is not enough, and some
more then just love
. Love is just a word unless you put it into practice.
And in order to put Love into practice, you need to understand what Love
is when you really like someone a lot and really care about them,
so much so that they are always on your mind. And you may not like
everything about that someone, but you can still love them. But you can also
like a lot of things about someone, but not truly love them. So love is
not always clearly visible or fully understood. So love is part discovery
and part learning. You can count the things that make you happy, but that
does not mean that you will have happiness
. And you can count all the
things that you like about someone, but that does not mean that you will
have True Love
for that person.
Don't blame Love for your feelings or
thoughts, don't blame Love for your Broken Heart
Love does not Stink
and don't blame Love for
, don't blame Love for not meeting
don't blame Love for being Insecure
blame Love for being blind or
, because love does not cause those things to
happen, you cause those things to happen. So the only thing to blame is
our own ignorance
and our own lack of knowledge. There is lot to learn
, and there's
also a lot to learn about Your-Self
. So don't
play the blame game
, play the
much more fun and a lot more rewarding. Now that's Love.
you're always trying to seek the approval of people and just doing things
for their approval, then doing good things
will lose it's true meaning, which is to make life better for everyone and
not just yourself." Being loved is a responsibility in the same way that
is a responsibility. You
need to be aware of the
many things. Love is part
, just to name a few.
Love is a
choose who to love, and others will choose who to love. You may become
but this is not love, at least not yet. You may not know exactly why you care about someone
all of a sudden,
but you do choose to love them, or choose not to love them. If you feel
that you have no choice
who you choose to love, then you don't fully
understand what love is. Falling in love is OK, but never
you love someone is not OK.
"You can't make someone love you, but
you can definitely become someone who can be loved" just
Don't be a Sucker
for Love and
Types of Love
The first type of Love is
, being in
Love someone. "I'm so in Love with that person, I want to know
everything about that person, I want to feel and experience
love as if we were one". This is not the same as
, or is it love
at first sight, because how could you fall in love
with someone you personally don't know? You are mostly just
falling in Love with a Dream
A dream that has been passed down for centuries in the way of
love stories, love songs and movies.
Love Stories in History and in Literature
. This is a beautiful dream but it is clearly not
logical. It takes time to know someone,
it even takes more time
"Learn to love yourself
first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you."
The goal is to love someone else without loving yourself any
less, because the best part of the love that you give to someone
else comes partially from the love that you give to yourself.
Love also has chemistry, like
But don't let the feel good high from
And yes Love Hurts, especially when we lose the love of
someone dear to us. Broken Heart
is the attraction between people which leads to friendships and to
platonic or romantic relationships. Interpersonal attraction, the process,
is distinct from perceptions of physical attractiveness, which involves
views of what is and is not considered beautiful or attractive.
is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or
natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, comfort,
intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and
The Second type of Love
, I love that person, their friendship is
extremely important to me and I would always be ready to help
that person when ever they needed me.
, for I know at times that
they carefully listen to me when I speak. This includes Parental
Love. The love between a parent and their child can be one of
the strongest kinds of love, but also
one of the most
When the two
loves are combined
, it creates a very special love, A love
everyone should have. But even if you don't have emotional love,
that will never stop you from loving or stop you from being
, that is truly the value of love. Love is non
, though Love flourishes in more favorable
is to have a great affection or
liking for someone or something. A beloved person; used as terms of endearment. A strong
positive emotion of regard and affection. Get
is a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from
interpersonal affection ("I love my mother") to pleasure ("I loved that
meal"). It can refer to an emotion of a strong attraction and personal
attachment. It can also be a virtue representing human kindness,
compassion, and affection—"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for
the good of another". It may also describe compassionate and affectionate
actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.
is the expressive and pleasurable
feeling from an emotional attraction towards another person often
associated with sexual attraction. It is eros rather than agape, philia,
or storge. "Love does not mean sex and sex does not mean love".
is known as affection without any limitations or love without conditions.
This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism,
or complete love. Each area of expertise has a certain way of describing
unconditional love, but most will agree that it is that type of love which
has no bounds and is unchanging. It is a concept comparable to true love,
a term which is more frequently used to describe love between lovers. By
contrast, unconditional love is frequently used to describe love between
family members, comrades in arms and between others in highly committed
relationships. An example of this is a parent's love for their child; no
matter a test score, a life changing decision, an argument, or a strong
belief, the amount of love that remains between this bond is seen as
unchanging and unconditional. Unconditional love is garnered and shared by
those who love themselves first.
is a type of love that is non-sexual. The term
is named after Plato, who described a kind of love centered on same-gender
relations and included sex which underwent a transformation during
Renaissance (15th–16th centuries) to get its contemporary sense of asexual
is "love: the highest form of love, charity; the love
of God for man and of man for God." Not to be confused with philia –
brotherly love – agape embraces a universal, unconditional love that
transcends, that serves regardless of circumstance
is an extension of the natural affection associated
with near kin
the greater community of fellow believers, that goes beyond the mere duty.
To "love thy neighbor as thyself", and shows itself as "unfeigned love"
from a "pure heart", that extends an unconditional hand of friendship that
loves when not loved back, that gives without getting, and that ever looks
for what is best in others.
is to love someone very much.
is a tender and warm feeling toward
someone; extreme fondness. Affection
is a feeling or type of love, amounting to more than goodwill or
is a feeling of
approval and liking. A favorable
Italian word for love.Amour
is a very
serious love affair, usually a secret or discrete. Cherish
is to have great affection and caring
is a strong feeling or emotion.
Something that is desired intensely. An irrational but irresistible motive
for a belief or action. Any object of warm affection or devotion.
is a very strong feeling about a person or thing.
Passion is an intense emotion
, a compelling
or desire for
is when a person feels an overwhelming obsessive desire
to possess another person toward whom one feels a strong attraction, with
an inability to accept failure or Rejection
is the state of being carried away by an
without insight or proper evaluative judgment. Blind desire that exhibits
misevaluation for reasons such as
recklessness', regardless of desire.
informal term for feelings of love, romance, or infatuation, often felt by
young people during their childhood and adolescence. It is named for its
resemblance to the adoring, worshipful affection that may be felt by a
puppy. It may also be able to describe short/long-term love interest. The
term can be used in a derogatory fashion, describing emotions which are
shallow and transient in comparison to other forms of love such as
you have towards someone for
No Logical Reason
which sometimes causes you to think about them more than anything else.
is a state of mind which results from a romantic attraction
to another person and typically includes
fantasies and a desire to form or maintain a relationship with the object
of love and have one's feelings
is wanting intensely.
to people or
things in general persisting from childhood into adult life.
is the commitment to some purpose.
is to find something or someone enjoyable or agreeable. Be
fond of. A feeling of pleasure and enjoyment. Philia
is a positive
feeling of liking.
is dismissing or refusing of a proposal, which is not
bad, except that some people who reject you express a lack of
accompanied by a feeling of intense
dislike, which can hurt. No need to be mean
it may spread.
occurs when an individual is
from a social relationship or social interaction. Rejected
is to dismiss
from consideration. Refuse to accept or acknowledge. Deem something wrong
or inappropriate, but the person may be
, but it is still a
, and not a
can be the act of social rejection, or emotional distance. In a
religious context, shunning is a formal decision by a denomination or a
congregation to cease interaction with an individual or a group, and
follows a particular set of rules. It differs from, but may be associated
(forgiveness) Body Image
"We shouldn't put a face on love, because love
is not a face, love is everything behind the face."
"Falling in love is not always a choice, but to stay in love is."
"Anyone can come into your life and say how
much they love you. It takes someone really special to stay in
your life and show how much they love you."
"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the
mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." -
(Act I, Scene I).
Henry V Play
"To fall in love for superficial reasons
is an insult to love.
Love should be pure,
otherwise that act of loving someone becomes fake and exploitive."
is seeing only the
surface. Insignificant details
of little importance. Narrowness of mind.
My favorite Love Song is by Roberta
Flack "The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face" (1969)
Simon and Garfunkel -
Bridge Over Troubled Water
Love Songs by The Beatles
Carly Simon - That's The Way I Always Heard It Should Be - 1971
Judy Collins - Send
In The Clowns
Alicia Keys - No On
Family - I Think I Love You
-We've Only Just Begun
- Just a
Linger - The
Not Broken, Just Bent
Boys - Wouldn't It Be Nice
You're My Best
Friend - Queen
- Unchained Melody
The Platters - Only
To Love Somebody -
Anything... (3/5) Movie CLIP - Boombox Serenade (1989) HD
Peter Gabriel - In
Donna Lewis - I
Love You Always Forever
Vanessa Williams -
Save The Best For Last
(youtube) "Sometimes the one thing you're
looking for is the one thing you can't see."
Famous Love Songs
I Love You
I would say I love you more often, but
I'm not sure who you are? It's not that I don't love you,
because I do love you. It's that when I say I love you to
someone, I want them to be sure what part of them I love. I
certainly don't love everything about you, but I also don't love
everything about me either, because no one is perfect. So please
remember that love is always there, but don't expect love to
always be there for you, because love needs love too. And
reaching out is the same as reaching in. For love to truly
connect it must come from both sides, without any expectations
or conditions. Love is Pure
and in order for love to flourish you must agree to be pure with
love. Positive or Good Attracts Good, and Negative Repeals
Positive or Good. That's one of the main reasons why
something that is free of bad qualities and free of unnecessary elements
of any kind. Something that is pleasing and valuable and in its natural
state of harmony.
is one who desires that an item remain true to its
essence and free from adulterating or diluting influences.
is having desirable or positive qualities especially those suitable
for a thing specified. Morally admirable.
Promoting or enhancing well-being. Agreeable or pleasing. Of
or admirableness. Having or showing
knowledge and skill and aptitude. Most suitable or right for a
particular purpose. Resulting favorably. Capable of pleasing.
Appealing to the mind.
In excellent physical condition. Tending to promote physical
well-being; beneficial to health. Generally admired. Beneficial.
That which is pleasing or valuable or useful. In a good or
proper or satisfactory manner or to a high standard. The quality
of doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong. A good
is the act of showing regard for others. Pleasant or pleasing or
agreeable in nature or appearance.
Socially or conventionally correc
t; refined or virtuous.
Done with delicacy and skill. Exhibiting courtesy and
politeness. A courteous manner that respects accepted social
is the considerate of the feelings or well-being of others. Showing
concern for the rights and feelings of others. Acting with or
showing thought and good sense. Exhibiting or characterized by
Having intellectual depth
is having or showing a tender and considerate and helpful nature;
used especially of persons and their behavior.
This is way beyond the
Law of Attraction
, this is about being good because you know
what being good is and you have learned how being good benefits
others. This is not about being good so that other people like you, that's
, Misleading, Deceptive, Manipulative and
Fake. True Love will never be found through coercion, force or
pressure. And rejection is not about someone rejecting love,
it's just not excepting the deliverer. So find another way to
deliver your message of love or find someone else who can
deliver this love. If you can't do either then put this refusal
aside for another time when more information and knowledge is
is a person who makes deceitful pretenses. Fraudulent; having a
Not genuine or real; being an imitation of the genuine article.
Something that is a counterfeit; not what it seems to be.
Speak insincerely or without regard for facts or truths.
Don't Play Games
is the act of giving a false appearance. Pretending with intention
to deceive. A false or unsupportable quality.
"Love only needs each other, but it's not
as simple as it sounds
. Though Love is natural, and though Love
can be felt by anyone, young or old, and even though Love does
not require any intelligence, Love does get better when you keep
learning about yourself, and about others
, and about the world
around you. This is not to say that Love requires knowledge, but
Love does come from knowledge, so knowledge requires Love. Are
you Lovin this?"
Love is Knowledge - Love is Information
The Summer of Love
never really ended, it just manifested itself
into the generations that followed. This awakening made us aware
of our problems, but we never learned how to truly solve them.
So the next big wave will be
The Summer of Learning
, this will
finally take us home. It took us a while, but we finally figured
it out that improving education was the answer all along. Our
intelligence is our greatest strength, but we have to learn how
to effectively utilize our intelligence, and the only way to do
that is to improve education so that intelligence is a
guarantee for everyone. Knowledge and information must flow
like love did during the 60's. But this time, we'll have the
wisdom and the maturity to see this through, and finally solve
all the problems that have plagued us for way to long. The time
has come, this is our time, Godspeed!
"Though I have experienced Love at first
sight many times and have floated in the air from a single kiss
I have learned over time to separate my dreams from reality, no matter how
beautiful those moments were and how those memories still please me."
"I have been in love with the same women since the beginning of time.
But I lost touch with her and I have not seen her for years. I know she's
still around because I never stop feeling her presence. I just don't know
where she is now, and I wonder who is she now? Is she the same women I
fell in love with? I know that I have changed and I know that have that
grown over the years, so I wonder if her changes match mine. I hope that
we both learned the same things. I feel its time for us to be together
again. I know She's close. And I also know that time is irrelevant. I'm
here, give me a sign."
To Love is to have Knowledge
I want you to have love, but I also want you to be
intelligent, because then I will know for sure that love will be safe with
you, and that love will help guide you and that you will help guide love through your entire life.
Love is totally amazing. Everyone should be loved. But you need to know
the reality of love. Love is not clearly defined or fully understood. We
know that we want love and we know how great love feels, but we don't
love, at least not the way we should. Love will not solve your problems or provide
you with any guarantees. They only way for love to flourish and survive is
for everyone to learn everything that they can about themselves
and the world around them. Love comes with no instructions, so you must
learn what the instructions are. The more intelligent you become, the
stronger love becomes. You might not find love in this lifetime, but love
will find you. And the only way to know when love is near, is to learn
everything that you can about yourself and the world around you. Then you
will see love in more places and more often, and you will also understand the differences between
dreams and reality. Love is the strongest when it finds a home in a mind
that is strong enough to embrace its power.
As children we grow up
with that dream of finding someone special who will love us forever and be
with us throughout our entire life. It is a beautiful dream, but it is not
reality. Yes you can be loved and yes you can love others. But you need
more then love.You can list the things you like and don't like
, but the bottom
line is love, and a full understanding that people change and so do you.
So the person you originally fell in love with will change. So does this
mean that the things you loved about that person are gone? Or did you
misunderstand the things you thought the person was? Or did you value
things that you loved about that person incorrectly? Learning to love
takes a long time, learning who to love takes even longer.
Being in a
, or being
, is not as important as all
the other relationships that we have in life. The relationship
that we have with ourselves
, the relationships that we have with
, and the relationship that we have with
, are much more important and
meaningful relationships then our intimate ones.
We put too much
pressure on ourselves
, and so does
People incorrectly believe that If they are not in love there must be
something wrong with them, which is mostly false. All
relationships require work and
. And all
relationships are equally important. Don't sacrifice one
relationship for the other. And if you feel that you have not
found love, just remember, love is created, not found. Looking
for Love is misleading, you must create love, and the person who
responds the most to the love that you have created, is someone
to pay attention to, but don't expect intimacy, only embrace
intimacy and love when it is genuine and true.
Not only is Jealousy bad for relationships
, it is one of the main causes
Jealousy provides no accuracy in a persons
, and it is a
that has no value.
is an emotion
, and the
word typically refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity,
, concern, and anxiety
over an anticipated loss of status or something of great personal value,
particularly in reference to a human connection. Jealousy often consists
of a combination of emotions such as anger
resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust.
Crime of Passion
refers to a violent crime
, especially homicide,
in which the perpetrator commits the act against someone because of sudden
such as sudden rage rather than as a premeditated crime.
"If you love something, then let it go. If it comes back to you, then it
may be yours again. But if it doesn't come back to you, then maybe it was never
meant to be."
"You can love someone, but you can never
them. Nothing can be
owned, only temporarily enjoyed."
In order to truly love something
or to truly love someone, you have to be able let them go and let them be
free. Love is not about possession, Love is about
You don't know what you've got until it's gone
or you don't know what you're missing until it's gone, but how will you
know it's missing or gone when you don't know what you are missing or what
you had? Just because you realize that something isn't there anymore, this
doesn't mean that you understood what it was that was there. The first
three words to this saying are "You
", so why don't you know? It's true that sometimes you
don't know how important someone is or valuable something is until you
don't have it anymore. But what did you have? What was it? And why didn't
you know how valuable or how important that something was? If it does come
back, will we have
Will we continue to assume
that something will always be there? Will we
plan to prepare
ourselves this time for this type of
itself in the future?
Joni Mitchell Big
(youtube) Don't it always seem to go, that you don't know what you've got
gone, they paved paradise and put up a parking lot. (1970).
Is a Taste of Honey worse than none
occurs when a person lacks another's superior quality, achievement, or
possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it.
Be careful what you wish for monkey paw
Unloved: Guilty of
Jealousy is a defect in thinking with no logic what so ever.
Jealousy is related to
. You want to be aware of your love
interest but you don't want to
jump to conclusions
things that may not be true. This is not about trust, for
can be blind sometimes. This is about being aware and
asking the right questions
, questions that won't reveal
insecurity, paranoia or delusional thinking. You want your
questions to help you understand a persons behavior, as well as
help you understand your own feelings. There's nothing cute or
romantic about jealousy, it is a sign of ignorance, which means
that you have some things to learn about yourself, as well as,
some things to learn about what a
is really about.
obsessive love and Jealousy get the best of you, look on the Brightside,
and focus on what's important.
"You have to be faithful to yourself
if you're going to be faithful to others."
describes a person who attempts to dictate how everything is done around
them. The phrase was first used in the 1970s, an era when stress was laid
on the principle of 'doing one's own thing' and letting others do the
The Killers - Mr.
What the World Needs Now is Love Sweet Love
“Everything I know, I know because of love.”
The Kingdom of God Is Within You
, abolish violence, even the defensive
kind, and to give up revenge