is best learned in age appropriate
, starting with the easiest to
understand information for the young
and the more complex information for the
and older student.
The Facts of Life
- Birds and the Bees
and Mental influences of Sex
Physical Changes - Mental Changes - Responsibilities
- Vulnerabilities - Abilities
What is Sex
?Human Sex Drive
- Permission Safe Sex
Why and When Humans Reproduce
Toxic DangersWomen's Body
MarriageVideos about Sex
Books about Sex
- Public Displays
Some sexual content
may be disturbing or overwhelming
for some people,
. Do not be alarmed. Do not be distracted. Stay
focused on what's important, like your
education, your family, your friends, your goals. Most
sexual experiences are not relevant to you
and you will most likely never be exposed to certain
sexual experiences. Sex education is
learning about certain human behavior. And certain
is not something that you want to
experiment with. This information is to make sure that
you are not victimized
or manipulated by
your lack of knowledge, or other peoples lack of
knowledge. Everyone is on a
Need to Know
The Sex Knowledge below is not
an any particular order. The Information below is just
the beginning of what kind of course material that might
be included in Sex Education.
How do you prepare kids
for the onslaught of sexual imagery that is portrayed in
No matter how subtle or insignificant sex may seem, you
should be prepared for its
intimacy is one of our greatest gifts
to experience but sadly it is also one of our greatest dangers.
For young adults the
to have sex is
sometimes over whelming and hard to deal with, as well as the
need to Feel Loved. Young adults also have a hard time
understanding Body Image
and the powerful influences of the
Human Sex Drive
. So young
adults have to learn about the dangers of peer pressure. Young
adults also have to learn about
and the different
ways to express their appreciation for others. Young adults also
have to learn about the powerful
influences of the
Human Sex Drive
. Sex is
not the problem. The problem is what happens to a persons
understanding of themselves and what happens to their
understanding of others after they have experienced
. I would recommend that young adults wait to experiment
with sex until they're over 16, including masturbation. This
will allow their
to catch up with their
, which should help kids to have a better
chance of handling the changes they will experience. Kids should
also be aware that their first time having sex might not be the
best experience, which they should also be prepared for. Know
the difference between
and truly liking someone for who they really
are. It takes time to get to know someone, and then on top of
that, a person can change and so can you. So it's not easy
finding the right
Know the differences
and having a
does not always mean
does not always mean sex.
And sex is not needed to confirm that you love someone or care
about them. Love is Blind, why? A lot of times you’ll find that
some people just don’t feel the same way that you do
also you’ll find that some people will never feel the same way
that you do. You also have to be aware of other peoples beliefs,
religion, traditions and
, because they may not see things the same way that
you do, so it's always a good idea, and a proper thing to do, to
ask before acting, don't assume.
is a part of life, it shouldn’t be a big part of your
life. There are much more meaningful aspects of a
to enjoy. Though
can be a great expression of
between two people, it should never be the sole
reason for wanting to be with someone. We should be aware of the
power of sex to seduce and also be aware of its
. Also be aware
that your feelings before a relationship might not be the same
after you have become
. Being open and honest is very important. Be
responsible, have safe sex and learn to be intimate unselfishly.
You sometimes have to have sex more then once in
order to reproduce
. So if sex didn't
feel good, we wouldn't do it again, thus humans would not have survived.
But just because something feels good
this doesn't mean that you don't have control. Just like breathing, if you
had to remember to breathe, you would forget to breathe and die. That is
why breathing is automatic. But you can control your
, if you could not
control your breathing, you would die underwater because you did not hold
your breath. Humans have inherited automatic features. But humans also
have a brain that can learn and acquire knowledge, which gives us control
over our lives, control over our abilities and control over our automatic
"Don't confuse sex, love and intimacy. One does not
necessarily imply the other. Experiencing one does not necessarily satisfy
our need for the other. While all three ideally come together at certain
moments, each of them must be attended to and appreciated. And finally, do
not forsake one for the other. You can have them all."
"You should desire
to know someone first, before you desire to touch
Anything that can
become obsessive or controlling will always leave you
vulnerable to mistakes and cause you to make bad
decisions. So avoiding these types of behaviors may save
your life and may save the life of others."
Sex education is so extremely important. Educating our young on
and all of its pleasures, all of its
understandings and all of its dangers, would give our young the
to be much more comfortable and capable of making the right
decisions. They would enjoy sex no matter what small inconveniences that
there might be associated with having
, or using
is any member of a class of
by glands in multicellular organisms that are transported by the
circulatory system to target distant organs to regulate physiology and
. Hormones have diverse
chemical structures, mainly of 3 classes: eicosanoids, steroids, and amino
acid derivatives (amines, peptides, and proteins). The glands that secrete
hormones comprise the endocrine signaling system
. The term hormone is
sometimes extended to include chemicals produced by cells that affect the
same cell (autocrine or intracrine signalling) or nearby cells (paracrine
signalling).Everyone, especially young
people, should be fully aware of
the physical and mental effects of certain Hormones.
Body Effects the Mind
Everyone should also be fully
aware about all the
that sex and intimacy has on the human psyche.
steroid hormones that interact with vertebrate androgen or estrogen
receptors. Their effects are mediated by slow genomic mechanisms through
nuclear receptors as well as by fast nongenomic mechanisms through
membrane-associated receptors and signaling cascades. The term
is nearly always synonymous
with sex steroid. The polypeptide hormones luteinizing hormone,
follicle-stimulating hormone and gonadotropin-releasing hormone are
usually not regarded as sex hormones, although they play major sex-related
Sexual Motivation and Hormones
is influenced by hormones such as
testosterone, estrogen, progesterone, oxytocin, and vasopressin. In most
mammalian species, sex hormones control the ability to engage in sexual
behaviours. However, sex hormones do not directly regulate the ability to
copulate in primates (including humans). Rather, sex hormones in primates
are only one influence on the motivation to engage in sexual behaviours.
Orgasm Steroid Hormone
is a steroid that acts as a hormone. Steroid hormones can be grouped into
two classes: corticosteroids (typically made in the adrenal cortex, hence
cortico-) and sex steroids (typically made in the gonads or placenta).
Within those two classes are five types according to the receptors to
which they bind: glucocorticoids, mineralocorticoids (corticosteroids),
androgens, estrogens, and progestogens (sex steroids). Vitamin D
derivatives are a sixth closely related hormone system with homologous
receptors. They have some of the characteristics of true steroids as
receptor ligands. Steroid hormones help control
, development of sexual
characteristics, and the ability to withstand illness and injury. The term
steroid describes both hormones produced by the body and artificially
produced medications that duplicate the action for the naturally occurring
is an organic compound with four rings arranged in a specific
molecular configuration. Steroids have two principal biological functions:
certain steroids (such as cholesterol) are important components of cell
membranes which alter membrane fluidity, and many steroids are
steroid hormone receptors.
Hormones cause energy levels to rise, and hormones also
creates changes in your
, so you need to be
hormones are hormones whose molecules are peptides or proteins,
respectively. The latter have longer
amino acid chain
lengths than the former. These hormones have an
effect on the endocrine system
including humans. Most hormones can be classified as either amino
acid–based hormones (amine, peptide, or protein) or steroid hormones. The
former are water-soluble and act on the surface of target cells via second
messengers; the latter, being lipid-soluble, move through the plasma
membranes of target cells (both cytoplasmic and nuclear) to act within
their nuclei. Like all peptides
, peptide hormones and protein
hormones are synthesized in cells from amino acids according to mRNA
transcripts, which are synthesized from
templates inside the cell nucleus. Preprohormones, peptide hormone
precursors, are then processed in several stages, typically in the
endoplasmic reticulum, including removal of the N-terminal signal sequence
and sometimes glycosylation, resulting in prohormones. The prohormones are
then packaged into membrane-bound secretory vesicles, which can be
secreted from the cell by exocytosis in response to specific stimuli (e.g.
--an increase in Ca2+ and cAMP concentration in cytoplasm).
bioresources for plant peptide hormones using gene editing technology
biological or artificially manufactured short chains of amino acid
monomers linked by peptide (amide) bonds.
Peptides are distinguished
on the basis of size, and
as an arbitrary benchmark can be understood to contain approximately 50 or
fewer amino acids.
is any hormone produced and released by
(also called neurosecretory cells) into the
is an organic molecule, such as
, or nerve growth factor, that participates in
in the brain increases arousal and alertness
, promotes vigilance, enhances
formation and retrieval of memory
; it also
increases restlessness and anxiety
. In the rest of the body,
norepinephrine increases heart rate
and blood pressure, triggers the
release of glucose from energy stores, increases blood flow to skeletal
muscle, reduces blood flow to the gastrointestinal system, and inhibits
voiding of the bladder and
y. norepinephrine is to
mobilize the brain
and body for action. Norepinephrine release is lowest
during sleep, rises during wakefulness, and reaches much higher levels
during situations of stress
or danger, in the so-called
is an organic chemical in the catecholamine family that functions in the
brain and body as a hormone and neurotransmitter.
is a nucleus in the pons (part of the brainstem) involved with
physiological responses to stress
plays a role in social bonding
in both sexes, and
during and after childbirth. Oxytocin acts like a modulator in the brain,
turning up the volume of certain
others down, helping the brain
sense of the barrage for information it receives from one moment to the
next. Processes a wide array of
involved in social interactions ranging from
monogamy. Oxytocin is sometimes known as the "cuddle hormone" or the "love
hormone," because it is released when people snuggle up or bond socially.
be a contributor to feelings of well-being and
, regulation of
. also has some
are naturally produced in response to
, but their
production can also be triggered by various human activities. Vigorous
can stimulate the release of endorphins in the
bloodstream, leading to an effect known as a "runner's high".
may also stimulate endorphin production;
a 2011 study showed that attendees at a comedy club showed increased
resistance to pain
Adrenalin or Epinephrine
plays an important role in the
increasing blood flow to muscles
of the heart, pupil dilation,
and blood sugar
. Epinephrine does this by its effects on alpha and beta
are endocrine glands
that produce and release a
variety of hormones including adrenaline and the steroids aldosterone
and cortisol. two adrenal glands are found attached to the top of each
kidney. Each gland has an outer cortex which produces steroid hormones and
an inner medulla. The adrenal cortex itself is divided into three zones:
zona glomerulosa, the zona fasciculata and the zona reticularis. Adrenal
glands can become either overactive or underactive.
main mineralocorticoid hormone, is a steroid hormone produced by the zona
glomerulosa of the adrenal
cortex in the adrenal gland. It is
essential for sodium
in the kidney, salivary glands,
and colon. It
plays a central role in the regulation of the plasma sodium (Na+), the
extracellular potassium (K+) and arterial
. It does so mainly
by acting on the mineralocorticoid receptors in the distal tubules and
collecting ducts of the nephron. It influences the reabsorption of
of potassium (from and into the tubular fluids, respectively) of the
kidney, thereby indirectly influencing water retention or loss, blood
pressure and blood volume. When dysregulated, aldosterone is pathogenic
and contributes to the development and progression of cardiovascular and
renal disease. Aldosterone has exactly the opposite function of the atrial
natriuretic hormone secreted by the
mediates the stress
through the production of mineralocorticoids and
glucocorticoids, such as aldosterone and cortisol, respectively. It is
also a secondary site of androgen synthesis. Recent data suggest that
adrenocortical cells under pathological as well as under physiological
conditions show neuroendocrine properties; within the normal adrenal, this
neuroendocrine differentiation seems to be restricted to
of the zona
glomerulosa and might be important for an autocrine regulation of
(electrolyte balance and
fluid balance). The primary mineralocorticoid is aldosterone, notable
for an aldehyde group at the 18 position. A class of steroid hormones.
role in regulation of glucose
in the adrenal cortex, and its steroidal structure. A less common synonym
is glucocorticosteroid. A class of steroid hormones.
released in response to stress
functions to increase blood sugar through gluconeogenesis, to suppress the
, and to aid in the
. It also decreases bone formation.
chemicals capable of acting outside the body of the secreting individual
to impact the behavior
of the receiving individual.
primary functions are to retain water
in the body and to constrict blood
vessels. Vasopressin regulates the body's retention of water by acting to
increase water reabsorption in the kidney's collecting ducts, the tubules
which receive the very dilute urine
produced by the functional unit of the
kidney, the nephrons.
is a branch of biology and medicine
dealing with the endocrine system, its diseases, and its specific
secretions known as hormones.
is the collection of glands of an
organism that secrete hormones directly into the
carried towards distant target organs. The phenomenon of biochemical
processes' serving to regulate distant tissues by means of secretions
directly into the circulatory system is called endocrine signaling. The
major endocrine glands include the
, pituitary gland,
pancreas, ovaries, testes, thyroid gland, parathyroid gland, and adrenal
glands. The endocrine system is in contrast to the exocrine system, which
secretes its hormones to the outside of the body using ducts. The
endocrine system is an information signal system
yet its effects and mechanism are classifiably different. The endocrine
system's effects are slow to initiate, and prolonged in their response,
lasting from a few hours up to weeks. The nervous system sends information
very quickly, and responses are generally short lived. In vertebrates, the
is the neural control center for all endocrine systems.
are glands that produce and secrete
substances onto an epithelial surface by way of a duct. Examples of
exocrine glands include sweat
salivary, mammary, ceruminous, lacrimal, sebaceous, and mucous. Exocrine
glands are one of two types of glands in the human body, the other being
endocrine glands, which secrete their products directly into the
bloodstream. The liver and pancreas are both exocrine and endocrine
glands; they are exocrine glands because they secrete products—bile and
pancreatic juice—into the gastrointestinal tract through a series of
ducts, and endocrine because they secrete other substances directly into
is an endocrine gland in the neck, consisting of two lobes
connected by an isthmus. It is found at the front of the neck, below the
Adam's apple. Thyroid hormones are important for normal development. They
increase the growth rate of young people, and cells of the developing
brain are a major target for the thyroid hormones T3 and T4.
Thyroid hormones play a particularly
crucial role in brain maturation during fetal development
. The thyroid
hormones also play a role in maintaining normal sexual function, sleep,
and thought patterns. Increased levels are associated with increased
speed of thought generation
. Sexual function,
and the maintenance of a normal
, are influenced by thyroid hormones.
The hormones increase the rate and strength of the heartbeat. They
increase the rate of
, intake and consumption of oxygen, and increase the activity
of mitochondria. Combined, these factors increase blood flow and the
. The thyroid
hormones increase the basal metabolic rate and have effects on almost all
body tissues. Appetite, the absorption of substances, and gut motility are
all influenced by thyroid hormones. They increase the absorption in the
gut, generation, uptake by cells, and breakdown of glucose. They stimulate
the breakdown of fats, and increase the number of free fatty acids.
Despite increasing free fatty acids, thyroid hormones decrease cholesterol
levels, perhaps by increasing the rate of secretion of cholesterol in
bile. The thyroid gland secretes thyroid hormones, which primarily
influence the metabolic
and protein synthesis
hormones also have many other effects including those on development. The
thyroid hormones triiodothyronine (T3) and thyroxine (T4) are created from
iodine and tyrosine. The thyroid also produces the hormone calcitonin,
which plays a role in calcium homeostasis. Hormonal output from the
thyroid is regulated by thyroid-stimulating hormone (TSH) secreted from
the anterior pituitary gland, which itself is regulated by thyrotropin-releasing
hormone (TRH) produced by the hypothalamus. The thyroid may be affected by
several diseases. Hyperthyroidism occurs when the gland produces excessive
amounts of thyroid hormones, the most common cause being Graves' disease —
an autoimmune disorder. In contrast, hypothyroidism is a state of
insufficient thyroid hormone production. Worldwide, the most common cause
is iodine deficiency. Thyroid hormones are important for development, and
hypothyroidism secondary to iodine deficiency remains the leading cause of
preventable intellectual disability. In iodine-sufficient regions, the
most common cause of hypothyroidism is Hashimoto's thyroiditis—also an
autoimmune disease. In addition, the thyroid gland may also develop
several types of nodules and cancer.
secretes melatonin and
. Associated with
(posterior pituitary) releases neurohormones like
oxytocin and vasopressin into the blood.
is the vomiting center when a
enters the bloodstream it will get to the area postrema and may
cause the animal to throw up. In this way, the animal protects
itself by eliminating the toxic substance from its stomach
before more harm can be done.
is important for the regulation of
Vascular organ of the lamina terminalis
is a chemosensory area
that detects peptides and other molecules.
is the perception of chemical signals by the
through release of
is an endocrine gland about the size of a pea and weighing 0.5 grams
(0.018 oz) in humans. It is a protrusion off the bottom of the
hypothalamus at the base of the brain. Regulates several physiological
processes (including stress, growth, reproduction, and lactation).
Hormones secreted from the pituitary gland
, certain functions of the
as well as some aspects of
, water/salt concentration and the
, temperature regulation and pain relief.
is a protein that in humans is best known for its role in
enabling mammals, usually females, to produce milk. It is influential
in over 300 separate processes in various vertebrates. Prolactin is
secreted from the pituitary gland in response to eating, mating, estrogen
treatment, ovulation and nursing. Prolactin is secreted in pulses in
between these events. Prolactin plays an essential role in metabolism,
regulation of the immune system and pancreatic development.
Hormones Related to Over Eating
"The Most Important Sex Organ is the
Sex has its Rewards and Dangers
is the pleasurable
in response to a fulfillment of a
is to cause pleasure; being in harmony
with your taste or likings. (of
persons) having pleasing manners or behavior.
describes the broad class of mental states
that humans and other animals experience as
, enjoyable, or worth
seeking. It includes more specific mental states such as
, entertainment, enjoyment, ecstasy, and euphoria.
is an affective state and a form of pleasure in
which a person experiences intense feelings of well-being,
- Great Sex
refers to any heightened state of
intensely pleasant experience. But also characterized by diminished
awareness of other objects or the total lack of the
surroundings and everything around the object.Fervor
are feelings of
great warmth and intensity. The state of being emotionally aroused and
moments of highest happiness and fulfillment that can range from
simple activities to intense events; however, it is not necessarily about
what the activity is, but the ecstatic, care-free feeling that is being
experienced during it. It can be rare, exciting, oceanic, deeply moving,
that generate an advanced form of
, and are even mystic and
magical in their effect upon the experimenter.
is a group of neural structures
), pleasure (i.e., "liking
hedonic value), and positive
. Reward is the attractive and
of a stimulus
behavior – also known as approach
– and consummatory behavior.
Anticipation of Reward
is a fundamental desire to engage in
for enjoyment, that threatens long-term
something feels good when you do it, this doesn't mean that you have to do
This is why you have a brain. You either use it or lose it. And
of your life is extremely dangerous, as you can clearly see by
looking at all the problems in the world. When people lose control it
doesn't always end well, and mistakes are plentiful. So don't take
for granted. Use it
or lose it. Just don't do something because it
, do it because
it is good, and not just good for you, but good for everything.
is an inability to resist the gratification of whims and
desires. Foolish or senseless behavior. A disposition to yield to the
wishes of someone. Yearning
prolonged unfulfilled desire or need. Desire strongly or persistently.
Have a desire for something or someone who is not present. Have affection
for; feel tenderness for.
"As a young man I always had a yearning
for love, a yearning for change, a yearning for something new and
exciting, a yearning to feel important like I belonged
, a yearning to feel
good, a yearning to feel normal and to feel happy. And all a long I never
realized how much I had. So yearning was my own ignorance that I never
knew I had. Now 30 years later, I finally started to educate myself, the
yearning is gone. Now I live like I should have from the beginning. No
regrets. Love, Live, Learn and Progress." Profit
is a person's
overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is
influenced by biological
the sex hormones and associated neurotransmitters
that act upon the
nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone
regulate libido in humans.
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity.Horny
is a feeling great sexual desire. Aroused, Turned On, Excited, Energetic
or Stimulated. Emotion
Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder
results in a spontaneous,
persistent, and uncontrollable genital arousal, with or without orgasm
or genital engorgement, unrelated to any feelings of sexual desire.
Physical arousal caused by this syndrome can be very intense and persist
for extended periods, days or weeks at a time. Orgasm can sometimes
provide temporary relief, but within hours the symptoms return.
Failure or refusal to relieve the symptoms often results in waves of
spontaneous orgasms in women and ejaculation in men.Orgasm
is a motivational state and an interest in “sexual
objects or activities, or as a wish, need, or drive to seek out sexual
objects or to engage in sexual activities”. Synonyms for sexual desire are
libido, sexual attraction, and lust. Sexual desire is an aspect of a
person's sexuality, which varies significantly from one person to another,
and also varies depending on circumstances at a particular time.
is a strong sexual desire.
is an inclination to want things.
to know the difference between Love
means "sex" "or" "desire, wish, longing" in Indian literature. Kama often
connotes sexual desire and longing in contemporary literature, but the
concept more broadly refers to any desire, wish, passion, longing,
pleasure of the senses, the aesthetic enjoyment of life, affection, or
love, with or without sexual connotations.
involves activation of the reticular
activating system in the brainstem, the autonomic nervous system, and the
endocrine system, leading to increased heart rate and blood pressure and a
condition of sensory alertness, mobility, and readiness to respond.
are stages of processing of the
in human and
animal systems, such as vision, auditory, vestibular, and pain senses.
Included in this topic is the study of illusions such as motion
aftereffect, color constancy, auditory illusions, and depth perception.
(including bodily contact) that leads to, enhances and
maintains sexual arousal, and may lead to orgasm. Although sexual arousal
may arise without physical stimulation, achieving orgasm
usually requires physical sexual stimulation. The term sexual stimulation
often implies stimulation of the genitals, but may also include
stimulation of other areas of the body, stimulation of the senses (such as
sight or hearing) and mental stimulation (i.e. from reading or
fantasizing). Sufficient stimulation of the penis in males and the
in females usually results in an orgasm.
Stimulation can be by self (e.g., masturbation) or by a sexual partner
(sexual intercourse or other sexual activity), by use of objects or tools,
or by some combination of these methods. Some people practice
, whereby a person or their
sexual partner controls the level of sexual stimulation to delay orgasm,
and to prolong the sexual experience leading up to orgasm.
Sexual Response Cycle
is a four-stage model of physiological responses
to sexual stimulation, which, in order of their occurrence, are the
excitement phase, plateau phase, orgasmic phase, and resolution phase.
pursuit of pleasure
as a matter of
Hedonistic Pursuit of Pleasure
Brain Stimulation Reward
is a phenomenon in which direct
stimulation of regions of the brain through either electrical or chemical
means is rewarding and can serve as an
. The stimulation activates the reward system and
establishes response habits similar to those established by natural
rewards such as food and water.
is a form of
that involves a
compulsion to engage in a rewarding non-drug-related
called a natural reward, despite any negative consequences to the person's
physical, mental, social or financial well-being.
being enthusiastic, is an emotion involving
pleasure, excitement, and sometimes anxiety in considering some expected
or longed-for good event.
quantitatively investigates the relationship
between physical stimuli and the sensations and perceptions they produce.
area of the brain has a significant role
in the cognitive processing of aversion, motivation, pleasure, reward and
reinforcement learning; hence, it has a significant role in
(Reward Pathway) releases
dopamine into the nucleus accumbens, where it affects motivation for
rewarding stimuli, the perception of pleasure, and reward-related motor
function learning. It is the most significant neural pathway in the brain
in which changes occur in all known forms of addiction
is sometimes called
dopaminergic projections, are neural pathways in the
brain that transmit the neurotransmitter
from one region of the brain to another.
is a subcortical part of the forebrain that
coordinates multiple aspects of cognition, including motor and action
planning, decision-making, motivation, reinforcement, and reward
plays a major role in
Most types of reward increase the level of dopamine in the brain, and many
addictive drugs increase dopamine neuronal activity. Other brain dopamine
pathways are involved in motor control
and in controlling the release of
. These pathways and cell groups form a dopamine system
which is neuromodulatory.
Study identifies the molecular machinery responsible for dopamine release
in the brain
by focusing on dopamine-producing neurons in the midbrain
active zones—specialized neurotransmitter
release sites located at synapses
, the junctions that connect one
neuron to the another found that dopamine neurons contained proteins that
mark the presence of active zones.
Ventral Tegmental Area
is a group of neurons located close to the
midline on the floor of the midbrain. The VTA is the origin of the
dopaminergic cell bodies of the mesocorticolimbic dopamine system and
other dopamine pathways; it is widely implicated in the drug and
natural reward circuitry
brain. The VTA plays an important role in a number of processes, including
cognition, motivation, orgasm
, and intense emotions
relating to love
, as well as several
psychiatric disorders. Neurons in the VTA project to numerous areas of the
brain, ranging from the prefrontal cortex
to the caudal brainstem and several regions in between.
Activation of the
Ventral Tegmental Area
is essential to
. So feeling good
can be used to benefit us is a positive way, instead of controlling us in
a negative way. Brain Games
Can sex be a form of
is a clinical diagnosis
used by mental healthcare researchers and providers to describe extremely
frequent or suddenly increased sexual urges or sexual activity.
Weakness of the Flesh
is nothing new and has been around
since the beginning. Sex can easily become an
in many ways so be careful.
Science of Lust (Docudrama)
are obsessions with sexual activity. In the context of
these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating, making
the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As
preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a
symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual
is an instinctual libido (sexual
energy) that develops in five stages. Each stage – the oral, the anal, the
phallic, the latent, and the genital – is characterized by the erogenous
zone that is the source of the libidinal drive.
Crime of Passion
is when a perpetrator commits the act
against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden
rather than as a premeditated crime
. Is it just an excuse or a disease of the
is a strategy whereby one covers up,
consciously or unconsciously, weaknesses, frustrations, desires, or
feelings of inadequacy or incompetence in one life area through the
gratification or (drive towards) excellence in another area. Compensation
can cover up either real or imagined deficiencies and personal or physical
What are the
between Sex and
What are the similarities between Sex Addiction and
is a substance that increases libido
when consumed. Aphrodisiacs are
distinct from substances that address fertility issues such as impotence
or secondary sexual (dys)function such as erectile dysfunction
Deep and beautiful. The reward prediction error
hypothesis of dopamine
are there? We know the ones who actually admit
sex addiction but how many are actually unaware of their
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Animals have sex
without being taught what sex is
, and without being taught how to have
sex. Animals just have sex
at these right moments. That means that there is
knowledge in human DNA
that helps drive people to have sex. If animals did not have these
, animals and humans would not
. So how do hormones
communicate to the brain in a way that it produces the intended result and
action? Does that mean you can think about sex without any language or
words to describe what sex is, or without words to describe what you're
feeling? Yes. Then language is the tool that we can use to control these
automatic functions, but that's only if you have the
and know how to use
"When the phone rings, you answer it and say
hello, and then you find out what the reason is for the phone call? When a
thought appears in your mind, you answer it and say 'what is your purpose,
and what is your reason?' Mindfulness
What is Sex?
or coitus or copulation, is principally the insertion the penis,
usually when erect, into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or
that involves physical and/or
intimacy is characterized by friendship, platonic love, romantic love or
sexual activity. While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the
inclusion of a sexual relationship, the term is also used as a euphemism
for a relationship that is strictly sexual.
is the capacity of humans to have erotic
experiences and responses.
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur
in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue
during it. Genital responses are not the only changes, but noticeable and
necessary for consensual and comfortable intercourse. Male arousal will
lead to an erection, and in female arousal the body's response is engorged
sexual tissues such as nipples, vulva, clitoris, vaginal walls and vaginal
lubrication. Mental stimuli and physical stimuli such as touch, and the
internal fluctuation of hormones, can influence sexual arousal.
Sex Drive (Libido)
known as sex drive, is a person's
overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is
influenced by biological, psychological and social factors. Biologically,
the sex hormones
and associated neurotransmitters
that act upon the nucleus accumbens (primarily testosterone and dopamine,
respectively) regulate libido in men and women. Social factors, such as
work and family, and internal psychological factors, like personality and
stress, can affect libido. Sex drive can also be affected by medical
conditions, medications, lifestyle and relationship issues, and age (e.g.,
puberty). A person who has extremely frequent or a suddenly increased sex
drive may be experiencing
, while the opposite condition is hyposexuality.
Hypoactive sexual desire disorder
is considered a sexual dysfunction
and is characterized as a lack or absence of sexual fantasies and desire
for sexual activity, as judged by a clinician.
is the scientific study of human sexuality,
including human sexual interests, behaviors and functions.
is the attraction
between people which leads to friendships and to
platonic or romantic relationships. Interpersonal attraction, the process,
is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves
views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.
on the basis of
sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. Sexual
attractiveness or sex appeal is an individual's ability to attract the
sexual or erotic interest of another person, and is a factor in sexual
selection or mate choice. The attraction can be to the physical or other
qualities or traits of a person, or to such qualities in the context in
which they appear. The attraction may be to a person's aesthetics or
movements or to their voice or smell, besides other factors. The
attraction may be enhanced by a person's adornments, clothing, perfume or
style. It can also be influenced by individual genetic, psychological, or
cultural factors, or to other, more amorphous qualities of the person.
Sexual attraction is also a response to another person that depends on a
combination of the person possessing the traits and also on the criteria
of the person who is attracted.
Sex is part
, it's part
, it's part
, it's part
it’s a persons
, it’s a persons
, it’s a persons
, it’s the other
, it’s the other persons past experiences, it’s
your past experiences, it's a persons skill level, it’s a
persons ability to trust, it’s a persons ability to relax, it’s
a persons ability to explore, it’s how well a person knows
themselves, it’s how well a person knows the other person, sex
can be something more then you can understand, sex can be
nothing at all, and sex can change your life, for better or for
should be a great benefit and a great pleasure in
your life. Sex and intimacy should never control your life, or endanger your life, or drastically alter your life’s
direction or your life’s goals. Sex and intimacy is a great
thing and should never be a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes and
everyone has had sex with someone they wish that they never had
sex with. Learn from that experience, because if you don't, you will most
likely repeat that same mistake. This is easier said then done and everyone is vulnerable. So
please educate yourself. Learn about
Everyone wants to be loved, but sex is not the most important way
to feel loved
Sex Education ?
Sex education is not just learning about where baby's come from
or how horrible venereal diseases are.
is more about knowing why something that is so
beautiful and so natural could actually have so many problems
and responsibilities associated with it. Should sex education be
separated by gender?
is instruction on issues relating to human
sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human
sexual anatomy, sexual activity, sexual reproduction, age of consent,
reproductive health, reproductive rights, safe sex, birth control and
sexual abstinence. Sex education that covers all of these aspects is known
as comprehensive sex education. Common avenues for sex education are
parents or caregivers, formal school programs, and public health
Single Sex Education
Advocates for Youth Sex Education
do young people think about their school-based sex and relationship
A qualitative synthesis of young people's views and
Study Finds Girls Feel Unprepared for Puberty
Among U.S. high school students surveyed in 2015
- 41% had sexual
intercourse. So less than half of U.S. teenagers aged 15 to 19 are having
sex, a rate dramatically lower than it was a quarter-century ago. 30% had
sexual intercourse during the previous 3 months, and, of these, 43% did
not use a condom the last time they had sex. 14% did not use any method to
prevent pregnancy. 21% had drunk alcohol or used drugs before last sexual
intercourse. Only 10% of sexually experienced students have ever been
tested for human immunodeficiency virus (HIV).
of Sex Ed
National Sexuality Education Standards
Lives Sexuality Education Curricula
I Wanna Know
Sex Ed Resources
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Sex Education
Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health
committed to educating and supporting people to develop a healthy and
positive understanding of human sexuality and to give tools to foster
thriving relationships for people with intellectual disabilities.
Relate with Katy Park
Addressing Sexuality with People with Developmental
Sex will have a very strong
on your life. So the more you understand about
this influence the better you can control it and enjoy it.
Instinctual, but you still have
Consent - Not Being Pressured
No means No
Yes means Maybe ?
occurs when one person voluntarily agrees to the
proposal or desires of another, as long as they're
is a process for
upon a clear appreciation and understanding
of an action. To give informed consent, the individual
concerned must have adequate reasoning
faculties and be in possession of
all relevant facts. Self-Manage
is a knowing,
voluntary, and mutual decision
among all participants to engage in sexual
activity. Consent can be given by words or actions, as long as those words
or actions create clear permission regarding
to engage in the
sexual activity. Silence or lack of resistance, in and of itself, does not
demonstrate consent. The definition of consent does not vary based upon a
participant’s sex, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender
something that may be permitted but follows certain
. Something that is accepted, safe or
is giving someone
the approval or a formal written authorization to do something. Saying yes
and agreeing.Principles of Consent:
Consent to any sexual act or prior consensual sexual activity between or
with any party does not necessarily constitute consent to any future or
other sexual act. Consent may be initially given but withdrawn at any
time. Consent must be free of any coercion
, intimidation, force, or
. A person initiating sexual activity is still responsible to
obtain consent even if the person is under the influence of drugs or
alcohol. When consent is withdrawn or cannot be given, sexual activity
must stop. Consent cannot be given when a person is
Incapacitation occurs when an individual lacks the ability to
choose to participate in sexual activity. Incapacitation may be caused by
the lack of consciousness
or being asleep, being involuntarily restrained,
or if an individual otherwise cannot consent. Depending on the degree of
intoxication, someone who is under the influence of
alcohol, drugs or
may be incapacitated and therefore unable to consent.
How do I avoid being
into having sex when I'm not ready or willing?
What if I say yes but then I change my mind and
say no or stop?
You have the right to revoke consent once it's been
given. But this may not stop the person. So make sure that the person
understands the fact that you have the right to change your mind, and that
you will apologize for any inconvenience that it causes, just as long as
they respect your wishes. So I'm saying yes for now, but if something
doesn't feel right, then I want to stop.
because something is
does not mean that it is good or right.
Age of Consent
is the age at which a person is considered to be
consent to sexual acts, and is thus the minimum age
of a person with whom
another person is legally permitted to engage in sexual activity. The
distinguishing aspect of the age of consent laws is that the person below
the minimum age is regarded as the victim, and their sex partner as the
is the lack of consent. A type of
involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration
perpetrated against a person without that person's consent. The act may be
carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of
or against a person who is incapable of giving valid
consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an
intellectual disability or is below the legal age of consent.
is non-consensual sex (i.e.,
) in which the
perpetrator is the victim's spouse. It is a form of partner rape,
and sexual abuse.
or fondling another person in an unwelcome
sexual way using the hands. Unwelcome
not liking something or being uncomfortable with something that does not
feel good.Sex Crimes
- Dating Dangers
not expressly granted by a person, but rather implicitly granted by a
person's actions and the facts and circumstances of a particular situation
(or in some cases, by a person's silence or inaction
is a situation in which no one present objects to a proposal.
You should only ask for things or search for things, you should never
force things or take things. Stealing is more then wrong
, stealing is a
sign that ignorance has destroyed your awareness and your connection to
life. Ignorance has made a fool of many. The true joy of a gift, its true
greatness, is when a gift comes naturally, like when it comes from
someone's heart, as if it was the will of God or the will of the Universe.
Try not to go against the grain, or fight the natural flows of life's
should learn to pay attention to. When something feels wrong, or when
something feels like it's not quite right, it may be because something is
wrong or not quite right. This is when the importance of knowledge becomes
clear. We must learn to master our natural born abilities in order to
effectively utilize them.
"Let's Not, and Say we Did"
Indicates that the speaker does not agree with a proposed
action, and does not wish to participate, but offers an
alternative, to pretend that the action did take place, but only
happened only in our minds. "I don't
think so" meaning, let's take time to think about this.
This is not just about the experience, this is about the
freedom of choice
human rights. Both
parties have to agree
, if not, then there is no agreement.
So if this is not about saving lives, then
forcing is a crime
, which is not
. Don't confuse
This is not about rejection
, this is about
. I would
rather focus on long term gratification then the
describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around
them. The phrase was first used in the 1970s, an era when stress was laid
on the principle of 'doing one's own thing' and letting others do the
The effects of sexualized virtual selves
There's a big difference between
. Self-Control is when you understand human
instincts and human urges but learn to control these influences on
your behavior and your actions. Repression is being forced to
deny information and knowledge, which causes confusion and the
inability to understand your behaviors and actions. Repression
also makes you vulnerable to disinformation, with most of the
disinformation being created within yourself and not just from
other people and the world around you.
Sexual Attitude Reassessment
is a process-oriented,
structured group experience to promote participants' awareness of their
attitudes and values related to sexuality, and to assist them in
understanding how these attitudes and values affect them professionally
Sex must be Consensual
, if not, then its most likely to be
exploitive or possibly destructive. And this is not to confuse
"not being in the mood" with not being "sexual attracted to
someone" or not even 'liking someone'. A relationship solely
based on sexual attraction is hardly ever sustainable,
especially if you don't have a sincere and honest relationship.
You have to feel comfortable with someone and enjoy their
company. You should also have similar interests, enjoy the same
activities, and have similar goals and similar dreams. If you
lack these similarities then you're most likely to be two people
living separate lives, but being together.
Each person also needs to know how to communicate effectively
without implications or
. You should
be with someone you can trust, someone who knows how to touch
you, someone who knows how to kiss you, someone who knows how to
talk to you, before and after intimacy. And the talking after
part is the most important aspect of a relationship. Because if
a relationship is not sincere and honest it is most likely to
fail and could possibly be dangerous or destructive. If you are
not able to make it on your own, then your dependency on
relationships could put you in danger, especially if you're not
with the right person.
is one that accepts and encourages
casual sexual encounters, including one-night stands and other related
activity, which focus on physical pleasure without necessarily including
emotional bonding or long-term commitment. It is generally associated with
Western late adolescent behavior and, in particular, American college
culture. The term hookup has an ambiguous definition because it can
indicate kissing or any form of physical sexual activity between sexual
(Falling out of Love)
are certain types of sexual activity
outside of romantic relationships that imply an absence of commitment,
emotional attachment, or familiarity between sexual partners. Examples are
sex in casual relationships, one-night stands, extramarital sex,
prostitution, or swinging.Kinky Stuff
is the practice of having casual sex frequently
with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual
partners. The term can carry a moral judgment if the social ideal for
sexual activity is monogamous relationships. A common example of behavior
viewed as promiscuous by many cultures is the one-night stand, and its
frequency is used by researchers as a marker for promiscuity.
is showing disapproval for a man
who has sexual relationships with many women. (also known as philanderer
is a man with a
reputation for having many sexual partners.
is showing disapproval a man who has sexual relationships
with many different women.Don Juan
man who has sexual relationships with many women.
is a man who tries to have sexual
relationships with many different women.
is someone who exchanges sexual partners with other people.
Dirty old man
is an older man who offends
people by being sexually interested in someone younger than him.
is someone who behaves in an
immoral way, especially someone who has a lot of sexual relationships.
is old-fashioned for a man who behaves
in an immoral way, for example by having sexual relationships with a lot
is a single sexual encounter without an expectation of further relations
between the sexual participants. This is regardless of whether a single
encounter was originally intended by either participant to be a one-night
stand, or whether further relations between the participants subsequently
occur. Critics of the practice describe it as "sexual activity without
emotional commitment or future involvement".
is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner
during his or her lifetime or at any one time (serial monogamy), as
compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory. The term is also applied to
the social behavior of some animals, referring to the state of having only
one mate at any one time.
is typically the practice of, or desire for,
intimate relationships where individuals may have more than one partner,
with the knowledge and consent of all partners. It has been described as "consensual
ethical, and responsible non-monogamy
is being unfaithful, or having an affair) is a
violation of a couple's assumed or stated contract regarding emotional
and/or sexual exclusivity. (also referred to as cheating, adultery (when
is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually
explicit messages, photographs or images, primarily between mobile phones.
It may also include the use of a computer or any digital device. The term
was first popularized in the early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of
sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a
text possibly with images.
are obsessions with sexual activity. In the
context of obsessive-compulsive disorder
(OCD), these are extremely common, and can become extremely debilitating,
making the person ashamed of the symptoms and reluctant to seek help. As
preoccupation with sexual matters, however, does not only occur as a
symptom of OCD, they may be enjoyable in other contexts (i.e. sexual
is the husband of an adulterous wife.
extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on
, or legal
is a scheduled period in which an inmate of a
prison or jail is permitted to spend several hours or days in private with
a visitor, usually their legal spouse. The parties may engage in sexual
activity. The generally recognized basis for permitting such visits in
modern times is to preserve family bonds and increase the chances of
success for a prisoner's eventual return to life after release from
prison. Additionally, they serve as an incentive to motivate inmates to
comply with the various day-to-day rules and regulations of the prison,
and to avoid any infringement which might disqualify them from having a
is a physical and emotional
relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual
relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra
commitments of a more formal romantic relationship
Falling out of Love
is the individual difference in the willingness to
engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. Individuals
with a more restricted sociosexual orientation are less willing to engage
in casual sex; they prefer greater love, commitment and emotional
closeness before having sex with romantic partners. Individuals who have a
more unrestricted sociosexual orientation are more willing to have casual
sex and are more comfortable engaging in sex without love, commitment or
Why do some people have homosexual tendencies and
thoughts while on cocaine?
Less Than Zero (film)
Sexual Behavior, Sexual Identity, and
among Low-Income Bisexual and Non-Gay-Identifying
African American Men Who Have Sex with Men.
Abuse of some prescription drugs can be risk for college sexual assaults,
Romantic Remorse - Hookup Regret.
Besides learning the joys of sex,
we also have to be aware of the
of sex, the addictive nature of sex, the
mind consuming and thought control of sex,
The Sexual Triggers
, the life changing
moments that sex can create, the diseases that you can get from
having sex and that Pregnancies happen because of sex. Just
because you haven't personally experienced difficulties does not
mean they don't exist. And just because you have personally
experienced difficulties does not guarantee that you actually
learned something important from the experience .....this is sex
What is Gateway
about sex will both have their share of
vulnerabilities and ignorance. Both will cause you to make bad
decisions. Because they are both based on
. How do you tell the
self-confidence and having a false sense of security?......is
this sex education?...
Are people delusional for
thinking that their obsession with sex is normal and that they
are not hurting anyone? If you believe that you can control
yourself and control your
does it mean that you don’t need
or refraining from sex make you more vulnerable
to the influences of sex and more likely to experience sexual
It's not just
that sex occupies your thoughts
, sex also makes you do things
and makes you say things that you are not fully aware of, what
are they? What are these implications that you are unaware of
and what are the effects that sex can have on yourself and the
effects that sex can have on others?
Stronger Working Memory Reduces Sexual Risk Taking in
Adolescents, Even After Controlling for Parental Influences
Sex can consume a lot of time in
So if you are not aware of how much time is actually
being consumed by this obsession with sex, then it will turn
into more then just an
and most likely distort reality and cause you to
and may cause you to take irrational
is difficulty experienced by an
individual or a couple during any stage of a normal sexual activity,
including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal or orgasm.
You have to learn as soon as you can that
if you don't know how to control obsessions with sex it will end
up controlling you….this is sex education..
Why does sex affect the normal
processes of the mind? Is this why teenagers make bad decisions?
does sex have on the human mind?
The Biology of Sexuality
Having seconds thoughts about something or discovering something
about yourself is all part of the Journey.
Am I with this person just for
Is this person with me just for sex? Can sex be the cause
Can sex be used as a method of control? Can you still be
friends without sex? What are the dangers of kiss and tell and bragging
about sexual encounters?
prejudice or discrimination
based on a person's sex or gender. Sexism
can affect any gender, but it is particularly documented as affecting
women and girls. It has been linked to stereotypes and gender roles, and
may include the belief that one sex or gender is intrinsically superior to
another. Extreme sexism may foster sexual harassment, rape, and other
forms of sexual violence.
Do drugs make sex better or do they just make you think that the
sex is better?
If sex is already good to begin with why does
changing the perception of good sex by using drugs thought to be
Natural Sexual Enhancers
The Facts of Life - The Birds and the Bees
A sex talk
is when an adult tries to explain sex to a younger
person. Usually it's about the basic physiological functions involved in sex and
Often includes the details of sexual behavior. A sex talk
unavoidable that must be taken seriously. But most adults know
very little about sex, and often don't have a good enough friendship with
a younger person in order to explain sex in a meaningful and honest way.
So it's best that everyone reads this entire page first, and then have an
open and honest discussion without any judgment. Learn from each other.
is the process of physical changes through which a
matures into an
capable of sexual
is a young person's
from being a
child to being an adult. The certain age at which this transition takes
place changes in society, as does the nature of the change.
is the age or stage when an organism
is a human or
other organism that has reached sexual maturity, but not always
is a transitional stage of physical and
occurs during the period from puberty to legal adulthood (age of
Development of sexuality is an integral part
of the development
and maturation of children. A range of sensational,
emotional and consequent sexual activities that may occur before or during
early puberty, but before full sexual maturity is established. The
development of child sexuality is influenced by social and cultural
aspects; the perception of developing child sexuality is even more heavily
influenced by cultural aspects. The concept of child sexuality also played
an important role in the classical psychoanalysis.Mental Maturity
doesn't make you an Adult
, so what does?
The Birds and the Bees
- Sexual Slang
What if your Under Age Child starts thinking about Sex?
An adult must first explain to a young person that they will
answer all their questions and that they're not here to censor them, or predetermine
their intelligence. Sex for anyone, young or old, can cause
physical harm and mental harm if the person is not prepared mentally or
physically. "So please don't rush this
." Rushing it
will not make you a better person, or make your life more
meaningful, or make you look cool, or will it make you understand sex more just
because you experience it. You might think that sex will make you
, but popularity has
it's own dangers. Sex is more then a biological function, it's emotional
and complicated. And these complications and particular
better experience when you are older and more mature and more
educated and knowledgeable about sex and about relationships and all the
vulnerabilities that are associated with them. Having sex when you are to
young could confuse you, embarrass you and it could also be very
, which could cause more
harm then good and have negative effects of future relationships. Sex is a Risk
but when you are 16 and older, sex can also be an amazing
journey and very beautiful, but it's not safe for kids or young
minds or young bodies. So hey, at least
you got one good thing to look forward to when you get older,
kidding of course, there are millions of things to look forward
to. Don't waste your time thinking about sex like previous
generations, focus on the
important knowledge, you'll thank me later. In other words....Explain to them that Sex is for
Fully developed Adults
, and this is why. Sex is not for people
under the age of 16. Mostly because a 16 year old person is not
fully developed yet
, mentally or physically. And
is needed to cope with the dangers of sex. Mental maturity
is also needed to help minimize the risks
that are associated
with sex. Not to say that you can't have sex, or that you can't get pregnant
or catch a disease, it's just saying
that you need to be more prepared, which takes time and
takes education. And being prepared is a
that you will need to have your entire
life. Young adults must also understand their vulnerabilities
and their weaknesses when it comes to
pressure from friends
from others that forces you to do things that you do not want to
do, which is not your fault. You must learn what actions and
will protect you from these unwarranted influences.
Sex is for reproduction
, sex is for bonding with someone you
love, and sex is also for pleasure.
And this pleasure, reproduction and bonding is more suited for
the adult mind, an adult mind that fully understands the
vulnerabilities of human life, and the adult mind that fully
understands the temptations in life that can easily exploit an
uneducated mind. And sadly these uneducated minds are
everywhere, and not just among the children, these
uneducated minds are also among most adults. So please wait till
you have learned everything that you need to know. If not, you
will make mistakes, with some of those mistakes drastically
effecting your life in the most awful way you could ever
imagine. I want you to enjoy sex
, I just don't want sex to ruin
your life, like it has for a lot of people, just look around
Please be careful, Life doesn't have an
. It's better when you are young to focus more on
friendships and save the relationships for after 16 or older.
Relationships are more complicated, more responsible, more
emotional, more difficult and
and painful when the relationship ends. So there's a lot to
learn. Even though relationships are a lot of work, it's great to
feel loved, and it's great to share life experiences with someone
you love. You will soon understand how extremely important
friendships are. So learn about
and learn what it takes to have good
. Enjoy the roller-coaster.
in young people is definitely a concern, but you
first need to define sexual behavior verses inappropriate behavior. It may
not be sexual, but a more a confused reality.Beware of the
TV, Magazines, and the News, they are not your friends, they are
more about Manipulation then they are about Education and keeping you
Human Sex Drive
is a person's overall sexual drive
or desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological,
psychological and social factors..
A lot of things in life may
appear to be innocent or harmless, but everything has
evolved. So you
either minimize the risks and increase your safety by learning everything
that you can, or you just avoid doing the activity and thus avoid any risk
that is associated with that particular action. Play it safe, play it
smart, or play something else.
In order to acquire Mental Maturity you should study these
- People Smart
- Know Thyself
- Physical Health
- Media Literacy
Age of Majority
is the threshold of adulthood as it
is conceptualized (and recognized or declared) in law.
Is the chronological moment when minors cease to legally
be considered children and assume control over their
persons, actions, and decisions.
is a person under a certain age, generally 18
is a human being that has reached physical sexual maturity. A legal adult
is a person who has attained the age of 18 years old and is therefore
regarded as independent
, but not always the
If you're a child and an adult asks you
what do you think or know about sex? Just answer that you are
too young and that you don't waste time thinking about things
that you know you shouldn't be doing, or do things that are not
beneficial to you at this time in your life, instead you spend
your time thinking about the things that you can do, things that
are important, valuable and known to be enjoyable. There's a
time and place for everything, and this is not the time, or the
comes to desire
, if you give in, you may have to give something
up. So the more educated and knowledgeable you are, the better
your chances will be in making good decisions, and, the better
your chances will be that you will never feel tormented, or feel
guilty, or feel like you have no control over your life, because
you do. It's only a
if you keep making the same mistake over and over
again. Learning = Power, Power = Freedom, Freedom = Potential,
Potential = Control, Control = Endless Possibilities.
that you stop feeling
about not doing interesting things that
would impress your friends, is one of the most
liberating moments in your life. You have to live your
life, just don't do things to impress others, or do
things to feel important or do things just to be
Experiences are important to have, just don't let your
control you, Some experiences you
still have to plan and prepare for, you still have to do
research, and you still have to learn more and do a
. You should not feel bad about
saying no, just apologize for not being ready. Not
feeling comfortable is not an answer, just explain why
you are not ready. Because when we can explain
ourselves, we learn and we also teach. You're not being
selfish when you're saying no, you're just saying no at
this moment. What does your gut say? What does your
common sense say? Even though you are responsible for
your actions, mistakes happen. So please be careful.
and no blame. You'll be ok. Remember be
true to yourself. Be fearless, but be responsible.
, but be compassionate and be sensible. You
care about your friends needs, just don't feel guilty or
feel insecure about not being ready to fulfill those
needs. Be honest. If my absence makes this experience
more dangerous, then we should all wait. Don't judge
your friends, and tell your friends not to judge you,
learn from each other.No Pressure
that something is bad, or wrong, or a sin, does not
. And just knowing who says it is not
important, whether you say your father says it, or your
mother says it, or God says it, or the leader says it,
or an expert says it, what's important is knowing why it
was said. There is no replacement for knowledge. Either
you know something or you don't know something. If you
can't explain something in a way that it's understood,
then you should learn more about it, you should know
most of the benefits, and know most of the dangers, and
be able to accurately see in a side by side comparison,
what the best choice is, and know why it is the best
choice, and be able to explain it. Trying to pretend
that you know something, is dangerous, and it's also a
very ineffective way of teaching and learning. This is
not to say that you might get lucky from time to time
giving advice, and that advice would save someone from
making a bad mistake, but everyone knows, it's better to
know then it is to depend on luck, because you are not
always that lucky. Saying that Ignorance is bliss is a
lie, Intelligence is bliss, and that can be proven, just
like ignorance is proof that you're an idiot.
There's more then just
Sexually Transmitted Disease
, and the
Human Papilloma Virus
to name a few.
STD Testing at Home
The Most Sexually Diseased Cities in the USA
or HIV AIDS, is a condition in humans in which
progressive failure of the
allows life-threatening opportunistic infections and
cancers to thrive. Without treatment, average survival time after
infection with HIV is estimated to be 9 to 11 years, depending on the HIV
subtype. Infection with HIV occurs by the transfer of blood, semen,
vaginal fluid, pre-ejaculate, or breast milk. Within these bodily fluids,
HIV is present as both free virus particles and virus within infected
immune cells.More cases of sexually
transmitted diseases were reported last year than ever before.
than 1.5 million people were reported with chlamydia, the most common
sexually transmitted disease (STD). Gonorrhea infects an estimated 820,000
American's each year, and doctors are worried about the increasing number
of gonorrhea cases with antibiotic-resistant bacteria. 19 percent increase in
syphilis cases, a 13 percent rise in gonorrhea and a 6 percent increase in
chlamydia. Gay and bisexual
men account for many of the
new cases, and the biggest numbers are among young adults, especially
those in their late teens and early 20s. "Half of all STDs occur in youth
under age 20". Hooking Up
Can Safe Sex be fun? Great Sex
believed to be unnatural? Religion
is sexual activity engaged in by people who have
taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or
protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged
in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.
How do I
learn Safe Sex?
Why is safe sex so difficult
to talk about?
is sexual activity that usually
does not include sexual penetration. It generally excludes the penetrative
aspects of vaginal, anal, or oral sexual activity, but includes various
forms of sexual and non-sexual activity, such as frottage, mutual
masturbation, kissing, or cuddling. Some forms of non-penetrative sex,
particularly when termed outercourse, include penetrative aspects, such as
penetration that may result from forms of fingering or oral sex.
Girls who use other birth control methods without using
makes them more vulnerable to sexually
transmitted infections. (STI's)
Growing antibiotic resistance forces updates to recommended treatment for
sexually transmitted infections
Disease Control and Prevention
. Billions of dollars in
healthcare costs for treating STD's.
HIV/AIDS killed .47m people in 2010 and viral hepatitis killed
1.44m, more people in 117 of the 187 countries tracked by the
Health Metrics and Evaluation
is sexual activity engaged in by people who have
taken precautions to protect themselves against sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) such as HIV. It is also referred to as safer sex or
protected sex, while unsafe or unprotected sex is sexual activity engaged
in without precautions, especially forgoing condom use.
Safer Sex Guide
Globally, an estimated two-thirds of the population
under 50 are infected with
Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1
More than 3.7 billion people under the age of 50
67% of the population, are infected with herpes simplex
virus type 1 (HSV-1)
Condom Nick Names
The Rubber, the C**k Sock, the Goalie, the
Love Glove, the Salami Sling,
the Raincoat, the Safety Tool,
the Willie Hat.
Cap Condom on just the Tip
Sexually active women who used condoms
had larger colonies of beneficial microbes in their vaginas,
which preserve the natural flora of the vagina, and also helps
How to put on a Condom
Female Condom Demonstration
Condom Use Instructions
LELO HEX - The World's First Re-Engineered Condom
are made from the highest grade materials on
earth without the harmful additives. For every condom
you purchase, one is distributed in a developing country
in need. Get love, give love.
Condoms made from this Native Australian Grass would be
as thin as a human hair, but as strong as latex
is the intentional removal
of a condom during sex without a partner's consent
Teen Pregnancies, Abortions Plummet With Free Contraception
Long-Acting Reversible Contraception (LARC)
The Safest Sex is No Sex
Abstinence-only Sex Education
Vapors - Turning Japanese
Birth Control Pills
What are the
methods are Safe?
Birth Control Methods used by Countries
Teen Pregnancy Prevention
(IUD) What is an
is a manufactured hormone used in a number of
birth control methods.
Pulling out early does not always work because
still comes out before ejaculation.
Sperm calcineurin inhibition prevents mouse fertility
with implications for male contraceptive
And having sex on your period or
is not a guarantee that you won't get pregnant either.
is the release of egg from the ovaries. In humans,
this event occurs when the de Graaf's follicles rupture and release the
secondary oocyte ovarian cells. After ovulation, during the luteal phase,
the egg will be available to be fertilized by sperm. In addition, the
uterine lining (endometrium) is thickened to be able to receive a
fertilized egg. If no conception occurs, the uterine lining as well as
blood will be shed during menstruation.
When should you or even should you visit
Adolescent Maternity Program
refers to a set of practices used to determine the fertile and infertile
phases of a woman's menstrual cycle. Fertility awareness methods may be
used to avoid pregnancy, to achieve pregnancy, or as a way to monitor
Is safe sex really that intrusive
or am I just giving into pear
pressure or the fact that I’m selfish and can only perform sex
under certain narrow minded conditions? Is it just me or am I
just being stubborn and spoiled? I can still enjoy driving a car
wearing a seatbelt, I can still enjoy the beach wearing suntan
lotion, so I should be able to enjoy sex even if I have to wear
If you care about yourself and you care about the person you are
with, then you wear a condom
Can masturbating with a condom make you more at ease with using
If a women helps you to put on condom
for you, will you be more at
ease with using a condom?
Would this make you want to use a condom more?
Unplanned pregnancies, single
parents and foster children. .......this is sex education.....
If you can't
take responsibility for an outcome you know is possible, then
you either don't do it, or you do everything possible to
minimize the risk
. No one is saying that you can't do it, we
are just saying that "Don't be
about it." Try to avoid making your life more
complicated then it needs to be. Learning = Power, Power =
Freedom, Freedom = Potential, Potential = Control, Control =
Toxins and Dangers to Babies
Prolife - Prochoice
Sex Education Programs
Teaching Safe Sex
Lowers Abortion Rates. When teens
have access to the
of their choice, abortion rates plummet. The analysis also
abortion rates are down worldwide
, from 40 per 1,000 women in 1994 to
35 per 1,000 women by 2014. However, the decrease is concentrated mostly
in the developed world, where the rate declined from 46 abortions per
1,000 women to 27 per 1,000. Mortality
Threats, Punishment, Laws, and Fear
Mongering doesn't work, never has. In 2016, 19 states passed more than 60
restrictions on abortion. And 2017 is starting to offer more of the same:
Kentucky passed a bill banning abortion after 20 weeks and Arkansas just
passed a law that allows a man to stop his wife from having an abortion if
he is the father of the fetus. Restrictive laws don’t actually seem to
reduce abortion rates. Instead, they are linked to unsafe abortions, which
put women at risk of serious health problems and even death. States that
emphasize abstinence-only programs have the highest rates of
teen pregnancy and teen birth
use prolife and prochoice to
and to keep
1 in 5 American women
won't be having a biological child -- some by choice, some by chance.
, from a young age, knew she didn't want kids, in
spite of the insistence of many people (including her doctor) who told her
she'd change her mind. In this powerful talk, she shares her story of
seeking sterilization -- and makes the case that motherhood is an
extension of womanhood, not the definition. Women reported that medical
practitioners were often
dismissive of their motivations.
is a set of attitudes and practices in medicine in
which a physician determines that a patient's wishes or choices should not
be honored. These practices which were current up to the early to mid 20th
century, and were characterised by a
surrogate decision-making and a lack of respect for patient autonomy. It
is almost exclusively
undertaken with the intention of benefiting the
patient, although this is not always the case. In the past, paternalism
was considered an absolute medical necessity, as there was little to no
public understanding of medical procedures and practices. However, in
recent years, paternalism has become limited and blind faith in doctors'
decisions has come to be frowned upon. By the end of the 20th century and
into the 21st, paternalistic medicine was increasingly seen as
inappropriate in the West with guidance from professional bodies such as
the General Medical Council indicating that it is ethically unsupportable.
also known as forced
or coerced sterilization
, programs are government policies which
attempt to force people to undergo surgical or other sterilization. The
reasons governments implement sterilization programs vary in purpose and
intent. In the first half of the 20th century, several such programs were
instituted in countries around the world, usually as part of eugenics
programs intended to prevent the reproduction of members of the population
considered to be carriers of
defective genetic traits
Intact Dilation and Extraction
is a surgical procedure that removes an
intact fetus from the uterus. The procedure is used both after late-term
miscarriages and in late-term abortions. It is also known as intact
dilation and evacuation, dilation and extraction (D&X, or DNX, disfavored
term), and, in United States federal law, as
Instead of the
Mourning after Pill
, How about "The Day Before Pill
"? A pill
(in the form of knowledge and information) that protects
you from not being aware of choices, options and
responsibilities. This way you make far fewer mistakes and not have to
feel like an ignorant moron. So you wake up the next day, you will be
extremely happy because you made no mistake the day before. We'll call the pill
"Education Plan A Pill
" and we will make it free to everyone. No side
effects, no guilt and no problems. Just more happiness and more
potential. Just make it against
the law for a Man to have sex without a Condom.
The Man must
have a written "Contract
" from a women if he wants to
have sex without a condom. If not, then they both risk getting a fine. The
fines will be
used to pay for sex education. If you cannot enjoy
sex safely, then you should not have sex at all
. And if you believe
that a condom reduces the pleasure of a sexual experience, then you
obviously don't know enough about sex, so don't have sex until you learn
enough about sex and know how to enjoy sex fully and safely. And you
should also know about the things that are risky and reckless.
Knowing what to do is just as important as knowing
what not to do
comes from knowledge. And education is your responsibility, no one else's.
solves this problem, but only
when people are also educated to the highest degree.
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One reason why education needs drastic
. My heart goes out to all women because this is no
doubt one of the hardest decisions a women has to make. I wish
that men would be more responsible and respectable towards women
and just wear a condom, and I wish that women would be more
responsible and respectable towards themselves and practice
birth control, or at least self-control, but of course it's not
that simple, and blaming someone doesn't help. We need more
education and less
Because as history clearly shows, regulation and
does not work, it does not solve our problems, it only makes our
problems worse. So we need more education and less legislation
because education has been clearly documented as being the
greatest determining factor in improving life for everyone. I'm
Prolife, as most Prochoice people are, but I'm not going to tell a women what she should do
with her life, or would I back any law that would tell a women what
she should do.
People who hide behind the word pro-life in order to force their
beliefs on women, or to intimidate women, are acting more like
pro-idiots then they are pro-lifers. The hearts of pro-lifers may be in the right place but they are
clearly not using their brains. If you are truly prolife then you
should be helping to
Feed Starving Children
, helping children
with diseases, helping homeless children, helping abused
children, helping children who have no parents, and you should
also be helping to educate children so they learn to respect
themselves and learn to respect others, and learn about the
dangers of life so they can avoid having to make life or death
decisions. Intimidating pregnant women is not going to help
them. Women need our love and support, as all children do. Women
as a blessing as most women do. But if a women
feels that her pregnancy is not a blessing, then she needs our
help and our support, she does not need our guilt or our regrets. I
see a future where all women will feel blessed to be pregnant,
and they will give birth because they're educated, healthy and full of
love. And if a women decides not to give birth, it will not be
because she was threatened or coerced, it will be because it was
thought to be the right decision for her and her baby at that
Roe v. Wade
Do Prolife Groups Really Protect the Unborn
Birth Control Sabotage
is threats or acts of violence
against a partner's reproductive health or reproductive decision-making
and is a collection of behaviors intended to
or coerce a partner
into becoming a parent or ending a pregnancy. Reproductive coercion is a
form of domestic violence
, also known as
partner violence, where
behavior concerning reproductive health is used to maintain power,
control, and domination within a relationship and over a partner through
an unwanted pregnancy. It is considered a serious public health issue.
This reproductive control is highly correlated to unintended pregnancy.
The three forms of reproductive coercion
are pregnancy pressure, pregnancy coercion, and birth control sabotage;
they can exist independently or occur simultaneously. If a woman does not
comply with her partner's wishes, her partner may act out violently
against her, which is a common response. Around 10% of U.S. men reported
ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did
not want to or stopped them from using birth control. Around 9% of U.S.
women reported having an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant
when they did not want to or refused to use a condom.
is the practice of terminating a pregnancy
based upon the predicted sex of the infant.
Killers - India
Ever since Texas passed HB2 in 2013 At least 100,000
Texas women—and as many as 240,000—between the ages of
18 and 49 have attempted to
, according to a report
released today by the
Texas Policy Evaluation Project
Last Week Tonight with John Oliver: Abortion Laws (HBO)
Targeted Regulation of Abortion Providers (TRAP Laws)
Study Finds Women Who Want Abortions Are Often Given
Nearly half of all abortions worldwide are unsafe
nearly all unsafe abortions (98%) occur in developing
countries. In developing world, 56% of all abortions are
unsafe, compared with just 6% in developed regions. In
2008, six million abortions were performed in developed
countries and 38 million in developing countries, a
disparity that largely reflects population distribution. Of
the 55.7 million abortions that occurred worldwide
between 2010–2014, the researchers estimated that 30.6
million (54.9%) were safe, 17.1 million (30.7%) were less safe and 8
million, (14.4%) were least safe.Poverty
is not just about the lack of
money, but it's more about the lack of knowledge.
is an act that causes the death of a fetus.
is the intentional killing of infants.
is the deliberate act of a parent murdering
their own child during the first 24 hours of life.
is when a mother feels that she can not properly care
for a new born child, she can then leave her unharmed infant at a
hospital, Police station or other safe place where someone will definitely
find the child. The mother can do this without being persecuted or
criminally charged for abandonment
. The child then becomes a ward of the
state and the parent waives parental rights similar to adoption.
"Safe-haven" laws typically let parents remain nameless to the court,
often using a numbered bracelet system as the only means of linking the
baby to the parent. Texas was the first state to enact a “Baby
” in 1999, although the Safe Place originates in Mobile,
Alabama after a string of infanticides. All 50 states plus the District of
Colombia and Puerto Rico have versions of the Safe Haven law. The goal of
the laws are to protect newborns from abandonment and death.
is the natural death of an embryo or fetus
before it is able to survive independently. Some use the cutoff of 20
weeks of gestation after which fetal death is known as a stillbirth. The
most common symptoms of a miscarriage is vaginal bleeding with or without
pain. Sadness, anxiety and guilt may occur. Tissue or clot-like material
may also come out of the vagina. (also known as spontaneous abortion and
pregnancy loss).There are about 4.4 million confirmed
pregnancies in the U.S. every year
. 900,000 to
1 million of those end in
pregnancy losses EVERY year
. Approximately 75% of all miscarriages occur
in the first trimester. An estimated 80% of all miscarriages are single
miscarriages. The vast majority of women suffering one miscarriage can
expect to have a normal pregnancy next time. An estimated 19% of the adult
population has experienced the death of a child (this includes
miscarriages through adult-aged children).
is typically defined as fetal death at or after
20 to 28 weeks of pregnancy. It results in a baby born without signs of
life. A stillbirth can result in the feeling of guilt in the mother. The
term is in contrast to miscarriage which is an early pregnancy loss and
live birth where the baby is born alive, even if it dies shortly after.
Sudden Infant Death
is the sudden unexplained death of a
child less than one year of age. Diagnosis requires that the death remains
unexplained even after a thorough autopsy and detailed death scene
investigation. SIDS usually occurs during sleep. Typically death occurs
between the hours of 00:00 and 09:00. There is usually no evidence of
struggle and no noise produced.
is a Japanese ceremony for those who have had a
miscarriage, stillbirth, or abortion. This practice has become
particularly visible since the 1970s with the creation of shrines devoted
solely to this ritual. Reasons for the performance of these rites can
include parental grief, desire to comfort the soul of the fetus, guilt for
an abortion, or even fear of retribution from a vengeful spirit.
300.000 Mothers die from complications from pregnancy and
childbirth every year
WHO estimated 40-50 million abortions every year in
. This corresponds to approximately 125,000
abortions per day. 1.72 billion abortions worldwide in
the last 40 years.Population Still Rising
- Causes of Death
Falling out of Love, or Falling out of Lust?
is referred to as cheating, adultery (when married), being unfaithful, or
having an affair) is a violation of a couple's assumed or stated contract
regarding emotional and/or sexual exclusivity. Other scholars define
infidelity as a violation according to the subjective feeling that one's
partner has violated a set of rules or relationship norms; this violation
results in feelings of sexual jealousy and rivalry.
- I'm not comfortable Adultery
is extramarital sex that is considered objectionable on social, religious,
moral, or legal grounds. Though what sexual activities constitute adultery
varies, as well as the social, religious and legal consequences, the
concept exists in many cultures and is similar in Islam, Christianity and
Judaism. A single act of sexual intercourse is generally sufficient to
constitute adultery, and a more long-term sexual relationship is sometimes
referred to as an affair.Monogamy
only one spouse at a time and not fooling around.
is a sexual relationship, romantic friendship, or
passionate attachment between two people without the attached person's
significant other knowing.
Why is it called Cheating?
is a state of mind which results from a romantic
attraction to another person and typically includes obsessive thoughts and
fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object
of love and have one's feelings reciprocated.
is the expressive and pleasurable feeling from an emotional attraction
towards another person often associated with sexual attraction. It is eros
rather than agape, philia, or storge.
What is Love
Some of My Personal Experiences with
(feeling boxed in)
is a man who readily or frequently
enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer.
is the practice of having casual sex frequently
with different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual
partners. The term can carry a moral judgment if the social ideal for
sexual activity is monogamous relationships. A common example of behavior
viewed as promiscuous by many cultures is the one-night stand, and its
frequency is used by researchers as a marker for promiscuity.
is a male who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and
especially at seducing women by pretending to care about them,
when in reality they are only interested in sex. "play him for a
fool", or "play him like a violin".
What is a Open Relationship?Polyamory
is a strong desire for or impulse to wander or travel and explore the
Why can't you have an affair with the person your with? Acting
and dressing up as other people could be fun.
Breaking up sucks
, and on top of that, you're always wondering
what went wrong. It would be great if there was a last meeting
between the two people ending a
that would be used to discus why the friendship or relationship can not
continue. Then at least you
could have a chance to explain certain behaviors or changes. So
at the least a person could learn from the experience, even if the
friendship or relationship ends.
Effective communication skills
again become extremely
important. Never under estimate the importance of effective
communication skills. It's extremely important for everyone to
learn effective communication skills, or have someone teach you
effective communication skills. Communication is your vehicle
for transferring knowledge and information, not just to others,
but to yourself. To be a great learner, you have to be a good
communicator. Because if you don't have the necessary vocabulary
to tag information
, then remembering this information is extremely
difficult. This is why we name things.
When I say your name, I'm
saying that I remember you. Even though a name or label could
never fully explain everything about the contents, names and
labels do make our lives a lot easier.
Esther Perel: Rethinking infidelity a talk for anyone who has ever loved
Don't Break my Heart
Why does a
cause so much pain?
also known as a heartbreak or heartache) is a
term metaphor for the intense emotional
—and sometimes physical—stress
one feels at experiencing great longing. The concept is
cross-cultural, often cited with reference to a desired or lost lover, and
dates back at least 3,000 years. Emotional pain that is severe can cause
'broken heart syndrome', including physical damage to the
is a type of non-ischemic
cardiomyopathy in which there is a sudden temporary weakening of the
muscular portion of the Heart
This weakening may be triggered by
, such as the death of
a loved one, a break-up, or constant anxiety
. This leads to one of the
common names, Broken Heart Syndrome. Stress cardiomyopathy is now a
well-recognized cause of acute heart failure
, lethal ventricular
arrhythmias, and ventricular rupture. The name "Takotsubo syndrome" comes
from the Japanese word for a kind of octopus trap (ja), because the left
ventricle takes on a shape resembling a fishing pot.
(why we feel)Feminism
A person can have sex with one person
their whole life. But that doesn't make them an expert. It only
means that they had sex, and not that they have learned enough
for them to be an expert. And just because you had sex with
several different people, this too does not make you an expert.
It mostly depends on who you're with, and that both of you had
the time and knowledge to fully explore the world of intimacy.
But just going to school does not make you a teacher. To be good
in bed is to be good in the head. Meaning, it's what you know
and not how well you blow. But for some people it's the
opposite. Being good in bed might be enough for some people, but
eventually, you will realize there is so much more to life then
sex. And that is when you will enjoy sex even more. Sex is
personal, and sex is an agreement between two people. And each
person will experience sex in their own way, even when they have
sex with the same person multiple times. When you can openly
communicate with your partner about sex, that is when sex
becomes its best. But, you can have a great relationship with
someone but not have great sex with that someone. And, you can
have great sex with someone, but not have a great relationship
with that someone. And when you can have a great relationship
with someone, and have great sex, and feel you're in love, that
is when you get married. Unless of course your life takes you
both in two different directions, which happens. You can have it
all and still not have everything, which is the mistake that
everyone makes. What we want is not necessarily what we need.
And the only way to know exactly what we need is to keep
learning. You can think about the "what ifs", or you can think
about the "what now?" A "what if" is just a guess of where you
might have been. A "what now" is knowing where you are at the
present time, and where you think you are going to be in the future.
Age Disparity in Sexual Relationships
differences in ages of individuals in all sexual relationships.
is a slang term for a young female or male who is
financially pampered/cared for by a 'sugar daddy' or 'sugar
mama' in exchange for companionship.
is a person (usually female) who cultivates a
in order to attain money
is a slang term referring to a woman who seeks sexual
activity with significantly younger men.
is slang for a person who is younger than the legal
age of consent for sexual activity, with the implication that a person
above the age of consent might find them sexually attractive.
is an informal term for a wife, usually young
and attractive, who is regarded as a status symbol for the husband, who is
often older or unattractive, but usually wealthy. Such a gentleman may be
referred to as a sugar daddy. The term is normally used in a derogatory or
disparaging way. The term trophy husband is the male equivalent, although
this is rarer. A trophy wife is usually a second or later marriage.
Why does having Sex change you?
Why does having sex make you believe that your world is better?
Why does having sex make you believe that you are better then others?
Why is self-discipline and self-control considered unnecessary when it comes to sex?
Why do I have the urge to smoke tobacco and drink large amounts of alcohol after sex?
Why does sex change a
What should I do when things start to get
or become too
What is this new level of closeness that is created by having
Why does sex produce change in some while others feel no change
Why does sharing something so special become so complicated?
Does the relationship have to change?
How do I explain to someone that "I" have changed?
Does it have to be change or be nothing? What is change? Yes we
improve ourselves, yes we grow up, and yes we mature, but How do
we know if we are growing up right?
When do I get to fully explore my
? You most likely will not
get it right the first time...so when will you get it right?
How long does it take to know someone?
are hired by individuals experiencing
sexual dysfunction to provide direct sexual activity, with the goal of
improving the quality of the client's future sexual experiences.
What is a
and Intimacy Coach
The Miracles: You Better Shop Around
When will I know who is the right person to explore my sexuality
is the touch or pressing of one's lips against another person or an
How to Kiss Creatively
Master the Art of Kissing
involve kissing which can indicate joy or be used as part of a greeting.
Kissing involves the touching of one's lips to the lips or other body
part, such as the cheek, head, hand, of another person.
is a ritual or social gesture whose meaning is
basically the same as that of many forms of kissing. The air kiss is a
pretence of kissing: the lips are pursed as if kissing, but without
actually touching the other person's body. Sometimes, the air kiss
includes touching cheek-to-cheek. Also, the gesture may be accompanied by
the mwah sound.
is a party game in which several players
sit/stand/kneel in a circle. A bottle is placed on the floor in the center
of the circle. A player spins the bottle, and must kiss the person to whom
the bottle points when it stops spinning.
refers to kissing, petting, and necking, but may also refer to
non-penetrative sex acts such as heavy petting. Snogging is a term with
roughly the same meaning in British English and some related varieties of
English, except in Hiberno-English (spoken in Ireland), where it is more
commonly known as shifting.
How to make out
is a bruise or bruise-like mark caused by the kissing or sucking of the
skin, usually on the neck or arm. While biting might be part of giving a
hickey, sucking is sufficient to burst small superficial blood vessels
under the skin. Be extremely careful because a young person died after
receiving a hickey from his 24-year-old girlfriend. The suction was strong
enough to cause a blood clot in the neck. The clot traveled to his brain
and caused a fatal stroke. The stroke occurred hours after the hickey was
given, when he began having convulsions while having dinner with his
is touching or
is a complex system of nerve cells that
changes to the surface
or internal state of the body.
is sensual proximity or touching. It is an act or reaction, such as an
expression of feelings
(including close friendship,
, or sexual
attraction), between people. Examples of physical intimacy include being
inside someone's personal space, holding hands, hugging, kissing,
caressing, and sexual activity.
is a set of emotionally and physically intimate
acts between two or more people meant to create sexual arousal and desire
for sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual partners may indicate
sexual interest to initiate foreplay, and the initiator may not be the
active partner during the sexual activity. Foreplay stimulates both
partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and increases emotional intimacy
between partners, and implies a certain level of confidence and trust
between the partners. In animal sexual behavior, the loose equivalent is
sometimes termed 'precoital activity'. Why is is foreplay important?
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity. A number of physiological responses occur
in the body and mind as preparation for sexual intercourse and continue
What is a Skin Orgasm
is a form of physical intimacy, universal in human communities,
in which two or more people put their arms around the neck, back, or waist
of one another and hold each other closely. If more than two persons are
involved, this is informally referred to as a group hug. Why are
important? Why is a
more beneficial to a person then an
- What is
role of touch in regulating inter-partner physiological coupling during
empathy for pain
. When an empathetic partner holds the hand of a woman
in pain, their heart and respiratory rates sync and her pain dissipates.
The more empathic the partner and the stronger the analgesic effect, the
higher the synchronization between the two when they are touching.
Brainwaves fall into a similar pattern.
Holding hands can sync brainwaves, ease pain, study shows
Brain-to-brain coupling during handholding is associated with pain
Why can’t you tickle
is the act of touching a part of a body in a way that causes involuntary
twitching movements or laughter. The word About this sound "tickle"
evolved from the Middle English tikelen, perhaps frequentative of ticken,
to touch lightly.Touching
What is being in the
? What are some of the things that help you get in the
mood? Can you control your Mood?
What does it mean to be treated like an object?
is touching or fondling another person in an unwelcome sexual way using
Why is it important to find a good lover, and to
be a good lover
Knowing how to effectively
communicate to yourself
is one thing, knowing how to
communicate with others
is another thing.
How do you avoid
in humans is frustration caused by a
discrepancy between a person's desired and achieved sexual activity. It
can be a result of multiples issues such as obtaining less sex than
desired. It may also derive from not being satisfied during sex, which may
be due to issues such as anorgasmia, anaphrodisia, premature ejaculation,
delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or an incompatibility or
discrepancy in libido.
Sexual Performance Anxiety Causes and Treatments
Sometimes men, in order to maintain an erection and to keep from
having an orgasm to quickly, men must learn to stay focused continually for many
minutes, and then be able to change focus back and fourth when needed.
How do you handle
How do I talk to my partner about sex when I have little or no
experience? Learn Together.Communication
Will having great sex make it more difficult to repeat a great
Should I just settle for and except mediocre sex?
effect my sexuality?
Feeling comfortable in your own skin.
is when a man grooms, trims or shaves his pubic
hair, or the hair on his body.
Pubic Hair Grooming Prevalence and Motivation Among Women in
the United States
that hard disk behind my nipple?
is a common disorder of the endocrine system in
which there is a non-cancerous increase in the size of male breast tissue.
Most adolescent boys, up to 70%, have some breast development during
puberty. Newborn and adolescent males often experience temporary
gynecomastia due to the influence of maternal hormones and hormonal
changes during puberty, respectively. The development of gynecomastia is
usually associated with benign pubertal changes; in adolescent boys, the
condition is often a source of psychological distress. However, 75% of
pubertal gynecomastia cases resolve within two years of onset without
treatment. In rare cases, gynecomastia has been known to occur in
association with certain disease states. Gynecomastia may be seen in
individuals with Klinefelter syndrome or certain cancers, with disorders
involving the endocrine system or metabolic dysfunction, with the use of
certain medications, or in older males due to a natural decline in
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before
they figure out what they like?
How many sexual experiences does a person need to have before
they become experienced?
When is the right time to talk about sexual preferences with
your partner? -
If I feel uncomfortable doing a particular sex act do I still
have to do it because my partner likes it?
Can I find ways to enjoy something that I normally don’t like?
How do I explain to my lover what I like and what I don't like?
Do I need a
or Consensual Sex Agreement, or is this
unnecessary and dangerous?
When is having a good
sense of humor
about sex important?
do I need to know?
It's not just how you touch your lover, or where you touch your
lover, it's more about how your lover reacts to your touch,
which can vary depending on the time, the place and the mood.
Positions for Female Orgasm
Style, Cowgirl, Legs Over Shoulders
Positions for Female Orgasm
that enhance your sexual experience all in your
head or is this your real
Why are there so many
Should I learn
Sensual Massage Techniques
is a guide to a virtuous and gracious living that
discusses the nature of love, family life and other aspects pertaining to
pleasure oriented faculties of human life. It is presumed or depicted as a
synonym for creative sexual positions; in reality, only 20% of Kama Sutra
is about sexual positions.
is synonymous with "spiritual sex" or "sacred
sexuality," a belief that sex should be recognized as a sacred act capable
of elevating its participants to a
higher spiritual plane
. A catch-all
phrase for "sacred sexuality", and may incorporate unorthodox practices.
Seen as a "cult of ecstasy", combining sexuality and spirituality to
correct Western repressive attitudes towards sex.
and being relaxed,
it's taking your time to learn and to explore your sexuality and your
is any type of sexual activity used in magical, ritualistic
or otherwise religious and spiritual pursuits. One practice of sex magic
is using the energy of sexual arousal or orgasm
with visualization of a
desired result. A premise of sex magic is the concept that sexual energy
is a potent force that can be harnessed to transcend one's normally
helps overcome physical challenges &
disabilities, achieve a broader range of motion with
More than 56 million Americans who have some kind of
Disability Sex and Relationships
Mechanics of Human Sexuality
The mechanics of human sexuality or
of sex, or
more formally the Biomechanics
sexuality, is the study of the mechanics related to
human sexual activity. Examples of topics include the
biomechanical study of the strength of vaginal tissues
and the biomechanics of male erectile function. The
mechanics of sex under limit circumstances, such as
sexual activity at zero-gravity in outer space, are also
Pioneering researchers studied the male and female
genitals during coitus (penile-vaginal penetration) with
ultrasound technology in 1992 and magnetic resonance
imaging (MRI) in 1999, mapping the anatomy of the
activity and taking images illustrating the fit of male
and female genitals. In the research using MRI,
researchers imaged couples performing coitus inside an
MRI machine. The magnetic resonance images also showed
that the penis has the shape of a boomerang, that one
third of its length consists of the root of the penis,
and that the vaginal walls wrap snugly around it.
Moreover, MRI during coitus indicate that the internal
part of the clitoris is stimulated by penile-vaginal
movements. These studies highlight the role of the
clitoris and indicate that what is termed the G-spot may
only exist because the highly innervated clitoris is
pulled closely to the anterior wall of the vagina when
the woman is sexually aroused and during vaginal
Human Sexual Activity
is the manner in which humans experience and express their sexuality.
People engage in a variety of sexual acts, ranging from activities done
alone (e.g., masturbation) to acts with another person (e.g., sexual
intercourse, non-penetrative sex, oral sex, etc.) in varying patterns of
frequency, for a wide variety of reasons. Sexual activity normally results
in sexual arousal and physiological changes in the aroused person, some of
which are pronounced while others are more subtle. Sexual activity may
also include conduct and activities which are intended to arouse the
sexual interest of another or enhance the sex life of another, such as
strategies to find or attract partners (courtship and display behavior),
or personal interactions between individuals (for instance, foreplay or
BDSM). Sexual activity may follow sexual arousal. Human sexual activity
has sociological, cognitive, emotional, behavioral and biological aspects;
these include personal bonding, sharing emotions and the physiology of the
reproductive system, sex drive, sexual intercourse and sexual behavior in
all its forms. In some cultures, sexual activity is considered acceptable
only within marriage, while premarital and extramarital sex are taboo.
Some sexual activities are illegal either universally or in some countries
or subnational jurisdictions, while some are considered contrary to the
norms of certain societies or cultures
examples that are criminal offenses in most jurisdictions are
and sexual activity with a
person below the local age of consent. -
sudden discharge of accumulated sexual excitement during the sexual
response cycle, resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic
region characterized by sexual pleasure
Experienced by males and females, orgasms are controlled by the
involuntary or autonomic nervous system
They are often associated with other involuntary actions, including
muscular spasms in multiple areas of the body, a general euphoric
sensation and, frequently, body movements and vocalizations. The period
after orgasm (known as the refractory period) is often a relaxing
experience, attributed to the release of the neurohormones oxytocin and
prolactin as well as endorphins
morphine"). Human orgasms usually result from physical sexual stimulation
of the penis in males (typically accompanying ejaculation), and the
clitoris in females. Sexual stimulation can be by self-practice (masturbation
or with a sex partner (penetrative sex, non-penetrative sex, or other
sexual activity). The health effects surrounding the human orgasm are
diverse. There are many physiological responses during sexual activity,
including a relaxed state created by prolactin, as well as changes in the
central nervous system such as a temporary decrease in the metabolic
activity of large parts of the cerebral cortex while there is no change or
increased metabolic activity in the limbic (i.e., "bordering") areas of
the brain. There is also a wide range of sexual dysfunctions, such as
anorgasmia. These effects impact cultural views of orgasm, such as the
beliefs that orgasm and the frequency/consistency of it are important or
irrelevant for satisfaction in a sexual relationship, and theories about
the biological and evolutionary functions of orgasm.
Do you have to have an
in order to enjoy sex?
is a sexual technique which may be
practiced either alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a
high level of sexual arousal for an extended period of time without
reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm control allows the
practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without waiting through
the refractory period common after orgasm. When the decision is made to
allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much greater and more
pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced conventionally.
The average women needs around 25 minutes of sexual activity to have an
orgasm. Great Sex Tips
an full body orgasmic state which
lasts 30 minutes or longer. Energygasm
is an orgasm triggered by the mind. It involves tantric stuff and uses
elements of mindfulness.
is the discharge of semen
containing sperm) from the male reproductory tract
usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the final stage and natural objective
of male sexual stimulation, and an essential component of natural
Where does the
come from? Sex is not supposed to be a race to the finish line. While 75 percent of men always reach
orgasm during sex, only 29 percent of women report the same. In
addition, most women are unable to climax through vaginal
intercourse, instead needing
shouldn't be just about the orgasm but more about the
exploration of the human body and the exploration of our senses,
this way you learn something about yourself and the other
person, thus sex becomes more enjoyable and more meaningful over
In what ways can a man make a
is characterized as an erogenous area of the
vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful
orgasms and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be
located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the
vaginal opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part
of the female prostate.Super Orgasms
Experts claim that the climaxing state is possible with a mix of
relaxation, yoga and bonding. Those with the ability of being “super
orgasmic” typically have greater blood flow to their genitals compared to
“single orgasmic” women.Orgasms can help
. when you orgasm you release a cocktail of
that actually promote good
a.k.a. the love hormone, counteracts stress hormones
which helps you fall asleep. And serotonin
help the body cycle through
REM and deepnon-REM sleep cycles. An orgasm also releases a hormone called
, which causes stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons
in the brain’s olfactory bulb
smell centre). In women, prolactin is known to surge after sex, during
pregnancy and while
. Vasopressin is also released during orgasm, which is
another chemical associated with sleep.
increases the amount of solute-free water reabsorbed back
into the circulation from the filtrate in the kidney tubules of the
Second, AVP constricts
, which increases peripheral
and raises arterial blood pressure. A third
function is possible. Some AVP may be released directly into the brain
from the hypothalamus, and may play an important role in social behavior,
sexual motivation and pair bonding, and maternal responses to stress. It
has a very short half-life, between 16–24 minutes.
"Sex helps you
sleep better, and better sleep helps you have sex."
will also immediately
increase levels of neurotransmitters
, which will increase your mood
right after that workout. Exercise also produces brand new brain cells in
, that actually
increase its volume, as well as improve your long-term memory. Effects of
long-term exercise improves attention
dependent or your prefrontal cortex. You not only get better
focus and attention, but the volume of the hippocampus increases as well.
orgasms that happen when sleeping are better known as "wet dreams
is a condition in which a person will engage in sexual
activities while asleep.Why is a
Man's Penis very Sensitive after an Orgasm?
After an orgasm the
head of the penis
, the glans, is usually very
sensitive. The most "over-sensitivity" is in the first few moments right
after orgasm. Refractory period and is there to ensure you get out of the
vagina as soon as you ejaculate
. This is because
evolution has shaped your glans as a scoop to get the sperm of your male
competitors out before you deposit your own.
is usually the recovery phase after orgasm during
which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional
orgasms. This phase begins immediately after ejaculation and lasts until
the excitement phase of the human sexual response cycle begins anew with
low level response. Although it is generally reported that women do not
experience a refractory period and can thus experience an additional
orgasm (or multiple orgasms) soon after the first one, some sources state
that both men and women experience a refractory period because women may
also experience a moment after orgasm in which further sexual stimulation
does not produce excitement.
Human Sexual Response Cycle
is a four-stage model of physiological
responses to sexual stimulation, which, in order of their occurrence, are
the excitement phase, plateau phase, orgasmic phase and resolution phase.
(also known as the
arousal phase or initial excitement phase) is the first stage of the human
sexual response cycle, which occurs as a result of physical or mental
erotic stimuli, such as kissing, petting, or viewing erotic images, that
leads to sexual arousal. During this stage, the body prepares for sexual
intercourse, initially leading to the plateau phase. There is wide
socio-cultural variation regarding preferences for the length of foreplay
and the stimulation methods used. Physical and emotional interaction and
stimulation of the erogenous zones during foreplay usually establishes at
least some initial arousal.
is a set of emotionally and physically intimate acts between two or more
people meant to create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity.
Foreplay results in physiological and mental responses in both parties in
anticipation of the expected sexual activity. Either or any of the sexual
partners may indicate sexual interest and initiate foreplay, and the
initiator may not be the active partner during the sexual activity.
Foreplay stimulates both partners' sexuality, lowers inhibitions and
increases emotional intimacy between partners, and implies a certain level
of confidence and trust between the partners. In animal sexual behavior,
the loose equivalent is sometimes termed 'precoital activity'.
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Anyone could have a particular area of their body that
can be sensitive to sexual stimulation.
is a sensation
somewhat like shivering, usually caused by
other than cold.
It is typically expressed as an overwhelming emotional response combined
with piloerection (Goosebumps
that produce a response are specific to the individual. Touch
Why does a persons
Stop Yourself Being Ticklish - with Dr Emily Grossman
is an area of the human body that has
heightened sensitivity, the stimulation of which may generate a sexual
response, such as relaxation, the production of sexual fantasies, sexual
arousal and orgasm. Erogenous zones are located all over the human body,
but the sensitivity of each varies, and depends on concentrations of nerve
endings that can provide pleasurable sensations when stimulated. The
touching of another person's erogenous zone is regarded as an act of
physical intimacy. Some people may resent stimulation in this manner while
others may find it pleasing, and this may also depend on the relationship
between the persons involved. Erogenous zones may be classified by the
type of sexual response that they generate. Many people are gently aroused
when their eyelids, eyebrows, temples, shoulders, hands, arms and hair are
subtly touched. Gently touching or stroking of these zones stimulates a
partner during foreplay and increases the arousal level. Also, the gentle
massage or stroke of the abdominal area along with kissing or simply
touching the navel can be a type of stimulation.
Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone
is reportedly a female
erogenous zone that when stimulated can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication
and arousal, sometimes without any other form of stimulation, with
continued stimulation resulting in an intense orgasm.
is the massage or stimulation of the male
prostate gland for medical purposes or sexual stimulation. The prostate
takes part in the sexual response cycle, and is essential for the
production of semen. Due to its proximity to the anterior rectal wall, it
can be stimulated from the anterior wall of the rectum or externally via
both a clitoral and vaginal orgasm occur simultaneously.
direct stimulation of the
Why do females make more sounds then men during sex?
Female Copulatory Vocalization
occur during sexual
intercourse and are hence related to sexual activity. Vocalizations that
occur before intercourse, for the purpose of attracting mates, are known
as mating calls. In humans, coital vocalizations are linked to orgasm,
hence occurring during copulation and serving as an
expression of sexual pleasure
Vocalizations can be used intentionally by women in order to
boost the self-esteem of their partner
to cause quicker ejaculation
is a wet dream or sleep orgasm.
on your stomach provoke sex dreams?
is an orgasm triggered by
Can Sex be a form of
is physical exercise performed in preparation for
sexual activity and designed to tone, build, and strengthen muscles.
Sexercises are often performed as part of a sex diet lifestyle, which
seeks to maximize the health benefits of regular sexual activity. Exercise
is known to improve and quicken the flow of
, in higher and
consistent amounts, along with other beneficial chemical compounds, to the
genitalia, which is important for fertility and important during
intercourse. Sexercises range from Kegel exercise to aerobic and
Flexibility for performing contortion specifically for erotic or sexual
positions may also be practiced.
The Secret to Great Sex is Communication
and feeling comfortable in your own
with no expectations and no awkwardness or self doubt. You need to Communicate
with yourself and communicate
with your partner openly and honestly. And then you have to make sure that the
information that you're communicating is being interpreted
correctly so that the desired action is performed to your liking.
Sex is about Giving and Receiving. And it's best that the man Gives First
before Receiving, because a man could easily lose interest after an
orgasm. And Giving must be totally unselfish, it should be about the
Receiver and their needs and personal preferences. And when Receiving,
this is when a person can really explore and enjoy all the various
sensations of sex. This should happen without feeling any guilt or having
. Because once you remove all
fears and doubts, that is when sex becomes
truly amazing, like a spiritual awakening
You need to make your lover feel
, make them feel loved, make them feel comfortable and
worry free. Role
if needed, but don't lose
in the character. Taking
means that each person should have an
amount of time
playing the leader in control who gets to tell the other person what to do
and what to say. (It's my turn now then it's your turn next.) Remember
that the average women needs around 25 minutes
of sexual activity to have an orgasm
. So please be
aware of your partners needs. Safe
To be Good in Bed you have to be Good in
the Head, which means that you need to learn how to be a good
lover in order to be a good lover. You want to get to a point where you
know your partner really well so that you can take them on an amazing
journey filled with pleasure without having to be told what to do or how
to do it.
To truly experience
, and too really enjoy all the sensations of pleasure fully,
you have to understand what pleasure is and also know yourself and be
aware of yourself. Knowledge is the key to pleasure, the more you know,
the more things in life you can enjoy.
"It's kind of like helping each other
5 Things You Should avoid Before Sex:
Don't eat a heavy meal. (Brush teeth for fresh breath) Don't drink too much. Don't worry about
how you look.
Don't forget the lube. Don't forget to pee (before and after).
To figure out
what kind of mood
someone is in, is not that easy. That is why
communication is so valuable. You don't have to be able to read
each others minds if you're both good at expressing yourselves
using words, or using
What do you think would be the
Perfect Date? How many hours should a date be? How many activities
should you do?
What do you think would be the best sexual experience? How would
the intimacy begin? How would it proceed?
And how would it
finish? How confident are you in accomplishing all these
activities? Could you be spontaneous if plans change?
have a backup plan? Do you need practice?
Sheets and Pillows
is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more
people who act out roles
in a sexual
fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually
is a sexual fetishism where an individual is
obsessed and fixated by another or oneself wearing a uniform.
Live Action Role-Playing Game - LARP
Sharing your Sexual Fantasies with your Partner
The Perfect Sexual Experience:
Write the sex script and create the scene of how you want your
sexual experience to be like. Share the
with your lover.
The more details there are the more accuracy you will have in
the performance. Two
playing their parts, both knowing what the other is going to do.
The main focus is making the other person feel loved, as well as
making the other person feel beautiful attractive and sexy. You
also want to make the other person feel comfortable, relax and
worry free with no
and no awkwardness. Talk about your fears and any
, hang-ups, or
that you may have, so they don't
distract you, or get in the way. And don't expect perfection or
miracles to happen the first time. The sex script will need
practice, rehearsing and editing. So eventually the experience will happen
smoothly and natural, if not, it may become awkward at times and cause
you to lose the passion or ruin the mood. But remember this is
not a test, so put aside all judgments. This is a learning
journey of discovery. Open your mind and open your heart. You also want to make sure that each person is well
groomed, clean and smelling nice before you start. Don't make
love to a body, make love to the person. Being good in bed is
not just about being skilled with the mere mechanics of sex,
it's about making a connection, it's seeing each other, touching
each other, feeling each other, tasting each other, smelling
each other, and listening to each other. It's sharing an
intimate moment in life. Coming together is not just about
. Coming together is making a connection. And
it's not all about like and dislike, it's more about what you
know and what you don't know. You come to learn, you don't cum
to learn. There is so much that we can learn from each other, it
would be a shame not to talk and cuddle.
They have dinner, they take a romantic walk, they return home,
they sit close together, they look
into each others eyes, they kiss softly, they whisper softly
into each others ears, they gently touch each other, they slowly
undress each other, softly caressing the skin as each item of
clothes is removed. Both give each other oral sex on their
knees (optional). The women then gets into
her first sexual position
gently guides the penis into her vagina. The man goes deep as
specified by the women, she also specifies the rhythm and the
speed and any variation that would give her the most pleasure.
After a few minutes they change position to one that is more
comfortable to the man, after a few minutes they change into
another position that they both feel comfortable in. Caressing
the skin in areas the person likes to be touched and for how
long. Speaking words that the person likes to hear and not
speaking words they don't like to hear. During
intercourse the kissing may get more passionate, but the kissing
is done exactly they way each other likes it.
Then they lie next to each other, softly caressing, quite,
enjoying the rush of
, feel the breathing as your
return to normal, you can then after a few minutes fall asleep, talk,
or take a shower, in any order you choose. So this is only one
example, and of course people have different ideas, so there can
be many variations. You may number them for quick reference,
like variation number 12 or 44.
After Sex Effect:
The experience after sex is just as important as the actual
experience of sex itself. There is nothing worse then feeling
guilty after an orgasm. You have to make sure that your lover
has no bad feelings after sex. After sex you should feel
extremely happy and relaxed. Sometimes people may feel a burst
of energy and feel energetic, and some people become tired and
just fall asleep
So it is a good idea to talk about the moments after sex. After
an orgasm, a man’s brain releases a
cocktail of different
, and each man reacts a little differently. Some
women like to cuddle after sex. So men need to be aware of a
women's needs after sex, and not just during sex. What you say
and how you act is very important, before, during and after.
are hard to describe and even harder to reenact. So don't ever
expect too much from a fantasy, for every fantasy is just an
idea, and as we all know, not every idea is a good idea, so be
careful what you wish for."
Timing is everything.
When Breathing, taking drugs, eating food, saying certain words, and doing
certain actions, all have to consider the timing and the place. Just like
a movie director does with its actors. (Off
) Off timing can ruin a good experience, so we need to rehearse and
to practice.I will not judge you
You must be free to communicate no matter how crazy an idea might be. I
may laugh at the idea at first, but I will not judge you for it. And my
laugh is just the first impression, so I could be wrong. So I will always
leave room for discussion. I will not deny you of your right to express
yourself. I would be a fool not to listen to you, and I would be even more
of a fool if I did not even try to understand you. That is my commitment
to you, my promise to you. Though I am also only human, I make a mistakes
too, so please forgive me, for I will always forgive you.
The Importance of Partner Responsiveness for
Experiencing Sexual Desire.
dangerous, especially when you don't have
. You want to feel comfortable in your own skin,
but not so comfortable that you believe that you're better then others,
and eventually stop paying attention to other peoples needs.
Grand Funk Railroad
- Some Kind of Wonderful
is the act of giving excessive compliments, generally for the purpose of
ingratiating oneself with the subject. Make sure the attention and generosity
is sincere and honest, because it just
may be a way to manipulate you in order to gain favors?
What are the differences between
is a role that a person may take when a
friend needs support
approaching potential partners.
Fantasies and Beyond
is a form of sexual desire in which
gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of
clothing or part of the body. Excessive or irrational devotion to some
is a sexual fixation on a nonliving object or
nongenital body part. The object of interest is called the fetish; the
person who has a fetish for that object is a fetishist. A sexual fetish
may be regarded as a non-pathological aid to sexual excitement, or as a
mental disorder if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the
person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. Sexual
arousal from a particular body part can be further classified as
partialism. While medical definitions restrict the term sexual fetishism
to objects or body parts, fetish can also refer to sexual interest in
specific activities in common discourse.
is not the same as having
Just because it
does not mean you have to do it. There’s a lot of
things that feel good that a person can do.
Choosing the right
, that has the least amount of negative side effects, is
not that easy, but it can be done.
There’s a difference between choosing and having a
Sex is awesome, just don't let sex control your life. Of course
that is just one of many advices that are
easier said then done
should never be explored in real life?
is a mental image or pattern of thought
that stirs a person's sexuality and can create or enhance sexual arousal.
A sexual fantasy can be created by the person's imagination or memory, and
may be triggered autonomously or by external stimulation such as erotic
literature or pornography, a physical object, or sexual attraction to
another person. Anything that may give rise to a sexual arousal may also
produce a sexual fantasy, and sexual arousal may in turn give rise to
am I even having these types of fantasies to begin with?
some sexual fantasies considered healthy and why are some sexual
fantasies considered not so healthy?
What makes a
particular sex act
type of human behavior that deviates from that which is understood to be
orthodox or normal. Although the term perversion can refer to a variety of
forms of deviation, it is most often used to describe sexual behaviors
that are considered particularly abnormal, repulsive or obsessive.
Perversion differs from deviant behavior, in that the latter covers areas
of behavior (such as petty crime) for which perversion would be too strong
a term. It is often considered derogatory, and, in psychological
literature, the term paraphilia has been used as a replacement, though
this term is controversial, and deviation is sometimes used in its place
When does Sex become a Crime
What makes something
is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term
derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behaviour,
to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and
proclivities. The term kink has been claimed by some who practice sexual
fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of
sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to sexual objectification
and certain paraphilias. Kink sexual practices go beyond what are
considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the
intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between kink and
fetishism, defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the
latter as replacing it. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual
boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of
what is and is not kink varies widely as well.
is a vehement prohibition of an action based on the
belief that such behavior is either too sacred or too accursed for
ordinary individuals to undertake. Such prohibitions are present in
virtually all societies. The word has been somewhat expanded in the social
sciences to strong prohibitions relating to any area of human activity or
custom that is sacred or forbidden based on moral judgment and religious
beliefs. "Breaking a taboo" is usually considered objectionable by society
in general, not merely a subset of a culture.
- Hooking up
is sexual behavior or conduct that is considered
crude and offensive, or contrary to local moral or other standards of
appropriate behavior. In this sense "lascivious" is similar in meaning to
"lewd", "lustful", "indecent", "lecherous", "unchaste", "licentious" or
is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A dominatrix
might be of any sexual orientation, but her orientation does not
necessarily limit the genders of her submissive partners. The role of a
dominatrix may not even involve physical pain toward the submissive; her
domination can be verbal, involving humiliating tasks, or servitude. A
dominatrix may be a paid professional ("pro-domme"), or may use the title
of dominatrix in her personal sex life.
Dominance and Submission
is a set of behaviors, customs, and
rituals involving the submission of one person to another in an erotic
episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM.
is sexual pleasure obtained from
receiving punishment (physical or psychological).
is consensual psychological
humiliation in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. This
can be for the person being humiliated and demeaned or for the person
humiliating, or for some spectator. It may be part of BDSM and other
sexual roleplay or accompanied by the sexual stimulation of one or both
partners in the activity. Humiliation is a subjective issue, and is
dependent on context. It does not need to be sexual in nature; as with
many other sexual activities, it is the feelings that are obtained from
the experience that are desired, regardless of the nature of the actual
activity. Usually there is a feeling of submission for the person being
humiliated, and dominance, for the person implementing the humiliation.
Erotic humiliation can be done verbally and/or physically, and can take
place privately or publicly. Some individuals assume an acting role and
others prefer to be spoken to in a degrading way. A classic technique that
can be used to put the submissive into a bottom mind space is to humiliate
them while also providing them with sexual stimulation. Select individuals
who desire this form of humiliation also use it to acquire emotional
release. Humiliation can become ritualized, and unlike some sexual
variations, it can also be easily carried out over a long distance (such
as online). While fantasy and fascination with erotic humiliation is a
prevalent part of BDSM and other sexual roleplay, relatively little has
been written on it. Humiliation play can, however, be taken to a point
where it becomes emotionally or psychologically distressing to one or the
other partner, especially if it is public humiliation. Erotic humiliation
can become extreme enough to be considered a form of edgeplay, which some
consider may best be approached with advance negotiation and use of a
is a code word, series of code words or other
signal used by a submissive or bottom to unambiguously communicate their
physical or emotional state to a dominant or top, typically when
approaching, or crossing, a physical, emotional, or moral boundary. Some
safewords are used to stop the scene outright, while others can
communicate a willingness to continue, but at a reduced level of
intensity. Safewords are usually agreed upon before playing a scene by all
participants, and many organized BDSM groups have standard safewords that
all members agree to use to avoid confusion at organized play events.
Safewords of BDSM fall under the guiding philosophy of safe, sane and
consensual. Those who practise the more permissive philosophy of
risk-aware consensual kink may abandon the use of safewords, especially
those that practice forms of edgeplay or extreme forms of dominance and
submission. In such cases, the choice to give up the use of safewords is a
consensual act on the part of the bottom or submissive. (Stop
Code Words and Meanings
What is considered
Lower Back Tattoo
or Tramp Stamp is tattoo that was popular among some women in the 2000s
and gained a reputation for its feminine appeal. They are sometimes
accentuated by low-rise jeans and crop tops, and are considered erotic by
is a personality trait which assesses an
individual's disposition to respond to sexual cues in either a positive or
negative manner. It is measured on a continuous scale, ranging from
erotophobia to erotophilia. Erotophobes tend to score higher on
authoritarianism and need for achievement, have more traditional sex
roles, experience more sex guilt and have more negative reactions to
masturbation and homosexuality than erotophiles. Erotophilic individuals
tend to masturbate and fantasize more frequently, think about sex more
often, have sexual intercourse for the first time at an earlier age, have
more past sexual experiences and have a greater number of intercourse
partners than erotophobic individuals. Erotophiles are also more likely to
engage in breast self-examinations, schedule regular gynecological visits
and engage in preventative behaviors regarding sexually transmitted
diseases (e.g., more frequent condom use).
Should I limit the amount of sexual fantasies that I have?
Should I dream of sexual fantasies that are more reality based
and limit the amount of sexual fantasies that should never
happen or that will never happen?
is a performance activity invented in Japan; clothed
men and women simulate sexual activity with an invisible partner, often in
an exaggerated manner, set to music, and in a competition before an
audience. This is somewhat akin to playing air guitar, explaining the
name. The creator, J-Taro Sugisaku, says that it was invented in Tokyo in
2006 by a group of bored men without girlfriends.
is a type of dance in which an individual, usually
female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving
thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance. Twerking is also known
as "booty shaking," "p-poppin" or "pussy-poppin", and "bounce" depending
on the context.
make sex fun? Where do strong sexual desires
Why does exercise and a good diet increase your
sexual desire and stamina?
Sexual Fetish Psychology
really help to enhance the sexual experience?
is an object or device that is primarily used to
facilitate human sexual pleasure, such as a dildo or vibrator. Many
popular sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and may be
vibrating or non-vibrating. The term sex toy can also include BDSM
apparatus and sex furniture such as slings; however, it is not applied to
items such as birth control, pornography, or condoms. Alternative
expressions include adult toy and the dated euphemism marital aid,
although "marital aid" has a broader sense and is applied to drugs and
herbs marketed to supposedly enhance or prolong sex. Sex toys are most
commonly sold at a sex shop, but they may also be sold in a pornographic
DVD store or head shop. Today's sex toys are available in almost all
countries for male and females.
What are the dangers of
is generally the insertion of the erect penis into
a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure. Other forms of
anal sex include fingering, the use of sex toys for anal penetration, oral
sex performed on the anus (anilingus), and pegging. Although the term anal
sex most commonly means penile-anal penetration, sources sometimes use the
term anal intercourse to refer exclusively to penile-anal penetration, and
anal sex to refer to any form of anal sexual activity, especially between
pairings as opposed to anal masturbation.
Is Oral Sex necessary?
so seductive and so significant, and then sometimes
is sexual activity involving the stimulation of the
genitalia of a person by another person using the mouth (including the
lips, tongue or teeth) or throat. Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on a
female, while fellatio is oral sex performed on a male. Anilingus, another
form of oral sex, is oral stimulation of a person's anus. Oral stimulation
of other parts of the body (as in kissing and licking) is usually not
considered oral sex. Oral sex may be performed as foreplay to incite
sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal
intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act in its own
right. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex can pose a risk for
contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the
transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is
significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex. Oral sex is often
regarded as taboo, but most countries do not have laws which ban the
practice. Commonly, people do not regard oral sex as affecting the
virginity of either partner, though opinions on the matter vary. People
may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or
receiving oral sex, or may flatly refuse to engage in the practice.
is an oral sex act performed by a person on a
Eating Pussy Info-Graph
is an oral sex act involving the use of the mouth
or throat, which is performed by a person on the penis of another person
or oneself (autofellatio). Oral stimulation of the scrotum may also be
termed fellatio or tea bagging. Fellatio can be sexually arousing for both
participants, and may lead to orgasm for the receptive partner. It may be
performed by a sexual partner as foreplay before other sexual activities
(such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically
intimate act in its own right. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral
sex creates a risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs).
However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission,
is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex. Most countries
do not have laws which ban the practice of oral sex, though some cultures
may consider it taboo. People may also have negative feelings or sexual
inhibitions about giving or receiving oral sex; they may refuse to engage
in it of their own volition. Commonly, people do not regard forms of oral
sex as affecting the virginity of either partner, though opinions on the
matter vary. (also known as blowjob, BJ, giving head, or sucking off).
Giving a Blow Job Info-Graph
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organism is the physiological sex that produces sperm
is a male
. The term man is
usually reserved for an adult male, with the term boy being the usual term
for a male child or adolescent. Human Rights
Boys have one X and
is the primary male sex hormone
and an anabolic steroid. In men, testosterone plays a key role in the
development of male reproductive tissues such as the testis and prostate,
as well as promoting secondary sexual characteristics such as increased
muscle and bone mass, and the growth of body hair.
Testosterone Makes Men Less Likely to Question Their Impulses
hormone connected with greater reliance on gut instincts and less
stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male
characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors. This
includes the activity of the primary male sex organs and development of
male secondary sex characteristics.
Your penis is small, compared to who? My penis is
perfect, but it might not be so perfect for you. I might
be small but I'm still
(Alphaville) "Does Size Matter?" The size of
your vocabulary matters, but even then, it's the quality of the
words that you know, and how effective you are at using them.
the matter of size is all relevant? Does size matter? Matter to
what? Does it matter to sex? Sex with who? Sex with a women?
Which women?" It's not a one size fits all, it matters to
some, and it doesn't matter to others.
"It's not the size of the boat
, nor the motion of the ocean,
it's whether or not the captain can stay in port long enough for
all the passengers to get off."
, love stick, holy-poker, schlong, joy-stick,
twig and berries, skin flute.
is the removal of the foreskin from the human penis.
double-layered fold of smooth muscle tissue, blood vessels, neurons, skin,
and mucous membrane part of the penis that covers and protects the glans
penis and the urinary meatus. It is also described as the prepuce, a
technically broader term that also includes the clitoral hood in women, to
which the foreskin is embryonically homologous. The highly innervated
mucocutaneous zone of the penis occurs near the tip of the foreskin. The
foreskin is mobile, fairly stretchable, and acts as a natural lubricant.
is a medical condition in which the male
reproductive organs (the testes, which in humans are located in the
scrotum) diminish in size and may be accompanied by loss of function. This
does not refer to temporary changes, such as those brought on by cold.
is when the penis becomes firmer, engorged and enlarged. Penile erection
is the result of a complex interaction of psychological, neural, vascular
and endocrine factors, and is often associated with sexual arousal or
sexual attraction, although erections can also be spontaneous. The shape,
angle and direction of an erection varies considerably in humans.
Science of 'Morning Wood'
Morning glories, or
nocturnal penile tumescence
(NPT) as they are correctly called, are
spontaneous erections that occur during sleep or while waking up.
Hypothesizes that the noradrenergic neurons of the locus ceruleus are
inhibitory to penile
erection, and that the cessation of their
discharge that occurs during REM sleep may allow testosterone-related
excitatory actions to manifest as NPT. A full bladder can stimulate an
erection has existed for some time and is characterized as a
is sexual dysfunction characterized by
the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis during
sexual activity in humans. A penile erection is the hydraulic effect of
blood entering and being retained in sponge-like bodies within the penis.
The process is most often initiated as a result of sexual arousal, when
signals are transmitted from the brain to nerves in the penis. The most
important organic causes of impotence are cardiovascular disease and
diabetes, neurological problems (for example, trauma from prostatectomy
surgery), hormonal insufficiencies (hypogonadism) and drug side effects.
is difficulty experienced by an
individual or a couple during any stage of a normal sexual activity,
including physical pleasure, desire, preference, arousal or orgasm.
is rupture of one or both of the tunica
albuginea, the fibrous coverings that envelop the penis's corpora
cavernosa. It is caused by rapid blunt force to an erect penis, usually
during vaginal intercourse, or aggressive masturbation. It sometimes also
involves partial or complete rupture of the urethra or injury to the
dorsal nerves, veins and arterie.
is a malignant growth found on the skin
or in the tissues of the penis. Around 95% of penile cancers are squamous
cell carcinomas. Other types of penile cancer such as Merkel cell
carcinoma, small cell carcinoma, melanoma and other are generally rare.
focuses on surgical and medical diseases of the male
and female urinary tract system and the male reproductive organs.
is a set of attributes, behaviors and roles generally associated with boys
and men. Masculinity is socially constructed, but made up of both
socially-defined and biologically-created factors, distinct from the
definition of the male biological sex.
is the practice of having casual sex frequently with
different partners or being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual
or sex drive, is a person's overall sexual drive or
desire for sexual activity. Sex drive is influenced by biological,
psychological and social factors. Biologically, the sex hormones and
associated neurotransmitters that act upon the nucleus accumbens
(primarily testosterone and dopamine, respectively) regulate libido in
is the quality of
lacking strength or power; being weak and feeble. An inability (usually of
the male animal) to copulate, which means that you are unable to engage in
is an entomopathogenic fungus found in mountainous
regions of Nepal and Tibet. It parasitizes larvae of ghost moths and
produces a fruiting body which used to be valued as a herbal remedy.
is the arousal of sexual desire, during or in
anticipation of sexual activity.
is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in
or desire for sexual activity.
The combination of Fantasy and Self Stimulation.
Make sure your hands are clean
and be very careful with soaps, oils or
creams. Be gentle, and Learn.
How much should you masturbate?
What are some the health concerns that a person should have when
Masturbating? (a onesome, instead of a twosome or a threesome).
Masturbation shouldn't be automatic, though
it's sometimes unavoidable. You need to be aware of yourself. You should
explore your own sexual abilities and sexual energy, and not just do it
for a orgasm
. And don't expect miracles or assume to
be perfect. You need to respect yourself and understand your needs,
and not just do what you want or feel. Use masturbation as a way to
exercise your self control, and also as a way to learn how to understand
all the mechanisms that helps you to maintain control over your mind and
, live, learn, love and progress.
Making Love to Yourself
love to yourself is safer, but it still has risks. And Knowing how to make
love to yourself is not the same as making love to another person.
Understanding your own sexuality takes a lot of time, so Understanding
another persons sexuality will also take a lot of time. there are many
benefits that comes from Understanding your own sexuality, but that does
not guarantee that you will understand someone else's sexuality. You're
not just exploring someone else's sexuality, you're exploring your own
sexuality too, and sometimes you're exploring yourself and the other
person at the same time.
that is why communicating
with an open mind
is so extremely important. You have to learn how to
understand body language as well as human language. You have to learn how
to understand how the mind communicates with the body and how the body
communicates to the mind. Then you can share this information and
experience with another person who is also going through the same process
of learning and exploring. Being able to learn together is one of the
purest forms of love that there is. TouchingTemporary
Is Sexual Self-Stimulation Wrong
All sex has its
, but knowing those dangers is not easy.
is a sexual technique which may be practiced either alone or with a
partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of
for an extended
period of time without reaching orgasm. When practiced by males, orgasm
control allows the practitioner to enjoy direct sexual stimulation without
waiting through the refractory period common after orgasm. When the
decision is made to allow orgasm, the physical sensations may be much
greater and more pleasurable than if the orgasm were experienced
For men, you should not masturbate just to
. There are benefits to having
, but balance
Use masturbation as a way to
how long you can maintain an erection without
Try not get get near an orgasm, because once you are close to
having an orgasm it's hard to control it and stop it from
is a set of techniques for cultivating a more fulfilling sexual or loving
relationship, combining breathing techniques, bio-energy, yoga,
massage, sexuality and spirituality.
is what Taoists believe that a man loses when he
ejaculates, so they like to avoide ejaculation in order to conserve life
essence by minimizing the loss of
How does sex affect my energy
discharge of semen (normally containing
from the male reproductory tract, usually accompanied by orgasm. It is the
final stage and natural objective of male sexual stimulation, and an
essential component of natural conception
is the male reproductive cell and is derived from the Greek word
(σπέρμα) sperma (meaning "seed"). In the types of sexual reproduction
known as anisogamy and its subtype oogamy, there is a marked difference in
the size of the gametes with the smaller one being termed the "male" or
sperm cell. A uniflagellar sperm cell that is motile is referred to as a
spermatozoon, whereas a non-motile sperm cell is referred to as a
spermatium. Sperm cells cannot divide and have a limited life span, but
after fusion with egg cells during fertilization, a new organism begins
developing, starting as a totipotent zygote. The human sperm cell is
haploid, so that its 23 chromosomes can join the 23 chromosomes of the
to form a
. In mammals,
sperm develops in the testicles and is released from the penis. It is also
possible to extract sperm through TESE. Some sperm banks hold up to 170
litres (37 imp gal; 45 US gal) of sperm.
, 2–5% Approximately 200-
to 500-million spermatozoa (also called sperm or spermatozoans), produced
in the testes, are released per ejaculation. If a man has undergone a
vasectomy, he will have no sperm in the ejaculation.
(65–75%) amino acids,
citrate, enzymes, flavins, fructose (2–5 mg per mL semen, the main energy
source of sperm cells, which rely entirely on sugars from the seminal
plasma for energy), phosphorylcholine, prostaglandins (involved in
suppressing an immune response by the female against the foreign semen),
proteins, vitamin C. Prostate
phosphatase, citric acid, fibrinolysin, prostate specific antigen,
proteolytic enzymes, zinc (the zinc level is about 135±40 micrograms/ml
for healthy men. Zinc serves to help to stabilize the DNA-containing
chromatin in the sperm cells. A zinc deficiency may result in lowered
fertility because of increased sperm fragility. Zinc deficiency can also
adversely affect spermatogenesis.) Bulbourethral
< 1% galactose, mucus (serve to increase the mobility of
sperm cells in the vagina and cervix by creating a less viscous channel
for the sperm cells to swim through, and preventing their diffusion out of
the semen. Contributes to the cohesive jelly-like texture of semen.),
pre-ejaculate, sialic acid.
evaluates certain characteristics of a male's semen
and the sperm contained therein. It is done to help evaluate male
fertility, whether for those seeking pregnancy or verifying the success of
Reported declines in sperm counts
. Temporal trends in sperm count: a
systematic review and meta-regression analysis.
Sperm Count not just a problem for fertility
. New research links sperm
count to other health problems and increased risk of illness.
evaluates certain characteristics of a male's
semen and the sperm contained therein. It is done to help evaluate male
fertility, whether for those seeking pregnancy or verifying the success of
An automated smartphone-based diagnostic assay for point-of-care semen
occurs when a man experiences orgasm and expels
semen soon after sexual activity and with minimal penile stimulation. It
has also been called early ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax,
premature climax, and (historically) ejaculatio praecox.
occurs when semen, which would, in most cases, be ejaculated via the
urethra, is redirected to the urinary bladder. Normally, the sphincter of
the bladder contracts before ejaculation forcing the semen to exit via the
urethra, the path of least resistance. When the bladder sphincter does not
function properly, retrograde ejaculation may occur. It can also be
induced deliberately by a male as a primitive form of male birth control
(known as coitus saxonicus) or as part of certain alternative medicine
Seminal plasma hypersensitivity reactions: an updated review,
Allergic to SemenOral Sex
is a slang term for the condition of temporary
fluid congestion (vasocongestion
in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain, caused by prolonged
sexual arousal in the human male without ejaculation. Some urologists call
the condition "epididymal hypertension". The condition is not experienced
by all males
What is the difference between
from Porn and Masturbation Challenge
What is the difference between
is the practice of becoming sexually
stimulated through internal stimuli. The term was popularized toward the
end of the 19th century by British sexologist Havelock Ellis, who defined
autoeroticism as "the phenomena of spontaneous sexual emotion generated in
the absence of an external stimulus proceeding, directly or indirectly,
from another person". The most common autoerotic practice is masturbation.
Though the terms autoeroticism and masturbation are often used
interchangeably, they are not synonymous as not all autoerotic behaviors
are masturbatory. Nocturnal emissions, erotic daydreams, and sexual
arousal to 'sexually-neutral' stimuli (music, scenery, art, risk,
spiritual reverie, etc.) are also examples of autoeroticism.
results in a spontaneous, persistent, and
uncontrollable genital arousal, with or without orgasm or genital
engorgement, unrelated to any feelings of sexual desire. Also known as
persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD), originally called persistent
sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS), Weiss Disease, and also known as restless
genital syndrome (ReGS or RGS).Addictions
- Nervous System
is the repetition of physical movements, sounds, or
repetitive movement of objects common in individuals with developmental
disabilities, but most prevalent in people with autism spectrum disorders.
is inflammation of the glans penis. When the
foreskin is also affected, it is termed balanoposthitis.
are visible sebaceous glands that are present in
most individuals. They appear on the genitals and/or on the face and in
the mouth. They appear as small, painless, raised, pale, red or white
spots or bumps 1 to 3 mm in diameter that may appear on the scrotum, shaft
of the penis or on the labia, as well as the inner surface (retromolar
mucosa) and vermilion border of the lips of the face. They are not
associated with any disease or illness, nor are they infectious but rather
they represent a natural occurrence on the body. No treatment is therefore
required, unless the individual has cosmetic concerns. Persons with this
condition sometimes consult a dermatologist because they are worried they
may have a sexually transmitted disease (especially genital warts) or some
form of cancer.
Hirsuties Coronae Glandis
are small protuberances that may
form on the ridge of the glans of the human penis. They are a harmless
anatomical variation. Though sometimes confused with HPV infection, the
papules are not a sexually transmitted infection and are not contagious.
is a fungal infection due to any type of Candida
(a type of yeast). When it affects the mouth, it is commonly called
thrush. Signs and symptoms include white patches on the tongue or other
areas of the mouth and throat. Other symptoms may include soreness and
problems swallowing. When it affects the vagina, it is commonly called a
yeast infection. Signs and symptoms include genital itching, burning, and
sometimes a white "cottage cheese-like" discharge from the vagina. Less
commonly the penis may be affected, resulting in itchiness. Very rarely,
the infection may becoming invasive, spreading to other parts of the body.
This may result in fevers along with other symptoms depending on the parts
Urinary Tract Infection
is an infection that affects part of
the urinary tract. When it affects the lower urinary tract it is known as
a bladder infection (cystitis) and when it affects the upper urinary tract
it is known as kidney infection (pyelonephritis). Symptoms from a lower
urinary tract include pain with urination, frequent urination, and feeling
the need to urinate despite having an empty bladder. Symptoms of a kidney
infection include fever and flank pain usually in addition to the symptoms
of a lower UTI. Rarely the urine may appear bloody. In the very old and
the very young, symptoms may be vague or non-specific.
is the presence of blood in semen, is most
often a benign symptom. Among men age 40 or older, hematospermia is a
slight predictor of cancer, typically prostate cancer. No specific cause
is found in up to 70% of cases.Congestive
is a condition which is characterized by inflammation
of the prostate gland and affects males who suffer from prostate
Postorgasmic illness syndrome
is a syndrome in which men
have severe cognitive and physical symptoms immediately following
ejaculation in the absence of a local genital reaction. The symptoms last
for up to a week. The cause and prevalence are unknown; it is considered a
rare disease.Body Smart
is the sex of an organism, or a part of an
organism, that produces non-mobile ova (Egg
is a female
that is, of the species Homo sapiens. The term woman is usually reserved
for an adult, with the term girl being the usual term for a female child
or adolescent. Human Rights
have 2 X Chromosomes
is the primary female sex hormone
. It is
responsible for the development and regulation of the
and secondary sex characteristics.
an endogenous steroid and progestogen sex hormone
involved in the
menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and embryogenesis of humans and other species.
It belongs to a group of steroid hormones called the progestogens, and is
the major progestogen in the body. Progesterone is also a crucial
metabolic intermediate in the production of other endogenous steroids,
including the sex hormones and the corticosteroids, and plays an important
role in brain function as a neurosteroid. Progesterone modulates multiple
brain functions implicated in the pathogenesis of drug
, and can also cause
are a form
of flushing due to reduced levels of
. Hot flashes are a symptom which may have several other
causes, but which is often caused by the changing hormone levels
. They are typically experienced as a feeling
of intense heat with sweating and rapid heartbeat, and may typically last
from 2 to 30 minutes for each occurrence.
in the human body is the
and the smallest
, 500 Million from Ejaculation.
List of Distinct Cell Types in the Adult Human Body
is a muscular and tubular part of the female genital tract, which in
humans extends from the vulva to the cervix. The outer vaginal opening may
be partly covered by a membrane called the hymen. At the deep end, the
cervix (neck of the uterus) bulges into the vagina. The vagina allows for
sexual intercourse and childbirth, and channels menstrual flow, which
occurs periodically as part of the menstrual cycle.
is the medical practice dealing with the health
of the female reproductive systems (vagina, uterus, and ovaries) and the
breasts. Literally, outside medicine, the term means "the science of
women". Its counterpart is andrology, which deals with medical issues
specific to the male reproductive system. Almost all modern gynaecologists
are also obstetricians (see obstetrics and gynaecology). In many areas,
the specialities of gynaecology and obstetrics overlap.
is the practice and process of determining
whether a person, usually a girl or woman is a virgin; i.e., whether she
has never engaged in sexual intercourse. The test typically involves a
check for the presence of an intact hymen, on the assumption that it can
only be torn as a result of sexual intercourse.
The Virginity Fraud: Nina Dølvik Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl
(video and text) - Talks about how virginity tests or hymen examinations
are mostly fraudulent
towards women. The hymen does not
always bleed or get damaged the first time a woman has vaginal sex, and
the hymen is not lost forever, hymens are elastic and the size and shape
varies from women to women. This type of discrimination against women also
makes women afraid of ruining themselves, either through sport, play,
tampon use or a sexual activity.
The Wonder Down Under: A User’s Guide to the Vagina
(book on amazon).
is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the
external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external
genitalia, and is similar in structure to the vagina. The hymen does not
seem to have a specific physiological function or purpose.Birth
(reproduction - having a baby)
is a protein that in humans is best known for its
role in enabling mammals, usually females, to
is painful sexual intercourse due to medical or
refers to physical and emotional symptoms that occur in the one to two
weeks before a woman's period.
is the regular natural change that occurs in the
female reproductive system (specifically the uterus and ovaries) that
makes pregnancy possible. The cycle is required for the production of
ovocytes, and for the preparation of the uterus for pregnancy. Up to 80%
of women report having some symptoms during the one to two weeks prior to
menstruation. Common symptoms include acne, tender breasts, bloating,
feeling tired, irritability and mood changes. These symptoms interfere
with normal life and therefore qualify as premenstrual syndrome in 20 to
30% of women. In 3 to 8%, they are severe.
Robyn Stein Deluca: The Good News about PMS
Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder
taboo-free way to talk about Periods
is made of medical grade silicone, shaped like a bell
and is flexible. It is worn inside the vagina during menstruation to catch
menstrual fluid (blood). About every 4–12 hours (depending on the amount
of flow), the menstruating woman removes the menstrual cup from her
vagina, empties the collected menstrual blood into a toilet or sink,
washes the cup under running water and inserts it again. At the end of the
monthly period, the cup can be sterilized, usually by boiling in water.
Unlike tampons and pads, the cup collects menstrual fluid rather than
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- The Off Switch for Menstrual Pain.
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Female Athletes and their Periods. Does the
Menstrual Cycle affect Sporting Performance?
An elite athlete or
some women who exercise a lot may have their periods stop, which is called
, which is a condition in which menstruation
stops for several months due to a problem involving the
. The hypothalamus is in
the center of the brain and controls
. It produces gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH).
Signal hormones that are produced in the ovary are not produced.
is a releasing hormone responsible for
the release of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinizing hormone
(LH) from the anterior pituitary. GnRH triggers the follicular stimulating
hormone, and the luteinizing hormone that are produced in the ovary, that
signal does not translate to production of estrogen and progesterone, so
the woman loses her periods. They may become irregular initially and then
they may stop completely. It is reversible once the women decreases the
intensity of her workouts or when other changes occur. The typical
menstrual cycle is 28 days long, with the first five days of bleeding on
average. Then, the first 14 days are considered the follicular phase.
That’s when the little egg is getting built up. And, then there is the
second half, which, again, is about 14 days is when the lining gets really
lush and ready to accept a fertilized egg.
Generally the luteal phase is considered less favorable for athletic
because of the extra estrogen that gets made in there. So
to compensate for that, studies suggest that women need to carb-load more
during the second half of their menstrual cycle if they’re going to have
an endurance event. However, there are just as many women athletes who set
personal records during their luteal phase, during their menstrual cycle,
during their follicular phase, whatever. So it’s very different in every
woman. Many studies that say that performance does not vary throughout the
menstrual cycle and there are studies that say it does.
Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists - Women's
Health Care Physicians
is a plastic surgery procedure for altering the
labia minora (inner labia) and the labia majora (outer labia), the folds
of skin surrounding the human vulva.
Vagina Ideal Cirugía vaginal rápido ideal para niñas
are two flaps of skin on either side of the
human vaginal opening in the vulva, situated between the labia majora (the
Latin for big lips; also called outer labia, or outer lips). Inner lips
vary widely in size, color, and shape from individual to individual.
is the removal of pubic hair using a special wax, which can be hot or
cold, that adheres to hairs and pulls them out when the wax is removed
quickly from the skin, usually with a cloth strip. While the practice is
mainly associated with women, men remove pubic hair at times as well.
Photos of different Vaginas
, furburger, pleasure-pit, cherry pit, joy-hole, lady bits, beaver, fanny,
man in canoe, rosebud, joy buzzer, lentils, chick pea, love
button, bald man in a boat.
is designed to bring a woman pleasure. That is its
sole purpose. Not reproduction
contains 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, double the
nerve endings in the glans of a penis.
The word "Clitoris" is from the Greek work for "key"?
Understanding and getting to know the clitoris may unlock your
Only one quarter of the clitoris is partially visible to the
naked eye. The rest of it is inside the women's body. The
clitoris is actually close to four inches in length (kind of
like the average non-erect penis), but three-fourths of it is
hidden from view within a female's body. Besides the clitoris
being made up the clitoral head, the hood and the clitoral
shaft, it is also composed of the urethral sponge, erectile
tissue, glands, vestibular bulbs and the clitoral legs. Only the
clitoral head and the hood are located outside the body. Some
sex experts believe that the G Spot is actually a part of the
The clitoris varies in size and shape on different women
are hidden under the hood, and some stick out. Some like to be
touched softly and others like a lot of pressure. It takes time
to get to know a woman's clitoris. Don't assume that you know
what it likes. Take your time and get to know each unique
clitoris, just like you would take the time to get to know the
woman it is
Fifty to 75 percent of women who have
have their clitoris touched (clitoral stimulation). Most women
are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. There
are all kinds of orgasms. Vaginal, Cervical and G Spot Orgasms
do exist, but they are much harder for most women to achieve
than a clitoral orgasm. Very few women are able to achieve an
orgasm without any kind of clitoral involvement. There is
nothing immature about women having orgasms through their
clitoris. A clitoral orgasm can bring about anywhere between
three and 16 contractions and can last from 10 to 30 seconds.
But that doesn't exclude the fact that many women have
that can include pelvic contractions. Some sex educators
have compared and contrasted male and female orgasm and have
concluded that even the most average clitoral orgasm lasts
longer than even the best ever most fantastic
The clitoris grows throughout a woman's life
. After menopause,
the clitoris can become 2.5 times larger than it was when the
same woman was a teenager. I don't think that there has been an
actually study about clitoris size in relation to pleasure. And
I don't think that women have a size thing about their clitoris,
the way men do around penis size. I have never ever met a woman
who has measured her clitoris, but I have met men who have
measured their penis.
Heterosexual women report
reaching orgasm during sex only 65 percent of the time, versus 95 percent
for straight men. Orgasm
starts with the
genital sensory cortex
and then spreads to areas in the
including the amygdala (emotional processing) and
fantasy) along with the insula and anterior cingulate cortex
sensation and internal feelings). Woman climaxes more easily when she’s
relaxed and able to fantasize freely without any worries. Pleasure was
something to sink into, not race toward.
is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that
share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political,
economic, personal, and social rights for women This includes seeking to
establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.
or girlishness, womanliness or womanhood, is a set of attributes,
behaviors, and roles generally associated with girls and women. Femininity
is socially constructed, but made up of both socially-defined and
biologically-created factors. This makes it distinct from the
definition of the biological female sex, as both males and females can
exhibit feminine traits. People who exhibit a combination of both
masculine and feminine characteristics are considered androgynous, and
feminist philosophers have argued that gender ambiguity may blur gender
classification. Modern conceptualizations of femininity also rely not just
upon social constructions, but upon the individualized choices made by
women. Traits traditionally cited as feminine include gentleness, empathy,
and sensitivity, though traits associated with femininity vary depending
on location and context, and are influenced by a variety of social and
cultural factors. In some non-English speaking cultures, certain concepts
or inanimate objects are considered feminine or masculine (the counterpart
meaning honorable woman,
is a person who is described as (or would describe themselves as) being
concerned with decorum or propriety, significantly in excess of normal
prevailing standards. They may be perceived as being more uncomfortable
than most with sexuality or nudity.
is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose
sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous
. It is
usually used as an insult, sexual slur or offensive term of disparagement
(slut shaming). It originally meant "a dirty, slovenly woman", and is
rarely used to refer to men, generally requiring clarification by use of
the terms male slut or man whore.
is a form of
to people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate
traditional expectations for sexual behaviors. Some examples of
circumstances wherein women are "slut-shamed" include violating
policies by dressing in perceived
sexually provocative ways, requesting access to birth control, having
premarital, casual, or promiscuous sex, engaging in prostitution, or when
being victim blamed for being raped or otherwise sexually assaulted.
is a female sex organ visible button-like portion
is near the front junction of the labia minora (inner lips), above the
opening of the urethra. Unlike the penis, the male homologue (equivalent)
to the clitoris, it usually does not contain the distal portion (or
opening) of the urethra and is therefore not used for urination.
is characterized as an erogenous area of the vagina
that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms
and potential female ejaculation. It is typically reported to be located
5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal
opening and the urethra and is a sensitive area that may be part of the
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It doesn’t have to be quick, or end with an
is a sex toy that is used on the body to produce pleasurable erotic
stimulation. Most 2010-era vibrators contain an electric-powered device
which pulsates or throbs, which is used to stimulate erogenous zones such
as the clitoris, rest of the vulva or vagina, penis, scrotum or anus.
There are many different shapes and models of vibrators. Some vibrators
designed for women stimulate both the clitoris and the vagina. Some
vibrators designed for couples stimulate the genitals of both partners.
- I Touch Myself
(human touch)Male Masturbation
Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder
genital syndrome, is spontaneous, persistent, unwanted and uncontrollable
genital arousal in the absence of sexual stimulation or sexual desire, and
is typically not relieved by orgasm. Instead, multiple orgasms over hours
or days may be required for relief.
Dorsal Nerve Cord
is one of the embryonic features
. The dorsal nerve cord is a hollow cord dorsal to the
. It is formed from a part of the Ectoderm that rolls,
forming the hollow tube, compared to other animal phyla, which have solid,
ventral tubes. The dorsal nerve cord is later modified in vertebrates into
the central nervous system which is composed of the
and spinal cord. A dorsal nerve cord is mainly found in
. Chordates also usually have a notochord, a post-anal tail,
an endostyle, and
. Dorsal means the "back" side, as opposed to Ventral
which is the "belly" side of an organism. In
organisms dorsal is the back and ventral is the front. In organisms which
walk on four limbs the dorsal surface is the top (back) and the ventral
surface is the bottom (belly).
She's kidding of course. She's just making a point about
how sensitive our private areas are, especially
Public Displays of Affection
proper and not proper?
Public Displays of Affection
are acts of physical
intimacy in the view of others. What is an acceptable display of affection
varies with respect to culture and context. Displays of affection in a
public place, such as the street, are more likely to be objected to, than
similar practices in a private place with only people from a similar
cultural background present. Some organizations have rules limiting or
prohibiting public displays of affection.
is a type of close partner dance where two or more
dancers rub or bump their bodies against each other, this is generally
with a female dancer rubbing her buttocks against a male dancer's crotch
is a type of dancing in which an individual, often
female, moves to music in a sexually provocative manner involving
thrusting hip movements and a low squatting stance.
is the act of exposing in a public or
semi-public context those parts of one's body that are not normally
exposed – for example, the breasts, genitals or buttocks. The practice may
arise from a desire or compulsion to expose themselves in such a manner to
groups of friends or acquaintances, or to strangers for their amusement or
sexual satisfaction or to shock the bystander. Exposing oneself only to an
intimate partner is normally not regarded as exhibitionism. In law, the
act of exhibitionism may be called indecent exposure, "exposing one's
person", or other expressions. Flaunting
is a mode of
and deportment which intends to
avoid encouraging of sexual attraction in others.
is not the same as having
is tending to
, excite, or
stimulate. Exciting sexual desire.
is marked by or tending to
sexual desire or interest, Exciting
Why are Certain Clothes too Sexy for
Wearing in Public?
You need to be aware of your
. Ignoring the fact that there are
people in the world is
not a good way to protect
. You have the right
what ever you want, but you should dress
and be ready to
person has the right to judge
. And no person has the right to use your
appearance as a reason or as an excuse to be an
as*hole or a criminal
towards you. But you need to understand the
. Be beautiful, but
please be careful. Remember that power corrupts
even the power of beauty
Clothes and Body Image
comes in three major forms, playful, hurtful, and
educative. When teasing is playful and friendly, and especially when it is
reciprocal, teasing can be regarded as flirting. When teasing is
unwelcome, it may be regarded as harassment or mobbing, especially in the
work place and school, or as a form of
or emotional abuse. If
done in public, it may be regarded as humiliation. Teasing can also be
regarded as educative when it is used as a way of Informal learning.
Adults in some of the Indigenous American Communities often tease children
to playfully illustrate and teach them how their behavior negatively
affects the community. Children in many Indigenous American Communities
also learn by observing
what others do in addition to collaborating with
them. Along with teasing, this form of informal learning is different from
the ways that Western American children learn. Informal ways of child
learning include mutual responsibility, as well as active collaboration
with adults and peers. This differentiates from the more formal way of
learning because it is not adult-oriented
is to excite the senses or
desires of someone. To torment or tease someone with the sight or promise
of something that is unobtainable.
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Like - The Waitresses
Why is certain
too sexy for wearing in public?
Social Impact of Thong Underwear
What's the difference between feeling sexy and looking
Do you have to look sexy in order to feel sexy?
is a photographic style featuring intimate,
romantic, and sometimes erotic images
of its subjects,
primarily intended for the private enjoyment of the subject and their
romantic partners. It is distinct from glamour and art nude photography in
that it is usually more suggestive rather than explicit in its approach to
nudity and sexuality, features subjects who do not regularly model, and
produces images which are not intended to be seen by a wide audience, but
rather to remain under the control of the subject.
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is an erotic or exotic dance in which the
performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive
and sexually suggestive manner. The person who performs a striptease is
commonly known as a "stripper" or exotic dancer.
a term used to describe as a response to
adopted by various LGBT groups in the early 1970s or to the
accommodations provided to gay pride initiatives.Bullying
Freedom of Expression
, but we also need
Respect for each other
When Sex Becomes a Crime
- Criminal Behavior
What is the difference between
sexual content on TV
? Why does explicit sexual images have the same effect as
suggestive sexual undertones that show no nudity? Why is sexual
content OK for advertisers while
is frowned upon even though pornography is
prevalent throughout the world? Some images can be very
disturbing and misleading, which could mess with your mind and cause your
reality be be extremely distorted. Learning
the right things at the right time
is just as important as seeing the
right things things at the right time in your life.
can cause damage,
which is another good reason why education needs to improve.
or just Addiction
is the portrayal of sexual subject matter for
the purpose of sexual arousal. Pornography may be presented in a variety
of media, including books, magazines, postcards, photographs, sculpture,
drawing, painting, animation, sound recording, film, video, and video
games. The term applies to the depiction of the act rather than the act
itself, and so does not include live exhibitions like sex shows and
striptease. The primary subjects of pornographic depictions are
pornographic models, who pose for still photographs, and pornographic
actors or porn stars, who perform in pornographic films. If dramatic
skills are not involved, a performer in a porn film may also be called a
model. Boudoir Photography
Pornographic Films are films that present sexually explicit
subject matter for the purpose of sexual arousal and erotic satisfaction
of the viewer. Pornographic films present sexual
fantasies and usually include erotically stimulating material such as
nudity and depictions of sexual intercourse. A
distinction is sometimes made between "erotic" films and "pornographic"
films on the basis that the latter contain more explicit sexuality, and
focus more on arousal than
storytelling, but the distinction
is highly subjective.
is any artistic work that deals substantively with erotically stimulating
or sexually arousing subject matter. All forms of art may depict erotic
content, including painting, sculpture, photography, drama, film, music or
literature. Erotica has high-art aspirations, differentiating it from
is the state of wearing no clothing.
of Pornography Addiction (SFW)
"If it's in focus, it's pornography, if it's out of focus,
it's art." (Billy Kwan) Type of Pornography that
people watch the most by State
(people sure love women, which is
Exploitation of Women in Mass Media
is the use or portrayal
of women in the mass media (such as television, film and advertising) to
increase the appeal of media or a product to the detriment of, or without
regard to, the interests of the women portrayed, or women in general.
is the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure.
broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard
to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined
at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of
is a person regarded primarily as a source of
sexual gratification. A person viewed primarily in terms of sexual appeal
or as a source of sexual gratification
Sex in Advertising
is the use of sex appeal in advertising
to help sell a particular product or service. Sexually appealing imagery
may or may not pertain to the product or service in question. Examples of
sexually appealing imagery include nudity, pin-up models, and muscular
is to make something sexual in character or quality, or to become aware of
sexuality, especially in relation to men and women.
Sexuality in Music Videos
. A survey found that 72.2% of
black, 68.0% of white, and 69.2% of Hispanic youths agree with the
suggestion that rap music videos contain 'too many' references to sex.
Kids need to see naked bodies as natural and uneventful, but the
wants kids to see
as sexual and provocative.
Porn Info Graph
Porn should be something like this
Eyes down finish your work
. Have someone role playing out a sexual
experience for you based on your education level and needs. And at the
same time, the video should teach the person about communication, and
also teach the person not to
the person they are with, which is one of the main problems
with porn, is that it misleads you and fools you into believing a false
reality. You don't personally know who those people are or what they are
thinking. Like actors in a fantasy super hero movie
, they are fictional
characters and in a sense they are not real people, thus this is not
reality, even though some aspects can be considered reality. But as a whole,
it is not reality. And that is the danger of all films
, which is the
disconnection from reality, where nothing is learned, only fantasized. So
when the person try's to combine fantasy with reality, they either hurt
themselves or hurt others.
is a cultural and political movement practising,
advocating and defending personal and social nudity, most but not all of
which takes place on private property. The term may also refer to a
lifestyle based on personal, family and/or social nudism.
is sending and receiving sexually explicit messages, primarily between
mobile phones. The term was first popularized in the early 21st century,
and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the
wide sense of sending a text possibly with images. Exchange of images
solely between two romantic partners. Exchanges between partners that are
shared with others outside the relationship. Exchanges between people who
are not yet in a relationship, but where at least one person hopes to be.
Sexting has become more common with the rise in camera phones and
smartphones with Internet access, that can be used to send explicit
photographs as well as messages
The Human Body is Beautiful and does not need
hyped up perception from people
using nudity to sell
something. Nudity and sex is not bad, what's bad is how the
ignorant and perverted people use sex and nudity to exploit
peoples ignorance and exploit peoples lack of self-control.
Sexual images and pornography can have damaging effects on the
minds of young adults and older adults. And the mainstream media
feeds these perversions as a way to distract and manipulate
young minds and adults. This is why
is so extremely important. Information and knowledge is the only
protection against misinformation and ignorant perverted people
who want to hurt you....Keep Learning My Friends.
History of Erotica Sexuality
Gallop: Make Love, Not Porn
So you think you know what porn is
Teenage Brain on Porn
make you stupid?
Why do we let emotions and pleasures control our actions?
Philip Zimbardo: The Demise of Guys and Arousal Addiction
Why are kids so insecure about
Why do kids become violent because of sex?
Why do people
by the media or
are we just some how vulnerable to these weaknesses?
The Communications Decency Act of 1996
(CDA) was the first notable
attempt by the United States Congress to regulate pornographic material on
. In 1997, in the landmark case of
Reno v. ACLU, the United States Supreme Court struck the anti-indecency
provisions of the Act. The Act was Title V of the Telecommunications Act
of 1996. It was introduced to the Senate Committee of Commerce, Science,
and Transportation by Senators James Exon (D-NE) and Slade Gorton (R-WA)
in 1995. The amendment that became the CDA was added to the
Telecommunications Act in the Senate by an 84–16 vote on June 14, 1995. As
eventually passed by Congress, Title V affected the Internet (and online
communications) in two significant ways. First, it attempted to regulate
both indecency (when available to children) and obscenity in cyberspace.
Second, Section 230 of the Act has been interpreted to say that operators
of Internet services
not to be construed as publishers (and thus not legally liable for the
words of third parties who use their services).
illegal in some places while being legal in
is the business or practice of engaging in
sexual relations or sex acts in exchange for payment, or some other
Is Prostitution necessary? Can you experience sex with someone
just for fun? Can you experience sex with someone just to
learn about sex?
are practitioners trained in addressing issues of
intimacy and sexuality. A surrogate partner works in collaboration with a
therapist to meet the goals of their client. This triadic model is used to
dually support the client: the client engages in experiential exercises
and builds a relationship with their surrogate partner while processing
and integrating their experiences with their therapist or clinician.
is a person who is employed in the sex industry.
Consists of businesses which either directly or indirectly provide
sex-related products and services or adult entertainment.
includes activities involving direct provision of sex-related
services, such as prostitution, strip clubs, Host and hostess clubs and
sex-related pastimes, such as pornography, sex-oriented men's magazines,
sex movies, sex toys and fetish and BDSM paraphernalia. Sex channels for
television and pre-paid sex movies for on demand, are part of the sex
industry, as are adult movie theaters, sex shops, and strip clubs.
were women and girls who were forced into
by the Imperial Japanese
Army in occupied territories before and during World War II.
is a sexual ritual consisting of sexual
intercourse or other sexual activity performed in the context of religious
worship, perhaps as a form of fertility rite and divine marriage (hieros
Why are there more female prostitutes then
is a place where people may come to engage in sexual
activity with a prostitute, sometimes referred to as a sex worker.
Toni Mac, The Laws that Sex Workers really want
undereducated, and victimized by being subjected to a corrupted system. So
attacking the victims does not solve the problem of our inadequate and
, or does it solve the problem of a
. The only way out is
to learn your way out
. You can't
things just because
something can be used improperly or just used
. That violates a
to use something properly,
differently or effectively without
retaliation. Anything can be used in the wrong way. That's why we have
. Perversion is an
education problem that needs to be solved. You can not solve these
problems just using beliefs
that has always failed, thus it will never go away. You are not solving a
problem by trying to cover it up and pretending that it doesn't exist.
Treating a disease does not cure a disease, especially a disease such as
is not a teaching method. Only knowledge will set you free. And
of mind only comes to those
who learn and progress. Remember that Idle minds are the
So Never Stop Learning
is not in action or at work.
Without a basis in reason
fact. Not in active use. Lacking a sense of
is an enduring pattern of
(or a combination of these) to persons of the opposite sex or
gender, the same sex or gender, or to both sexes or more than one gender.
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community
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collection of virtual classrooms designed specifically for collaboration,
sharing and building for the trans* community.
is one's personal experience of one's own
Gender Identity Disorder
is when a person experiences
distress as a result of the sex and gender they were assigned at birth.
is the view that everyone should receive equal
treatment and not be discriminated against based on their gender.
is a person who disrupts, or "bends", expected gender
is a set of
types of behaviors which are generally considered acceptable, appropriate,
or desirable for people based on their actual or perceived sex or
sexuality. Gender roles are usually centered on conceptions of femininity
and masculinity, although there are exceptions and variations. The
specifics regarding these gendered expectations may vary substantially
among cultures, while other characteristics may be common throughout a
range of cultures. There is ongoing debate as to what extent gender roles
and their variations are biologically determined, and to what extent they
are socially constructed.
was a Canadian man born biologically male but
reassigned as a girl and raised female following medical advice and
intervention after his penis was accidentally destroyed during a botched
circumcision in infancy.
Me My Sex
And I - My Sex Life
are people who have a gender identity, or gender
expression, that differs from their assigned sex.
Laura Jane Grace
(born Thomas James Gabel, November 8, 1980) is an
American musician best known as the founder, lead singer, songwriter and
guitarist of the punk rock band Against Me!
: Confessions of Punk Rock's Most Infamous Anarchist Sellout.
is one possessing any of several variations in sex characteristics
including chromosomes, gonads, sex hormones, or genitals.
is the act of wearing items of clothing and
other accoutrements commonly associated with the opposite sex within a
particular society. Cross-dressing has been used for purposes of
, comfort, and
self-discovery in modern times and throughout history.
is a form of cant slang.
suggests the importance of
in human sexuality.
is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or
sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual
attraction to people of any sex or gender identity; this latter aspect is
sometimes alternatively termed
, which is the sexual attraction, romantic love,
or emotional attraction toward people regardless of their sex or gender
identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind,
asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in
determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
is one or more changes in sexuality
or sexual identity (sometimes known as sexual orientation identity).
is a person whose birth sex is
male but who identifies as female or as neither male nor female.
is an assigned male
at birth individual who dresses and behaves in ways otherwise associated
with the female gender; they may be seen as a third gender. Some marry
women and have children while others choose men as sexual or romantic
refers to sexual attraction to
non-binary identified individuals
or those who do
not identify as
. This does
not generally describe an attraction to specific
genitalia or birth assignments but rather is an
really different from Straight Sex?
all have to deal with all the
are related to sexual activity, so what’s the difference?
of (or discontent with) a person or group on socially characteristic
grounds that are perceived, and serve to distinguish them, from other
members of a society. Stigma may then be affixed to such a person, by the
greater society, who differs from their
is prejudice or
on a person's sex or gender. Sexism can affect any gender, but it is
particularly documented as affecting women and girls. It has been linked
to stereotypes and gender roles, and may include the belief that one sex
or gender is intrinsically superior to another. Extreme sexism may foster
sexual harassment, rape, and other forms of sexual violence.
If sex is a personal preference
, then why is gay, bisexual,
straight and other forms of sexual preferences all judged
Sexual Attraction and Orientation Study Among Adults
Romantic relationships buffer gay and lesbian youth from emotional
doesn't 'hurt' as much when you are in
If a gay person is just dating someone for the sex,
and if a straight person is just dating someone for the sex,
then this is not about being Gay or Straight, it's all about the
influences of Sex. And you wonder why sex education is so
To say that you are Gay or Straight does not say anything
about who you are, only your sexual preference.
who are you
If I was
attracted to women before I even knew what sex was does that
just about sexual attraction?
Then what's the
You Choose to Be Straight
is not just related to being
gay, it is just another indication of the powerful influences of
is a form of relationship in
which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at
any one time (serial monogamy), as compared to polygyny, polyandry, or polyamory
. The term is also applied to the social behavior of some
animals, referring to the state of having only one mate at any one time.
is defined as the practice of, or desire for, intimate
relationships where individuals may have more than one partner, with the
knowledge and consent of all partners
. It has been described as
"consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy".
There is a big difference between flaunting
and being proud, so
whether you're Straight or Gay,
the dangers are
is intended to attract notice and impress others.
Parading. Act ostentatiously or pretentiously.
To exhibit ostentatiously or shamelessly.
or pleasure in something by which you
measure your self-worth;
Having or displaying great dignity or nobility.
refers to the
way that a person uses appearance, mannerisms and other
personal traits to communicate their gender. Gender
expression can be any combination of masculine, feminine
Why we need Gender-Neutral Bathrooms
is committed to creating a non-intimidating,
welcoming environment for our members.
Our gender identity non-discrimination policy states that
members and guests may use all gym facilities based on their
sincere self-reported gender identity.
Can the amount of
neonatal brain was exposed to, profoundly influenced
sex-specific behavior in later life?
is the condition where the two sexes of
the same species exhibit different characteristics beyond the differences
in their sexual organs. The condition occurs in many animals and some
plants. Differences may include secondary sex characteristics, size,
color, markings, and may also include behavioral differences. These
differences may be subtle or exaggerated, and may be subjected to sexual
selection. The opposite of dimorphism is monomorphism.
Secondary Sex Characteristic
are features that appear during puberty
in humans, and at sexual maturity in other animals. These are particularly
evident in the sexually dimorphic phenotypic traits that distinguish the
sexes of a species, but unlike the sex organs, are not directly part of
the reproductive system. They are believed to be the product of sexual
selection for traits which display fitness, giving an individual an
advantage over its rivals in courtship and aggressive interactions. They
are distinguished from the primary sex characteristics, the sex organs,
which are directly necessary for sexual reproduction to occur.
Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome
is a condition that results
in the partial or complete inability of the cell to respond to
which is any natural or synthetic compound, usually a steroid hormone,
that stimulates or controls the development and maintenance of male
characteristics in vertebrates by binding to androgen receptors.
Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia
are any of several autosomal
recessive diseases resulting from mutations of genes for enzymes mediating
the biochemical steps of production of mineralocorticoids, glucocorticoids
or sex steroids from cholesterol by the adrenal glands (steroidogenesis).
is a structure in the brain consisting of a
band of fibers running along the lateral margin of the ventricular surface
of the thalamus. Serving as a major output pathway of the amygdala, the
stria terminalis runs from its centromedial division to the ventral medial
nucleus of the hypothalamus.
In the Womb -
(youtube) One identical twin is gay the other is not.
has effects on the
Some women who are pregnant with boys develop
antibodies that target a protein made by the Y chromosome. Our immune
systems make antibodies to recognise foreign molecules, which have the
potential to be from dangerous bacteria. But pregnant women sometimes also
produce antibodies against fetal molecules – for example, if their fetus
has a different blood group. Bogaert’s team wondered if maternal
antibodies might play a role in shaping sexual orientation. They found
that the mothers of gay sons with older brothers had the highest levels of
antibodies against this protein, followed by the mothers of gay sons
with no older brothers. Women who had straight sons had less of these
antibodies, while women with no sons had the least. The team suggests
these antibodies build up in some women’s bodies with every male baby they
have. At higher concentrations, it is possible that the effect of these
antibodies on the protein they target leads to changes in brain
development that can have an influence on sexual orientation. The protein
targeted by the antibodies, called NLGN4Y, is thought to play a role in
how brain cells connect to each other.
Gene Hunters Sound Warning over Gay Link
Homosexual Behavior in Animals
is sexual behavior among non-human
species that is interpreted as homosexual or bisexual. This may include
same-sex sexual activity, courtship, affection, pair bonding, and
parenting among same-sex animal pairs. Research indicates that various
forms of this are found in every major geographic region and every major
animal group. As of 1999, about 500 species, ranging from primates to gut
worms, have been documented engaging in same-sex behaviors. According to
the organizers of the 2006 Against Nature? exhibit, it has been observed
in 1,500 species.
List of Animals Displaying Homosexual Behavior
Sex-determination System - Chromosomal Determination
is a biological
system that determines the development of sexual characteristics in an
organism. Most organisms that create their offspring using sexual
reproduction have two sexes. Occasionally, there are hermaphrodites in
place of one or both sexes. There are also some species that are only one
sex due to parthenogenesis, the act of a female reproducing without
The astonishing village where little girls turn into boys aged 12
rare genetic disorder occurs because of a missing enzyme which prevents
the production of a specific form of the male sex hormone - dihydro-testosterone
- in the womb. All babies in the womb, whether male or female, have
internal glands known as gonads and a small bump between their legs called
a tubercle. At around eight weeks, male babies who carry the Y chromosome
start to produce dihydro-testosterone in large amounts, which turns the
tubercle into a penis. For females, the tubercle becomes a clitoris. But
some male babies are missing the enzyme 5-α-reductase which triggers the
hormone surge, so they appear to be born female with no testes and what
appears to be a vagina. It is not until puberty, when another huge surge
of testosterone is produced, that the male reproductive organs emerge.
What should have happened in the womb happens around 12 years later. Their
voices deepen and they finally grow a penis.
Most of us don't know that all babies
have the exact same genital tissue when they are conceived. At
about 12 weeks, each baby's genitalia begin to differentiate
into a penis
. We are
more alike than we are different. The clitoris and penis are the
same materials assembled in a different way. The clitoris has
glans, a foreskin (also known as the hood), erectile tissue and
very small shaft -- all the parts that a penis has. It even
swells when it's aroused.
are a group of medications used to inhibit
puberty. They were originally used to treat children with precocious
puberty or other such early onset of puberty. Puberty blockers slow the
growth of sexual organs and production of hormones. Other effects include
the suppression of facial hair, deep voices, and Adam's apples for boys
and the halting of breast growth and menstruation in girls.
What does it mean to be Male?
What does it mean to be
Female? Why do we have gender specific behavior?
You should have the right to be who you feel you
are, as long as it does not include
behaviors that are demoralizing to a
particular sex. Being a man should not include the stupid things
that men do, things that supposedly make a man feel more like a
man. Being a woman should not include the stupid things that
women do, things that supposedly make a woman feel more like a
woman. Acquiring social norms is a form of discrimination
towards yourself. Being yourself should not be about finding
ways to fit in, or
is about you exploring and discovering
things about you and the world around you, and then sharing this
knowledge with others. Women dress up like men and men dress up
like women, so who cares. Your sexual identity only defines 10%
of who you are as a person. Your
will always be the most important part of who you
are, everything else is just details.
is the combination of masculine and feminine
(none of which define a persons character).
Pantywaist or Effeminate is having feminine qualities. A timid man or boy
considered childish Indicating a lack of
or unassertive. Inclined to timidity or lack of
does not mean that you understand something
fully or accurately. It's only a guideline.
and Homosexuals have to practice
is when both parties are aware of the other’s status, and are marrying
purely as a cover to hide existing same-sex relationships.
What ever your sexual preference is, you still have to deal with
all the vulnerabilities
and you still have to
of the closet even necessary?
Is coming out necessary
Perception of Sexual Orientation
To Each His Own
is a right that every person is entitled to
his or her personal preferences and tastes.
Pants Prank 2
(youtube) yes it is embarrassing, but why?
People have the right to dress and look in a way they feel comfortable
with. If you are bothered by someone else's appearance, then you have a
serious problem, a problem that needs to be fixed, maybe with therapy or
. There is no logical reasons why you would judge
just by knowing their
sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is just one detail of many details
that make up a persons personality. You can not know a person just by
knowing a couple of details about them, which is a fact of life and a
reality. You can't Judge a book by it's cover, which is also a fact of
life and a reality. Prejudice and Discrimination are products of
ignorance. And ignorance is not peoples fault. We know now that
education is extremely
, and we also know that the
media feeds on peoples ignorance
and plays on their fears, which is
another fact of life and a reality. Until we can improve education, and
make the media more responsible, we will continue to suffer from peoples
ignorance. Ignorance is where bad behaviors come from.
sex in their own personal way. Sometimes
people's likes and dislikes are similar
, and other times they
are not, whether they are male or female. And if two people
wanted to be close with each other consensually, then they are
two consenting adults
, and no one has the right to pry into
their personal lives, no one. What people do in the privacy of
their own home is not anyone's concern
, especially when no one
is being hurt, exploited or victimized. The problem is that some people
are afraid of seeing gay couples openly, like that's some how
promoting gay sex. If that was true then that's making the
that seeing a man and a women together is in a way
promoting sex. That's a narrow minded view and incredibly
presumptuous to say that everyone is a sex addict and that
everyone can't control themselves, except for you, for some strange
reason. That's also saying that gay sex is more of a threat then
sex itself? Which is incredibly ignorant and illogical,
especially when you look at rapes
, pornography and all the other
ways that people are victimized and exploited by so called
straight sex or normal sex.
So this is not
about sexual freedom, this is clearly a
problem, and not the
of the accused, but the
of the accuser. To assume that other people are
going to be influenced by other peoples
, is saying that you cannot control your own
, so you think that others must not be able to
control their own
too, which is wrong and ridiculous. So the core of
this issue is
is something that you are supposed to control, and
of others should not control or influence your
in any way. But that doesn't always happen, so
again, that's a
problem. We are not educating people enough to
understand their own
or understand the
of others. And there are a lot of different
issues plaguing society, and the gay prejudice
issue is not even an major issue if you compare it to all the
other issues that are threatening society. And that's why the
media and politicians want to make a big deal out of this issue.
So they can distract people from the more dangerous issues, like
corporate abuse, political corruption, the poisoning of water
and land, spying, greed,
creating jobs that make a difference
, and so on and so on. Just give gay
people their rights and stop wasting everyone's time, people,
resources and money. We have more important problems to solve.
So it seems that our government is the biggest threat to
society. Our problems are getting worse and our government
officials are doing less, you scumbags need to be fired. So the
only people you need to worry about f**king you in the a** is
your own government, and guess what, you're not a virgin
anymore. Which doesn't make you Gay, it just means that you're
and that you need to be more informed. The government
has no right to rape their citizens. So tell your government
officials that they must register as sex offenders. After all,
it's the "Law
I'm not Gay or could I ever be, not to say that there's
anything wrong with it, it's just not me. I Love Women. And the
fact that Women also love Women, that just proves and confirms
that Women are awesome, so I'm not alone. So I guess that also
says that if a Man loves another Man then that is proof that Men are lovable
so everyone is lovable
, which is awesome. Everyone has the
right to be loved, so who am I to judge who gets to
But I still think men are little
gross when compared to women, well call me old fashion, OK,
me stupid too
, I'm not going to argue with you about that.
Bad Behavior is another way of
saying that you are lacking valuable information and knowledge
that would provide you with a better understanding of yourself
and the world around you, so that your reactions to situations
and events are more accurate and less destructive and abusive.
Blind and Gay
"How do you know that someone is
different? They're just like you, except they have a different
, which proves just how dangerous and illogical
that racism is, or any kind of
for that matter. To prejudge someone is like
hating yourself for living, or worse, it's hating someone you
don't even know, someone who could be a friend, someone who can benefit society."
Resources for Sex Education
National Sex Study
Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Sex Education Links
Institute for Sexual Wellness
Institute for Sexuality
American Experience: The Kinsey Study
The Journal of Sexual Medicine
Sexuality in Ancient Rome
Sexual Health (indiana edu)
Sex Education Books
The New Speaking of Sex:
What Your Children Need to Know and When They
Need to Know It
Teens, Sex and Health
A Comprehensive Approach
to Sexual Education.
What Your Kids Need to Hear from You About Sex
Sex, Puberty and All That Stuff
A Guide to Growing Up.
All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to get you through
High School and College
The Catcher in the Rye
is a controversial novel originally published
for adults, it has since become popular with adolescent readers for its
themes of teenage angst and alienation. It has been translated into almost
all of the world's major languages. Around 1 million copies are sold each
year with total sales of more than 65 million books. The novel's
protagonist Holden Caulfield has become an icon for teenage rebellion. The
novel also deals with complex issues of innocence, identity, belonging,
loss, and connection.
Videos about Sex
Brain Sex: Why We Fall in Love
The Surprising History of Sex and Love - Terry Jones
History Specials Ancient Inventions of Sex
Season 1 Episode 115 | Aired on 03/02/2014 | TV-14 | 49:15
Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long Term Relationship
Sex Talks on TED
Christopher Ryan: Are we designed to be sexual omnivores
- Hunch n Munch (Rap Songs about Sex)
Couples Playing Sexy Charades and Sex Positions
Sex Factors, Sexual Health, Sexy Secrets for
Great Sex, Sex Ed Video
Dr. Vincent Bellonzi (youtube)
This Film Is Not Yet Rated
So this is education, and sex is just one of over a
hundred other subjects
that you will be studying in your lifetime..
And it's never been just about Sex, it's about
, it's about the
, it's about the
Learning about what it’s like to be
.The Human Condition
is the Greek goddess of love, beauty, pleasure, and procreation.
She is identified with the planet Venus, and her Roman equivalent is the
is the Roman goddess whose functions encompassed love,
beauty, desire, sex, fertility, prosperity and victory. In Roman
mythology, she was the mother of the Roman people through her son, Aeneas,
who survived the fall of Troy and fled to Italy. Julius Caesar claimed her
as his ancestor. Venus was central to many religious festivals, and was
revered in Roman religion under numerous cult titles.