you don't throw the spoon
away. You keep the spoon. The spoon
is still good, just wipe the dirt
off. I don't mind if you ignore the
dirt or hate the dirt, as long as
you understand the message. Focus on
the on the words that reveal
important information, and don't let
the words that express emotion
distract you from understanding the
I use certain harsh language,
this does not mean that I approve of
the words that I have chosen. I use
words that are used by my culture,
words used by millions of people in
my generation, that is where I have
learned them. I know how inadequate and rude profanity is, and
that these are not all the words in
my vocabulary. But when describing
emotion, you use words that you are
familiar with. I'm not saying that I
agree with those words. But we must
avoid quickly judging certain words.
We should only listen to the
message, and not be distracted by
certain words used in the message.
This is what
is all about, which is to accurately
understand the true meaning of a
particular message. Interpret
without judgment, translate the
message cleanly before adding your
own opinion to it. Then after you
have successfully done that, then
you can talk about your personal
experience that you had with that
particular message. And now we can
have a real conversation.
I get angry
when I learn the truth about
injustices and ignorant criminal
behavior, just like a lot of people
do. But I don't recommend for anyone
, there are much more
effective ways to
they are also a lot healthier.
Even though I'm embarrassed writing profanity, I really don't mind
writing it because it's good to get those things off your chest. Plus,
when I do write down my profanity ridden rants, in a way it releases those
ugly words from my
so they don't build up inside me. So after I write ugly
words down I no longer feel connected to those words, they become only
some words that were connected to an anger from which they came. So when I
do see you in person, I will not embarrass myself like that again and use
such ignorant words. But if I accidently do say "f*ck you!", don't take it
personally, just call it a
If you are the receiver of profanity, You're
going to have to get over it. They are empty words that don't carry any
useful information, so let it go. Focus on the core message and pay no
mind to the extra words used around it. Look at the message the same way
as you do an
, it's meant to emphasize and express
, it's not meant to
distract you from the message, so focus, because I'm going to test you
soon. In the mean time, If you ever have some useful information to share,
please let me know, I'm all ears. When I finally stopped being hurt
or distracted by peoples harsh words,
I was finally free
. At that moment I
experience a freedom that was so
liberating, it was like I have just
begun to live for the very first
time. It was spiritual, it was
enlightening, and it was
exhilarating all at once. Till this
day I am still thankful for that
moment of understanding, it has been
Just because someone doesn't fully
understand you, this does not mean
that they will never understand you.
Don't blame people for not
understanding you, learn from them.
There are always different ways of
explaining something, and the more
ways you know how to explain things,
the more successful you will be at
being understood correctly.
conversation, sharing your thoughts
because you cannot always say what
you're thinking, especially when
talking to people face to face. So
documenting your personal thoughts
is a unique way of writing. Helps
you capture some of your ignorance,
as well as, it helps you capture
some of the words of an earlier
time, and not necessarily the person
you are today. say what your
thinking even if it's wrong or
insensitive, you can that they are
only words, not totally all my
words, mostly the words of my
culture, a culture that is evolving.
I don't want to make people feel
bad, just aware of the something
that is bad and not good. The
cause's and effect's of our personal
life and our business life, which is
our responsibility towards each
other, and our responsibility to our
local surroundings and our global
You're going to own those
words! First, you cannot own words, you can
only use words. Language is a shared
should have access too. To say "In
my own words" is a lie. You don't have words of your own unless you
created your own language. All you are doing is using words that the human
language has created. So all you can do is either use words to transmit
some new information, or use words to repeat some old information, or to
use words to say something that everyone has no idea what you're saying.
To say that you have said something that has never been said before is
extremely difficult to prove.
I like to use words that are a
symbolic example of a particular
dialect used by a particular culture
during a particular time in history.
But still, most words are only
personal and not totally
representative of the entire
culture. They usually represent a
lower percentage of a particular
culture. It doesn't express the
current mind set. If you wanted to
know what a civilization was
thinking as a whole, you would see
something different, varying degrees
of knowledge and awareness cause
different opinions about reality.
"If an inadequate education is the
source of all our problems, then
that means that an effective
education is also the cure for all
Go f*ck yourself means,
yourself what you do to others and
see if you like it
. Do unto others
as you would have them do unto you,
don't do to others that you would
not like done to you.
Have a Nice day As*hole means, I
wish you well, but I would
appreciate it if you would stop
being ignorant, selfish and immoral.
Instead be intelligent, be
compassionate, be human.
That's Just F**kingly Great: If
"F**king" Is an Adjective, What Is
the Adverb? What and how does
"I can be
such a jerk sometimes
. It's not that
I'm being insensitive on purpose,
it's that I'm not always aware of
how my words and actions are being
perceived. I apologize when I'm
aware of my
so please let me know when I'm not
aware of my insensitivity, so that I
may offer you my
and also improve my
Swearing as a Response to Pain
Swearing as a Response to
Pain—Effect of Daily Swearing
Publicly and Publicly Writing your
Personal Thoughts can be Dangerous.
But I grew up doing dangerous
things. So I learned that danger is
not the only reason why you do
something or not do something. There
are many reasons not to do something
that are beyond the fact that
something is dangerous. That is why
we have risk assessments. We can
also base our success rate on
previous experiences. Because things
are not as dangerous when you have
experience it before, and understand
your abilities and limits. But that
is not all, publicly sharing your
personal thoughts is dangerous
because of the chance of being
misunderstood by others. But on the
other hand, there is also a risk of
not sharing your personal thoughts.
Dammed if you do, and dammed if you
difficult when it comes to
determining peoples reactions. Try
to share more then just your
personal thoughts, and understand,
that it's risky if you do and risky
if you don't. Speaking your mind has
risks. Know when to speak, know what
to speak, know how to speak, and
know why you speak.
, or write publicly,
there will always be some
, but criticism is not
always bad, sometimes criticism
makes you more aware of how people
are understanding you, so criticism
could actually benefit you and make
you a better communicator."
calling or angry tones are a waste
of energy and time. When you learn
to talk and
you will learn very
quickly that you will have much
better results with people and
situations when you refrain from
anger and name calling. And you will
also learn that there is very little
need for drama and name calling when
want to keep that shit in your head,
writing it down releases it and
makes it easier to
delete it from your mind
If someone who had
never heard obscene words or socially
inappropriate and derogatory remarks, what would they say? What
if they heard nothing but kind words, wouldn't they be screaming
out nice things? You're Beautiful!!
People who curse a lot have better vocabularies than those who
don't, study finds
, I guess you have to ask, if your
vocabulary is so large, why can't you find better words to
learned over time that you have to
have a very high tolerance for
a**holes and ignorant people.
Because if you don't you will end up
acting like an ignorant a**hole
yourself. So I'm going to create a
course that will give people the
necessary skills and techniques that
will give a person the tolerance and
the appropriate responses to other
peoples moronic behavior. I'm going
to call the course "High Tolerance
for Assholes 101". Believe it or not
I have over 10,000 people signed up
for the course already, mostly from
people who are planning to work in
government, banks, corporations and
in the media." So the
lesson here is to rewrite this
paragraph so that there is no vulgar
language and no
, and then name the
10 things that you would teach in this course?
The Negative Attributes and
Behaviors that are Associated with
Name Calling and Anger....
used to describe most of our
and some of
, as well as some of the scumbags in
This is why the word 'Asshole' is so effective,
because it pretty much replaces all the words above.
But it's not a
This is what all people
I wish I had a nickel for
every time I said "WTF is going on here?"
make it cool to swear again?
To call someone stupid, is stupid
. Whether you are
calling someone a moron, an idiot, an
, or any other harsh insulting words,
but never the "R" word, because you clearly insult
everyone, including yourself. The important thing is
that people should not be insulted when called
stupid, or any other harsh word, even if you're
calling yourself stupid. It is merely a question of,
"why is this thinking flawed and incorrect?" Was it
a simple mistake that you made? Or an indicator that
the process used in your decision making needs to be
improved so that you can achieve higher quality
results from your decisions? And that is only one
way to correctly handle insults. Don't be distracted
by the harshness of a word or words, just simply
answer the question "why is this thinking flawed and
incorrect?" Or simply ask "what is stupid?" or just
answer with one word, "why". And the more questions
that you answer that improve your thinking, the more
you will become. You will still make
mistakes, but now you will solve them a lot faster,
and you will also make fewer mistakes.
There's nothing wrong with
calling yourself stupid
as long as you don't
take it personally.
It's the people who are
not offended or distracted by profanity are the
people I admire most. Don't get distracted by minor
irrelevant details, the most important thing is did
you understand the message? Once people fully
understand how important the transfer of information
is, we will communicate more effectively and
efficiently, and at a much higher level of
The Bottom Line
I don't want to encourage
, I just want people to be aware and to
understand that things need to be taken seriously. I
Don't want People to Hate People
, I just want people to do what they
can to stop injustices and corruption, without
making things worse, and without lowering yourself
to that level of
And on top of that, who you are in person
is different then what you write. So don't ever
believe that you know someone just because you have
read some of the words that they have written.
That's like when people believe that actors and
authors are just like the characters that they
portray. These types of assumptions are illogical
and stupid. It's just a lot easier to inquire and
ask questions then to believe that you know the
answers, like with
Just because someone uses bad words does not
make them a bad person, and just because someone
uses ignorant words this does not mean that they're
ignorant. You can use logical deduction and say bad
people use bad words and ignorant people use
ignorant words, but with so many
, there can be no accurate method of
, not until you answer the questions of
How Much? When? Why and Where? How much of this
language is used? When is this language used? Why is
this language used? And where is this language used?
"I look at some of my writing to be
like A Warning Label for
Life, there's a lot of dangers in life, but
there's also a lot of joy. Avoiding the dangers
takes a lot of work, and this responsibility should
never be taken lightly. Learn to maximize your fun."
There is always risk involved with
communicating to a large audience. You can't
guarantee that everyone will understand your message
the same way. So you have to play the odds. In order
to communicate to one group you may have to sacrifice
communicating to another because of their beliefs.
You have to learn to speak to everyone at the same
time, and use words that have no bias and no
preference, just express the facts and a clear
understanding of those facts. Save the stupid
comments for your standup comedy routine,
where everyone clearly understands that your being an idiot for laughs
and not trying to communicate something important.