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Sex Education

Sex Symbols
Sex Education is best learned in age appropriate stages, starting with the easiest to understand information for the young, and the more complex information for the mature and older student. 

The Facts of Life - Birds and the Bees

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The Physical and Mental influences of Sex
Women and Man KissingPhysical Changes - Mental Changes - Responsibilities - Vulnerabilities - Abilities

What is Sex?
Human Sex Drive
Hormones
Gratification - Pleasure
Human Sexuality
Attraction

Consent - Permission
Safe Sex
Contraception
Teen Pregnancies

Why and When Humans Reproduce
Man on top of a Women in Bed while Naked Human Reproduction
Childbirth
Pre-Mature Births
Pre-Natal Care
Toxic Dangers

Women's Body
Men's Body
Gay - Lesbian

Relationships
Friendships
Dating
Love
Marriage

Videos about Sex
Books about Sex

Sex Crimes
Dating Dangers
Pornography

Warning: Some sexual content may be disturbing or overwhelming for some people, especially the young. Do not be alarmed. Do not be distracted. Stay focused on what's important, like your education, your family, your friends, your goals. Most sexual experiences are not relevant to you and you will most likely never be exposed to certain sexual experiences. Sex education is
learning about certain human behavior. And certain human behavior is not something that you want to experiment with. This information is to make sure that you are not victimized or manipulated by your lack of knowledge, or other peoples lack of knowledge. Everyone is on a Need to Know basis.

The Sex Knowledge below is not an any particular order. The Information below is just the beginning of what kind of course material that might be included in Sex Education.

How do you prepare kids for the onslaught of sexual imagery that is portrayed in today's society?
No matter how subtle or insignificant sex may seem, you should be prepared for its interpretations.

Sex and intimacy is one of our greatest gifts to experience but sadly it is also one of our greatest dangers. For young adults the Peer Pressure to have sex is sometimes over whelming and hard to deal with, as well as the need to Feel Loved. Young adults also have a hard time understanding Body Image and the powerful influences of the Human Sex Drive. So young adults have to learn about the dangers of peer pressure. Young adults also have to learn about Love and Friendship and the different ways to express their appreciation for others. Young adults also have to learn about the powerful influences of the Human Sex Drive. Sex is not the problem. The problem is what happens to a persons understanding of themselves and what happens to their understanding of others after they have experienced Sex. I would recommend that young adults wait to experiment with sex until they're over 16, including masturbation. This will allow their Mental Maturity to catch up with their Sexual Maturity, which should help kids to have a better chance of handling the changes they will experience. Kids should also be aware that their first time having sex might not be the best experience, which they should also be prepared for. Know the difference between Infatuation or Fixation and truly liking someone for who they really are. It takes time to get to know someone, and then on top of that, a person can change and so can you. So it's not easy finding the right Friend.

Criminals and Dating Dangers

Know the differences between Physical Attractiveness, Body Image, Beauty, Lust, Obsessive Love, Dating Abuse, Sexual Attraction, Limerence, Infatuation, Fixation and having a Crush on someone. Sex does not always mean Love, and Love does not always mean sex. And sex is not needed to confirm that you love someone or care about them. Love is Blind, why? A lot of times you’ll find that some people just don’t feel the same way that you do and also you’ll find that some people will never feel the same way that you do. You also have to be aware of other peoples beliefs, religion, traditions and culture, because they may not see things the same way that you do, so it's always a good idea, and a proper thing to do, to ask before acting, don't assume. Communicate Though Sex is a part of life, it shouldn’t be a big part of your life. There are much more meaningful aspects of a Relationship to enjoy. Though Sex and Intimacy can be a great expression of Love and Appreciation between two people, it should never be the sole reason for wanting to be with someone. We should be aware of the power of sex to seduce and also be aware of its Addictive Nature. Also be aware that your feelings before a relationship might not be the same after you have become Intimate. Being open and honest is very important.  Be responsible, have safe sex and learn to be intimate unselfishly. 

Empathy
Temptation
Love

You sometimes have to have sex more then once in order to reproduce. So if sex didn't feel good, we wouldn't do it again, thus humans would not have survived. But just because something feels good, this doesn't mean that you don't have control. Just like breathing, if you had to remember to breathe, you would forget to breathe and die. That is why breathing is automatic. But you can control your breathing, if you could not control your breathing, you would die underwater because you did not hold your breath. Humans have inherited automatic features. But humans also have a brain that can learn and acquire knowledge, which gives us control over our lives, control over our abilities and control over our automatic features.

"Don't confuse sex, love and intimacy. One does not necessarily imply the other. Experiencing one does not necessarily satisfy our need for the other. While all three ideally come together at certain moments, each of them must be attended to and appreciated. And finally, do not forsake one for the other. You can have them all."  

"You should desire to know someone first, before you desire to touch someone."

Anything that can become obsessive or controlling will always leave you vulnerable to mistakes and cause you to make bad decisions. So avoiding these types of behaviors may save your life and may save the life of others."

Sex education is so extremely important. Educating our young on Sexuality and all of its pleasures, all of its understandings and all of its dangers, would give our young the ability to be much more comfortable and capable of making the right decisions. They would enjoy sex no matter what small inconveniences that there might be associated with having Safe Sex, or using Condoms.


Hormones


Hormone is any member of a class of signaling molecules produced by glands in multicellular organisms that are transported by the circulatory system to target distant organs to regulate physiology and behaviour. Hormones have diverse chemical structures, mainly of 3 classes: eicosanoids, steroids, and amino acid derivatives (amines, peptides, and proteins). The glands that secrete hormones comprise the endocrine signaling system. The term hormone is sometimes extended to include chemicals produced by cells that affect the same cell (autocrine or intracrine signalling) or nearby cells (paracrine signalling).

Hormones cause energy levels to rise, and hormones also creates changes in your Mind and Body, so you need to be prepared? The Body effects the Mind

Sex Hormones (wiki List)
Hormone.org
Your Hormones.info

Everyone, especially young students, should be fully aware of the physical and mental effects of Testosterone, Estrogen, Oxytocin, Dopamine, Norepinephrine, Endorphins, Adrenaline, Cortisol, Pheromones, Androgen, Vasopressin and Serotonin, before it happens. Everyone should also be fully aware about all the powerful influences that sex and intimacy has on the human psyche. Sleep Hormones

Neurohormone is any hormone produced and released by neuroendocrine cells (also called neurosecretory cells) into the blood. Neurohormones

Neurochemical is an organic molecule, such as serotonin, dopamine, or nerve growth factor, that participates in neural activity

Norepinephrine in the brain increases arousal and alertness, promotes vigilance, enhances formation and retrieval of memory, and focuses attention; it also increases restlessness and anxiety. In the rest of the body, norepinephrine increases heart rate and blood pressure, triggers the release of glucose from energy stores, increases blood flow to skeletal muscle, reduces blood flow to the gastrointestinal system, and inhibits voiding of the bladder and gastrointestinal motility. norepinephrine is to mobilize the brain and body for action. Norepinephrine release is lowest during sleep, rises during wakefulness, and reaches much higher levels during situations of stress or danger, in the so-called fight-or-flight response. Norepinephrine is an organic chemical in the catecholamine family that functions in the brain and body as a hormone and neurotransmitter.

Locus Coeruleus is a nucleus in the pons (part of the brainstem) involved with physiological responses to stress and panic.

Brain Knowledge - Limbic System

Oxytocin plays a role in social bonding, sexual reproduction in both sexes, and during and after childbirth.

Serotonin thought to be a contributor to feelings of well-being and happiness, regulation of mood, appetite, and sleep. also has some cognitive functions, including memory and learning.

Endorphins are naturally produced in response to pain, but their production can also be triggered by various human activities. Vigorous aerobic exercise can stimulate the release of endorphins in the bloodstream, leading to an effect known as a "runner's high". Laughter may also stimulate endorphin production; a 2011 study showed that attendees at a comedy club showed increased resistance to pain.

Adrenalin or Epinephrine plays an important role in the fight-or-flight response by increasing blood flow to muscles, output
of the heart, pupil dilation, and blood sugar. Epinephrine does this by its effects on alpha and beta receptors.

Steroid have two principal biological functions: certain steroids (such as cholesterol) are important components of cell membranes which alter membrane fluidity, and many steroids are signaling molecules which activate steroid hormone receptors.

Adrenal Gland are endocrine glands that produce and release a variety of hormones including adrenaline and the steroids
aldosterone and cortisol. two adrenal glands are found attached to the top of each kidney. Each gland has an outer cortex which produces steroid hormones and an inner medulla. The adrenal cortex itself is divided into three zones: zona glomerulosa, the zona fasciculata and the zona reticularis. Adrenal glands can become either overactive or underactive.

Aldosterone is the main mineralocorticoid hormone, is a steroid hormone produced by the zona glomerulosa of the adrenal
cortex in the adrenal gland. It is essential for sodium conservation in the kidney, salivary glands, sweat glands and colon. It plays a central role in the regulation of the plasma sodium (Na+), the extracellular potassium (K+) and arterial blood pressure. It does so mainly by acting on the mineralocorticoid receptors in the distal tubules and collecting ducts of the nephron. It influences the reabsorption of sodium and excretion of potassium (from and into the tubular fluids, respectively) of the kidney, thereby indirectly influencing water retention or loss, blood pressure and blood volume. When dysregulated, aldosterone is pathogenic and contributes to the development and progression of cardiovascular and renal disease. Aldosterone has exactly the opposite function of the atrial natriuretic hormone secreted by the heart.

Adrenal Cortex mediates the stress response through the production of mineralocorticoids and glucocorticoids, such as aldosterone and cortisol, respectively. It is also a secondary site of androgen synthesis. Recent data suggest that adrenocortical cells under pathological as well as under physiological conditions show neuroendocrine properties; within the normal adrenal, this neuroendocrine differentiation seems to be restricted to cells of the zona glomerulosa and might be important for an autocrine regulation of adrenocortical function.

Mineralocorticoid influence salt and water balances (electrolyte balance and fluid balance). The primary mineralocorticoid is
aldosterone, notable for an aldehyde group at the 18 position. A class of steroid hormones.

Glucocorticoid role in regulation of glucose metabolism, synthesis in the adrenal cortex, and its steroidal structure. A less common synonym is glucocorticosteroid. A class of steroid hormones.

Steroid Hormone is a steroid that acts as a hormone. Steroid hormones can be grouped into two classes: corticosteroids (typically made in the adrenal cortex, hence cortico-) and sex steroids (typically made in the gonads or placenta). Within those two classes are five types according to the receptors to which they bind: glucocorticoids, mineralocorticoids (corticosteroids), androgens, estrogens, and progestogens (sex steroids). Vitamin D derivatives are a sixth closely related hormone system with homologous receptors. They have some of the characteristics of true steroids as receptor ligands. Steroid hormones help control metabolism, inflammation, immune functions, salt and water balance, development of sexual characteristics, and the ability to withstand illness and injury. The term steroid describes both hormones produced by the body and artificially produced medications that duplicate the action for the naturally occurring steroids.

Cortisol is released in response to stress and low blood-glucose concentration. It functions to increase blood sugar through gluconeogenesis, to suppress the immune system, and to aid in the metabolism of fat, protein, and carbohydrates. It also decreases bone formation.

Pheromone are chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual to impact the behavior of the receiving individual.

Vasopressin two primary functions are to retain water in the body and to constrict blood vessels. Vasopressin regulates the body's retention of water by acting to increase water reabsorption in the kidney's collecting ducts, the tubules which receive the very dilute urine produced by the functional unit of the kidney, the nephrons.

Endocrinology is a branch of biology and medicine dealing with the endocrine system, its diseases, and its specific secretions known as hormones.

Endocrine System is the collection of glands of an organism that secrete hormones directly into the circulatory system to be carried towards distant target organs. The phenomenon of biochemical processes' serving to regulate distant tissues by means of secretions directly into the circulatory system is called endocrine signaling. The major endocrine glands include the pineal gland, pituitary gland, pancreas, ovaries, testes, thyroid gland, parathyroid gland, and adrenal glands. The endocrine system is in contrast to the exocrine system, which secretes its hormones to the outside of the body using ducts. The endocrine system is an information signal system like the nervous system, yet its effects and mechanism are classifiably different. The endocrine system's effects are slow to initiate, and prolonged in their response, lasting from a few hours up to weeks. The nervous system sends information very quickly, and responses are generally short lived. In vertebrates, the hypothalamus is the neural control center for all endocrine systems.
Exocrine Gland
Endocrine Society
Endocrine

Pineal body secretes melatonin and neuroactive peptides. Associated with circadian rhythms.
Neurohypophysis (posterior pituitary) releases neurohormones like oxytocin and vasopressin into the blood.
Area postrema is the vomiting center when a toxic substance enters the bloodstream it will get to the area postrema and may cause the animal to throw up. In this way, the animal protects itself by eliminating the toxic substance from its stomach before more harm can be done.
Subfornical organ is important for the regulation of body fluids.
Vascular organ of the lamina terminalis is a chemosensory area that detects peptides and other molecules.
Chemosensory is the perception of chemical signals by the senses
Olfactory System (sense of smell)
Median eminence regulates anterior pituitary through release of neurohormones.

Pituitary Gland is an endocrine gland about the size of a pea and weighing 0.5 grams (0.018 oz) in humans. It is a protrusion off the bottom of the hypothalamus at the base of the brain. Regulates several physiological processes (including stress,
growth, reproduction, and lactation). Hormones secreted from the pituitary gland help control: growth, blood pressure, certain functions of the sex organs, thyroid glands and metabolism as well as some aspects of pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, water/salt concentration and the kidneys, temperature regulation and pain relief. 

Prolactin is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk. It is
influential in over 300 separate processes in various vertebrates. Prolactin is secreted from the pituitary gland in response to eating, mating, estrogen treatment, ovulation and nursing. Prolactin is secreted in pulses in between these events. Prolactin plays an essential role in metabolism, regulation of the immune system and pancreatic development.

Animals have sex without being taught what sex is, and without being taught how to have sex. Animals just have sex automatically at these right moments. That means that there is knowledge in human DNA that helps drive people to have sex. If animals did not have these instructions, animals and humans would not reproduce. So how do hormones communicate to the brain in a way that it produces the intended result and action? Does that mean you can think about sex without any language or words to describe what sex is, or without words to describe what you're feeling? Yes. Then language is the tool that we can use to control these automatic functions, but that's only if you have the necessary language and know how to use language effectively.

"When the phone rings, you answer it and say hello, and then you find out what the reason is for the phone call? When a thought appears in your mind, you answer it and say 'what is your purpose, and what is your reason?' Mindfulness

Reward System
Hormones Related to Over Eating

"The Most Important Sex Organ is the Brain"

Emotions
Body Chemistry
Sleep
Memory
Microbial Balance

Influenced Sex-Specific Behavior



Gratification


Recreational Sex has its Dangers

Gratification is the pleasurable emotional reaction of happiness in response to a fulfillment of a Desire or goal.

Addiction Behavior

Reward System is a group of neural structures responsible for incentive salience (i.e., "wanting" or desire), pleasure (i.e., "liking" or hedonic value), and positive reinforcement. Reward is the attractive and motivational property of a stimulus that induces appetitive behavior – also known as approach behavior – and consummatory behavior.

Anticipation of Reward
Reward Signals
Delayed Gratification

Temptation is a fundamental desire to engage in short-term urges for enjoyment, that threatens long-term goals.
Indulgence is an inability to resist the gratification of whims and desires. Foolish or senseless behavior. Profit
Self-Control - Focus

Libido is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in humans.

Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity.

Sexual Desire is a motivational state and an interest in “sexual objects or activities, or as a wish, need, or drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage in sexual activities”. Synonyms for sexual desire are libido, sexual attraction, and lust. Sexual desire is an aspect of a person's sexuality, which varies significantly from one person to another, and also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time.

Physiological Arousal involves activation of the reticular activating system in the brainstem, the autonomic nervous system, and the endocrine system, leading to increased heart rate and blood pressure and a condition of sensory alertness, mobility, and readiness to respond.

Sensation are stages of processing of the senses in human and animal systems, such as vision, auditory, vestibular, and pain senses. Included in this topic is the study of illusions such as motion aftereffect, color constancy, auditory illusions, and depth perception.

Sexual Stimulation is any stimulus (including bodily contact) that leads to, enhances and maintains sexual arousal, and may lead to orgasm. Although sexual arousal may arise without physical stimulation, achieving orgasm usually requires physical sexual stimulation. The term sexual stimulation often implies stimulation of the genitals, but may also include stimulation of other areas of the body, stimulation of the senses (such as sight or hearing) and mental stimulation (i.e. from reading or fantasizing). Sufficient stimulation of the penis in males and the clitoris in females usually results in an orgasm. Stimulation can be by self (e.g., masturbation) or by a sexual partner (sexual intercourse or other sexual activity), by use of objects or tools, or by some combination of these methods. Some people practice orgasm control, whereby a person or their sexual partner controls the level of sexual stimulation to delay orgasm, and to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.

Pleasure describes the broad class of mental states that humans and other animals experience as positive, enjoyable, or worth seeking. It includes more specific mental states such as Happiness, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria.
Hedonism is the pursuit of pleasure as a matter of ethical principle.
Hedonistic Pursuit of Pleasure

Brain Stimulation Reward is a phenomenon in which direct stimulation of regions of the brain through either electrical or chemical means is rewarding and can serve as an operant reinforcer. The stimulation activates the reward system and establishes response habits similar to those established by natural rewards such as food and water.

Behavioral Addiction is a form of addiction that involves a compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related Behavior – sometimes called a natural reward, despite any negative consequences to the person's physical, mental, social or financial well-being.

Anticipation being enthusiastic, is an emotion involving pleasure, excitement, and sometimes anxiety in considering some expected or longed-for good event.

Ecstasy refers to any heightened state of consciousness or intensely pleasant experience. But also characterized by diminished awareness of other objects or the total lack of the awareness of surroundings and everything around the object.
Euphoria is an affective state and a form of pleasure in which a person experiences intense feelings of well-being, happiness, and excitement.
Peak Experiences moments of highest happiness and fulfillment that can range from simple activities to intense events; however, it is not necessarily about what the activity is, but the ecstatic, care-free feeling that is being experienced during it. It can be rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving, exhilarating, elevating experiences that generate an advanced form of perceiving reality, and are even mystic and magical in their effect upon the experimenter.

Psychophysics quantitatively investigates the relationship between physical stimuli and the sensations and perceptions they produce.

Nucleus Accumbens area of the brain has a significant role in the cognitive processing of aversion, motivation, pleasure, reward and reinforcement learning; hence, it has a significant role in addiction.

Mesolimbic Pathway (Reward Pathway) releases dopamine into the nucleus accumbens, where it affects motivation for rewarding stimuli, the perception of pleasure, and reward-related motor function learning. It is the most significant neural pathway in the brain in which changes occur in all known forms of addiction.

Dopaminergic Pathways is sometimes called dopaminergic projections, are neural pathways in the brain that transmit the neurotransmitter Dopamine from one region of the brain to another. Hormones

Striatum is a subcortical part of the forebrain that coordinates multiple aspects of cognition, including motor and action planning, decision-making, motivation, reinforcement, and reward perception. Brain Knowledge

Dopamine plays a major role in reward-motivated behavior. Most types of reward increase the level of dopamine in the brain, and many addictive drugs increase dopamine neuronal activity. Other brain dopamine pathways are involved in motor control and in controlling the release of various hormones. These pathways and cell groups form a dopamine system which is neuromodulatory.

Activation of the Ventral Tegmental Area (VTA) and Mesolimbic Networks is essential to motivation, performance, and learning. So feeling good can be used to benefit us is a positive way, instead of controlling us in a negative way.
Brain Games

Can sex be a form of Classical Conditioning?
Learning Methods

Hypersexuality or Nymphomaniac, is a clinical diagnosis used by mental healthcare researchers and providers to describe extremely frequent or suddenly increased sexual urges or sexual activity.
What is Arousal Addiction?

Weakness of the Flesh is nothing new and has been around since the beginning. Sex can easily become an Addiction in many ways so be careful.

The Science of Lust (Docudrama) (youtube)

Sexual Obsessions are obsessions with sexual activity. In the context of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating, making the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual fantasy).

Indulgence is an inability to resist the gratification of whims and desires. A disposition to yield to the wishes of someone. Foolish or senseless behavior. Addiction

Psychosexual Development is an instinctual libido (sexual energy) that develops in five stages. Each stage – the oral, the anal, the phallic, the latent, and the genital – is characterized by the erogenous zone that is the source of the libidinal drive.

Crime of Passion is when a perpetrator commits the act against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden rage rather than as a premeditated crime. Is it just an excuse or a disease of the mind? Controls

Compensation (psychology) is a strategy whereby one covers up, consciously or unconsciously, weaknesses, frustrations, desires, or feelings of inadequacy or incompetence in one life area through the gratification or (drive towards) excellence in another area. Compensation can cover up either real or imagined deficiencies and personal or physical inferiority.

What are the Similarities between Sex and Gambling?
What are the similarities between Sex Addiction and Drug Addiction?

Aphrodisiac is a substance that increases libido when consumed. Aphrodisiacs are distinct from substances that address fertility issues such as impotence or secondary sexual (dys)function such as erectile dysfunction.

Deep and beautiful. The reward prediction error hypothesis of dopamine

How many Sex Addicts are there? We know the ones who actually admit sex addiction but how many are actually unaware of their Sex Addiction?

Sexual Control
Pornography

What are the differences between Infidelity, Adultery, Promiscuity, Sexting and Sex Addiction

Cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife.
Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds.

Sexual Expression Policy (PDF)
River Spring Health Nursing Home


What is Sex?


Sexual Intercourse or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion the penis, usually when erect, into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both.
Intimate Relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical and/or emotional intimacy. Physical intimacy is characterized by friendship, platonic love, romantic love or sexual activity. While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the inclusion of a sexual relationship, the term is also used as a euphemism for a relationship that is strictly sexual.
Human Sexuality is the capacity of humans to have erotic experiences and responses.
Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it. Genital responses are not the only changes, but noticeable and necessary for consensual and comfortable intercourse. Male arousal will lead to an erection, and in female arousal the body's response is engorged sexual tissues such as nipples, vulva, clitoris, vaginal walls and vaginal lubrication. Mental stimuli and physical stimuli such as touch, and the internal fluctuation of hormones, can influence sexual arousal.
Sex Drive (Libido) known as sex drive, is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in men and women. Social factors, such as work and family, and internal psychological factors, like personality and stress, can affect libido. Sex drive can also be affected by medical conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues, and age (e.g., puberty). A person who has extremely frequent or a suddenly increased sex drive may be experiencing hypersexuality, while the opposite condition is hyposexuality.
Hypoactive sexual desire disorder is considered a sexual dysfunction and is characterized as a lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity, as judged by a clinician.
Sexology is the scientific study of human sexuality, including human sexual interests, behaviors and functions.

Interpersonal Attraction is the attraction between people which leads to friendships and to platonic or romantic relationships. Interpersonal attraction, the process, is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.
Sexual Attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context in which they appear. The attraction may be to a person's aesthetics or movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The attraction may be enhanced by a person's adornments, clothing, perfume or style. It can also be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities of the person. Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a combination of the person possessing the traits and also on the criteria of the person who is attracted.

Human Body
Body Smart
Behavior
Human Nature

Sex is part Perception, it's part Visualization, it's part Human Chemistry, it's part Human Biology, it’s a persons Mood, it’s a persons Desire, it’s a persons Energy Level, it’s the other Persons Touch, it’s the other persons past experiences, it’s your past experiences, it's a persons skill level, it’s a persons ability to trust, it’s a persons ability to relax, it’s a persons ability to explore, it’s how well a person knows themselves, it’s how well a person knows the other person, sex can be something more then you can understand, sex can be nothing at all, and sex can change your life, for better or for worse.

Sex and intimacy should be a great benefit and a great pleasure in your life. Sex and intimacy should never control your life, or endanger your life, or drastically alter your life’s direction or your life’s goals. Sex and intimacy is a great thing and should never be a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has had sex with someone they wish that they never had sex with. Learn from that experience, because if you don't, you will most likely repeat that same mistake. This is easier said then done and everyone is vulnerable. So please educate yourself. Learn about Intrapersonal intelligence,

Self-Discipline - Self-Respect - Friendships.

Everyone wants to be loved, but sex is not the most important way to feel loved.

Dating Dangers


What is Sex Education?

Sex education is not just learning about where baby's come from or how horrible venereal diseases are. Sex Education is more about knowing why something that is so beautiful and so natural could actually have so many problems and responsibilities associated with it. Should sex education be separated by gender?

Sex Education is instruction on issues relating to human sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual reproduction, age of consent, reproductive health, reproductive rights, safe sex, birth control and sexual abstinence. Sex education that covers all of these aspects is known as comprehensive sex education. Common avenues for sex education are parents or caregivers, formal school programs, and public health campaigns.

Single Sex Education
Sex Education Website
Advocates for Youth Sex Education
Sexology
What do young people think about their school-based sex and relationship education? A qualitative synthesis of young people's views and experiences.

Study Finds Girls Feel Unprepared for Puberty

The Love Competition (vimeo)
Sex-Ed
Future of Sex Ed
National Sexuality Education Standards (pdf)

Our Whole Lives Sexuality Education Curricula
Sex Ed Conference
I Wanna Know
Sex Ed Resources

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Sex Education (HBO) (youtube)
Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health

Sex will have a very strong influence on your life. So the more you understand about this influence the better you can control it and enjoy it.

Is sex an Instinct


Consent - Not Being Pressured


No means No - Yes means Maybe?

Consent occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to the proposal or desires of another.

Informed Consent is a process for getting permission based upon a clear appreciation and understanding of the facts, implications, and consequences of an action. To give informed consent, the individual concerned must have adequate reasoning faculties and be in possession of all relevant facts. Self-Manage

How do I avoid being Coerced into having sex when I'm not ready or willing?

Just because something is Popular does not mean that it is good or right.  Conformity - Social Influences

Consensual Sex

Age of Consent is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to consent to sexual acts, and is thus the minimum age of a person with whom another person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity. The distinguishing aspect of the age of consent laws is that the person below the minimum age is regarded as the victim, and their sex partner as the offender.

Rape is the lack of consent. A type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration perpetrated against a person without that person's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent.
Marital Rape is non-consensual sex (i.e., rape) in which the perpetrator is the victim's spouse. It is a form of partner rape, domestic violence and sexual abuse.
Groping is Touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using the hands.

Sex Crimes - Dating Dangers

Implied Consent not expressly granted by a person, but rather implicitly granted by a person's actions and the facts and circumstances of a particular situation (or in some cases, by a person's silence or inaction).

Unanimous Consent is a situation in which no one present objects to a proposal. Fear or Ignorance?

You should only ask for things or search for things, you should never force things or take things. Stealing is more then wrong, stealing is a sign that ignorance has destroyed your awareness and your connection to life. Ignorance has made a fool of many. The true joy of a gift, its true greatness, is when a gift comes naturally, like when it comes from someone's heart, as if it was the will of God or the will of the Universe.

Try not to go against the grain, or fight the natural flows of life's energy. Premonition is a sense that everyone should learn to pay attention to. When something feels wrong, or when something feels like it's not quite right, it may be because something is wrong or not quite right. This is when the importance of knowledge becomes clear. We must learn to master our natural born abilities in order to effectively utilize them.

"Let's Not, and Say we Did"
Let's Not, and Say we Did Indicates that the speaker does not agree with a proposed action, and does not wish to participate, but offers an alternative, to pretend that the action did take place, but only happened only in our minds. "I don't think so" meaning, let's take time to think about this. This is not just about the experience, this is about the freedom of choice and human rights. Both parties have to agree, if not, then there is no agreement. So if this is not about saving lives, then forcing is a crime, which is not about Love. Don't confuse instincts with reality.

This is not about rejection, this is about mutual respect and awareness. I would rather focus on long term gratification then the immediate gratification

Media Literacy
Social Influences
Self-Control

Control Freak describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around them. The phrase was first used in the 1970s, an era when stress was laid on the principle of 'doing one's own thing' and letting others do the same.

The effects of sexualized virtual selves (PDF)

There's a big difference between Self-Control and Repression. Self-Control is when you understand human instincts and human urges but learn to control these influences on your behavior and your actions. Repression is being forced to deny information and knowledge, which causes confusion and the inability to understand your behaviors and actions. Repression also makes you vulnerable to disinformation, with most of the disinformation being created within yourself and not just from other people and the world around you.

Sexual Attitude Reassessment is a process-oriented, structured group experience to promote participants' awareness of their attitudes and values related to sexuality, and to assist them in understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally and personally.

Sex must be Consensual, if not, then its most likely to be exploitive or possibly destructive. And this is not to confuse "not being in the mood" with not being "sexual attracted to someone" or not even 'liking someone'. A relationship solely based on sexual attraction is hardly ever sustainable, especially if you don't have a sincere and honest relationship. You have to feel comfortable with someone and enjoy their company. You should also have similar interests, enjoy the same activities, and have similar goals and similar dreams. If you lack these similarities then you're most likely to be two people living separate lives, but being together. Each person also needs to know how to communicate effectively without implications or expectations. You should be with someone you can trust, someone who knows how to touch you, someone who knows how to kiss you, someone who knows how to talk to you, before and after intimacy. And the talking after part is the most important aspect of a relationship. Because if a relationship is not sincere and honest it is most likely to fail and could possibly be dangerous or destructive. If you are not able to make it on your own, then your dependency on relationships could put you in danger, especially if you're not with the right person.

Hooking Up
Hookup Culture is one that accepts and encourages casual sexual encounters, including one-night stands and other related activity, which focus on physical pleasure without necessarily including emotional bonding or long-term commitment. It is generally associated with Western late adolescent behavior and, in particular, American college culture. The term hookup has an ambiguous definition because it can indicate kissing or any form of physical sexual activity between sexual partners.
Casual Sex are certain types of sexual activity outside of romantic relationships that imply an absence of commitment, emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are sex in casual relationships, one-night stands, extramarital sex, prostitution, or swinging.
Promiscuity is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners. The term can carry a moral judgement if the social ideal for sexual activity is monogamous relationships. A common example of behavior viewed as promiscuous by many cultures is the one-night stand, and its frequency is used by researchers as a marker for promiscuity.
One-Night Stand is a single sexual encounter without an expectation of further relations between the sexual participants. This is regardless of whether a single encounter was originally intended by either participant to be a one-night stand, or whether further relations between the participants subsequently occur. Critics of the practice describe it as "sexual activity without emotional commitment or future involvement".
Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.
Polyamory is typically the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy
Conjugal Visit is a scheduled period in which an inmate of a prison or jail is permitted to spend several hours or days in private with a visitor, usually their legal spouse. The parties may engage in sexual activity. The generally recognized basis for permitting such visits in modern times is to preserve family bonds and increase the chances of success for a prisoner's eventual return to life after release from prison. Additionally, they serve as an incentive to motivate inmates to comply with the various day-to-day rules and regulations of the prison, and to avoid any infringement which might disqualify them from having a conjugal visit.
Casual Dating is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship.
Dating - Falling out of Love
Sociosexual Orientation is the individual difference in the willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. Individuals with a more restricted sociosexual orientation are less willing to engage in casual sex; they prefer greater love, commitment and emotional closeness before having sex with romantic partners. Individuals who have a more unrestricted sociosexual orientation are more willing to have casual sex and are more comfortable engaging in sex without love, commitment or closeness.

Safe Sex

Why do some people have homosexual tendencies and thoughts while on cocaine?
Less Than Zero (film)
Sexual Behavior, Sexual Identity, and Substance Abuse Among Low-Income Bisexual and Non-Gay-Identifying African American Men Who Have Sex with Men.
Abuse of some prescription drugs can be risk for college sexual assaults, regretted sex Romantic Remorse - Hookup Regret.

Besides learning the joys of sex we also have to be aware of the Obsessive influence of sex, the addictive nature of sex, the mind consuming and thought control of sex, The Sexual Triggers, the life changing moments that sex can create, the diseases that you can get from having sex and that Pregnancies happen because of sex. Just because you haven't personally experienced difficulties does not mean they don't exist. And just because you have personally experienced difficulties does not guarantee that you actually learned something important from the experience .....this is sex education....

What is Gateway Sexual Activity

Over Confidence and Insecurity about sex will both have their share of vulnerabilities and ignorance. Both will cause you to make bad decisions. Because they are both based on Emotions and not Reality or Logic. How do you tell the Difference between having self-confidence and having a false sense of security?......is this sex education?...

Are people delusional for thinking that their obsession with sex is normal and that they are not hurting anyone? If you believe that you can control yourself and control your Compulsions does it mean that you don’t need Sexual Advice? Does Abstinence or refraining from sex make you more vulnerable to the influences of sex and more likely to experience sexual dysfunction?

Sexual Surrogate are hired by individuals experiencing sexual dysfunction to provide direct sexual activity, with the goal of improving the quality of the client's future sexual experiences. Prostitute
What is a Love and Intimacy Coach?

It's not just that sex occupies your thoughts, sex also makes you do things and makes you say things that you are not fully aware of, what are they? What are these implications that you are unaware of and what are the effects that sex can have on yourself and the effects that sex can have on others?

Stronger Working Memory Reduces Sexual Risk Taking in Adolescents, Even After Controlling for Parental Influences

Sex can consume a lot of time in your life. So if you are not aware of how much time is actually being consumed by this obsession with sex, then it will turn into more then just an Obsession and most likely distort reality and cause you to have Irrational Behavior and may cause you to take irrational actions.

Sexual Dysfunction is difficulty experienced by an individual or a couple during any stage of a normal sexual activity, including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal or orgasm.

You have to learn as soon as you can that if you don't know how to control obsessions with sex it will end up controlling you….this is sex education..

Why does sex affect the normal processes of the mind? Is this why teenagers make bad decisions?
How many Psychological Effects does sex have on the human mind?  

The Biology of Sexuality

Having seconds thoughts about something or discovering something about yourself is all part of the Journey.

Regret - Guilt - Shame - Remorse
Morality
Intrapersonal intelligence
Mental Health

Am I with this person just for sex? Is this person with me just for sex? Can sex be the cause of a Dysfunctional Relationship?
Can sex be used as a method of control? Can you still be friends without sex? What are the dangers of kiss and tell and bragging about sexual encounters? 

Sexism is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.



Do drugs make sex better or do they just make you think that the sex is better? If sex is already good to begin with why does changing the perception of good sex by using drugs thought to be fun?
Natural Sexual Enhancers (youtube)


The Facts of Life - The Birds and the Bees


The basic physiological functions involved in sex and reproduction. Often used with the details of sexual behavior and reproduction. Something unavoidable that must be faced or dealt with.

Puberty is the process of physical changes through which a child's body matures into an adult body capable of sexual reproduction.
Coming of Age is a young person's transition from being a child to being an adult. The certain age at which this transition takes place changes in society, as does the nature of the change.
Sexual Maturity is the age or stage when an organism can reproduce.
Adolescence is a transitional stage of physical and psychological development that generally occurs during the period from puberty to legal adulthood (age of majority).
Child Sexuality Development of sexuality is an integral part of the development and maturation of children. A range of sensational, emotional and consequent sexual activities that may occur before or during early puberty, but before full sexual maturity is established. The development of child sexuality is influenced by social and cultural aspects; the perception of developing child sexuality is even more heavily influenced by cultural aspects. The concept of child sexuality also played an important role in the classical psychoanalysis.
Mental Maturity

The Birds and the Bees
Sexual Slang

What if your under age child starts thinking about sex?   

First explain that you're not here to censor them, or predetermine their intelligence, you're mostly saying "please don't rush this." Rushing it will not make you a better person, or make your life more meaningful, or make you look cool, or will it make you understand sex more just because you experience it. You might think that sex will make you popular, but popularity has it's own dangers. Sex is more then a biological function, it's emotional and complicated. And these complications and particular emotions are better experience when you are older and more mature and more educated and knowledgeable about sex and about relationships and all the vulnerabilities that are associated with them. Sex is a risk, it's a journey and it's beautiful, but it's not for kids. So hey, at least you got one good thing to look forward to when you get older, kidding of course, there are millions of things to look forward to. Don't waste your time thinking about sex like previous generations, focus on the important knowledge, you'll thank me later.  In other words....
Explain to them that Sex is for Fully developed Adults, and this is why. Sex is not for people under the age of 16. Mostly because a 16 year old person is not fully developed yet, mentally or physically. And mental maturity is needed to cope with the dangers of sex. Mental maturity is also needed to help minimize the risks that are associated with sex. Not to say that you can't have sex, or that you can't get pregnant or catch a disease, it's just saying that you need to be more prepared, which takes time and takes education. And being prepared is a responsibility that you will need to have your entire life. Young adults must also understand their vulnerabilities and their weaknesses when it comes to pressure from friends, biological urges, media influences, and Aggression from others that forces you to do things that you do not want to do, which is not your fault. You must learn what actions and behavior will protect you from these unwarranted influences. Sex is for reproduction, sex is for bonding with someone you love, and sex is also for pleasure. And this pleasure, reproduction and bonding is more suited for the adult mind, an adult mind that fully understands the vulnerabilities of human life, and the adult mind that fully understands the temptations in life that can easily exploit an uneducated mind. And sadly these uneducated minds are everywhere, and not just among the children, these uneducated minds are also among most adults. So please wait till you have learned everything that you need to know. If not, you will make mistakes, with some of those mistakes drastically effecting your life in the most awful way you could ever imagine. I want you to enjoy sex, I just don't want sex to ruin your life, like it has for a lot of people, just look around you. Please be careful, Life doesn't have an Undo Button. It's better when you are young to focus more on friendships and save the relationships for after 16 or older. Relationships are more complicated, more responsible, more emotional, more difficult and relationships can be devastating and painful when the relationship ends. So there's a lot to learn. Even though relationships are a lot of work, it's great to feel loved, and it's great to share life experiences with someone you love. You will soon understand how extremely important friendships are. So learn about Relationships, and learn what it takes to have good Friendships. Enjoy the roller-coaster.

Sexualized Behavior in young people is definitely a concern, but you first need to define sexual behavior verses inappropriate behavior. It may not be sexual, but a more a confused reality.

Beware of the TV, Magazines, and the News, they are not your friends, they are more about Manipulation then they are about Education and keeping you informed

Human Sex Drive is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors..

In order to acquire Mental Maturity you should study these subjects.
Self Smart
People Smart
Intelligence
Know Thyself
Relationships
Physical Health
Mental Health
Social Intelligence
Information Literacy
Media Literacy

Age of Majority is the threshold of adulthood as it is conceptualized (and recognized or declared) in law. Is the chronological moment when minors cease to legally be considered children and assume control over their persons, actions, and decisions.

Minor is a person under a certain age, generally 18 years old.

Adult is a human being that has reached physical sexual maturity. A legal adult is a person who has attained the age of 18 years old and is therefore regarded as independent, self-sufficient, and responsible, but not always the case. Criminals

If you're a child and an adult asks you what do you think or know about sex? Just answer that you are too young and that you don't waste time thinking about things that you know you shouldn't be doing, or do things that are not beneficial to you at this time in your life, instead you spend your time thinking about the things that you can do, things that are important, valuable and known to be enjoyable. There's a time and place for everything, and this is not the time, or the place. Capisci?

When it comes to desire, if you give in, you may have to give something up. So the more educated and knowledgeable you are, the better your chances will be in making good decisions, and, the better your chances will be that you will never feel tormented, or feel guilty, or feel like you have no control over your life, because you do. It's only a mistake if you keep making the same mistake over and over again. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.

The moment that you stop feeling insecure about not doing interesting things that would impress your friends, is one of the most liberating moments in your life. You have to live your life, just don't do things to impress others, or do things to feel important or do things just to be popular. Experiences are important to have, just don't let your pursuit of experiences control you, Some experiences you still have to plan and prepare for, you still have to do research, and you still have to learn more and do a Risk Assessment. You should not feel bad about saying no, just apologize for not being ready. Not feeling comfortable is not an answer, just explain why you are not ready. Because when we can explain ourselves, we learn and we also teach. You're not being selfish when you're saying no, you're just saying no at this moment. What does your gut say? What does your common sense say? Even though you are responsible for your actions, mistakes happen. So please be careful. No regrets and no blame. You'll be ok. Remember be true to yourself. Be fearless, but be responsible. Be Aware, but be compassionate and be sensible. You care about your friends needs, just don't feel guilty or feel insecure about not being ready to fulfill those needs. Be honest. If my absence makes this experience more dangerous, then we should all wait. Don't judge your friends, and tell your friends not to judge you, learn from each other.

No Pressure

Just saying that something is bad, or wrong, or a sin, does not explain enough. And just knowing who says it is not important, whether you say your father says it, or your mother says it, or God says it, or the leader says it, or an expert says it, what's important is knowing why it was said. There is no replacement for knowledge. Either you know something or you don't know something. If you can't explain something in a way that it's understood, then you should learn more about it, you should know most of the benefits, and know most of the dangers, and be able to accurately see in a side by side comparison, what the best choice is, and know why it is the best choice, and be able to explain it. Trying to pretend that you know something, is dangerous, and it's also a very ineffective way of teaching and learning. This is not to say that you might get lucky from time to time giving advice, and that advice would save someone from making a bad mistake, but everyone knows, it's better to know then it is to depend on luck, because you are not always that lucky. Saying that Ignorance is bliss is a lie, Intelligence is bliss, and that can be proven, just like ignorance is proof that you're an idiot.
Touching


Safe Sex


There's more then just Cooties out there.

STD Testing at Home
The Most Sexually Diseased Cities in the USA

More cases of sexually transmitted diseases were reported last year than ever before. More than 1.5 million people were reported with chlamydia, the most common sexually transmitted disease (STD). Gonorrhea infects an estimated 820,000 American's each year, and doctors are worried about the increasing number of gonorrhea cases with antibiotic-resistant bacteria. 19 percent increase in syphilis cases, a 13 percent rise in gonorrhea and a 6 percent increase in chlamydia. Gay and bisexual men account for many of the new cases, and the biggest numbers are among young adults, especially those in their late teens and early 20s. "Half of all STDs occur in youth under age 20". Hooking Up

Can Safe Sex be fun?
Why is Safe Sex believed to be unnatural? Religion
Safe Sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.
How do I learn Safe Sex? 
Why is safe sex so difficult to talk about?
Non-Penetrative Sex is sexual activity that usually does not include sexual penetration. It generally excludes the penetrative aspects of vaginal, anal, or oral sexual activity, but includes various forms of sexual and non-sexual activity, such as frottage, mutual masturbation, kissing, or cuddling. Some forms of non-penetrative sex, particularly when termed outercourse, include penetrative aspects, such as penetration that may result from forms of fingering or oral sex.

Girls who use other birth control methods without using condoms makes them more vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. (STI's)

Avoiding Sexually Transmitted Disease or STD's, Aids, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and the Human Papilloma Virus to name a few. 

Growing antibiotic resistance forces updates to recommended treatment for sexually transmitted infections

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Billions of dollars in healthcare costs for treating STD's.

HIV/AIDS killed .47m people in 2010 and viral hepatitis killed 1.44m, more people in 117 of the 187 countries tracked by the Institute of Health Metrics and Evaluation.. 

Safe Sex is sexual activity engaged in by people who have taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.
Peer Pressure
Safer Sex Guide 

Globally, an estimated two-thirds of the population under 50 are infected with Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1
More than 3.7 billion people under the age of 50, or 67% of the population, are infected with herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1)

Condom Nick Names
The Rubber, the C**k Sock, the Goalie, the Love Glove, the Salami Sling, the Raincoat, the Safety Tool, the Willie Hat.
Condom Depot - Condoms (amazon)
Galactic Cap Condom on just the Tip (youtube) 
Sexually active women who used condoms had larger colonies of beneficial microbes in their vaginas, which preserve the natural flora of the vagina, and also helps to avoid Bacterial Vaginosis.
Women 
How to put on a Condom (youtube)
Female Condom Demonstration (youtube)
Condom Use Instructions
LELO HEX - The World's First Re-Engineered Condom (youtube)
L. Condoms are made from the highest grade materials on earth without the harmful additives. For every condom you purchase, one is distributed in a developing country in need. Get love, give love.
Condoms made from this Native Australian Grass would be as thin as a human hair, but as strong as latex

Teen Pregnancies, Abortions Plummet With Free Contraception
Choice Project
Long-Acting Reversible Contraception (LARC)

The Safest Sex is No Sex

What is Abstinence-only Sex Education, Abstinence, Sexual Abstinence, Virginity, Sexual Inhibition and Celibacy?
The Vapors - Turning Japanese (youtube)

Why are Condoms better then Birth Control Pills?
What are the Side Effects?

Birth Control
What other Birth Control methods are Safe?
Birth Control Methods used by Countries
Teen Pregnancy Prevention
Diaphragm
Contraceptive Implant
Nexplanon
Contraceptive Patch
NuvaRing
Progestin
Tubal Ligation
Vasectomy
Spermatogenesis Inhibitor ?
Intrauterine Device (IUD) What is an IUD
Levonorgestrel is a manufactured hormone used in a number of birth control methods.
What is Emergency Contraception?  

Pulling out early does not always work because Semen still comes out before ejaculation.
Coitus Interruptus

Sperm calcineurin inhibition prevents mouse fertility with implications for male contraceptive

And having sex on your period or Menstrual Cycle is not a guarantee that you won't get pregnant either.
Ovulation is the release of egg from the ovaries. In humans, this event occurs when the de Graaf's follicles rupture and release the secondary oocyte ovarian cells. After ovulation, during the luteal phase, the egg will be available to be fertilized by sperm. In addition, the uterine lining (endometrium) is thickened to be able to receive a fertilized egg. If no conception occurs, the uterine lining as well as blood will be shed during menstruation.
When should you or even should you visit Planned Parenthood?
Adolescent Maternity Program 
Fertility Awareness refers to a set of practices used to determine the fertile and infertile phases of a woman's menstrual cycle. Fertility awareness methods may be used to avoid pregnancy, to achieve pregnancy, or as a way to monitor gynecological health.

Is safe sex really that intrusive or am I just giving into pear pressure or the fact that I’m selfish and can only perform sex under certain narrow minded conditions? Is it just me or am I just being stubborn and spoiled? I can still enjoy driving a car wearing a seatbelt, I can still enjoy the beach wearing suntan lotion, so I should be able to enjoy sex even if I have to wear a condom.
If you care about yourself and you care about the person you are with, then you wear a condom.
Can masturbating with a condom make you more at ease with using a condom?

If a women helps you to put on condom for you, will you be more at ease with using a condom?
Would this make you want to use a condom more?  

Unplanned pregnancies, single parents and foster children. .......this is sex education.....

What is Birth Control Sabotage, besides Catholicism?

If you can't take responsibility for an outcome you know is possible, then you either don't do it, or you do everything possible to minimize the risk. No one is saying that you can't do it, we are just saying that "Don't be Stupid about it."  Try to avoid making your life more complicated then it needs to be. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.

Birth - Giving Birth
Pre-Mature Births

Toxins and Dangers to Babies


Prolife - Prochoice

Sex Education Programs and Teaching Safe Sex Lowers Abortion Rates. When teens have access to the free birth control of their choice, abortion rates plummet. The analysis also found that abortion rates are down worldwide, from 40 per 1,000 women in 1994 to 35 per 1,000 women by 2014. However, the decrease is concentrated mostly in the developed world, where the rate declined from 46 abortions per 1,000 women to 27 per 1,000.

Threats, Punishment, Laws, and Fear Mongering doesn't work, never has. In 2016, 19 states passed more than 60 restrictions on abortion. And 2017 is starting to offer more of the same: Kentucky passed a bill banning abortion after 20 weeks and Arkansas just passed a law that allows a man to stop his wife from having an abortion if he is the father of the fetus. Restrictive laws don’t actually seem to reduce abortion rates. Instead, they are linked to unsafe abortions, which put women at risk of serious health problems and even death. States that emphasize abstinence-only programs have the highest rates of teen pregnancy and teen birth.

Instead of the Mourning after Pill or Plan B, How about "The Day Before Pill"? A pill (in the form of knowledge and information) that protects you from not being aware of choices, options and responsibilities. This way you make far fewer mistakes and not have to feel like an ignorant moron. So you wake up the next day, you will be extremely happy because you made no mistake the day before. We'll call the pill "Education Plan A" and we will make it free to everyone. No side effects, no guilt and no problems. Just more happiness and more potential.

Just make it against the law for a Man to have sex without a Condom. The Man must have a written "Contract of Consent and Responsibility" from a women if he wants to have sex without a condom. If not, then they both risk getting a fine. The fines will be used to pay for sex education. If you cannot enjoy sex safely, then you should not have sex at all. And if you believe that a condom reduces the pleasure of a sexual experience, then you obviously don't know enough about sex, so don't have sex until you learn enough about sex and know how to enjoy sex fully and safely. And you should also know about the things that are risky and reckless. Knowing what to do is just as important as knowing what not to do. Awareness comes form knowledge. And education is your responsibility, no one else's.

Safe Sex

How Accurate are home Paternity Tests?

One reason why education needs drastic improvements is Abortion. My heart goes out to all women because this is no doubt one of the hardest decisions a women has to make. I wish that men would be more responsible and respectable towards women and just wear a condom, and I wish that women would be more responsible and respectable towards themselves and practice birth control, or at least self-control, but of course it's not that simple, and blaming someone doesn't help. We need more education and less regulation. Because as history clearly shows, regulation and intimidation does not work, it does not solve our problems, it only makes our problems worse. So we need more education and less legislation because education has been clearly documented as being the greatest determining factor in improving life for everyone. I'm Prolife, as most Prochoice people are, but I'm not going to tell a women what she should do with her life, or would I back any law that would tell a women what she should do. People who hide behind the word pro-life in order to force their beliefs on women, or to intimidate women, are acting more like pro-idiots then they are pro-lifers. The hearts of pro-lifers may be in the right place but they are clearly not using their brains. If you are truly prolife then you should be helping to Feed Starving Children, helping children with diseases, helping homeless children, helping abused children, helping children who have no parents, and you should also be helping to educate children so they learn to respect themselves and learn to respect others, and learn about the dangers of life so they can avoid having to make life or death decisions. Intimidating pregnant women is not going to help them. Women need our love and support, as all children do. Women should see Pregnancy as a blessing as most women do. But if a women feels that her pregnancy is not a blessing, then she needs our help and our support, she does not need our guilt or our regrets. I see a future where all women will feel blessed to be pregnant, and they will give birth because they're educated, healthy and full of love. And if a women decides not to give birth, it will not be because she was threatened or coerced, it will be because it was thought to be the right decision for her and her baby at that time.

Roe v. Wade
Roe v. Wade Documentary (youtube)
Do Prolife Groups Really Protect the Unborn?
Female Foeticide (wiki)
Girl Killers - India (youtube)

Orphans - Adoption - Mentoring

Ever since Texas passed HB2 in 2013 At least 100,000 Texas women—and as many as 240,000—between the ages of 18 and 49 have attempted to self-induce abortions, according to a report released today by the Texas Policy Evaluation Project (TxPEP).

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Abortion Laws (HBO) (youtube)
Targeted Regulation of Abortion Providers (TRAP Laws)

Study Finds Women Who Want Abortions Are Often Given Misleading Information (PDF)

Nearly half of all abortions worldwide are unsafe, and nearly all unsafe abortions (98%) occur in developing countries. In developing world, 56% of all abortions are unsafe, compared with just 6% in developed regions. In 2008, six million abortions were performed in developed countries and 38 million in developing countries, a disparity that largely reflects population distribution.  Poverty

Feticide (wiki)
Infanticide (wiki)
Neonaticide (wiki)
Miscarriage (wiki) There are about 4.4 million confirmed pregnancies in the U.S. every year. 900,000 to 1 million of those end in pregnancy losses EVERY year. Approximately 75% of all miscarriages occur in the first trimester. An estimated 80% of all miscarriages are single miscarriages. The vast majority of women suffering one miscarriage can expect to have a normal pregnancy next time. An estimated 19% of the adult population has experienced the death of a child (this includes miscarriages through adult-aged children).
Stillbirth (wiki) PDF
Sudden Infant Death (wiki) 
Premature Births
Mizuko Kuyo (wiki)
 
300.000 Mothers die from complications from pregnancy and childbirth every year

WHO estimated 40-50 million abortions every year in the world. This corresponds to approximately 125,000 abortions per day. 1.72 billion abortions worldwide in the last 40 years.

Population Still Rising
Causes of Death


Exploration


When do I get to fully explore my Sexuality?
You most likely will not get it right the first time...so when will you get it right?
How long does it take to know someone?
Relationships
Smokey & The Miracles: You Better Shop Around (youtube)
When will I know who is the right person to explore my sexuality with?

Kissing
Kiss is the touch or pressing of one's lips against another person or an object.
How to Kiss Creatively (youtube)
kissing
Master the Art of Kissing
Kissing Tradition involve kissing which can indicate joy or be used as part of a greeting. Kissing involves the touching of one's lips to the lips or other body part, such as the cheek, head, hand, of another person.
Air Kiss is a ritual or social gesture whose meaning is basically the same as that of many forms of kissing. The air kiss is a pretence of kissing: the lips are pursed as if kissing, but without actually touching the other person's body. Sometimes, the air kiss includes touching cheek-to-cheek. Also, the gesture may be accompanied by the mwah sound.
Spin the Bottle is a party game in which several players sit/stand/kneel in a circle. A bottle is placed on the floor in the center of the circle. A player spins the bottle, and must kiss the person to whom the bottle points when it stops spinning.
Making Out refers to kissing, petting, and necking, but may also refer to non-penetrative sex acts such as heavy petting. Snogging is a term with roughly the same meaning in British English and some related varieties of English, except in Hiberno-English (spoken in Ireland), where it is more commonly known as shifting.
How to make out (youtube)
Hickey is a bruise or bruise-like mark caused by the kissing or sucking of the skin, usually on the neck or arm. While biting might be part of giving a hickey, sucking is sufficient to burst small superficial blood vessels under the skin. Be extremely careful because a young person died after receiving a hickey from his 24-year-old girlfriend. The suction was strong enough to cause a blood clot in the neck. The clot traveled to his brain and caused a fatal stroke. The stroke occurred hours after the hickey was given, when he began having convulsions while having dinner with his family.

Touching
Caressing is touching or stroking gently or lovingly. Affectionate play.
Touch is a complex system of nerve cells that responds to changes to the surface or internal state of the body. Senses
Physical Intimacy is sensual proximity or touching. It is an act or reaction, such as an expression of feelings (including close friendship, love, or sexual attraction), between people. Examples of physical intimacy include being inside someone's personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing, caressing, and sexual activity.
Foreplay is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate sexual interest to initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the loose equivalent is sometimes termed 'precoital activity'.
Why is is foreplay important?
Sexual Arousal is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue during it.
Why are Hugs important?
Why is a Hug more beneficial to a person then an Orgasm?
Cuddle Party
What is Cuddling?(youtube)
Social Touching (PDF)
Groping is touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using the hands.
What is a Skin Orgasm?
Why can’t you tickle yourself?
Tickling is the act of touching a part of a body in a way that causes involuntary twitching movements or laughter. The word About this sound "tickle" evolved from the Middle English tikelen, perhaps frequentative of ticken, to touch lightly.
Touching
Body Smart

Sleep Sex is a condition in which a person will engage in sexual activities while asleep.
What is being in the Mood? What are some of the things that help you get in the mood? Can you control your Mood?
Libido

What does it mean to be treated like an object?
Dehumanization
Social Dangers
Dating Dangers

Why is it important to find a good lover, and to be a good lover?

Knowing how to effectively communicate to yourself is one thing, knowing how to communicate with others is another thing.
How do you avoid Sexual Frustration?
Sexual Performance Anxiety Causes and Treatments
Anxieties
Sometimes men, in order to maintain an erection and to keep from having an orgasm to quickly, men must learn to stay focused continually for many minutes, and then be able to change focus back and fourth when needed. 
How do you handle Rejection

Information Literacy
Problem Solving
Intelligence
Social Intelligence
Awareness
Confidence

How do I talk to my partner about sex when I have little or no experience?
Communication

Will having great sex make it more difficult to repeat a great sexual experience?
Should I just settle for and except mediocre sex?
How does Body Image effect my sexuality?  Feeling comfortable in your own skin.
What is Manscaping?
Pubic Hair Grooming Prevalence and Motivation Among Women in the United States
What's that hard disk behind my nipple? Gynecomastia
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before they figure out what they like?
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before they become experienced?
When is the right time to talk about sexual preferences with your partner?  Communication
If I feel uncomfortable doing a particular sex act do I still have to do it because my partner likes it?
Can I find ways to enjoy something that I normally don’t like? 
How do I explain to my lover what I like and what I don't like?
Message Techniques
Do I need a Sex Contract or Consensual Sex Agreement, or is this unnecessary and dangerous?
Relationship Contract 
When is having a good sense of humor about sex important?

Falling out of Love, or Falling out of  Lust?
Infidelity refered to as cheating, adultery (when married), being unfaithful, or having an affair) is a violation of a couple's assumed or stated contract regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity. Other scholars define infidelity as a violation according to the subjective feeling that one's partner has violated a set of rules or relationship norms; this violation results in feelings of sexual jealousy and rivalry. Hooking Up
Adultery is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds. Though what sexual activities constitute adultery varies, as well as the social, religious and legal consequences, the concept exists in many cultures and is similar in Islam, Christianity and Judaism. A single act of sexual intercourse is generally sufficient to constitute adultery, and a more long-term sexual relationship is sometimes referred to as an affair.
Monogamy
Affair is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or passionate attachment between two people without the attached person's significant other knowing.
Why is it called Cheating?
Limerence is a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction to another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object of love and have one's feelings reciprocated.
What is Romance is the expressive and pleasurable feeling from an emotional attraction towards another person often associated with sexual attraction. It is eros rather than agape, philia, or storge.
What is Love?

Some of My Personal Experiences with Relationships (feeling boxed in)

Philanderers is a man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer.
Promiscuity

Player is a male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex. "play him for a fool", or "play him like a violin".
What is a Open Relationship?
Polyamory

Wanderlust is a strong desire for or impulse to wander or travel and explore the world.

Why can't you have an affair with the person your with? Acting and dressing up as other people could be fun.
Breaking up sucks, and on top of that, you're always wondering what went wrong. It would be great if there was a last meeting between the two people ending a relationship, that would be used to discus why the friendship or relationship can not continue. Then at least you could have a chance to explain certain behaviors or changes. So at the least a person could learn from the experience, even if the friendship or relationship ends. Effective communication skills again become extremely important. Never under estimate the importance of effective communication skills. It's extremely important for everyone to learn effective communication skills, or have someone teach you effective communication skills. Communication is your vehicle for transferring knowledge and information, not just to others, but to yourself. To be a great learner, you have to be a good communicator. Because if you don't have the necessary vocabulary to tag information with proper labels, then remembering this information is extremely difficult. This is why we name things.

When I say your name, I'm saying that I remember you. Even though a name or label could never fully explain everything about the contents, names and labels do make our lives a lot easier.

Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity a talk for anyone who has ever loved (video)

Why does a Broken Heart cause so much pain?
Broken Heart also known as a heartbreak or heartache) is a term metaphor for the intense emotional—and sometimes physical—stress or pain one feels at experiencing great longing. The concept is cross-cultural, often cited with reference to a desired or lost lover, and dates back at least 3,000 years. Emotional pain that is severe can cause 'broken heart syndrome', including physical damage to the Heart.
Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy is a type of non-ischemic cardiomyopathy in which there is a sudden temporary weakening of the muscular portion of the Heart. This weakening may be triggered by emotional stress, such as the death of a loved one, a break-up, or constant anxiety. This leads to one of the common names, Broken Heart Syndrome. Stress cardiomyopathy is now a well-recognized cause of acute heart failure, lethal ventricular arrhythmias, and ventricular rupture. The name "Takotsubo syndrome" comes from the Japanese word for a kind of octopus trap (ja), because the left ventricle takes on a shape resembling a fishing pot.
Emotions
Feminism


Sex Positions


What Sex Positions do I need to know?
It's not just how you touch your lover, or where you touch your lover, it's more about how your lover reacts to your touch, which can vary depending on the time, the place and the mood.
Communication  
Sex Positions for Female Orgasm (youtube)
Doggy Style, Cowgirl, Legs Over Shoulders
Sex Positions for Female Orgasm
Are certain Sex Acts that enhance your sexual experience all in your head or is this your real G-Spot
Why are there so many sexual positions?
Sex Info 101
Should I learn Sensual Massage Techniques?
Message - Masseuse
What is Kama Sutra?
What is Tantric Sex
Sex Magic

Sexual Intercourse Positions for Man and Women

Wheelchair Sex Positions
Wheelchair Sex - Wheel Chairs
Intimate Rider helps overcome physical challenges & disabilities, achieve a broader range of motion with minimal effort.
More than 56 million Americans who have some kind of disability.
Disability Sex and Relationships

Mechanics of Human Sexuality
The mechanics of human sexuality or mechanics of sex, or more formally the Biomechanics of human sexuality, is the study of the mechanics related to human sexual activity. Examples of topics include the biomechanical study of the strength of vaginal tissues and the biomechanics of male erectile function. The mechanics of sex under limit circumstances, such as sexual activity at zero-gravity in outer space, are also being studied.
Exercise Knowledge
Pioneering researchers studied the male and female genitals during coitus (penile-vaginal penetration) with ultrasound technology in 1992 and magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) in 1999, mapping the anatomy of the activity and taking images illustrating the fit of male and female genitals. In the research using MRI, researchers imaged couples performing coitus inside an MRI machine. The magnetic resonance images also showed that the penis has the shape of a boomerang, that one third of its length consists of the root of the penis, and that the vaginal walls wrap snugly around it. Moreover, MRI during coitus indicate that the internal part of the clitoris is stimulated by penile-vaginal movements. These studies highlight the role of the clitoris and indicate that what is termed the G-spot may only exist because the highly innervated clitoris is pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal penetration.

Human Sexual Activity is the manner in which humans experience and express their sexuality. People engage in a variety of sexual acts, ranging from activities done alone (e.g., masturbation) to acts with another person (e.g., sexual intercourse, non-penetrative sex, oral sex, etc.) in varying patterns of frequency, for a wide variety of reasons. Sexual activity normally results in sexual arousal and physiological changes in the aroused person, some of which are pronounced while others are more subtle. Sexual activity may also include conduct and activities which are intended to arouse the sexual interest of another or enhance the sex life of another, such as strategies to find or attract partners (courtship and display behavior), or personal interactions between individuals (for instance, foreplay or BDSM). Sexual activity may follow sexual arousal. Human sexual activity has sociological, cognitive, emotional, behavioral and biological aspects; these include personal bonding, sharing emotions and the physiology of the reproductive system, sex drive, sexual intercourse and sexual behavior in all its forms. In some cultures, sexual activity is considered acceptable only within marriage, while premarital and extramarital sex are taboo. Some sexual activities are illegal either universally or in some countries or subnational jurisdictions, while some are considered contrary to the norms of certain societies or cultures. Two examples that are criminal offenses in most jurisdictions are sexual assault and sexual activity with a person below the local age of consent.  PDF


Orgasm

Do you have to have an Orgasm in order to enjoy sex? 
Temporary Gratification
What is Orgasm Control?
What is Expanded Orgasm or full body orgasm, or Energygasm?
Where does the Orgasm come from? Sex is not supposed to be a race to the finish line. While 75 percent of men always reach orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal intercourse, instead needing Clitoral Stimulation. Sex shouldn't be just about the orgasm but more about the exploration of the human body and the exploration of our senses, this way you learn something about yourself and the other person, thus sex becomes more enjoyable and more meaningful over time.
In what ways can a man make a women orgasm? (youtube)
Where is the G-Spot (youtube)
Internal Clitoris
G-Spot 
How to Make Me Come, tumblr
Anyone could have a particular area of their body that can be sensitive to sexual stimulation.

Touching
Skin Orgasms, Frisson, Goose Bumps. 
Why does a persons Touch sometimes Tickle?
How To Stop Yourself Being Ticklish - with Dr Emily Grossman (youtube)
Erogenous Zone
Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone
Prostate Massage
A blended orgasm happens when both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm occur simultaneously.
Vaginal Orgasm is a G-Spot Orgasm.
Clitoral Orgasm is a direct stimulation of the Clitoris.
Why do females make more sounds then men during sex?
Female Copulatory Vocalization
Touching

Nocturnal Emission is a wet dream or sleep orgasm.
Can sleeping on your stomach provoke sex dreams?

Coregasm: is an orgasm triggered by exercise.  
Can Sex be a form of Exercise?
Sexercises (wiki)


Great Sex

The Secret to Great Sex is Communication and feeling comfortable in your own skin. You need to Communicate with yourself and communicate with your partner openly and honestly. And then you have to make sure that the information that you're communicating is being interpreted correctly so that the desired action is performed to your liking. To figure out what kind of mood someone is in, is not that easy. That is why communication is so valuable. You don't have to be able to read each others minds if you're both good at expressing yourselves using words, or using body language. And once you remove all self-conscious fears and doubts, that is when sex becomes truly amazing, like a spiritual awakening. Make your lover feel sexy and beautiful, make them feel loved, make them feel comfortable and worry free.

"To be Good in Bed you have to be Good in the Head"

5 Things You Should avoid Before Sex:
Don't eat a heavy meal. Don't drink too much. Don't worry about how you look.
Don't forget the lube. Don't forget to pee (before and after).

What do you think would be the Perfect Date?
How many hours would it be?
How many activities would you do?  Questions
What do you think would be the best sexual experience?
How would the intimacy begin?
How would it proceed?
And how would it finish?
How confident are you in accomplishing all these activities?
Could you be spontaneous if plans change?
Do you have a backup plan?
Do you need practice?

Sexual Roleplay is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual
fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing.
Uniform Fetishism is a sexual fetishism where an individual is obsessed and fixated by another or oneself wearing a uniform.
Live Action Role-Playing Game - LARP
Sharing your Sexual Fantasies with your Partner

The Perfect Sexual Experience:
Write the sex script and create the scene of how you want your sexual experience to be like. Share the script with your lover. The more details there are the more accuracy you will have in the performance. Two actors playing their parts, both knowing what the other is going to do. The main focus is making the other person feel loved, as well as making the other person feel beautiful attractive and sexy. You also want to make the other person feel comfortable, relax and worry free. Talk about your fears and any insecurities, hang-ups, or pet peeve's that you may have, so they don't distract you, or get in the way. And don't expect perfection or miracles to happen the first time. The sex script will need practice, rehearsing and editing. So eventually the experience will happen smoothly and natural, if not, it may become awkward at times and cause you to lose the passion or ruin the mood. But remember this is not a test, so put aside all judgments. This is a learning journey of discovery. Open your mind and open your heart. You also want to make sure that each person is well groomed, clean and smelling nice before you start. Don't make love to a body, make love to the person. Being good in bed is not just about being skilled with the mere mechanics of sex, it's about making a connection, it's seeing each other, touching each other, feeling each other, tasting each other, smelling each other, and listening to each other. It's sharing an intimate moment in life. Coming together is not just about cuming together. Coming together is making a connection. And it's not all about like and dislike, it's more about what you know and what you don't know. You come to learn, you don't cum to learn. There is so much that we can learn from each other, it would be a shame not to talk and cuddle. 

Sex Script Example:
They have dinner, they take a romantic walk, they return home, they sit close together, they look into each others eyes, they kiss softly, they whisper softly into each others ears, they gently touch each other, they slowly undress each other, softly caressing the skin as each item of clothes is removed. Both give each other oral sex on their knees (optional). The women then gets into her first sexual position and gently guides the penis into her vagina. The man goes deep as specified by the women, she also specifies the rhythm and the speed and any variation that would give her the most pleasure. After a few minutes they change position to one that is more comfortable to the man, after a few minutes they change into another position that they both feel comfortable in. Caressing the skin in areas the person likes to be touched and for how long. Speaking words that the person likes to hear and not speaking words they don't like to hear. During intercourse the kissing may get more passionate, but the kissing is done exactly they way each other likes it. " Orgasms "  Then they lie next to each other, softly caressing, quite, enjoying the rush of oxytocin, feel the breathing as your Heart Rate begins to return to normal, you can then after a few minutes fall asleep, talk, or take a shower, in any order you choose. So this is only one example, and of course people have different ideas, so there can be many variations. You may number them for quick reference, like variation number 12 or 44.

After Sex Effect:
The experience after sex is just as important as the actual experience of sex itself. There is nothing worse then feeling guilty after an orgasm. You have to make sure that your lover has no bad feelings after sex. After sex you should feel extremely happy and relaxed. Sometimes people may feel a burst of energy and feel energetic, and some people become tired and just fall asleep. So it is a good idea to talk about the moments after sex. After an orgasm, a man’s brain releases a cocktail of different chemicals, and each man reacts a little differently. Some women like to cuddle after sex. So men need to be aware of a women's needs after sex, and not just during sex. What you say and how you act is very important, before, during and after.

"Fantasy's are hard to describe and even harder to reenact. So don't ever expect too much from a fantasy, for every fantasy is just an idea, and as we all know, not every idea is a good idea, so be careful what you wish for."

Timing is everything. When Breathing, taking drugs, eating food, saying certain words, and doing certain actions, all have to consider the timing and the place. Just like a movie director does with its actors. (Off Cue) Off timing can ruin a good experience, so we need to rehearse and to practice.

Intimately Connected: The Importance of Partner Responsiveness for Experiencing Sexual Desire.

Having Confidence can be dangerous, especially when you don't have Common Sense. You want to feel comfortable in your own skin, but not so comfortable that you believe that you're better then others, and eventually stop paying attention to other peoples needs.

What is Flattery? Is the attention and generosity sincere and honest or is it just a way to manipulate you in order to gain favors?

What are the differences between Friendship, Dating, Courtship, Cohabitation, Concubinage and Marriage?   Consummation

Dating Tips 
What is a Wingman?

Just because it Feels Good does not mean you have to do it. There’s a lot of things that feel good that a person can do.
Choosing the right thing to Enjoy, that has the least amount of negative side effects, is not that easy, but it can be done.
There’s a difference between choosing and having a Choice. Sex is awesome, just don't let sex control your life. Of course that is just one of many advices that are easier said then done.

Why most Sexual Fantasies should never be explored in real life?
Why am I even having these types of fantasies to begin with?
Why are some sexual fantasies considered healthy and why are some sexual fantasies considered not so healthy? 
What makes a particular sex act Perverted
When does Sex become a Crime?
What makes something Kinky
What is Taboo
What is Lascivious?
What is Dominatrix?
Erotic Humiliation 
What is a Safeword?
Code Words and Meanings
What is considered Risky Sexual Behavior?
Dominance and Submission
What is Lower Back Tattoo or Tramp Stamp?
What is Erotophilia?

Should I limit the amount of sexual fantasies that I have?
Should I dream of sexual fantasies that are more reality based and limit the amount of sexual fantasies that should never happen or that will never happen?
What is Air Sex?
What is Twerking?
Why does Role Playing make sex fun? Where do strong sexual desires come from?
Why does exercise and a good diet increase your sexual desire and stamina?
Sexual Fetish Psychology (youtube)

Does Experimenting with Sex Toys really help to enhance the sexual experience?

What are the dangers of Anal Sex?  

Oral Sex
Is Oral Sex necessary?
Why is Oral Sex so seductive and so significant, and then sometimes degrading?  
Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female's genitalia.
Eating Pussy Info-Graph
Fellatio (wiki) oral sex is using the mouth on the penis.
Giving a Blow Job Info-Graph
Sex + Food: Auntie Angel (youtube)

A person can have sex with one person their whole life. But that doesn't make them an expert. It only means that they had sex, and not that they have learned enough for them to be an expert. And just because you had sex with several different people, this too does not make you an expert. It mostly depends on who you're with, and that both of you had the time and knowledge to fully explore the world of intimacy. But just going to school does not make you a teacher. To be good in bed is to be good in the head. Meaning, it's what you know and not how well you blow. But for some people it's the opposite. Being good in bed might be enough for some people, but eventually, you will realize there is so much more to life then sex. And that is when you will enjoy sex even more. Sex is personal, and sex is an agreement between two people. And each person will experience sex in their own way, even when they have sex with the same person multiple times. When you can openly communicate with your partner about sex, that is when sex becomes its best. But, you can have a great relationship with someone but not have great sex with that someone. And, you can have great sex with someone, but not have a great relationship with that someone. And when you can have a great relationship with someone, and have great sex, and feel you're in love, that is when you get married. Unless of course your life takes you both in two different directions, which happens. You can have it all and still not have everything, which is the mistake that everyone makes. What we want is not necessarily what we need. And the only way to know exactly what we need is to keep learning. You can think about the "what ifs", or you can think about the "what now?" A "what if" is just a guess of where you might have been. A "what now" is knowing where you are at the present time, and where you think you are going to be in the future.

What is a Sugar Daddy?
Age Disparity in Sexual Relationships 
A Sugar Baby is a slang term for a young female or male who is financially pampered/cared for by a 'sugar daddy' or 'sugar mama' in exchange for companionship.
A Gold Digger is a person (usually female) who cultivates a personal relationship in order to attain money
What is a Cougar?
What is Jailbait?
What is Trophy Wife?

Why does having sex change you?
Why does having sex make you believe that your world is better?
Why does having sex make you believe that you are better then others?
Why is self-discipline and self-control considered unnecessary when it comes to sex?
Why do I have the urge to smoke tobacco and drink large amounts of alcohol after sex?
Why does sex change a Relationship?
What should I do when things start to get Weird or become too Complicated?
What is this new level of closeness that is created by having sex?
Why does sex produce change in some while others feel no change at all?
Why does sharing something so special become so complicated?
Does the relationship have to change?
How do I explain to someone that "I" have changed?
Does it have to be change or be nothing? What is change? Yes we improve ourselves, yes we grow up, and yes we mature, but How do we know if we are growing up right?  Morals?


Male Body


Male Reproductive System Male organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm.
Man is a male Human. The term man is usually reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the usual term for a male child or adolescent. Human Rights
Boys have one X and one Y Chromosome.
Testosterone is the primary male sex hormone and an anabolic steroid. In men, testosterone plays a key role in the development of male reproductive tissues such as the testis and prostate, as well as promoting secondary sexual characteristics such as increased muscle and bone mass, and the growth of body hair.
Androgen stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors. This includes the activity of the primary male sex organs and development of male secondary sex characteristics.

Penis (PDF)
Penis Size
Enlargement Exercises (youtube)
Stronger Erections (youtube)
Micro-Penis

Your penis is small, compared to who?  My penis is perfect, but it might not be so perfect for you. I might be small but I'm still Big in Japan (Alphaville) "Does Size Matter?" The size of your vocabulary matters, but even then, it's the quality of the words that you know, and how effective you are at using them. So the matter of size is all relevant? Does size matter? Matter to what? Does it matter to sex? Sex with who? Sex with a women? Which women?" It's not a one size fits all, it matters to some, and it doesn't matter to others. Body Image
"It's not the size of the boat, nor the motion of the ocean, it's whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for all the passengers to get off."

Penis Names, love stick, holy-poker, schlong, joy-stick, twig and berries, skin flute
Circumcision
Policy
Phallic Symbol

Testicular Examination (info-Graph)
Testicular Atrophy

Erection is when the penis becomes firmer, engorged and enlarged. Penile erection is the result of a complex interaction of psychological, neural, vascular and endocrine factors, and is often associated with sexual arousal or sexual attraction, although erections can also be spontaneous. The shape, angle and direction of an erection varies considerably in humans.
The Science of 'Morning Wood' (youtube)
Morning glories, or nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT) as they are correctly called, are spontaneous erections that occur during sleep or while waking up. Hypothesizes that the noradrenergic neurons of the locus ceruleus are inhibitory to penile
erection, and that the cessation of their discharge that occurs during REM sleep may allow testosterone-related excitatory actions to manifest as NPT. A full bladder can stimulate an erection has existed for some time and is characterized as a
'reflex erection".

Erectile Dysfunction
Yartsa Gunbu
Sexual Dysfunction

Penile Fracture
Penile Cancer 
Penis Disorders
Urology focuses on surgical and medical diseases of the male and female urinary tract system and the male reproductive organs.
Penis Problems
Physical Health
Human Body Knowledge
Male Symbol Mars
Masculinity is a set of attributes, behaviors and roles generally associated with boys and men. Masculinity is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and biologically-created factors, distinct from the definition of the male biological sex.
Stud is the practice of having casual sex frequently with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
Libido or sex drive, is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in humans.
Impotence is the quality of lacking strength or power; being weak and feeble. An inability (usually of the male animal) to copulate, which means that you are unable to engage in sexual intercourse.
Being Horny is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in anticipation of sexual activity.
Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity.


Masturbation (men)

The combination of Fantasy and Self Stimulation. Make sure your hands are clean and be very careful with soaps, oils or creams. Be gentle, and Learn. How much should you masturbate? Should I Masturbate? What are some the health concerns that a person should have when Masturbating?

Touching
Temporary Satisfaction
Is Sexual Self-Stimulation Wrong?
All sex has its dangers, but knowing those dangers is not easy.
Women Masturbation

Use masturbation as a way to Practice Control. See how long you can maintain an erection without Ejaculation. Try not get get near an orgasm, because once you are close to having an orgasm it's hard to control it and stop it from happening.
Orgasm Control is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally.
For men, you should not masturbate just to Orgasm. There are benefits to having sex, but balance is key.
Tantric Sex is a set of techniques for cultivating a more fulfilling sexual or loving relationship, combining  breathing techniques, bio-energy, yoga, massage, sexuality and spirituality.
Life Force is what Taoists believe that a man loses when he ejaculates, so they like to avoide ejaculation in order to conserve life essence by minimizing the loss of body fluids. How does sex affect my energy level? 
Ejaculation is the discharge of semen (normally containing sperm) from the male reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the final stage and natural objective of male sexual stimulation, and an essential component of natural conception.

Sperm is the male reproductive cell and is derived from the Greek word (σπέρμα) sperma (meaning "seed"). In the types of sexual reproduction known as anisogamy and its subtype oogamy, there is a marked difference in the size of the gametes with the smaller one being termed the "male" or sperm cell. A uniflagellar sperm cell that is motile is referred to as a spermatozoon, whereas a non-motile sperm cell is referred to as a spermatium. Sperm cells cannot divide and have a limited life span, but after fusion with egg cells during fertilization, a new organism begins developing, starting as a totipotent zygote. The human sperm cell is haploid, so that its 23 chromosomes can join the 23 chromosomes of the female egg to form a diploid cell. In mammals, sperm develops in the testicles and is released from the penis. It is also possible to extract sperm through TESE. Some sperm banks hold up to 170 litres (37 imp gal; 45 US gal) of sperm.
Semen components: Testes, 2–5% Approximately 200- to 500-million spermatozoa (also called sperm or spermatozoans), produced in the testes, are released per ejaculation. If a man has undergone a vasectomy, he will have no sperm in the ejaculation. Seminal vesicles (65–75%) amino acids, citrate, enzymes, flavins, fructose (2–5 mg per mL semen, the main energy source of sperm cells, which rely entirely on sugars from the seminal plasma for energy), phosphorylcholine, prostaglandins (involved in suppressing an immune response by the female against the foreign semen), proteins, vitamin C. Prostate (25–30%) acid phosphatase, citric acid, fibrinolysin, prostate specific antigen, proteolytic enzymes, zinc (the zinc level is about 135±40 micrograms/ml for healthy men. Zinc serves to help to stabilize the DNA-containing chromatin in the sperm cells. A zinc deficiency may result in lowered fertility because of increased sperm fragility. Zinc deficiency can also adversely affect spermatogenesis.) Bulbourethral glands < 1% galactose, mucus (serve to increase the mobility of sperm cells in the vagina and cervix by creating a less viscous channel for the sperm cells to swim through, and preventing their diffusion out of the semen. Contributes to the cohesive jelly-like texture of semen.), pre-ejaculate, sialic acid.
Sperm Count
Semen Analysis
An automated smartphone-based diagnostic assay for point-of-care semen analysis
Sperm Check
Premature Ejaculation
Retrograde Ejaculation
Seminal plasma hypersensitivity reactions: an updated review, Allergic to Semen
Oral Sex

Blue Balls is a slang term for the condition of temporary fluid congestion (vasocongestion) in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. Some urologists call the condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced by all males

What is the difference between Pleasure and Indulging?

Abstain from Porn and Masturbation Challenge

What is the difference between Autoeroticism and Thinking Off?
Addictions - Nervous System - Limbic System

What is Stimming?

Balanitis
Fordyce Spots
Hirsuties Coronae Glandis
Candidiasis
Urinary Tract Infection
Hematospermia
What is Postorgasmic illness syndrome?
Body Smart





Female Body


Female is the sex of an organism, or a part of an organism, that produces non-mobile ova (Egg Cells).
Woman is a female Human; that is, of the species Homo sapiens. The term woman is usually reserved for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child or adolescent. Human Rights
Girls have two X Chromosomes
Estrogen is the primary female sex hormone. It is responsible for the development and regulation of the female reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics.
The largest Cell in the human body is the Female Egg and the smallest cell is the Male Sperm, 500 Million from Ejaculation.
List of Distinct Cell Types in the Adult Human Body (PDF)

Vagina is a muscular and tubular part of the female genital tract, which in humans extends from the vulva to the cervix. The outer vaginal opening may be partly covered by a membrane called the hymen. At the deep end, the cervix (neck of the uterus) bulges into the vagina. The vagina allows for sexual intercourse and childbirth, and channels menstrual flow, which occurs periodically as part of the menstrual cycle.
Gynaecology is the medical practice dealing with the health of the female reproductive systems (vagina, uterus, and ovaries) and the breasts. Literally, outside medicine, the term means "the science of women". Its counterpart is andrology, which deals with medical issues specific to the male reproductive system. Almost all modern gynaecologists are also obstetricians (see obstetrics and gynaecology). In many areas, the specialities of gynaecology and obstetrics overlap.
Virginity Test is the practice and process of determining whether a person, usually a girl or woman is a virgin; i.e., whether she has never engaged in sexual intercourse. The test typically involves a check for the presence of an intact hymen, on the assumption that it can only be torn as a result of sexual intercourse.
Hymen is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia, and is similar in structure to the vagina. The hymen does not seem to have a specific physiological function or purpose.
Birth
Prolactin is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk.
Vaginal Dryness
Venus Symbol Dyspareunia is painful sexual intercourse due to medical or psychological causes.

PMS refers to physical and emotional symptoms that occur in the one to two weeks before a woman's period.
Menstrual Cycles is the regular natural change that occurs in the female reproductive system (specifically the uterus and ovaries) that makes pregnancy possible. The cycle is required for the production of ovocytes, and for the preparation of the uterus for pregnancy. Up to 80% of women report having some symptoms during the one to two weeks prior to menstruation. Common symptoms include acne, tender breasts, bloating, feeling tired, irritability and mood changes. These symptoms interfere with normal life and therefore qualify as premenstrual syndrome in 20 to 30% of women. In 3 to 8%, they are severe.
Robyn Stein Deluca: The Good News about PMS (video)
Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder
Menstrual Taboo
A taboo-free way to talk about Periods (text and video)
Crimes Against Women
Sanitary Napkin
Tampons
Jayashree Industries
Menstrual Cup is made of medical grade silicone, shaped like a bell and is flexible. It is worn inside the vagina during menstruation to catch menstrual fluid (blood). About every 4–12 hours (depending on the amount of flow), the menstruating woman removes the menstrual cup from her vagina, empties the collected menstrual blood into a toilet or sink, washes the cup under running water and inserts it again. At the end of the monthly period, the cup can be sterilized, usually by boiling in water. Unlike tampons and pads, the cup collects menstrual fluid rather than absorbing it.
Be Girl
Flo
Hygiene
Bacterial Vaginosis
Vagina Discharge 
Conscious Period
She Innovates
Afripads
Wash Advocates
Showers on Wheels
Human Body Knowledge
Marijuana Tampon' Might Be the End of Your Period Cramps
Foria Pleasure
Dysmenorrhea-Painful-Periods
Livia - The Off Switch for Menstrual Pain.
National Women's Health Network Menstrual Suppression
Sanitary Napkin Vending Machine video (youtube)
Public Bathroom Vending Machines Sanitary Disposals
Intelligent Dispensing Solutions

American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists - Women's Health Care Physicians
Women's Health

Labiaplasty is a plastic surgery procedure for altering the labia minora (inner labia) and the labia majora (outer labia), the folds of skin surrounding the human vulva.
La Vagina Ideal Cirugía vaginal rápido ideal para niñas (youtube)
Labia Minora are two flaps of skin on either side of the human vaginal opening in the vulva, situated between the labia majora (the Latin for big lips; also called outer labia, or outer lips). Inner lips vary widely in size, color, and shape from individual to individual.
Bikini Waxing is the removal of pubic hair using a special wax, which can be hot or cold, that adheres to hairs and pulls them out when the wax is removed quickly from the skin, usually with a cloth strip. While the practice is mainly associated with women, men remove pubic hair at times as well.
Photos of different Vaginas

Vagina Names, furburger, pleasure-pit, cherry pit, joy-hole, lady bits, beaver, fanny, man in canoe, rosebud, joy buzzer, lentils, chick pea, love button, bald man in a boat.
Labia (PDF)
Vulva (PDF)

Clitoris is designed to bring a woman pleasure. That is its sole purpose. Not reproduction.
Skene's Gland
The clitoris contains 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, double the nerve endings in the glans of a penis.
The word "Clitoris" is from the Greek work for "key"? Understanding and getting to know the clitoris may unlock your sex.
Only one quarter of the clitoris is partially visible to the naked eye. The rest of it is inside the women's body. The clitoris is actually close to four inches in length (kind of like the average non-erect penis), but three-fourths of it is hidden from view within a female's body. Besides the clitoris being made up the clitoral head, the hood and the clitoral shaft, it is also composed of the urethral sponge, erectile tissue, glands, vestibular bulbs and the clitoral legs. Only the clitoral head and the hood are located outside the body. Some sex experts believe that the G Spot is actually a part of the clitoris.
The clitoris varies in size and shape on different women. Some are hidden under the hood, and some stick out. Some like to be touched softly and others like a lot of pressure. It takes time to get to know a woman's clitoris. Don't assume that you know what it likes. Take your time and get to know each unique clitoris, just like you would take the time to get to know the woman it is attached to. Fifty to 75 percent of women who have Climaxes (Orgasms) need to have their clitoris touched (clitoral stimulation). Most women are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. There are all kinds of orgasms. Vaginal, Cervical and G Spot Orgasms do exist, but they are much harder for most women to achieve than a clitoral orgasm. Very few women are able to achieve an orgasm without any kind of clitoral involvement. There is nothing immature about women having orgasms through their clitoris. A clitoral orgasm can bring about anywhere between three and 16 contractions and can last from 10 to 30 seconds. But that doesn't exclude the fact that many women have multiple orgasms that can include pelvic contractions. Some sex educators have compared and contrasted male and female orgasm and have concluded that even the most average clitoral orgasm lasts longer than even the best ever most fantastic male orgasm.
The clitoris grows throughout a woman's life. After menopause, the clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when the same woman was a teenager. I don't think that there has been an actually study about clitoris size in relation to pleasure. And I don't think that women have a size thing about their clitoris, the way men do around penis size. I have never ever met a woman
who has measured her clitoris, but I have met men who have measured their penis. 
Body Image

Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social rights for women This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.
Femininity or girlishness, womanliness or womanhood, is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with girls and women. Femininity is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and biologically-created factors. This makes it distinct from the definition of the biological female sex, as both males and females can exhibit feminine traits. People who exhibit a combination of both masculine and feminine characteristics are considered androgynous, and feminist philosophers have argued that gender ambiguity may blur gender classification. Modern conceptualizations of femininity also rely not just upon social constructions, but upon the individualized choices made by women. Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gentleness, empathy, and sensitivity, though traits associated with femininity vary depending on location and context, and are influenced by a variety of social and cultural factors. In some non-English speaking cultures, certain concepts or inanimate objects are considered feminine or masculine (the counterpart to feminine).
Shyness - Introvert
Prude meaning honorable woman, is a person who is described as (or would describe themselves as) being concerned with decorum or propriety, significantly in excess of normal prevailing standards. They may be perceived as being more uncomfortable than most with sexuality or nudity.

SlutSlut is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous. It is usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement (slut shaming). It originally meant "a dirty, slovenly woman", and is rarely used to refer to men, generally requiring clarification by use of the terms male slut or man whore.
Slut-Shaming  is a form of social stigma applied to people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate traditional expectations for sexual behaviors. Some examples of circumstances wherein women are "slut-shamed" include violating dress code policies by dressing in perceived sexually provocative ways, requesting access to birth control, having premarital, casual, or promiscuous sex, engaging in prostitution, or when being victim blamed for being raped or otherwise sexually assaulted.
Being Horny 
Oral Sex


Masturbation (women)

Clitoris is a female sex organ visible button-like portion is near the front junction of the labia minora (inner lips), above the opening of the urethra. Unlike the penis, the male homologue (equivalent) to the clitoris, it usually does not contain the distal portion (or opening) of the urethra and is therefore not used for urination.
G-Spot is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the female prostate.
Internal Clitoris
Masturbation Fun?
Masturbation Facts?
Touching
A Woman's Guide To Mind-Blowing Masturbation
Learning to Masturbate
Learning How To Masturbate (youtube)

Female Masturbation: 5 things to know (webMD)
It doesn’t have to be quick, or end with an Orgasm.

Vibrator (sex toy)
Mysteryvibe
Divinyls - I Touch Myself (youtube)
Male Masturbation

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (restless genital syndrome)
Dorsal Nerve Cord

Grow a Vigina
She's kidding of course. She's just making a point about how sensitive our private areas are, especially Testicles.



Public Displays


When are Public Displays of Affection proper and not proper?

Public Displays of Affection are acts of physical intimacy in the view of others. What is an acceptable display of affection varies with respect to culture and context. Displays of affection in a public place, such as the street, are more likely to be objected to, than similar practices in a private place with only people from a similar cultural background present. Some organizations have rules limiting or prohibiting public displays of affection.
Grinding is a type of close partner dance where two or more dancers rub or bump their bodies against each other, this is generally with a female dancer rubbing her buttocks against a male dancer's crotch area.
Twerking is a type of dancing in which an individual, often female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance.

Exhibitionism is the act of exposing in a public or semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally exposed – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander. Exposing oneself only to an intimate partner is normally not regarded as exhibitionism. In law, the act of exhibitionism may be called indecent exposure, "exposing one's person", or other expressions. Flaunting

Modesty is a mode of dress and deportment which intends to avoid encouraging of sexual attraction in others.

Disinhibition is not the same as having Confidence.

Provocative is tending to provoke, excite, or stimulate. Exciting sexual desire.
Sexy is marked by or tending to Arouse sexual desire or interest, Exciting Sexual Desire.
Provocative Clothing (amazon) Why are certain clothes too sexy for wearing in public?

Provocative Clothing or Just Clothes

Teasing comes in three major forms, playful, hurtful, and educative. When teasing is playful and friendly, and especially when it is reciprocal, teasing can be regarded as flirting. When teasing is unwelcome, it may be regarded as harassment or mobbing, especially in the work place and school, or as a form of bullying or emotional abuse. If done in public, it may be regarded as humiliation. Teasing can also be regarded as educative when it is used as a way of Informal learning. Adults in some of the Indigenous American Communities often tease children to playfully illustrate and teach them how their behavior negatively affects the community. Children in many Indigenous American Communities also learn by observing what others do in addition to collaborating with them. Along with teasing, this form of informal learning is different from the ways that Western American children learn. Informal ways of child learning include mutual responsibility, as well as active collaboration with adults and peers. This differentiates from the more formal way of learning because it is not adult-oriented.

Jeggings (video)
Why is certain makeup too sexy for wearing in public?
Social Impact of Thong Underwear (wiki)
What's the difference between feeling sexy and looking sexy?
Do you have to look sexy in order to feel sexy?
What is Body Image?

Boudoir Photography is a photographic style featuring intimate, romantic, and sometimes erotic images of its subjects, primarily intended for the private enjoyment of the subject and their romantic partners. It is distinct from glamour and art nude photography in that it is usually more suggestive rather than explicit in its approach to nudity and sexuality, features subjects who do not regularly model, and produces images which are not intended to be seen by a wide audience, but rather to remain under the control of the subject.  Pinterest Sexy Photography Ideas

Sexy Boudoir Body Positions

Striptease is an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner. The person who performs a striptease is commonly known as a "stripper" or exotic dancer.

Straight Pride a term used to describe as a response to gay pride adopted by various LGBT groups in the early 1970s or to the accommodations provided to gay pride initiatives.

Bullying

We need Freedom of Expression without Discrimination or Bias, but we also need Respect for each other?

When Sex Becomes a Crime  -  Criminal Behavior  -  Misconduct


Pornography


What is the difference between sexual content on TV and Pornography? Why does explicit sexual images have the same effect as suggestive sexual undertones that show no nudity? Why is sexual content OK for advertisers while Pornography is frowned upon even though pornography is prevalent throughout the world?

Pornography is the portrayal of sexual subject matter for the purpose of sexual arousal. Pornography may be presented in a variety of media, including books, magazines, postcards, photographs, sculpture, drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, and video games. The term applies to the depiction of the act rather than the act itself, and so does not include live exhibitions like sex shows and striptease. The primary subjects of pornographic depictions are pornographic models, who pose for still photographs, and pornographic actors or porn stars, who perform in pornographic films. If dramatic skills are not involved, a performer in a porn film may also be called a model. Boudoir Photography
Pornographic Films are films that present sexually explicit subject matter for the purpose of sexual arousal and erotic satisfaction of the viewer. Pornographic films present sexual fantasies and usually include erotically stimulating material such as nudity and depictions of sexual intercourse. A distinction is sometimes made between "erotic" films and "pornographic" films on the basis that the latter contain more explicit sexuality, and focus more on arousal than storytelling, but the distinction is highly subjective.
Erotica is any artistic work that deals substantively with erotically stimulating or sexually arousing subject matter. All forms of art may depict erotic content, including painting, sculpture, photography, drama, film, music or literature. Erotica has high-art aspirations, differentiating it from commercial pornography.
Nudity is the state of wearing no clothing.
Science of Pornography Addiction (SFW) (youtube)

"If it's in focus, it's pornography, if it's out of focus, it's art."  (Billy Kwan)

Type of Pornography that people watch the most by State (people sure love women, which is understandable)



Exploitation of Women in Mass Media is the use or portrayal of women in the mass media (such as television, film and advertising) to increase the appeal of media or a product to the detriment of, or without regard to, the interests of the women portrayed, or women in general.
Sexual  Objectification is the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure. Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of individuals.
Sex Object is a person regarded primarily as a source of sexual gratification. A person viewed primarily in terms of sexual appeal or as a source of sexual gratification.
Sex in Advertising is the use of sex appeal in advertising to help sell a particular product or service. Sexually appealing imagery may or may not pertain to the product or service in question. Examples of sexually appealing imagery include nudity, pin-up models, and muscular men.
Sexualization is to make something sexual in character or quality, or to become aware of sexuality, especially in relation to men and women.
Sexuality in Music Videos A survey found that 72.2% of black, 68.0% of white, and 69.2% of Hispanic youths agree with the suggestion that rap music videos contain 'too many' references to sex.

Kids need to see naked bodies as natural and uneventful, but the media wants kids to see Nudity as sexual and provocative.
Media Literacy

Porn Info Graph

Porn should be something like this video, DB-J#26, Eyes down finish your work. Have someone role playing out a sexual experience for you based on your education level and needs. And at the same time, the video should teach the person about
communication, and also teach the person not to objectify the person they are with, which is one of the main problems with porn, is that it misleads you and fools you into believing a false reality. You don't personally know who those people are or what they are thinking. Like actors in a fantasy super hero movie, they are fictional characters and in a sense they are not real people, thus this is not reality, even though some aspects can be considered reality. But as a whole, it is not reality. And that is the danger of all films, which is the disconnection from reality, where nothing is learned, only fantasized. So when the person try's to combine fantasy with reality, they either hurt themselves or hurt others.

Naturism is a cultural and political movement practising, advocating and defending personal and social nudity, most but not all of which takes place on private property. The term may also refer to a lifestyle based on personal, family and/or social nudism.

Sexting is sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized in the early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images. Exchange of images solely between two romantic partners. Exchanges between partners that are shared with others outside the relationship. Exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship, but where at least one person hopes to be. Sexting has become more common with the rise in camera phones and smartphones with Internet access, that can be used to send explicit photographs as well as messages Victimization and Humiliation.

The Human Body is Beautiful and does not need Perversion or any hyped up perception from people using nudity to sell you something. Nudity and sex is not bad, what's bad is how the ignorant and perverted people use sex and nudity to exploit peoples ignorance and exploit peoples lack of self-control. Sexual images and pornography can have damaging effects on the minds of young adults and older adults. And the mainstream media feeds these perversions as a way to distract and manipulate young minds and adults. This is why Media Literacy and Sex Education is so extremely important. Information and knowledge is the only protection against misinformation and ignorant perverted people who want to hurt you....Keep Learning My Friends.

History of Erotica Sexuality
Cindy Gallop: Make Love, Not Porn (youtube)
So you think you know what porn is?

No Porn 
The Teenage Brain on Porn (CBS youtube)
Instant Gratification

Can watching Pornography make you stupid?

Why do we let emotions and pleasures control our actions?
Philip Zimbardo: The Demise of Guys and Arousal Addiction (video)

Why are kids so insecure about sex?
Why do kids become violent because of sex?

Why do people become Self-Centered and Conceited about sex?  What is Narcissism?

What is VanityBody Image

Are we Brainwashed by the media or are we just some how vulnerable to these weaknesses?  

Prostitution

Why is Prostitution illegal in some places while being legal in other places? 

Prostitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexual relations or sex acts in exchange for payment, or some other benefit. Is Prostitution necessary? Can you experience sex with someone just for fun? Can you experience sex with someone just to learn about sex?
Sex Worker is a person who is employed in the sex industry.
consists of businesses which either directly or indirectly provide sex-related products and services or adult entertainment. The Sex Industry includes activities involving direct provision of sex-related services, such as prostitution, strip clubs, Host and hostess clubs and sex-related pastimes, such as pornography, sex-oriented men's magazines, sex movies, sex toys and fetish and BDSM paraphernalia. Sex channels for television and pre-paid sex movies for on demand, are part of the sex industry, as are adult movie theaters, sex shops, and strip clubs.
Comfort Women were women and girls who were forced into Sex Slavery by the Imperial Japanese Army in occupied territories before and during World War II.
Sacred Prostitution is a sexual ritual consisting of sexual intercourse or other sexual activity performed in the context of religious worship, perhaps as a form of fertility rite and divine marriage (hieros gamos).
Why are there more female prostitutes then Male Prostitutes?
Brothel is a place where people may come to engage in sexual activity with a prostitute, sometimes referred to as a sex worker.
Toni Mac, The Laws that Sex Workers really want (video and interactive text)
Can Robots replace prostitues?



Gay


Sexual Orientation is an enduring pattern of romantic or sexual attraction (or a combination of these) to persons of the opposite sex or gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender. Human Rights

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Human Body Organs

GLBT National Help Line: 1-888-843-4564 
GLBT National Help Center for Youth: 1-800-246-7743
GLBTQ Domestic Violence Project: 1-800-832-1901
Human Rights

Gender Identity is one's personal experience of one's own gender.
Gender Identity Disorder is when a person experiences distress as a result of the sex and gender they were assigned at birth.
Identity

Gender Equality is the view that everyone should receive equal treatment and not be discriminated against based on their gender.
Gender Bender is a person who disrupts, or "bends", expected gender roles. Acting
Gender Role is a set of societal norms dictating the types of behaviors which are generally considered acceptable, appropriate, or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex or sexuality. Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of femininity and masculinity, although there are exceptions and variations. The specifics regarding these gendered expectations may vary substantially among cultures, while other characteristics may be common throughout a range of cultures. There is ongoing debate as to what extent gender roles and their variations are biologically determined, and to what extent they are socially constructed.
David Reimer was a Canadian man born biologically male but reassigned as a girl and raised female following medical advice and intervention after his penis was accidentally destroyed during a botched circumcision in infancy.

Me My Sex And I - My Sex Life (youtube)

Transgender are people who have a gender identity, or gender expression, that differs from their assigned sex.
Laura Jane Grace (born Thomas James Gabel, November 8, 1980) is an American musician best known as the founder, lead singer, songwriter and guitarist of the punk rock band Against Me! Tranny: Confessions of Punk Rock's Most Infamous Anarchist Sellout. (amazon)
Intersex is one possessing any of several variations in sex characteristics including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals.
Cross Dressing is the act of wearing items of clothing and other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex within a particular society. Cross-dressing has been used for purposes of disguise, comfort, and self-discovery in modern times and throughout history.
Polari is a form of cant slang.
Sexual Script suggests the importance of meanings and symbols in human sexuality.
Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is sometimes alternatively termed Pansexuality, which is the sexual attraction, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people regardless of their sex or gender identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
Sexual Fluidity is one or more changes in sexuality or sexual identity (sometimes known as sexual orientation identity).

Skoliosexual refers to sexual attraction to non-binary identified individuals or those who do not identify as cisgender. This does not generally describe an attraction to specific genitalia or birth assignments but rather is an inclusive term..

Is Gay Sex really different from Straight Sex?

Gay sex, Straight Sex or Heterosexuality all have to deal with all the issues that are related to sexual activity, so what’s the difference? 

People Smart
Female
Male

Social Stigma refers to extreme disapproval of (or discontent with) a person or group on socially characteristic grounds that are perceived, and serve to distinguish them, from other members of a society. Stigma may then be affixed to such a person, by the greater society, who differs from their cultural norms.

Sexism is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.

If sex is a personal preference, then why is gay, bisexual, straight and other forms of sexual preferences all judged differently?

Sexual Attraction and Orientation Study Among Adults Aged 18–44 (PDF)

If a gay person is just dating someone for the sex, and if a straight person is just dating someone for the sex, then this is not about being Gay or Straight, it's all about the influences of Sex. And you wonder why sex education is so extremely important.

To say that you are Gay or Straight does not say anything about who you are, only your sexual preference. So who are you?

If I was attracted to women before I even knew what sex was does that mean that Homosexuality is not just about sexual attraction?  

Then what's the difference between Sexual Attraction and Love?

When Did You Choose to Be Straight? (youtube)

Promiscuity is not just related to being gay, it is just another indication of the powerful influences of sex.

Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.

Polyamory is defined as the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".

There is a big difference between flaunting and being proud, so whether you're Straight or Gay, the dangers are still the same.

Flaunting is intended to attract notice and impress others. Showing off.  Parading.  Act ostentatiously or pretentiously.
To exhibit ostentatiously or shamelessly.

Proud is feeling self-respect or pleasure in something by which you measure your self-worth; Pride Having or displaying great dignity or nobility.

Gender expression refers to the way that a person uses appearance, mannerisms and other personal traits to communicate their gender. Gender expression can be any combination of masculine, feminine and androgynous traits.

Why we need Gender-Neutral Bathrooms (video and text)

Planet Fitness is committed to creating a non-intimidating, welcoming environment for our members. Our gender identity non-discrimination policy states that members and guests may use all gym facilities based on their sincere self-reported gender identity.

Can the amount of Steroids that the neonatal brain was exposed to, profoundly influenced sex-specific behavior in later life?
Sexual Dimorphism is the condition where the two sexes of the same species exhibit different characteristics beyond the differences in their sexual organs.
Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome is a condition that results in the partial or complete inability of the cell to respond to androgens, which is any natural or synthetic compound, usually a steroid hormone, that stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors.
Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia are any of several autosomal recessive diseases resulting from mutations of genes for enzymes mediating the biochemical steps of production of mineralocorticoids, glucocorticoids or sex steroids from cholesterol by the adrenal glands (steroidogenesis).
Stria Terminalis is a structure in the brain consisting of a band of fibers running along the lateral margin of the ventricular surface of the thalamus. Serving as a major output pathway of the amygdala, the stria terminalis runs from its centromedial division to the ventral medial nucleus of the hypothalamus.

In the Womb - Identical Twins (youtube) One identical twin is gay the other is not. DNA
Testosterone has effects on the Hypothalamus

Sex-determination System - Chromosomal Determination is a biological system that determines the development of sexual characteristics in an organism. Most organisms that create their offspring using sexual reproduction have two sexes. Occasionally, there are hermaphrodites in place of one or both sexes. There are also some species that are only one sex due to parthenogenesis, the act of a female reproducing without fertilization.

Most of us don't know that all babies have the exact same genital tissue when they are conceived. At about 12 weeks, each baby's genitalia begin to differentiate into a penis or labia. We are more alike than we are different. The clitoris and penis are the same materials assembled in a different way. The clitoris has glans, a foreskin (also known as the hood), erectile tissue and a
very small shaft -- all the parts that a penis has. It even swells when it's aroused.

Puberty Blocker are a group of medications used to inhibit puberty. They were originally used to treat children with precocious puberty or other such early onset of puberty. Puberty blockers slow the growth of sexual organs and production of hormones. Other effects include the suppression of facial hair, deep voices, and Adam's apples for boys and the halting of breast growth and menstruation in girls.

What does it mean to be Male?  What does it mean to be Female?  Why do we have gender specific behavior? Gender Role
You should have the right to be who you feel you are, as long as it does not include stereotypical behaviors that are demoralizing to a particular sex. Being a man should not include the stupid things that men do, things that supposedly make a man feel more like a man. Being a woman should not include the stupid things that women do, things that supposedly make a woman feel more like a woman. Acquiring social norms is a form of discrimination towards yourself. Being yourself should not be about finding ways to fit in, or conform. Being Yourself is about you exploring and discovering things about you and the world around you, and then sharing this knowledge with others. Women dress up like men and men dress up like women, so who cares. Your sexual identity only defines 10% of who you are as a person. Your intellect will always be the most important part of who you are, everything else is just details.

Androgyny is the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics. (none of which define a persons character)
Sissy, Pansy, Pantywaist or Effeminate is having feminine qualities. A timid man or boy considered childish Indicating a lack of maturity or unassertive. Inclined to timidity or lack of self-confidence. Shy

Informed Consent does not mean that you understand something fully or accurately. It's only a guideline.

Do Lesbians and Homosexuals have to practice Safe Sex?

What is a Cooperative Marriage?

What ever your sexual preference is, you still have to deal with all the vulnerabilities, and you still have to explore.

Is Coming Out of the closet even necessary?
Out
Is coming out necessary?
Perception of Sexual Orientation 

To Each His Own

Yoga Pants Prank 2 (youtube) yes it is embarrassing, but why?

Everyone perceives sex in their own personal way. Sometimes people's likes and dislikes are similar, and other times they are not, whether they are male or female. And if two people wanted to be close with each other consensually, then they are two consenting adults, and no one has the right to pry into their personal lives, no one. What people do in the privacy of their own home is not anyone's concern, especially when no one is being hurt, exploited or victimized. The problem is that some people are afraid of seeing gay couples openly, like that's some how promoting gay sex. If that was true then that's making the assumption that seeing a man and a women together is in a way promoting sex. That's a narrow minded view and incredibly presumptuous to say that everyone is a sex addict and that everyone can't control themselves, except for you, for some strange reason. That's also saying that gay sex is more of a threat then sex itself? Which is incredibly ignorant and illogical, especially when you look at rapes, pornography and all the other ways that people are victimized and exploited by so called straight sex or normal sex. So this is not about sexual freedom, this is clearly a behavior problem, and not the behavior of the accused, but the behavior of the accuser. To assume that other people are going to be influenced by other peoples behavior, is saying that you cannot control your own behavior, so you think that others must not be able to control their own behavior too, which is wrong and ridiculous. So the core of this issue is behavior. Behavior is something that you are supposed to control, and that the behavior of others should not control or influence your behavior in any way. But that doesn't always happen, so again, that's a behavior problem. We are not educating people enough to understand their own behaviors or understand the behaviors of others. And there are a lot of different behavior issues plaguing society, and the gay prejudice issue is not even an major issue if you compare it to all the other issues that are threatening society. And that's why the media and politicians want to make a big deal out of this issue. So they can distract people from the more dangerous issues, like corporate abuse, political corruption, the poisoning of water and land, spying, greed, creating jobs that make a difference, and so on and so on. Just give gay people their rights and stop wasting everyone's time, people, resources and money. We have more important problems to solve. So it seems that our government is the biggest threat to society. Our problems are getting worse and our government officials are doing less, you scumbags need to be fired. So the only people you need to worry about f**king you in the a** is your own government, and guess what, you're not a virgin anymore. Which doesn't make you Gay, it just means that you're gullible and that you need to be more informed. The government has no right to rape their citizens. So tell your government officials that they must register as sex offenders. After all, it's the "Law". 

Discrimination
Bias

Note: I'm not Gay or could I ever be, not to say that there's anything wrong with it, it's just not me. I Love Women. And the fact that Women also love Women, that just proves and confirms that Women are awesome, so I'm not alone. So I guess that also says that if a Man loves another Man then that is proof that Men are lovable too, so everyone is lovable, which is awesome. Everyone has the right to be loved, so who am I to judge who gets to love who. But I still think men are little gross when compared to women, well call me old fashion, OK, call me stupid too, I'm not going to argue with you about that.

Bad Behavior is another way of saying that you are lacking valuable information and knowledge that would provide you with a better understanding of yourself and the world around you, so that your reactions to situations and events are more accurate and less destructive and abusive.

Blind and Gay
Message Boards
Answers yahoo

"How do you know that someone is different? They're just like you, except they have a different perspective, which proves just how dangerous and illogical that racism is, or any kind of prejudice for that matter. To prejudge someone is like hating yourself for living, or worse, it's hating someone you don't even know, someone who could be a friend, someone who can benefit society."






Resources for Sex Education
National Sex Study
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Journal of Adolescent Health
Sexual Health
Teen Sexual Health
Sex Health
Sex Education Links
Institute for Sexual Wellness
Sexual Wellness
Your Sex Health
Institute for Sexuality
American Experience: The Kinsey Study (2005 Book)
Kinsey Institute
The Journal of Sexual Medicine
Sexuality in Ancient Rome (wiki)
OK Cupid
Sexual Health (indiana edu) 


Sex Education Books
The New Speaking of Sex: What Your Children Need to Know and When They Need to Know It.
Teens, Sex and Health A Comprehensive Approach to Sexual Education.
The Talk: What Your Kids Need to Hear from You About Sex
Sex, Puberty and All That Stuff
A Guide to Growing Up
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S.E.X.: All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to get you through High School and College
Intrapersonal intelligence


Videos about Sex
Brain Sex: Why We Fall in Love (youtube) 
The Surprising History of Sex and Love - Terry Jones (netflix)
Pure History Specials Ancient Inventions of Sex (hulu)
Season 1 Episode 115 | Aired on 03/02/2014 | TV-14 | 49:15
Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship (video)
Sex Talks on TED (videos) 
Christopher Ryan: Are we designed to be sexual omnivores? (video)
Boyfriend - Hunch n Munch (Rap Songs about Sex)  (youtube)
Real Couples Playing Sexy Charades and Sex Positions (youtube)
Sex Factors, Sexual Health, Sexy Secrets for Great Sex, Sex Ed Video Dr. Vincent Bellonzi (youtube)
This Film Is Not Yet Rated (2006 Film)
Indie-Sex (2007 Film)  







So this is education, and sex is just one of over a hundred other subjects that you will be studying in your lifetime..
And it's never been just about Sex, it's about Human Behavior, it's about the Human Body, it's about the Human Mind...
Learning about what it’s like to be a Human.
The Human Condition (human nature)


Aphrodite is the Greek goddess of love, beauty, pleasure, and procreation. She is identified with the planet Venus, and her Roman equivalent is the goddess Venus.
Venus is the Roman goddess whose functions encompassed love, beauty, desire, sex, fertility, prosperity and victory. In Roman mythology, she was the mother of the Roman people through her son, Aeneas, who survived the fall of Troy and fled to Italy. Julius Caesar claimed her as his ancestor. Venus was central to many religious festivals, and was revered in Roman religion under numerous cult titles.
 


The Kiss - Rodin Sculpture Kokopelli Symbol




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