is best learned in age appropriate
, starting with the easiest to
understand information for the young
and the more complex information for the
and older student.
The Facts of Life
- Birds and the Bees
and Mental influences of Sex
Physical Changes - Mental Changes - Responsibilities
- Vulnerabilities - Abilities
What is Sex
?Human Sex DriveHormones
Why and When Humans Reproduce
Toxic DangersWomen's Body
MarriageVideos about Sex
Books about Sex
Some sexual content may be disturbing or overwhelming
for some people,
. Do not be alarmed. Do not be distracted. Stay
focused on what's important, like your
education, your family, your friends, your goals. Most
sexual experiences are not relevant to you
and you will most likely never be exposed to certain
sexual experiences. Sex education is
learning about certain human behavior. And certain
is not something that you want to
experiment with. This information is to make sure that
you are not victimized
or manipulated by
your lack of knowledge, or other peoples lack of
knowledge. Everyone is on a
Need to Know
The Sex Knowledge below is not
an any particular order. The Information below is just
the beginning of what kind of course material that might
be included in Sex Education.
How do you prepare kids
for the onslaught of sexual imagery that is portrayed in
No matter how subtle or insignificant sex may seem, you
should be prepared for its
intimacy is one of our greatest gifts
to experience but sadly it is also one of our greatest dangers.
For young adults the
to have sex is
sometimes over whelming and hard to deal with, as well as the
need to Feel Loved. Young adults also have a hard time
understanding Body Image
and the powerful influences of the
Human Sex Drive
. So young
adults have to learn about the dangers of peer pressure. Young
adults also have to learn about
and the different
ways to express their appreciation for others. Young adults also
have to learn about the powerful
influences of the
Human Sex Drive
. Sex is
not the problem. The problem is what happens to a persons
understanding of themselves and what happens to their
understanding of others after they have experienced
. I would recommend that young adults wait to experiment
with sex until they're over 16, including masturbation. This
will allow their
to catch up with their
, which should help kids to have a better
chance of handling the changes they will experience. Kids should
also be aware that their first time having sex might not be the
best experience, which they should also be prepared for. Know
the difference between
and truly liking someone for who they really
are. It takes time to get to know someone, and then on top of
that, a person can change and so can you. So it's not easy
finding the right
Know the differences
and having a
does not always mean
does not always mean sex.
And sex is not needed to confirm that you love someone or care
about them. Love is Blind, why? A lot of times you’ll find that
some people just don’t feel the same way that you do
also you’ll find that some people will never feel the same way
that you do. You also have to be aware of other peoples beliefs,
religion, traditions and
, because they may not see things the same way that
you do, so it's always a good idea, and a proper thing to do, to
ask before acting, don't assume.
is a part of life, it shouldn’t be a big part of your
life. There are much more meaningful aspects of a
to enjoy. Though
can be a great expression of
between two people, it should never be the sole
reason for wanting to be with someone. We should be aware of the
power of sex to seduce and also be aware of its
. Also be aware
that your feelings before a relationship might not be the same
after you have become
. Being open and honest is very important. Be
responsible, have safe sex and learn to be intimate unselfishly.
You sometimes have to have sex more then once in
order to reproduce
. So if sex didn't
feel good, we wouldn't do it again, thus humans would not have survived.
But just because something feels good
this doesn't mean that you don't have control. Just like breathing, if you
had to remember to breathe, you would forget to breathe and die. That is
why breathing is automatic. But you can control your
, if you could not
control your breathing, you would die underwater because you did not hold
your breath. Humans have inherited automatic features. But humans also
have a brain that can learn and acquire knowledge, which gives us control
over our lives, control over our abilities and control over our automatic
"Don't confuse sex,
love and intimacy. One does not necessarily imply the
one does not necessarily satisfy our need for the other.
While all three ideally come together at
certain moments, each of them must be attended to and
appreciated. And finally, do not forsake one for the
other. You can have them all."
"You should desire
to know someone first, before you desire to touch
Anything that can
become obsessive or controlling will always leave you
vulnerable to mistakes and cause you to make bad
decisions. So avoiding these types of behaviors may save
your life and may save the life of others."
Sex education is so extremely important. Educating our young on
and all of its pleasures, all of its
understandings and all of its dangers, would give our young the
to be much more comfortable and capable of making the right
decisions. They would enjoy sex no matter what small inconveniences that
there might be associated with having
, or using
is any member of a class of
by glands in multicellular organisms that are transported by the
circulatory system to target distant organs to regulate physiology and
. Hormones have diverse
chemical structures, mainly of 3 classes: eicosanoids, steroids, and amino
acid derivatives (amines, peptides, and proteins). The glands that secrete
hormones comprise the endocrine signaling system. The term hormone is
sometimes extended to include chemicals produced by cells that affect the
same cell (autocrine or intracrine signalling) or nearby cells (paracrine
Hormones cause energy levels to rise, and hormones also
creates changes in your
, so you need to be
Body effects the Mind
Everyone, especially young students, should be fully aware of
the physical and mental effects of
, before it happens. Everyone should also be fully
aware about all the
that sex and intimacy has on the human psyche.
is any hormone produced and released by
(also called neurosecretory cells) into the
is an organic molecule, such as
serotonin, dopamine, or nerve growth factor, that participates in
in the brain increases arousal and alertness, promotes vigilance, enhances
formation and retrieval of memory, and focuses attention; it also
increases restlessness and anxiety. In the rest of the body,
norepinephrine increases heart rate and blood pressure, triggers the
release of glucose from energy stores, increases blood flow to skeletal
muscle, reduces blood flow to the gastrointestinal system, and inhibits
voiding of the bladder and gastrointestinal motility. norepinephrine is to
mobilize the brain and body for action. Norepinephrine release is lowest
during sleep, rises during wakefulness, and reaches much higher levels
during situations of stress or danger, in the so-called fight-or-flight
is an organic chemical in the catecholamine family that functions in the
brain and body as a hormone and neurotransmitter.
is a nucleus in the pons (part of the brainstem) involved with
physiological responses to stress
plays a role in social bonding, sexual reproduction in both sexes, and
during and after childbirth.
be a contributor to feelings of well-being and happiness, regulation of
mood, appetite, and sleep. also has some cognitive functions, including
memory and learning.
are naturally produced in response to pain, but their
production can also be triggered by various human activities. Vigorous
aerobic exercise can stimulate the release of endorphins in the
bloodstream, leading to an effect known as a "runner's high".
may also stimulate endorphin production;
a 2011 study showed that attendees at a comedy club showed increased
resistance to pain
Adrenalin or Epinephrine
plays an important role in the
increasing blood flow to muscles, output
of the heart, pupil dilation,
and blood sugar. Epinephrine does this by its effects on alpha and beta
have two principal
biological functions: certain steroids (such as cholesterol) are important
components of cell membranes which alter membrane fluidity, and many
steroids are signaling molecules which activate steroid hormone receptors.
released in response to stress and low blood-glucose concentration. It
functions to increase blood sugar through gluconeogenesis, to suppress the
immune system, and to aid in the metabolism of fat, protein, and
carbohydrates. It also decreases bone formation.
chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual
to impact the behavior of the receiving individual.
primary functions are to retain water in the body and to constrict blood
vessels. Vasopressin regulates the body's retention of water by acting to
increase water reabsorption in the kidney's collecting ducts, the tubules
which receive the very dilute urine produced by the functional unit of the
kidney, the nephrons.
is a branch of biology and medicine
dealing with the endocrine system, its diseases, and its specific
secretions known as hormones.
is the collection of glands of an
organism that secrete hormones directly into the circulatory system to be
carried towards distant target organs. The phenomenon of biochemical
processes' serving to regulate distant tissues by means of secretions
directly into the circulatory system is called endocrine signaling. The
major endocrine glands include the pineal gland, pituitary gland,
pancreas, ovaries, testes, thyroid gland, parathyroid gland, and adrenal
glands. The endocrine system is in contrast to the exocrine system, which
secretes its hormones to the outside of the body using ducts. The
endocrine system is an information signal system like the nervous system,
yet its effects and mechanism are classifiably different. The endocrine
system's effects are slow to initiate, and prolonged in their response,
lasting from a few hours up to weeks. The nervous system sends information
very quickly, and responses are generally short lived. In vertebrates, the
hypothalamus is the neural control center for all endocrine systems.
: Secretes melatonin and
. Associated with
(posterior pituitary): Releases
oxytocin and vasopressin into the blood.
: "Vomiting center": when a toxic substance
enters the bloodstream it will get to the area postrema and may
cause the animal to throw up. In this way, the animal protects
itself by eliminating the toxic substance from its stomach
before more harm can be done.
: Important for the regulation of body
Vascular organ of the lamina terminalis
: A chemosensory area
that detects peptides and other molecules.
Chemosensory is the perception of chemical signals by the
: Regulates anterior
through release of
is an endocrine gland about the size of a pea and weighing 0.5 grams
(0.018 oz) in humans. It is a protrusion off the bottom of the
hypothalamus at the base of the brain. Regulates several physiological
processes (including stress,
growth, reproduction, and lactation).
Hormones secreted from the pituitary gland
, certain functions of the
as well as some aspects of
, water/salt concentration and the
, temperature regulation and pain relief.
is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in
enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk. It is
in over 300 separate processes in various vertebrates. Prolactin is
secreted from the pituitary gland in response to eating, mating, estrogen
treatment, ovulation and nursing. Prolactin is secreted in pulses in
between these events. Prolactin plays an essential role in metabolism,
regulation of the immune system and pancreatic development.
Animals have sex
without being taught what sex is
, and without being taught how to have
sex. Animals just have sex
at these right moments. That means that there is knowledge in human DNA
that helps drive people to have sex. If animals did not have these
instructions, animals and humans would not
. So how do hormones
communicate to the brain in a way that it produces the intended result and
action? Does that mean you can think about sex without any language or
words to describe what sex is, or without words to describe what you're
feeling? Yes. Then language is the tool that we can use to control these
automatic functions, but that's only if you have the
and know how to use
"When the phone rings, you answer it and say
hello, and then you find out what the reason is for the phone call? When a
thought appears in your mind, you answer it and say 'what is your purpose,
and what is your reason?' Mindfulness
Hormones Related to Over Eating
"The Most Important Sex Organ is the
Recreational Sex has its Dangers
is the pleasurable
in response to a fulfillment of a
is a group of neural structures
), pleasure (i.e., "liking
hedonic value), and positive
. Reward is the attractive and
of a stimulus
behavior – also known as approach
– and consummatory behavior.
Anticipation of Reward
is a fundamental desire to engage in
for enjoyment, that threatens long-term
is a person's
overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is
influenced by biological
the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters
that act upon the
nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone
regulate libido in humans.
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity.
is a motivational state and an interest in “sexual
objects or activities, or as a wish, need, or drive to seek out sexual
objects or to engage in sexual activities”. Synonyms for sexual desire are
libido, sexual attraction, and lust. Sexual desire is an aspect of a
person's sexuality, which varies significantly from one person to another,
and also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time.
involves activation of the reticular
activating system in the brainstem, the autonomic nervous system, and the
endocrine system, leading to increased heart rate and blood pressure and a
condition of sensory alertness, mobility, and readiness to respond.
are stages of processing of the
in human and
animal systems, such as vision, auditory, vestibular, and pain senses.
Included in this topic is the study of illusions such as motion
aftereffect, color constancy, auditory illusions, and depth perception.
(including bodily contact) that leads to, enhances and
maintains sexual arousal, and may lead to orgasm. Although sexual arousal
may arise without physical stimulation, achieving orgasm
usually requires physical sexual stimulation. The term sexual stimulation
often implies stimulation of the genitals, but may also include
stimulation of other areas of the body, stimulation of the senses (such as
sight or hearing) and mental stimulation (i.e. from reading or
fantasizing). Sufficient stimulation of the penis in males and the
in females usually results in an orgasm.
Stimulation can be by self (e.g., masturbation) or by a sexual partner
(sexual intercourse or other sexual activity), by use of objects or tools,
or by some combination of these methods. Some people practice
, whereby a person or their
sexual partner controls the level of sexual stimulation to delay orgasm,
and to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.
describes the broad class of mental states
that humans and other animals experience as positive, enjoyable, or worth
seeking. It includes more specific mental states such as
, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria.
pursuit of pleasure as a matter of
Hedonistic Pursuit of Pleasure
Brain Stimulation Reward
is a phenomenon in which direct
stimulation of regions of the brain through either electrical or chemical
means is rewarding and can serve as an
. The stimulation activates the reward system and
establishes response habits similar to those established by natural
rewards such as food and water.
is a form of
that involves a
compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related
called a natural reward, despite any negative consequences to the person's
physical, mental, social or financial well-being.
being enthusiastic, is an emotion involving
pleasure, excitement, and sometimes anxiety in considering some expected
or longed-for good event.
refers to any heightened state of consciousness or
intensely pleasant experience. But also characterized by diminished
awareness of other objects or the total lack of the awareness of
surroundings and everything around the object.
is an affective state and a form of pleasure in
which a person experiences intense feelings of well-being, happiness, and
moments of highest happiness and fulfillment that can range from
simple activities to intense events; however, it is not necessarily about
what the activity is, but the ecstatic, care-free feeling that is being
experienced during it. It can be rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving,
that generate an advanced form of
, and are even mystic and
magical in their effect upon the experimenter.
quantitatively investigates the relationship
between physical stimuli and the sensations and perceptions they produce.
area of the brain has a significant role
in the cognitive processing of aversion, motivation, pleasure, reward and
reinforcement learning; hence, it has a significant role in
(Reward Pathway) releases
dopamine into the nucleus accumbens, where it affects motivation for
rewarding stimuli, the perception of pleasure, and reward-related motor
function learning. It is the most significant neural pathway in the brain
in which changes occur in all known forms of addiction
is sometimes called
dopaminergic projections, are neural pathways in the
brain that transmit the neurotransmitter
from one region of the brain to another.
is a subcortical part of the forebrain that
coordinates multiple aspects of cognition, including motor and action
planning, decision-making, motivation, reinforcement, and reward
plays a major role in reward-motivated behavior.
Most types of reward increase the level of dopamine in the brain, and many
addictive drugs increase dopamine neuronal activity. Other brain dopamine
pathways are involved in motor control and in controlling the release of
various hormones. These pathways and cell groups form a dopamine system
which is neuromodulatory.
Activation of the
Ventral Tegmental Area
is essential to
. So feeling good
can be used to benefit us is a positive way, instead of controlling us in
a negative way. Brain Games
Can sex be a form of
is a clinical diagnosis
used by mental healthcare researchers and providers to describe extremely
frequent or suddenly increased sexual urges or sexual activity.
Weakness of the Flesh
is nothing new and has been around
since the beginning. Sex can easily become an
in many ways so be careful.
Science of Lust (Docudrama)
are obsessions with sexual activity. In the context of
these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating, making
the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As
preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a
symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual
is an inability to resist the gratification of whims and
desires. A disposition to yield to the wishes of
Foolish or senseless behavior. Addiction
is an instinctual libido (sexual
energy) that develops in five stages. Each stage – the oral, the anal, the
phallic, the latent, and the genital – is characterized by the erogenous
zone that is the source of the libidinal drive.
Crime of Passion
is when a perpetrator commits the act
against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden
rather than as a premeditated crime
. Is it just an excuse or a disease of the
is a strategy whereby one covers up,
consciously or unconsciously, weaknesses, frustrations, desires, or
feelings of inadequacy or incompetence in one life area through the
gratification or (drive towards) excellence in another area. Compensation
can cover up either real or imagined deficiencies and personal or physical
What are the
between Sex and
What are the similarities between Sex Addiction and
is a substance that increases libido when consumed. Aphrodisiacs are
distinct from substances that address fertility issues such as impotence
or secondary sexual (dys)function such as erectile dysfunction.
Deep and beautiful. The reward prediction error
hypothesis of dopamine
are there? We know the ones who actually admit
sex addiction but how many are actually unaware of their
What are the differences between
is the husband of an adulterous wife.
extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious,
moral, or legal grounds.
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What is Sex?
or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion the penis,
usually when erect, into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or
that involves physical and/or
intimacy is characterized by friendship, platonic love, romantic love or
sexual activity. While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the
inclusion of a sexual relationship, the term is also used as a euphemism
for a relationship that is strictly sexual.
is the capacity of humans to have erotic
experiences and responses.
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur
in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue
during it. Genital responses are not the only changes, but noticeable and
necessary for consensual and comfortable intercourse. Male arousal will
lead to an erection, and in female arousal the body's response is engorged
sexual tissues such as nipples, vulva, clitoris, vaginal walls and vaginal
lubrication. Mental stimuli and physical stimuli such as touch, and the
internal fluctuation of hormones, can influence sexual arousal.
Sex Drive (Libido)
known as sex drive, is a person's
overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is
influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically,
the sex hormones
and associated neurotransmitters
that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine,
respectively) regulate libido in men and women. Social factors, such as
work and family, and internal psychological factors, like personality and
stress, can affect libido. Sex drive can also be affected by medical
conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues, and age (e.g.,
puberty). A person who has extremely frequent or a suddenly increased sex
drive may be experiencing
, while the opposite condition is hyposexuality.
Hypoactive sexual desire disorder
is considered a sexual dysfunction
and is characterized as a lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire
for sexual activity, as judged by a clinician.
is the scientific study of human sexuality,
including human sexual interests, behaviors and functions.
is the attraction
between people which leads to friendships and to
platonic or romantic relationships. Interpersonal attraction, the process,
is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves
views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.
on the basis of
sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual
attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the
sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual
selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other
qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context in
which they appear. The attraction may be to a person's aesthetics or
movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The
attraction may be enhanced by a person's adornments, clothing, perfume or
style. It can also be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or
cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities of the person.
Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a
combination of the person possessing the traits and also on the criteria
of the person who is attracted.
- Body Smart
Sex is part
, it's part
, it's part
, it's part
it’s a persons
, it’s a persons
, it’s a persons
, it’s the other
, it’s the other persons past experiences, it’s
your past experiences, it's a persons skill level, it’s a
persons ability to trust, it’s a persons ability to relax, it’s
a persons ability to explore, it’s how well a person knows
themselves, it’s how well a person knows the other person, sex
can be something more then you can understand, sex can be
nothing at all, and sex can change your life, for better or for
should be a great benefit and a great pleasure in
your life. Sex and intimacy should never control your life, or endanger your life, or drastically alter your life’s
direction or your life’s goals. Sex and intimacy is a great
thing and should never be a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and
everyone has had sex with someone they wish that they never had
sex with. Learn from that experience, because if you don't, you will most
likely repeat that same mistake. This is easier said then done and everyone is vulnerable. So
please educate yourself. Learn about
Everyone wants to be loved, but sex is not the most important way
to feel loved
What is Sex Education?
Sex education is not just learning about where baby's come from
or how horrible venereal diseases are.
is more about knowing why something that is so
beautiful and so natural could actually have so many problems
and responsibilities associated with it. Should sex education be
separated by gender?
is instruction on issues relating to human
sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human
sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual reproduction, age of consent,
reproductive health, reproductive rights, safe sex, birth control and
sexual abstinence. Sex education that covers all of these aspects is known
as comprehensive sex education. Common avenues for sex education are
parents or caregivers, formal school programs, and public health
Single Sex Education
Advocates for Youth Sex Education
do young people think about their school-based sex and relationship
A qualitative synthesis of young people's views and
Study Finds Girls Feel Unprepared for Puberty
of Sex Ed
National Sexuality Education Standards
Lives Sexuality Education Curricula
I Wanna Know
Sex Ed Resources
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Sex Education
Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health
Sex will have a very strong
on your life. So the more you understand about
this influence the better you can control it and enjoy it.
No means No
Yes means Maybe
occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to
the proposal or desires of another.
is a process for
upon a clear appreciation and understanding of the facts, implications,
and consequences of an action. To give informed consent, the individual
concerned must have adequate reasoning faculties and be in possession of
all relevant facts. Self-Manage
How do I avoid being
into having sex when I'm not ready or willing?
because something is
does not mean that it is good or right.
Age of Consent
is the age at which a person is considered to be legally competent to
consent to sexual acts, and is thus the minimum age of a person with whom
another person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity. The
distinguishing aspect of the age of consent laws is that the person below
the minimum age is regarded as the victim, and their sex partner as the
Lack of consent. A type of sexual assault usually
involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration
perpetrated against a person without that person's consent. The act may be
carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of
or against a person who is incapable of giving valid
consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an
intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent.
is non-consensual sex (i.e., rape) in which the
perpetrator is the victim's spouse. It is a form of partner rape, domestic
violence and sexual abuse.
or fondling another person in an unwelcome
sexual way using the hands.Sex Crimes
- Dating Dangers
not expressly granted by a person, but rather implicitly granted by a
person's actions and the facts and circumstances of a particular situation
(or in some cases, by a person's silence or inaction
is a situation in which no one present objects to a proposal.
You should only ask for things or search for things, you should never
force things or take things. Stealing is more then wrong
, stealing is a
sign that ignorance has destroyed your awareness and your connection to
life. Ignorance has made a fool of many. The true joy of a gift, its true
greatness, is when a gift comes naturally, like when it comes from
someone's heart, as if it was the will of God or the will of the Universe.
Try not to go against the grain, or fight the natural flows of life's
should learn to pay attention to. When something feels wrong, or when
something feels like it's not quite right, it may be because something is
wrong or not quite right. This is when the importance of knowledge becomes
clear. We must learn to master our natural born abilities in order to
effectively utilize them.
"Let's Not, and Say we Did"
Indicates that the speaker does not agree with a proposed
action, and does not wish to participate, but offers an
alternative, to pretend that the action did take place, but only
happened only in our minds. "I don't
think so" meaning, let's take time to think about this.
This is not just about the experience, this is about the
freedom of choice
human rights. Both
parties have to agree
, if not, then there is no agreement.
So if this is not about saving lives, then
forcing is a crime
, which is not
. Don't confuse
This is not about rejection
, this is about
. I would
rather focus on long term gratification then the
describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around
them. The phrase was first used in the 1970s, an era when stress was laid
on the principle of 'doing one's own thing' and letting others do the
The effects of sexualized virtual selves
There's a big difference between
. Self-Control is when you understand human
instincts and human urges but learn to control these influences on
your behavior and your actions. Repression is being forced to
deny information and knowledge, which causes confusion and the
inability to understand your behaviors and actions. Repression
also makes you vulnerable to disinformation, with most of the
disinformation being created within yourself and not just from
other people and the world around you.
Sexual Attitude Reassessment
is a process-oriented,
structured group experience to promote participants' awareness of their
attitudes and values related to sexuality, and to assist them in
understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally
Sex must be Consensual, if not, then its most likely to be
exploitive or possibly destructive. And this is not to confuse
"not being in the mood" with not being "sexual attracted to
someone" or not even 'liking someone'. A relationship solely
based on sexual attraction is hardly ever sustainable,
especially if you don't have a sincere and honest relationship.
You have to feel comfortable with someone and enjoy their
company. You should also have similar interests, enjoy the same
activities, and have similar goals and similar dreams. If you
lack these similarities then you're most likely to be two people
living separate lives, but being together.
Each person also needs to know how to communicate effectively
without implications or
. You should
be with someone you can trust, someone who knows how to touch
you, someone who knows how to kiss you, someone who knows how to
talk to you, before and after intimacy. And the talking after
part is the most important aspect of a relationship. Because if
a relationship is not sincere and honest it is most likely to
fail and could possibly be dangerous or destructive. If you are
not able to make it on your own, then your dependency on
relationships could put you in danger, especially if you're not
with the right person.
is one that accepts and encourages
casual sexual encounters, including one-night stands and other related
activity, which focus on physical pleasure without necessarily including
emotional bonding or long-term commitment. It is generally associated with
Western late adolescent behavior and, in particular, American college
culture. The term hookup has an ambiguous definition because it can
indicate kissing or any form of physical sexual activity between sexual
are certain types of sexual activity
outside of romantic relationships that imply an absence of commitment,
emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are
sex in casual relationships, one-night stands, extramarital sex,
prostitution, or swinging.
is a physical and emotional
relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual
relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra
commitments of a more formal romantic relationship.
is the individual difference in the willingness to
engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. Individuals
with a more restricted sociosexual orientation are less willing to engage
in casual sex; they prefer greater love, commitment and emotional
closeness before having sex with romantic partners. Individuals who have a
more unrestricted sociosexual orientation are more willing to have casual
sex and are more comfortable engaging in sex without love, commitment or
Why do some people have homosexual tendencies and
thoughts while on cocaine?
Less Than Zero (film
Sexual Behavior, Sexual Identity, and
Among Low-Income Bisexual and Non-Gay-Identifying
African American Men Who Have Sex with Men.
Abuse of some prescription drugs can be risk for college sexual assaults,
Romantic Remorse - Hookup Regret.
Besides learning the joys of sex
we also have to be aware of the
of sex, the addictive nature of sex, the
mind consuming and thought control of sex,
The Sexual Triggers
, the life changing
moments that sex can create, the diseases that you can get from
having sex and that Pregnancies happen because of sex. Just
because you haven't personally experienced difficulties does not
mean they don't exist. And just because you have personally
experienced difficulties does not guarantee that you actually
learned something important from the experience .....this is sex
What is Gateway
about sex will both have their share of
vulnerabilities and ignorance. Both will cause you to make bad
decisions. Because they are both based on
. How do you tell the
self-confidence and having a false sense of security?......is
this sex education?...
Are people delusional for
thinking that their obsession with sex is normal and that they
are not hurting anyone? If you believe that you can control
yourself and control your
does it mean that you don’t need
or refraining from sex make you more vulnerable
to the influences of sex and more likely to experience sexual
What is a
What is a
and Intimacy Coach
It's not just
that sex occupies your thoughts, sex also makes you do things
and makes you say things that you are not fully aware of, what
are they? What are these implications that you are unaware of
and what are the effects that sex can have on yourself and the
effects that sex can have on others?
Stronger Working Memory Reduces Sexual Risk Taking in
Adolescents, Even After Controlling for Parental Influences
Sex can consume a lot of time in
your life. So if you are not aware of how much time is actually
being consumed by this obsession with sex, then it will turn
into more then just an
and most likely distort reality and cause you to
and may cause you to take irrational
You have to learn as soon as you can that
if you don't know how to control obsessions with sex it will end
up controlling you….this is sex education..
Why does sex affect the normal
processes of the mind? Is this why teenagers make bad decisions?
does sex have on the human mind?
The Biology of Sexuality
Having seconds thoughts about something or discovering something
about yourself is all part of the Journey.
Am I with this person just for
sex? Is this person with me just for sex? Can sex be the cause
Can sex be used as a method of control? Can you still be
friends without sex? What are the dangers of kiss and tell and bragging
about sexual encounters?
Psychology of Sexual Monogamy
Do drugs make sex better or do they just make you think that the
sex is better? If sex is already good to begin with why does
changing the perception of good sex by using drugs thought to be
Natural Sexual Enhancers
The Facts of Life - The Birds and the Bees
The basic physiological functions involved in sex and
Often used with the details of sexual behavior and reproduction. Something
unavoidable that must be faced or dealt with.
is the process of physical changes through which a
child's body matures into an adult body capable of sexual
is a young person's transition from being a
child to being an adult. The certain age at which this transition takes
place changes in society, as does the nature of the change.
is the age or stage when an organism
is a transitional stage of physical and
occurs during the period from puberty to legal adulthood (age of
Development of sexuality is an integral part
of the development and maturation of children. A range of sensational,
emotional and consequent sexual activities that may occur before or during
early puberty, but before full sexual maturity is established. The
development of child sexuality is influenced by social and cultural
aspects; the perception of developing child sexuality is even more heavily
influenced by cultural aspects. The concept of child sexuality also played
an important role in the classical psychoanalysis.Mental Maturity
The Birds and the Bees
What if your under age child
starts thinking about sex?
explain that you're not here to censor them, or predetermine
their intelligence, you're mostly saying "please don't rush this." Rushing it
will not make you a better person, or make your life more
meaningful, or make you look cool, or will it make you understand sex more just
because you experience it. You might think that sex will make you
, but popularity has
it's own dangers. Sex is more then a biological function, it's emotional
and complicated. And these complications and particular
better experience when you are older and more mature and more
educated and knowledgeable about sex and about relationships and all the
vulnerabilities that are associated with them. Sex is a risk, it's a
journey and it's beautiful, but it's not for kids. So hey, at least
you got one good thing to look forward to when you get older,
kidding of course, there are millions of things to look forward
to. Don't waste your time thinking about sex like previous
generations, focus on the
important knowledge, you'll thank me later. In other words....
Explain to them that Sex is for
Fully developed Adults, and this is why. Sex is not for people
under the age of 16. Mostly because a 16 year old person is not
fully developed yet
, mentally or physically. And
is needed to cope with the dangers of sex. Mental maturity
is also needed to help minimize the risks
that are associated
with sex. Not to say that you can't have sex, or that you can't get pregnant
or catch a disease, it's just saying
that you need to be more prepared, which takes time and
takes education. And being prepared is a
responsibility that you will need to have your entire
life. Young adults must also understand their vulnerabilities
and their weaknesses when it comes to
pressure from friends
from others that forces you to do things that you do not want to
do, which is not your fault. You must learn what actions and
will protect you from these unwarranted influences.
Sex is for reproduction
, sex is for bonding with someone you
love, and sex is also for pleasure.
And this pleasure, reproduction and bonding is more suited for
the adult mind, an adult mind that fully understands the
vulnerabilities of human life, and the adult mind that fully
understands the temptations in life that can easily exploit an
uneducated mind. And sadly these uneducated minds are
everywhere, and not just among the children, these
uneducated minds are also among most adults. So please wait till
you have learned everything that you need to know. If not, you
will make mistakes, with some of those mistakes drastically
effecting your life in the most awful way you could ever
imagine. I want you to enjoy sex, I just don't want sex to ruin
your life, like it has for a lot of people, just look around
Please be careful, Life doesn't have an
. It's better when you are young to focus more on
friendships and save the relationships for after 16 or older.
Relationships are more complicated, more responsible, more
emotional, more difficult and
and painful when the relationship ends. So there's a lot to
learn. Even though relationships are a lot of work, it's great to
feel loved, and it's great to share life experiences with someone
you love. You will soon understand how extremely important
friendships are. So learn about
and learn what it takes to have good
. Enjoy the roller-coaster.
in young people is definitely a concern, but you
first need to define sexual behavior verses inappropriate behavior. It may
not be sexual, but a more a confused reality.Beware of the
TV, Magazines, and the News, they are not your friends, they are
more about Manipulation then they are about Education and keeping you
Human Sex Drive
is a person's overall sexual drive
or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological,
psychological and social factors..
In order to acquire Mental Maturity you should study these
Information LiteracyMedia Literacy
Age of Majority
is the threshold of adulthood as it
is conceptualized (and recognized or declared) in law.
Is the chronological moment when minors cease to legally
be considered children and assume control over their
persons, actions, and decisions.
is a person under a certain age generally 18.
If you're a child and an adult asks you
what do you think or know about sex? Just answer that you are
too young and that you don't waste time thinking about things
that you know you shouldn't be doing, or do things that are not
beneficial to you at this time in your life, instead you spend
your time thinking about the things that you can do, things that
are important, valuable and known to be enjoyable. There's a
time and place for everything, and this is not the time, or the
comes to desire, if you give in, you may have to give something
up. So the more educated and knowledgeable you are, the better
your chances will be in making good decisions, and, the better
your chances will be that you will never feel tormented, or feel
guilty, or feel like you have no control over your life, because
you do. It's only a
if you keep making the same mistake over and over
again. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential,
Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.
that you stop feeling
about not doing interesting things that
would impress your friends, is one of the most
liberating moments in your life. You have to live your
life, just don't do things to impress others, or do
things to feel important or do things just to be
Experiences are important to have, just don't let your
control you, Some experiences you
still have to plan and prepare for, you still have to do
research, and you still have to learn more and do a
. You should not feel bad about
saying no, just apologize for not being ready. Not
feeling comfortable is not an answer, just explain why
you are not ready. Because when we can explain
ourselves, we learn and we also teach. You're not being
selfish when you're saying no, you're just saying no at
this moment. What does your gut say? What does your
common sense say? Even though you are responsible for
your actions, mistakes happen. So please be careful.
and no blame. You'll be ok. Remember be
true to yourself. Be fearless, but be responsible.
, but be compassionate and be sensible. You
care about your friends needs, just don't feel guilty or
feel insecure about not being ready to fulfill those
needs. Be honest. If my absence makes this experience
more dangerous, then we should all wait. Don't judge
your friends, and tell your friends not to judge you,
learn from each other.No Pressure
that something is bad, or wrong, or a sin, does not
. And just knowing who says it is not
important, whether you say your father says it, or your
mother says it, or God says it, or the leader says it,
or an expert says it, what's important is knowing why it
was said. There is no replacement for knowledge. Either
you know something or you don't know something. If you
can't explain something in a way that it's understood,
then you should learn more about it, you should know
most of the benefits, and know most of the dangers, and
be able to accurately see in a side by side comparison,
what the best choice is, and know why it is the best
choice, and be able to explain it. Trying to pretend
that you know something, is dangerous, and it's also a
very ineffective way of teaching and learning. This is
not to say that you might get lucky from time to time
giving advice, and that advice would save someone from
making a bad mistake, but everyone knows, it's better to
know then it is to depend on luck, because you are not
always that lucky. Saying that Ignorance is bliss is a
lie, Intelligence is bliss, and that can be proven, just
like ignorance is proof that you're an idiot.
There's more then just
STD Testing at Home
The Most Sexually Diseased Cities in the USA
More cases of sexually
transmitted diseases were reported last year than ever before.
than 1.5 million people were reported with chlamydia, the most common
sexually transmitted disease (STD). The CDC recorded nearly 400,000 cases
of gonorrhea and nearly 24,000 cases of syphilis. 19 percent increase in
syphilis cases, a 13 percent rise in gonorrhea and a 6 percent increase in
chlamydia. Gay and bisexual
men account for many of the
new cases, and the biggest numbers are among young adults, especially
those in their late teens and early 20s. "Half of all STDs occur in youth
under age 20".
Can Safe Sex be fun? Hooking up
believed to be unnatural?
How do I learn Safe Sex?
Why is safe sex so difficult
to talk about?
Girls who use other birth control methods without using
condoms makes them more vulnerable to sexually
transmitted infections. (STI's)
Sexually Transmitted Disease
, and the
Human Papilloma Virus
to name a few.
Growing antibiotic resistance forces updates to recommended treatment for
sexually transmitted infections
Disease Control and Prevention
. Billions of dollars in
healthcare costs for treating STD's.
HIV/AIDS killed .47m people in 2010 and viral hepatitis killed
1.44m, more people in 117 of the 187 countries tracked by the
Health Metrics and Evaluation
is sexual activity engaged in by people who have
taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or
protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged
in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.
Safer Sex Guide
Globally, an estimated two-thirds of the population
under 50 are infected with
Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1
More than 3.7 billion people under the age of 50
67% of the population, are infected with herpes simplex
virus type 1 (HSV-1)
Condom Nick Names
The Rubber, the C**k Sock, the Goalie, the
Love Glove, the Salami Sling,
the Raincoat, the Safety Tool,
the Willie Hat.
Cap Condom on just the Tip
Sexually active women who used condoms
had larger colonies of beneficial microbes in their vaginas,
which preserve the natural flora of the vagina, and also helps
How to put on a Condom
Female Condom Demonstration
Condom Use Instructions
LELO HEX - The World's First Re-Engineered Condom
are made from the highest grade materials on
earth without the harmful additives. For every condom
you purchase, one is distributed in a developing country
in need. Get love, give love.
Condoms made from this Native Australian Grass would be
as thin as a human hair, but as strong as latex
Teen Pregnancies, Abortions Plummet With Free Contraception
Long-Acting Reversible Contraception (LARC)
The Safest Sex is No Sex
Abstinence-only Sex Education
Vapors - Turning Japanese
Birth Control Pills
What are the
methods are Safe?
Birth Control Methods used by Countries
Teen Pregnancy Prevention
(IUD) What is an
Pulling out early does not always work because
still comes out before ejaculation.
Sperm calcineurin inhibition prevents mouse fertility
with implications for male contraceptive
And having sex on your period or
is not a guarantee that you won't get pregnant either.
When should you or even should you visit
Adolescent Maternity Program
Is safe sex really that intrusive or am I just giving into pear
pressure or the fact that I’m selfish and can only perform sex
under certain narrow minded conditions? Is it just me or am I
just being stubborn and spoiled? I can still enjoy driving a car
wearing a seatbelt, I can still enjoy the beach wearing suntan
lotion, so I should be able to enjoy sex even if I have to wear
If you care about yourself and you care about the person you are
with, then you wear a condom.
Can masturbating with a condom make you more at ease with using
If a women helps you to put on condom for you, will you be more at
ease with using a condom?
Would this make you want to use a condom more?
Unplanned pregnancies, single
parents and foster children. .......this is sex education.....
Birth Control Sabotage
If you can't
take responsibility for an outcome you know is possible, then
you either don't do it, or you do everything possible to
minimize the risk
. No one is saying that you can't do it, we
are just saying that "Don't be
about it." Try to avoid making your life more
complicated then it needs to be. Learning = Power, Power =
Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control =
Toxins and Dangers to
Instead of the
Mourning after Pill
, How about "The Day Before Pill
"? A pill
(in the form of knowledge and information) that protects
you from not being aware of choices, options and
responsibilities. This way you make far fewer mistakes and not have to
feel like an ignorant moron. So you wake up the next day, you will be
extremely happy because you made no mistake the day before. We'll call the pill
"Education Plan A
" and we will make it free to everyone. No side
effects, no guilt and no problems. Just more happiness and more
potential. Just make it against
the law for a Man to have sex without a Condom.
The Man must
have a written "Contract
" from a women if he wants to
have sex without a condom. If not, then they both risk getting a fine. The
fines will be
used to pay for sex education. If you cannot enjoy
sex safely, then you should not have sex at all
. And if you believe
that a condom reduces the pleasure of a sexual experience, then you
obviously don't know enough about sex, so don't have sex until you learn
enough about sex and know how to enjoy sex fully and safely. And you
should also know about the things that are risky and reckless.
Knowing what to do is just as important as knowing
what not to do
comes form knowledge. And education is your responsibility, no one else's.
How Accurate are home Paternity Tests
One reason why education needs drastic
. My heart goes out to all women because this is no
doubt one of the hardest decisions a women has to make. I wish
that men would be more responsible and respectable towards women
and just wear a condom, and I wish that women would be more
responsible and respectable towards themselves and practice
birth control, or at least self-control, but of course it's not
that simple, and blaming someone doesn't help. We need more
education and less
Because as history clearly shows, regulation and
does not work, it does not solve our problems, it only makes our
problems worse. So we need more education and less legislation
because education has been clearly documented as being the
greatest determining factor in improving life for everyone. I'm
Prolife, as most Prochoice people are, but I'm not going to tell a women what she should do
with her life, or would I back any law that would tell a women what
she should do.
People who hide behind the word pro-life in order to force their
beliefs on women, or to intimidate women, are acting more like
pro-idiots then they are pro-lifers. The hearts of pro-lifers may be in the right place but they are
clearly not using their brains. If you are truly prolife then you
should be helping to
Feed Starving Children
, helping children
with diseases, helping homeless children, helping abused
children, helping children who have no parents, and you should
also be helping to educate children so they learn to respect
themselves and learn to respect others, and learn about the
dangers of life so they can avoid having to make life or death
decisions. Intimidating pregnant women is not going to help
them. Women need our love and support, as all children do. Women
as a blessing as most women do. But if a women
feels that her pregnancy is not a blessing, then she needs our
help and our support, she does not need our guilt or our regrets. I
see a future where all women will feel blessed to be pregnant,
and they will give birth because they're educated, healthy and full of
love. And if a women decides not to give birth, it will not be
because she was threatened or coerced, it will be because it was
thought to be the right decision for her and her baby at that
Roe v. Wade
Do Prolife Groups Really Protect the Unborn
Killers - India
Ever since Texas passed HB2 in 2013 At least 100,000
Texas women—and as many as 240,000—between the ages of
18 and 49 have attempted to
, according to a report
released today by the
Texas Policy Evaluation Project
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Abortion Laws (HBO)
Targeted Regulation of Abortion Providers (TRAP Laws)
Study Finds Women Who Want Abortions Are Often Given
Nearly half of all abortions worldwide are unsafe, and
nearly all unsafe abortions (98%) occur in developing
countries. In developing world, 56% of all abortions are
unsafe, compared with just 6% in developed regions. In
2008, six million abortions were performed in developed
countries and 38 million in developing countries, a
disparity that largely reflects population distribution.
(wiki) There are about 4.4 million confirmed
pregnancies in the U.S. every year. 900,000 to 1 million of those end in
pregnancy losses EVERY year. Approximately 75% of all miscarriages occur
in the first trimester. An estimated 80% of all miscarriages are single
miscarriages. The vast majority of women suffering one miscarriage can
expect to have a normal pregnancy next time. An estimated 19% of the adult
population has experienced the death of a child (this includes
miscarriages through adult-aged children).
Sudden Infant Death
300.000 Mothers die from complications from pregnancy and
childbirth every year
40-50 million abortions every year in
the world. This corresponds to approximately 125,000
abortions per day. 1.72 billion abortions worldwide in
the last 40 years.Population Still Rising
Causes of Death
When do I get to fully explore my
You most likely will not
get it right the first time...so when will you get it right?
How long does it take to know someone?
The Miracles: You Better Shop Around
When will I know who is the right person to explore my sexuality
What is a Kiss
How to Kiss Creatively
Master the Art of Kissing
What is a
What is an
How to make out
is a bruise or bruise-like mark caused by the kissing or sucking of the
skin, usually on the neck or arm. While biting might be part of giving a
hickey, sucking is sufficient to burst small superficial blood vessels
under the skin. Be extremely careful because a young person died after
receiving a hickey from his 24-year-old girlfriend. The suction was strong
enough to cause a blood clot in the neck. The clot traveled to his brain
and caused a fatal stroke. The stroke occurred hours after the hickey was
given, when he began having convulsions while having dinner with his
Caressing is touching or stroking gently or lovingly.
is a complex system of nerve cells that
changes to the surface
or internal state of the body.
is sensual proximity or touching. It is an act or reaction, such as an
expression of feelings (including close friendship, love, or sexual
attraction), between people. Examples of physical intimacy include being
inside someone's personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing,
caressing, and sexual activity.
is a set of emotionally and physically intimate
acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire
for sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate
sexual interest to initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the
active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both
partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy
between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust
between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the loose equivalent is
sometimes termed 'precoital activity'.
Why is is foreplay important?
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur
in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue
Why is a
more beneficial to a person then an
is touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using
What is a Skin Orgasm
Why can’t you tickle
is the act of touching a part of a body in a way that causes involuntary
twitching movements or laughter. The word About this sound "tickle"
evolved from the Middle English tikelen, perhaps frequentative of ticken,
to touch lightly.TouchingBody Smart
is a condition in which a person will engage in sexual
activities while asleep.
What is being in the
? What are some of the things that help you get in the
mood? Can you control your Mood?
What does it mean to be treated like an object?
Why is it important to find a good lover, and to be a good lover?
Knowing how to effectively
communicate to yourself
is one thing, knowing how to
communicate with others
is another thing.
How do you avoid
Sexual Performance Anxiety Causes and Treatments
Sometimes men, in order to maintain an erection and to keep from
having an orgasm to quickly, men must learn to stay focused continually for many
minutes, and then be able to change focus back and fourth when needed.
How do you handle
How do I talk to my partner about sex when I have little or no
Will having great sex make it more difficult to repeat a great
Should I just settle for and except mediocre sex?
effect my sexuality?
Feeling comfortable in your own skin.
Pubic Hair Grooming Prevalence and Motivation Among Women in
the United States
that hard disk behind my nipple?
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before
they figure out what they like?
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before
they become experienced?
When is the right time to talk about sexual preferences with
If I feel uncomfortable doing a particular sex act do I still
have to do it because my partner likes it?
Can I find ways to
enjoy something that I normally don’t like?
How do I explain to my lover what I like and what I don't like?
Do I need a
or Consensual Sex Agreement, or is this
unnecessary and dangerous?
When is having a good
sense of humor
about sex important?
What is a
Falling out of
Love, or Falling out of Lust?
Why is it called Cheating?
What is Love
Some of My Personal Experiences with
(feeling boxed in)
A man who readily or frequently
enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer.
A male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and
especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them,
when in reality they are only interested in sex. "play him for a
fool", or "play him like a violin".
What is a Open Relationship?
Why can't you have an affair with the person your with? Acting
and dressing up as other people could be fun.
Breaking up sucks, and on top of that, you're always wondering
what went wrong. It would be great if there was a last meeting
between the two people ending a
that would be used to discus why the friendship or relationship can not
continue. Then at least you
could have a chance to explain certain behaviors or changes. So
at the least a person could learn from the experience, even if the
friendship or relationship ends.
Effective communication skills
again become extremely
important. Never under estimate the importance of effective
communication skills. It's extremely important for everyone to
learn effective communication skills, or have someone teach you
effective communication skills. Communication is your vehicle
for transferring knowledge and information, not just to others,
but to yourself. To be a great learner, you have to be a good
communicator. Because if you don't have the necessary vocabulary
to tag information
, then remembering this information is extremely
difficult. This is why we name things.
When I say your name, I'm
saying that I remember you. Even though a name or label could
never fully explain everything about the contents, names and
labels do make our lives a lot easier.
Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity a talk for anyone who has
Why does a
cause so much pain?
do I need to know?
It's not just how you touch your lover, or where you touch your
lover, it's more about how your lover reacts to your touch,
which can vary depending on the time, the place and the mood.
Positions for Female Orgasm
Style, Cowgirl, Legs Over Shoulders
Positions for Female Orgasm
that enhance your sexual experience all in your
head or is this your real
Why are there so many
Should I learn
Sensual Massage Techniques
helps overcome physical challenges &
disabilities, achieve a broader range of motion with
More than 56 million Americans who have some kind of
Disability Sex and Relationships
Mechanics of Human Sexuality
The mechanics of human sexuality or mechanics of sex, or
more formally the
sexuality, is the study of the mechanics related to
human sexual activity. Examples of topics include the
biomechanical study of the strength of vaginal tissues
and the biomechanics of male erectile function. The
mechanics of sex under limit circumstances, such as
sexual activity at zero-gravity in outer space, are also
Pioneering researchers studied the male and female
genitals during coitus (penile-vaginal penetration) with
ultrasound technology in 1992 and magnetic resonance
imaging (MRI) in 1999, mapping the anatomy of the
activity and taking images illustrating the fit of male
and female genitals. In the research using MRI,
researchers imaged couples performing coitus inside an
MRI machine. The magnetic resonance images also showed
that the penis has the shape of a boomerang, that one
third of its length consists of the root of the penis,
and that the vaginal walls wrap snugly around it.
Moreover, MRI during coitus indicate that the internal
part of the clitoris is stimulated by penile-vaginal
movements. These studies highlight the role of the
clitoris and indicate that what is termed the G-spot may
only exist because the highly innervated clitoris is
pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when
the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal
Human Sexual Activity
is the manner in which humans experience and express their sexuality.
People engage in a variety of sexual acts, ranging from activities done
alone (e.g., masturbation) to acts with another person (e.g., sexual
intercourse, non-penetrative sex, oral sex, etc.) in varying patterns of
frequency, for a wide variety of reasons. Sexual activity normally results
in sexual arousal and physiological changes in the aroused person, some of
which are pronounced while others are more subtle. Sexual activity may
also include conduct and activities which are intended to arouse the
sexual interest of another or enhance the sex life of another, such as
strategies to find or attract partners (courtship and display behavior),
or personal interactions between individuals (for instance, foreplay or
BDSM). Sexual activity may follow sexual arousal. Human sexual activity
has sociological, cognitive, emotional, behavioral and biological aspects;
these include personal bonding, sharing emotions and the physiology of the
reproductive system, sex drive, sexual intercourse and sexual behavior in
all its forms. In some cultures, sexual activity is considered acceptable
only within marriage, while premarital and extramarital sex are taboo.
Some sexual activities are illegal either universally or in some countries
or subnational jurisdictions, while some are considered contrary to the
norms of certain societies or cultures
examples that are criminal offenses in most jurisdictions are
and sexual activity with a
person below the local age of consent.
Do you have to have an
in order to enjoy sex?
or full body orgasm, or
Where does the
come from? Sex is not supposed to be a race to the finish line. While 75 percent of men always reach
orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In
addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal
intercourse, instead needing
shouldn't be just about the orgasm but more about the
exploration of the human body and the exploration of our senses,
this way you learn something about yourself and the other
person, thus sex becomes more enjoyable and more meaningful over
In what ways can a man make a
How to Make Me Come, tumblr
Anyone could have a particular area of their body that
can be sensitive to sexual stimulation.
Why does a persons
Stop Yourself Being Ticklish - with Dr Emily Grossman
Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone
A blended orgasm happens when
both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm occur simultaneously.
direct stimulation of the
Why do females make more sounds then men during sex?
Female Copulatory VocalizationTouching
is a wet dream or sleep orgasm.
Can sleeping on your stomach provoke sex dreams?
is an orgasm triggered by
Can Sex be a form of
The Secret to Great Sex is Communication
and feeling comfortable in your own
. You need to Communicate
with yourself and communicate
with your partner openly and honestly. And then you have to make sure that the
information that you're communicating is being interpreted
correctly so that the desired action is performed to your liking. To figure out
what kind of mood
someone is in, is not that easy. That is why
communication is so valuable. You don't have to be able to read
each others minds if you're both good at expressing yourselves
using words, or using
. And once you remove all
fears and doubts, that is when sex becomes
truly amazing, like a spiritual awakening. Make your lover feel
, make them feel loved, make them feel comfortable and
"To be Good in Bed you have to be Good in
5 Things You Should avoid Before Sex:
Don't eat a heavy meal. Don't drink too much. Don't worry about
how you look.
Don't forget the lube. Don't forget to pee (before and after).
What do you think would be the
How many hours would
How many activities would you do?
What do you think would be the best sexual experience?
the intimacy begin?
How would it proceed?
And how would it
How confident are you in accomplishing all these
Could you be spontaneous if plans change?
have a backup plan?
Do you need practice?
is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more
people who act out roles
in a sexual
fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually
is a sexual fetishism where an individual is
obsessed and fixated by another or oneself wearing a uniform.
Live Action Role-Playing Game - LARP
Sharing your Sexual Fantasies with your Partner
The Perfect Sexual Experience:
Write the sex script and create the scene of how you want your
sexual experience to be like. Share the script with your lover.
The more details there are the more accuracy you will have in
the performance. Two
playing their parts, both knowing what the other is going to do.
The main focus is making the other person feel loved, as well as
making the other person feel beautiful attractive and sexy. You
also want to make the other person feel comfortable, relax and
worry free. Talk about your fears and any
, hang-ups, or
that you may have, so they don't
distract you, or get in the way. And don't expect perfection or
miracles to happen the first time. The sex script will need
practice, rehearsing and editing. So eventually the experience will happen
smoothly and natural, if not, it may become awkward at times and cause
you to lose the passion or ruin the mood. But remember this is
not a test, so put aside all judgments. This is a learning
journey of discovery. Open your mind and open your heart. You also want to make sure that each person is well
groomed, clean and smelling nice before you start. Don't make
love to a body, make love to the person. Being good in bed is
not just about being skilled with the mere mechanics of sex,
it's about making a connection, it's seeing each other, touching
each other, feeling each other, tasting each other, smelling
each other, and listening to each other. It's sharing an
intimate moment in life. Coming together is not just about
. Coming together is making a connection. And
it's not all about like and dislike, it's more about what you
know and what you don't know. You come to learn, you don't cum
to learn. There is so much that we can learn from each other, it
would be a shame not to talk and cuddle.
They have dinner, they take a romantic walk, they return home,
they sit close together, they look
into each others eyes, they kiss softly, they whisper softly
into each others ears, they gently touch each other, they slowly
undress each other, softly caressing the skin as each item of
clothes is removed. Both give each other oral sex on their
knees (optional). The women then gets into
her first sexual position
gently guides the penis into her vagina. The man goes deep as
specified by the women, she also specifies the rhythm and the
speed and any variation that would give her the most pleasure.
After a few minutes they change position to one that is more
comfortable to the man, after a few minutes they change into
another position that they both feel comfortable in. Caressing
the skin in areas the person likes to be touched and for how
long. Speaking words that the person likes to hear and not
speaking words they don't like to hear. During
intercourse the kissing may get more passionate, but the kissing
is done exactly they way each other likes it.
Then they lie next to each other, softly caressing, quite,
enjoying the rush of
, feel the breathing as your
return to normal, you can then after a few minutes fall asleep, talk,
or take a shower, in any order you choose. So this is only one
example, and of course people have different ideas, so there can
be many variations. You may number them for quick reference,
like variation number 12 or 44.
After Sex Effect:
The experience after sex is just as important as the actual
experience of sex itself. There is nothing worse then feeling
guilty after an orgasm. You have to make sure that your lover
has no bad feelings after sex. After sex you should feel
extremely happy and relaxed. Sometimes people may feel a burst
of energy and feel energetic, and some people become tired and
just fall asleep
So it is a good idea to talk about the moments after sex. After
an orgasm, a man’s brain releases a
cocktail of different
, and each man reacts a little differently. Some
women like to cuddle after sex. So men need to be aware of a
women's needs after sex, and not just during sex. What you say
and how you act is very important, before, during and after.
are hard to describe and even harder to reenact. So don't ever
expect too much from a fantasy, for every fantasy is just an
idea, and as we all know, not every idea is a good idea, so be
careful what you wish for."
Timing is everything.
When Breathing, taking drugs, eating food, saying certain words, and doing
certain actions, all have to consider the timing and the place. Just like
a movie director does with its actors. (Off
) Off timing can ruin a good experience, so we need to rehearse and
The Importance of Partner Responsiveness for
Experiencing Sexual Desire.
dangerous, especially when you don't have
. You want to feel comfortable in your own skin,
but not so comfortable that you believe that you're better then others,
and eventually stop paying attention to other peoples needs.
What is Flattery
Is the attention and generosity sincere and honest or is it just
a way to manipulate you in order to gain favors?
What are the differences between
What is a
Just because it
does not mean you have to do it. There’s a lot of
things that feel good that a person can do.
Choosing the right
, that has the least amount of negative side effects, is
not that easy, but it can be done.
There’s a difference between choosing and having a
Sex is awesome, just don't let sex control your life. Of course
that is just one of many advices that are
easier said then done
should never be explored in real life?
am I even having these types of fantasies to begin with?
some sexual fantasies considered healthy and why are some sexual
fantasies considered not so healthy?
What makes a
particular sex act
When does Sex become a Crime
What makes something
What is a
Code Words and Meanings
What is considered
Dominance and Submission
Lower Back Tattoo
or Tramp Stamp?
Should I limit the amount of sexual fantasies that I have?
Should I dream of sexual fantasies that are more reality based
and limit the amount of sexual fantasies that should never
happen or that will never happen?
make sex fun? Where do strong sexual desires
Why does exercise and a good diet increase your
sexual desire and stamina?
Sexual Fetish Psychology
really help to enhance the sexual experience?
What are the dangers of
Is Oral Sex necessary?
so seductive and so
significant, and then sometimes degrading?
is an oral sex act performed by a person on a
Eating Pussy Info-Graph
(wiki) oral sex is using the mouth on the penis.
Giving a Blow Job Info-Graph
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A person can have sex with one person
their whole life. But that doesn't make them an expert. It only
means that they had sex, and not that they have learned enough
for them to be an expert. And just because you had sex with
several different people, this too does not make you an expert.
It mostly depends on who you're with, and that both of you had
the time and knowledge to fully explore the world of intimacy.
But just going to school does not make you a teacher. To be good
in bed is to be good in the head. Meaning, it's what you know
and not how well you blow. But for some people it's the
opposite. Being good in bed might be enough for some people, but
eventually, you will realize there is so much more to life then
sex. And that is when you will enjoy sex even more. Sex is
personal, and sex is an agreement between two people. And each
person will experience sex in their own way, even when they have
sex with the same person multiple times. When you can openly
communicate with your partner about sex, that is when sex
becomes its best. But, you can have a great relationship with
someone but not have great sex with that someone. And, you can
have great sex with someone, but not have a great relationship
with that someone. And when you can have a great relationship
with someone, and have great sex, and feel you're in love, that
is when you get married. Unless of course your life takes you
both in two different directions, which happens. You can have it
all and still not have everything, which is the mistake that
everyone makes. What we want is not necessarily what we need.
And the only way to know exactly what we need is to keep
learning. You can think about the "what ifs", or you can think
about the "what now?" A "what if" is just a guess of where you
might have been. A "what now" is knowing where you are at the
present time, and where you think you are going to be in the future.
What is a Sugar Daddy
Age Disparity in Sexual Relationships
A Sugar Baby is a slang term for a young female or male who is
financially pampered/cared for by a 'sugar daddy' or 'sugar
mama' in exchange for companionship.
is a person (usually female) who cultivates a
personal relationship in order to attain money
What is a
Why does having sex change you
Why does having sex make you believe that your world is better?
Why does having sex make you believe that you are better then
Why is self-discipline and self-control considered unnecessary
when it comes to sex?
Why do I have the urge to smoke tobacco and drink large amounts
of alcohol after sex?
Why does sex change a
What should I do when things start to get
or become too
What is this new level of closeness that is created by having
Why does sex produce change in some while others feel no change
Why does sharing something so special become so complicated?
Does the relationship have to change?
How do I explain to someone that "I" have changed?
Does it have to be change or be nothing? What is change? Yes we
improve ourselves, yes we grow up, and yes we mature, but How do
we know if we are growing up right?
organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm.
Boys have one X and
is the primary male sex hormone
and an anabolic steroid. In men, testosterone plays a key role in the
development of male reproductive tissues such as the testis and prostate,
as well as promoting secondary sexual characteristics such as increased
muscle and bone mass, and the growth of body hair.
stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male
characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors. This
includes the activity of the primary male sex organs and development of
male secondary sex characteristics.
Your penis is small, compared to who? My penis is
perfect, but it might not be so perfect for you. I might
be small but I'm still
(Alphaville) "Does Size Matter?" The size of
your vocabulary matters, but even then, it's the quality of the
words that you know, and how effective you are at using them.
the matter of size is all relevant? Does size matter? Matter to
what? Does it matter to sex? Sex with who? Sex with a women?
Which women?" It's not a one size fits all, it matters to
some, and it doesn't matter to others.
"It's not the size of the boat
, nor the motion of the ocean,
it's whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for
all the passengers to get off."
, love stick, holy-poker, schlong, joy-stick,
twig and berries, skin flute
Science of 'Morning Wood'
Morning glories, or
nocturnal penile tumescence
(NPT) as they are correctly called, are
spontaneous erections that occur during sleep or while waking up.
Hypothesizes that the noradrenergic neurons of the locus ceruleus are
inhibitory to penile
erection, and that the cessation of their
discharge that occurs during REM sleep may allow testosterone-related
excitatory actions to manifest as NPT. A full bladder can stimulate an
erection has existed for some time and is characterized as a
focuses on surgical and medical diseases of the male
and female urinary tract system and the male reproductive organs.
is a set of attributes, behaviors and roles generally associated with boys
and men. Masculinity is socially constructed, but made up of both
socially-defined and biologically-created factors, distinct from the
definition of the male biological sex.
is the practice of having casual sex frequently with
different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual
or sex drive, is a person's overall sexual drive or
desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological,
psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and
associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens
(primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in
is the quality of
lacking strength or power; being weak and feeble. An inability (usually of
the male animal) to copulate, which means that you are unable to engage in
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity.
is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in
or desire for sexual activity.
The combination of Fantasy and Self Stimulation.
Make sure your hands are clean
and be very careful with soaps, oils or
creams. Be gentle, and Learn.
How much should you masturbate?
What are some the health concerns that a person should have when
Is Sexual Self-Stimulation Wrong
All sex has its
, but knowing those dangers is not easy.
Use masturbation as a way to
how long you can maintain an erection without
Try not get get near an orgasm, because once you are close to
having an orgasm it's hard to control it and stop it from
is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a
partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of
for an extended
period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm
control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without
waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the
decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much
greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced
For men, you should not masturbate just to
. There are benefits to having
, but balance
is a set of techniques for cultivating a more fulfilling sexual or loving
relationship, combining breathing techniques, bio-energy, yoga,
massage, sexuality and spirituality.
is what Taoists believe that a man loses when he
ejaculates, so they like to avoide ejaculation in order to conserve life
essence by minimizing the loss of
How does sex affect my energy
discharge of semen (normally containing
from the male reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the
final stage and natural objective of male sexual stimulation, and an
essential component of natural conception
, 2–5% Approximately 200-
to 500-million spermatozoa (also called sperm or spermatozoans), produced
in the testes, are released per ejaculation. If a man has undergone a
vasectomy, he will have no sperm in the ejaculation.
(65–75%) amino acids,
citrate, enzymes, flavins, fructose (2–5 mg per mL semen, the main energy
source of sperm cells, which rely entirely on sugars from the seminal
plasma for energy), phosphorylcholine, prostaglandins (involved in
suppressing an immune response by the female against the foreign semen),
proteins, vitamin C. Prostate
phosphatase, citric acid, fibrinolysin, prostate specific antigen,
proteolytic enzymes, zinc (the zinc level is about 135±40 micrograms/ml
for healthy men. Zinc serves to help to stabilize the DNA-containing
chromatin in the sperm cells. A zinc deficiency may result in lowered
fertility because of increased sperm fragility. Zinc deficiency can also
adversely affect spermatogenesis.) Bulbourethral
< 1% galactose, mucus (serve to increase the mobility of
sperm cells in the vagina and cervix by creating a less viscous channel
for the sperm cells to swim through, and preventing their diffusion out of
the semen. Contributes to the cohesive jelly-like texture of semen.),
pre-ejaculate, sialic acid.
is a slang term for the condition of temporary
fluid congestion (vasocongestion
in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged
sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. Some urologists call
the condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced
by all males
What is the difference between
from Porn and Masturbation Challenge
What is the difference between
- Nervous System
Hirsuties Coronae Glandis
Urinary Tract Infection
Postorgasmic illness syndrome
Seminal plasma hypersensitivity reactions: an updated review,
Allergic to Semen
in the human body is the
and the smallest
, 500 Million from Ejaculation.
List of Distinct Cell Types in the Adult Human Body
is the sex of an organism, or a part of an
organism, that produces non-mobile ova (egg cells)
Girls have two
is the primary female sex hormone
. It is
responsible for the development and regulation of the female reproductive
system and secondary sex characteristics.
is a protein that in humans is best known for its
role in enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk.
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Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder
taboo-free way to talk about Periods
is made of medical grade silicone, shaped like a bell
and is flexible. It is worn inside the vagina during menstruation to catch
menstrual fluid (blood). About every 4–12 hours (depending on the amount
of flow), the menstruating woman removes the menstrual cup from her
vagina, empties the collected menstrual blood into a toilet or sink,
washes the cup under running water and inserts it again. At the end of the
monthly period, the cup can be sterilized, usually by boiling in water.
Unlike tampons and pads, the cup collects menstrual fluid rather than
Human Body Knowledge
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- The Off Switch for Menstrual Pain.
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Intelligent Dispensing Solutions
Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists - Women's
Health Care Physicians
is a plastic surgery procedure for altering the
labia minora (inner labia) and the labia majora (outer labia), the folds
of skin surrounding the human vulva.
Vagina Ideal Cirugía vaginal rápido ideal para niñas
are two flaps of skin on either side of the
human vaginal opening in the vulva, situated between the labia majora (the
Latin for big lips; also called outer labia, or outer lips). Inner lips
vary widely in size, color, and shape from individual to individual.
Photos of different Vaginas
, furburger, pleasure-pit, cherry pit, joy-hole, lady bits, beaver, fanny,
man in canoe, rosebud, joy buzzer, lentils, chick pea, love
button, bald man in a boat.
is designed to bring a woman pleasure. That is its
sole purpose. Not reproduction
The clitoris contains 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, double the
nerve endings in the glans of a penis.
The word "Clitoris" is from the Greek work for "key"?
Understanding and getting to know the clitoris may unlock your
Only one quarter of the clitoris is partially visible to the
naked eye. The rest of it is inside the women's body. The
clitoris is actually close to four inches in length (kind of
like the average non-erect penis), but three-fourths of it is
hidden from view within a female's body. Besides the clitoris
being made up the clitoral head, the hood and the clitoral
shaft, it is also composed of the urethral sponge, erectile
tissue, glands, vestibular bulbs and the clitoral legs. Only the
clitoral head and the hood are located outside the body. Some
sex experts believe that the G Spot is actually a part of the
The clitoris varies in size and shape on different women. Some
are hidden under the hood, and some stick out. Some like to be
touched softly and others like a lot of pressure. It takes time
to get to know a woman's clitoris. Don't assume that you know
what it likes. Take your time and get to know each unique
clitoris, just like you would take the time to get to know the
woman it is
Fifty to 75 percent of women who have
have their clitoris touched (clitoral stimulation). Most women
are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. There
are all kinds of orgasms. Vaginal, Cervical and G Spot Orgasms
do exist, but they are much harder for most women to achieve
than a clitoral orgasm. Very few women are able to achieve an
orgasm without any kind of clitoral involvement. There is
nothing immature about women having orgasms through their
clitoris. A clitoral orgasm can bring about anywhere between
three and 16 contractions and can last from 10 to 30 seconds.
But that doesn't exclude the fact that many women have
that can include pelvic contractions. Some sex educators
have compared and contrasted male and female orgasm and have
concluded that even the most average clitoral orgasm lasts
longer than even the best ever most fantastic
The clitoris grows throughout a woman's life. After menopause,
the clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when the
same woman was a teenager. I don't think that there has been an
actually study about clitoris size in relation to pleasure. And
I don't think that women have a size thing about their clitoris,
the way men do around penis size. I have never ever met a woman
who has measured her clitoris, but I have met men who have
measured their penis.
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Vibrator (sex toy)
- I Touch Myself
Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder
Dorsal Nerve Cord
She's kidding of course. She's just making a point about
how sensitive our private areas are, especially
Public Displays of Affection
proper and not proper?
Public Displays of Affection
are acts of physical
intimacy in the view of others. What is an acceptable display of affection
varies with respect to culture and context. Displays of affection in a
public place, such as the street, are more likely to be objected to, than
similar practices in a private place with only people from a similar
cultural background present. Some organizations have rules limiting or
prohibiting public displays of affection.
is a type of close partner dance where two or more
dancers rub or bump their bodies against each other, this is generally
with a female dancer rubbing her buttocks against a male dancer's crotch
is a type of dancing in which an individual, often
female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving
thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance.
is the act of exposing in a public or
semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally
exposed – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may
arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to
groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or
sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander. Exposing oneself only to an
intimate partner is normally not regarded as exhibitionism. In law, the
act of exhibitionism may be called indecent exposure, "exposing one's
person", or other expressions. Flaunting
is a mode of dress and deportment which intends to
avoid encouraging of sexual attraction in others.
is not the same as having
is tending to provoke, excite, or
stimulate. Exciting sexual desire.
is marked by or tending to
sexual desire or interest, Exciting
Why are certain clothes too sexy for wearing in public?
comes in three major forms, playful, hurtful, and
educative. When teasing is playful and friendly, and especially when it is
reciprocal, teasing can be regarded as flirting. When teasing is
unwelcome, it may be regarded as harassment or mobbing, especially in the
work place and school, or as a form of bullying or emotional abuse. If
done in public, it may be regarded as humiliation. Teasing can also be
regarded as educative when it is used as a way of Informal learning.
Adults in some of the Indigenous American Communities often tease children
to playfully illustrate and teach them how their behavior negatively
affects the community. Children in many Indigenous American Communities
also learn by observing what others do in addition to collaborating with
them. Along with teasing, this form of informal learning is different from
the ways that Western American children learn. Informal ways of child
learning include mutual responsibility, as well as active collaboration
with adults and peers. This differentiates from the more formal way of
learning because it is not adult-oriented.
Why is certain
too sexy for wearing in public?
Social Impact of Thong Underwear
What's the difference between feeling sexy and looking
Do you have to look sexy in order to feel sexy?
is a photographic style featuring intimate,
romantic, and sometimes erotic images
of its subjects,
primarily intended for the private enjoyment of the subject and their
romantic partners. It is distinct from glamour and art nude photography in
that it is usually more suggestive rather than explicit in its approach to
nudity and sexuality, features subjects who do not regularly model, and
produces images which are not intended to be seen by a wide audience, but
rather to remain under the control of the subject.
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is an erotic or exotic dance in which the
performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive
and sexually suggestive manner. The person who performs a striptease is
commonly known as a "stripper" or exotic dancer.
a term used to describe as a response to gay
pride adopted by various LGBT groups in the early 1970s or to the
accommodations provided to gay pride initiatives.Bullying
Freedom of Expression
, but we also need
Respect for each other
When Sex Becomes a Crime
- Criminal Behavior
What is the difference between
sexual content on TV
? Why does explicit sexual images have the same effect as
suggestive sexual undertones that show no nudity? Why is sexual
content OK for advertisers while
is frowned upon even though pornography is
prevalent throughout the world?
is the portrayal of sexual subject matter for
the purpose of sexual arousal. Pornography may be presented in a variety
of media, including books, magazines, postcards, photographs, sculpture,
drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, and video
games. The term applies to the depiction of the act rather than the act
itself, and so does not include live exhibitions like sex shows and
striptease. The primary subjects of pornographic depictions are
pornographic models, who pose for still photographs, and pornographic
actors or porn stars, who perform in pornographic films. If dramatic
skills are not involved, a performer in a porn film may also be called a
model. Boudoir PhotographyErotica
is any artistic work that deals substantively with erotically stimulating
or sexually arousing subject matter. All forms of art may depict erotic
content, including painting, sculpture, photography, drama, film, music or
literature. Erotica has high-art aspirations, differentiating it from
is the state of wearing no clothing.
of Pornography Addiction (SFW)
"If it's in focus, it's pornography, if it's out of focus,
it's art." (Billy Kwan) Type of Pornography that
people watch the most by State
(people sure love women, which is
Exploitation of Women in Mass Media
is the use or portrayal
of women in the mass media (such as television, film and advertising) to
increase the appeal of media or a product to the detriment of, or without
regard to, the interests of the women portrayed, or women in general.
is the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure.
broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard
to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined
at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of
is a person regarded primarily as a source of
sexual gratification. A person viewed primarily in terms of sexual appeal
or as a source of sexual gratification
Sex in Advertising
is the use of sex appeal in advertising
to help sell a particular product or service. Sexually appealing imagery
may or may not pertain to the product or service in question. Examples of
sexually appealing imagery include nudity, pin-up models, and muscular
is to make something sexual in character or quality, or to become aware of
sexuality, especially in relation to men and women.
Sexuality in Music Videos
A survey found that 72.2% of
black, 68.0% of white, and 69.2% of Hispanic youths agree with the
suggestion that rap music videos contain 'too many' references to sex.
Kids need to see naked bodies as natural and uneventful, but the
media wants kids to see
as sexual and provocative.
Porn Info Graph
Porn should be something like this
Eyes down finish your work
. Have someone role playing out a sexual
experience for you based on your education level and needs. And at the
same time, the video should teach the person about
also teach the person not to
the person they are with, which is one of the main problems
with porn, is that it misleads you and fools you into believing a false
reality. You don't personally know who those people are or what they are
thinking. Like actors in a fantasy super hero movie
, they are fictional
characters and in a sense they are not real people, thus this is not
reality, even though some aspects can be considered reality. But as a whole,
it is not reality. And that is the danger of all films
, which is the
disconnection from reality, where nothing is learned, only fantasized. So
when the person try's to combine fantasy with reality, they either hurt
themselves or hurt others.
is a cultural and political movement practising,
advocating and defending personal and social nudity, most but not all of
which takes place on private property. The term may also refer to a
lifestyle based on personal, family and/or social nudism.
is sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, primarily between
mobile phones. The term was first popularized in the early 21st century,
and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the
wide sense of sending a text possibly with images. Exchange of images
solely between two romantic partners. Exchanges between partners that are
shared with others outside the relationship. Exchanges between people who
are not yet in a relationship, but where at least one person hopes to be.
Sexting has become more common with the rise in camera phones and
smartphones with Internet access, that can be used to send explicit
photographs as well as messages
The Human Body is Beautiful and does not need
hyped up perception from people
using nudity to sell
something. Nudity and sex is not bad, what's bad is how the
ignorant and perverted people use sex and nudity to exploit
peoples ignorance and exploit peoples lack of self-control.
Sexual images and pornography can have damaging effects on the
minds of young adults and older adults. And the mainstream media
feeds these perversions as a way to distract and manipulate
young minds and adults. This is why
is so extremely important. Information and knowledge is the only
protection against misinformation and ignorant perverted people
who want to hurt you....Keep Learning My Friends.
History of Erotica Sexuality
Gallop: Make Love, Not Porn
So you think you know what porn is
Teenage Brain on Porn
make you stupid?
Why do we let emotions and pleasures control our actions?
Philip Zimbardo: The Demise of Guys and Arousal Addiction
Why are kids so insecure about
Why do kids become violent because of sex?
Why do people
by the media or are we just some how vulnerable
to these weaknesses?
illegal in some places while being legal in
is the business or practice of engaging in
sexual relations or sex acts in exchange for payment, or some other
Is Prostitution necessary? Can you experience sex with someone
just for fun? Can you experience sex with someone just to
learn about sex?
is a person who is employed in the sex industry.
consists of businesses which either directly or indirectly provide
sex-related products and services or adult entertainment. The
includes activities involving direct provision of sex-related
services, such as prostitution, strip clubs, Host and hostess clubs and
sex-related pastimes, such as pornography, sex-oriented men's magazines,
sex movies, sex toys and fetish and BDSM paraphernalia. Sex channels for
television and pre-paid sex movies for on demand, are part of the sex
industry, as are adult movie theaters, sex shops, and strip clubs.
were women and girls who were forced into
by the Imperial Japanese
Army in occupied territories before and during World War II.
is a sexual ritual consisting of sexual
intercourse or other sexual activity performed in the context of religious
worship, perhaps as a form of fertility rite and divine marriage (hieros
Why are there more female prostitutes then
is a place where people may come to engage in sexual
activity with a prostitute, sometimes referred to as a sex worker.
Toni Mac, The Laws that Sex Workers really want
is an enduring pattern of romantic or sexual
attraction (or a combination of these) to persons of the opposite sex or
gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender.
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community
GLBT National Help Line: 1-888-843-4564
GLBT National Help Center for Youth: 1-800-246-7743
GLBTQ Domestic Violence Project: 1-800-832-1901
is one's personal experience of one's own
Gender Identity Disorder
is when a person experiences
distress as a result of the sex and gender they were assigned at birth.
is the view that everyone should receive equal
treatment and not be discriminated against based on their gender.
is a person who disrupts, or "bends", expected gender
is a set of
types of behaviors which are generally considered acceptable, appropriate,
or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex or
sexuality. Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of femininity
and masculinity, although there are exceptions and variations. The
specifics regarding these gendered expectations may vary substantially
among cultures, while other characteristics may be common throughout a
range of cultures. There is ongoing debate as to what extent gender roles
and their variations are biologically determined, and to what extent they
are socially constructed.
was a Canadian man born biologically male but
reassigned as a girl and raised female following medical advice and
intervention after his penis was accidentally destroyed during a botched
circumcision in infancy.
Me My Sex
And I - My Sex Life
are people who have a gender identity, or gender
expression, that differs from their assigned sex.
is one possessing any of several variations in sex characteristics
including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals.
is the act of wearing items of clothing and
other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex within a
particular society. Cross-dressing has been used for purposes of
, comfort, and
self-discovery in modern times and throughout history.
is a form of cant slang.
suggests the importance of
in human sexuality.
is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or
sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual
attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is
sometimes alternatively termed
, which is the sexual attraction, romantic love,
or emotional attraction toward people regardless of their sex or gender
identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind,
asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in
determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
is one or more changes in sexuality
or sexual identity (sometimes known as sexual orientation identity).
refers to sexual attraction to
non-binary identified individuals
or those who do
not identify as
. This does
not generally describe an attraction to specific
genitalia or birth assignments but rather is an
really different from Straight Sex?
all have to deal with all the
are related to sexual activity, so what’s the difference?
of (or discontent with) a person or group on socially characteristic
grounds that are perceived, and serve to distinguish them, from other
members of a society. Stigma may then be affixed to such a person, by the
greater society, who differs from their
is prejudice or
on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is
particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked
to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex
or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster
sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.
If sex is a personal preference
, then why is gay, bisexual,
straight and other forms of sexual preferences all judged
Sexual Attraction and Orientation Study Among Adults
If a gay person is just dating someone for the sex,
and if a straight person is just dating someone for the sex,
then this is not about being Gay or Straight, it's all about the
influences of Sex. And you wonder why sex education is so
To say that you are Gay or Straight does not say anything
about who you are, only your sexual preference.
who are you
If I was
attracted to women before I even knew what sex was does that
just about sexual attraction?
Then what's the
You Choose to Be Straight
is not just related to being
gay, it is just another indication of the powerful influences of
Psychology of Sexual Monogamy
is a form of relationship in
which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at
any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or
polyamory. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some
animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.
is defined as the practice of, or desire for, intimate
relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the
knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as
"consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".
There is a big difference between flaunting
and being proud, so
whether you're Straight or Gay,
the dangers are
is intended to attract notice and impress others. Showing off.
Parading. Act ostentatiously or pretentiously.
To exhibit ostentatiously or shamelessly.
or pleasure in something by which you
measure your self-worth;
Having or displaying great dignity or nobility.
refers to the
way that a person uses appearance, mannerisms and other
personal traits to communicate their gender. Gender
expression can be any combination of masculine, feminine
Why we need Gender-Neutral Bathrooms
is committed to creating a non-intimidating,
welcoming environment for our members.
Our gender identity non-discrimination policy states that
members and guests may use all gym facilities based on their
sincere self-reported gender identity.
Can the amount of
neonatal brain was exposed to, profoundly influenced
sex-specific behavior in later life?
Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome
Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia
In the Womb -
(youtube) One identical twin is gay the other is not.
has effects on the
Sex-determination System - Chromosomal Determination
is a biological
system that determines the development of sexual characteristics in an
organism. Most organisms that create their offspring using sexual
reproduction have two sexes. Occasionally, there are hermaphrodites in
place of one or both sexes. There are also some species that are only one
sex due to parthenogenesis, the act of a female reproducing without
Most of us don't know that all babies
have the exact same genital tissue when they are conceived. At
about 12 weeks, each baby's genitalia begin to differentiate
into a penis
. We are
more alike than we are different. The clitoris and penis are the
same materials assembled in a different way. The clitoris has
glans, a foreskin (also known as the hood), erectile tissue and
very small shaft -- all the parts that a penis has. It even
swells when it's aroused.
are a group of medications used to inhibit
puberty. They were originally used to treat children with precocious
puberty or other such early onset of puberty. Puberty blockers slow the
growth of sexual organs and production of hormones. Other effects include
the suppression of facial hair, deep voices, and Adam's apples for boys
and the halting of breast growth and menstruation in girls.
What does it mean to be Male?
What does it mean to be
Female? Why do we have gender specific behavior?
You should have the right to be who you feel you
are, as long as it does not include
behaviors that are demoralizing to a
particular sex. Being a man should not include the stupid things
that men do, things that supposedly make a man feel more like a
man. Being a woman should not include the stupid things that
women do, things that supposedly make a woman feel more like a
woman. Acquiring social norms is a form of discrimination
towards yourself. Being yourself should not be about finding
ways to fit in, or
is about you exploring and discovering
things about you and the world around you, and then sharing this
knowledge with others. Women dress up like men and men dress up
like women, so who cares. Your sexual identity only defines 10%
of who you are as a person. Your
will always be the most important part of who you
are, everything else is just details.
is the combination of masculine and feminine
(none of which define a persons character)
Pantywaist or Effeminate is having feminine qualities. A timid man or boy
considered childish Indicating a lack of
or unassertive. Inclined to timidity or lack of
does not mean that you understand something
fully or accurately. It's only a guideline.
and Homosexuals have to practice
What is a Cooperative Marriage?
What ever your sexual preference is, you still have to deal with
all the vulnerabilities
and you still have to
of the closet even necessary?
Is coming out necessary
Perception of Sexual Orientation
To Each His Own
Pants Prank 2
(youtube) yes it is embarrassing, but why?
sex in their own personal way. Sometimes
people's likes and dislikes are similar, and other times they
are not, whether they are male or female. And if two people
wanted to be close with each other consensually, then they are
two consenting adults, and no one has the right to pry into
their personal lives, no one. What people do in the privacy of
their own home is not anyone's concern, especially when no one
is being hurt, exploited or victimized. The problem is that some people
are afraid of seeing gay couples openly, like that's some how
promoting gay sex. If that was true then that's making the
assumption that seeing a man and a women together is in a way
promoting sex. That's a narrow minded view and incredibly
presumptuous to say that everyone is a sex addict and that
everyone can't control themselves, except for you, for some strange
reason. That's also saying that gay sex is more of a threat then
sex itself? Which is incredibly ignorant and illogical,
especially when you look at rapes, pornography and all the other
ways that people are victimized and exploited by so called
straight sex or normal sex.
So this is not
about sexual freedom, this is clearly a
problem, and not the
of the accused, but the
of the accuser. To assume that other people are
going to be influenced by other peoples
, is saying that you cannot control your own
, so you think that others must not be able to
control their own
too, which is wrong and ridiculous. So the core of
this issue is
is something that you are supposed to control, and
of others should not control or influence your
in any way. But that doesn't always happen, so
again, that's a
problem. We are not educating people enough to
understand their own
or understand the
of others. And there are a lot of different
issues plaguing society, and the gay prejudice
issue is not even an major issue if you compare it to all the
other issues that are threatening society. And that's why the
media and politicians want to make a big deal out of this issue.
So they can distract people from the more dangerous issues, like
corporate abuse, political corruption, the poisoning of water
and land, spying, greed,
creating jobs that make a difference
, and so on and so on. Just give gay
people their rights and stop wasting everyone's time, people,
resources and money. We have more important problems to solve.
So it seems that our government is the biggest threat to
society. Our problems are getting worse and our government
officials are doing less, you scumbags need to be fired. So the
only people you need to worry about f**king you in the a** is
your own government, and guess what, you're not a virgin
anymore. Which doesn't make you Gay, it just means that you're
gullible and that you need to be more informed. The government
has no right to rape their citizens. So tell your government
officials that they must register as sex offenders. After all,
it's the "Law".
I'm not Gay or could I ever be, not to say that there's
anything wrong with it, it's just not me. I Love Women. And the
fact that Women also love Women, that just proves and confirms
that Women are awesome, so I'm not alone. So I guess that also
says that if a Man loves another Man then that is proof that Men are lovable
so everyone is lovable
, which is awesome. Everyone has the
right to be loved, so who am I to judge who gets to love who.
But I still think men are little
gross when compared to women, well call me old fashion, OK,
me stupid too
, I'm not going to argue with you about that.
Bad Behavior is another way of
saying that you are lacking valuable information and knowledge
that would provide you with a better understanding of yourself
and the world around you, so that your reactions to situations
and events are more accurate and less destructive and abusive.
Blind and Gay
"How do you know that someone is
different? They're just like you, except they have a different
, which proves just how dangerous and illogical
that racism is, or any kind of
for that matter. To prejudge someone is like
hating yourself for living, or worse, it's hating someone you
don't even know, someone who could be a friend, someone who can
Resources for Sex Education
National Sex Study
Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Sex Education Links
Institute for Sexual Wellness
Institute for Sexuality
American Experience: The Kinsey Study
The Journal of Sexual Medicine
Sexuality in Ancient Rome
Sexual Health (indiana edu)
Sex Education Books
The New Speaking of Sex:
What Your Children Need to Know and When They
Need to Know It
Teens, Sex and Health
A Comprehensive Approach
to Sexual Education.
What Your Kids Need to Hear from You About Sex
Sex, Puberty and All That Stuff
A Guide to Growing Up
All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to get you through
High School and College
Videos about Sex
Brain Sex: Why We Fall in Love
The Surprising History of Sex and Love - Terry Jones
History Specials Ancient Inventions of Sex
Season 1 Episode 115 | Aired on 03/02/2014 | TV-14 | 49:15
Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship
Sex Talks on TED
Christopher Ryan: Are we designed to be sexual omnivores
- Hunch n Munch (Rap Songs about Sex)
Couples Playing Sexy Charades and Sex Positions
Sex Factors, Sexual Health, Sexy Secrets for
Great Sex, Sex Ed Video
Dr. Vincent Bellonzi (youtube)
This Film Is Not Yet Rated
So this is education, and sex is just one of over a
hundred other subjects
that you will be studying in your lifetime..
And it's never been just about Sex, it's about
, it's about the
, it's about the
Learning about what it’s like to be
.The Human Condition